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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 26 2014 at 23:25
Originally posted by Luna Luna wrote:

Literally and figuratively any object or activity is scientifically proven to be addictive. Please give sources for your claims. Any. Once you've done that, explain how it is in any way different from other typical day-to-day addictions.


A little technical, but here's one.

And here's a more accessible one written by a therapist.

How is it different?  Well 1. Despite the potential for anything to become addictive, some substances are simply more addictive (and harmfully so) than others.  You could theoretically get addicted to say, playing golf but I don't think anyone is going to argue that golf is akin to crack.  2. Pornographic images stick in the mind for as long as the viewer lives, as opposed to other addictive substances that can be purged from the body.  3. Pornography addiction is especially harmful to relationships, as porn trains the brain to view humans as sexual objects and to idealize sexual experience in a way that makes it difficult to have a healthy sex life with an actual real-life partner. 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 26 2014 at 22:51
There's nothing wrong with cocaine, porn, or call of duty. Different strokes for different folks, so to speak. Anyway, equality for all special privileges for none... yada yada


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 26 2014 at 22:50
Originally posted by Luna Luna wrote:

The problem isn't porn. The problem is people being dumb enough to be influenced by porn. I thought we've already been through the violent video games discussion...
exactly. I watch my fair share of porn but I think I have fairly healthy sexual attitude
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 26 2014 at 22:50
Literally and figuratively any object or activity is scientifically proven to be addictive. Please give sources for your claims. Any. Once you've done that, explain how it is in any way different from other typical day-to-day addictions.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 26 2014 at 22:48
They are completely different.  Porn is scientifically proven to be addictive.  It is not a healthy sexual outlet for the sexually frustrated, it completely rewires your brain and causes the human mind to think completely differently about sexuality.  Porn is more akin to cocaine than to Call of Duty.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 26 2014 at 22:28
The problem isn't porn. The problem is people being dumb enough to be influenced by porn. I thought we've already been through the violent video games discussion...
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 26 2014 at 22:25
^Exactly.  Pornography, by its very nature, teachers those who watch it to view other people as sexual objects.  It's not just misogynistic, its misanthropic, and deeply dehumanizing.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 26 2014 at 22:11
smartpatrol: I agree that the industry itself is terrible regarding equal treatment, but I would say that porn in itself is misogynistic, as it would always be presenting the women involved as sexual props, which is just another way of saying that porn objectifies women by its very nature. No matter how "moral" the pornography is, the woman still serves no other purpose in the film other than for the audience's own sexual gratification.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 26 2014 at 22:05
i don't think it's pron it's self, but the industry, which is obviously deeply misogynistic
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 26 2014 at 21:31
.  And to be honest, I think pornography is one of the major factors in the continuing prevalence of sexism (although the problem definitely goes deeper than that).
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Totally agree with you there. That is often overlooked or really blatantly ignored.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 26 2014 at 19:56
Originally posted by LSDisease LSDisease wrote:

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What do you mean by feminism?  This brings up the point stonebeard addressed earlier.  Are you talking about the extreme "there is absolutely no difference between the sexes and all women should be lesbians" militant philosophy, or are you referring to the kind of gender equality advocacy in the video? 

If the former, I can see where you are coming from, although I don't think Marxism is a good comparison (Marxism was, at least originally, more about determinist economic theory than equality anyway).  But if you're referring to the latter, you are off the ball...really off the ball...like Colin Kapernick at his worst off the ball.



There are differences and leave them be. I'm only trying to say that I am against all equality policies. People are not equal and will never be no matter what you do. I'm for freedom, equality is the enemy of freedom.
You are quite right. There are the ignorant and the cruel and those that make inane statements, They will never be the equals of those wanting to rid the world of girl infanticides, of selling girls and women, of treating women like slaves for some twisted religious doctrine. Freedom is not slavery, it is not rape, it is not mutilating female genitalia.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 26 2014 at 19:35
My opinion is that i haven't seen any evidence that women are more inferior to men then men are to women. A good person is a good person, a bad person is a bad person, gender does not define that
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 26 2014 at 19:30
Call it what you will, i am all for women having as much rights as men.

anybody remember the cool early 1980s song that puts part of that simply-

"Women around the world at work, women around the world at work, women around the world at work-
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 26 2014 at 18:51
I'm on the edge of my seat waiting to hear 40-50 y/o British men's opinions on feminism
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 26 2014 at 18:49
Originally posted by LSDisease LSDisease wrote:

 
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There are differences and leave them be. I'm only trying to say that I am against all equality policies. People are not equal and will never be no matter what you do. I'm for freedom, equality is the enemy of freedom. 

It depends on how you define freedom.

In any event, feminism has turned itself into a joke by this point. They've cried wolf so many times that when an actual threat does appear, nobody will take them seriously.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 26 2014 at 18:48
Many movements whose intention was to struggle for someone's rights ended up with the persecution of everyone who disagreed with them. I.e. those who fought for equality became the ideologists of oppression themselves. Femisim belongs just to this shameful category.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 26 2014 at 18:35
Originally posted by The T The T wrote:

Those that have always had it good are the ones who call any change ridiculous. 


Right on the money.

Also, feminism is not and has never been about "men-hating", and anyone who calls it that or acts by that philosophy is, to put it bluntly, wrong. It's about equal treatment for women on a social and legal scale. What the lady in the video I posted outlines very clearly is how women are definitely NOT treated equally anywhere in the world, which, needless to say, is immoral.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 26 2014 at 17:14
Originally posted by stonebeard stonebeard wrote:

I think we should retire the word "feminism". It has too many negative connotations at it has been warped by radical feminists. I used to call myself a feminist because I thought the movement was about gender equality. Now, I mostly think it's about hating men and ridiculing any debate about gender differences.

See this infuriating subreddit for more: http://www.reddit.com/r/TumblrInAction

Pretty much this. 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 26 2014 at 16:07
Originally posted by stonebeard stonebeard wrote:

I think we should retire the word "feminism". It has too many negative connotations at it has been warped by radical feminists. I used to call myself a feminist because I thought the movement was about gender equality. Now, I mostly think it's about hating men and ridiculing any debate about gender differences.

See this infuriating subreddit for more: http://www.reddit.com/r/TumblrInAction

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 26 2014 at 15:11
Those that have always had it good are the ones who call any change ridiculous. 
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