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Dean 
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 Posted: December 09 2009 at 06:20 |
 Pekka wrote:
My class is full of women, I'd like to think we're all just friends. |
I would imagine that they are acquaintances rather than friends.
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What?
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Jim Garten
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Posted: December 09 2009 at 06:54 |
I don't see the problem - I've a load of friends who happen to be female & attractive, yet the idea of being 'more than just friends' has never cropped up, nor need it in a mature relationship 
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chopper
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Posted: December 09 2009 at 07:18 |
What, having a cow as a best buddy isn't a bit pervy?
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Blacksword
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Posted: December 09 2009 at 07:18 |
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I get on better with women than men anyway, so yes.
Edited by Blacksword - December 09 2009 at 07:19
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Ultimately bored by endless ecstasy!
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mrcozdude
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Posted: December 09 2009 at 07:42 |
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There friends until.......both of you have had a little to drink.
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jampa17
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Posted: December 09 2009 at 08:52 |
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Nah... been friends is what we make until we have a chance to share some intimacy... yes, I have a lot of friends, but I don't doubt it could be little more if there's a chance... so, Not chance at hell for me...
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Change the program inside... Stay in silence is a crime.
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Pekka
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Posted: December 09 2009 at 09:01 |
Dean wrote:
Pekka wrote:
My class is full of women, I'd like to think we're all just friends. |
I would imagine that they are acquaintances rather than friends. |
Well, that's true for the most part, but I'd say there's three or four friends in the group, one of them a really good one. And a few others outside of school. Then there was that one female friend who decided to mess up our friendship and as a result we've been sharing a flat for three years 
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omri
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Posted: December 09 2009 at 09:06 |
I had to vote "Yes". I have few female friends and some of them even look quite nice (not realy my taste but that's something few drinks can solve) and still I feel no need to have sex with them. It is true that most of them are married but I don't think you can blame my high moral for not even trying.
The only fair question is am I afraid to get a NO answer ?
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omri
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Posted: December 09 2009 at 09:07 |
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Oh, and thank god for that !
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omri
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The Pessimist
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Posted: December 09 2009 at 09:19 |
Most of my friends are women come to think of it. The one's I actually consider "friends" anyway, rather than the ones I just acquaint with. Don't get me wrong, I've got my boys to have a good old laugh with and to do what us guys do best with (i.e. getting horrifically drunk, pulling, partying, doing dumb sh*t for the pure fun of it), but I find I can talk to women about sensitive stuff moreso. And I have a lotta sensitive stuff to talk about  so you do the math. I voted for the first option.
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"Market value is irrelevant to intrinsic value."
Arnold Schoenberg
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Equality 7-2521
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Posted: December 09 2009 at 09:31 |
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Nope unless both guy and girl are very ugly.
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"One had to be a Newton to notice that the moon is falling, when everyone sees that it doesn't fall. "
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rushfan4
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Posted: December 09 2009 at 09:33 |
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Tiger Woods was able to have a female friend who was only a friend. Oh wait, nope, breaking news, he was having an affair with her too.
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Negoba
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Posted: December 09 2009 at 09:37 |
Frankly, any adult relationship has some degree of sexuality to it. Sexuality comes in all sorts of shapes, colors, and intensity. And it certainly doesn't mean any of it goes anywhere near physical contact.
Dawkins and Mike being a perfect example... 
Just the fact that you think to yourself "Would I?" means you're already there.
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You are quite a fine person, and I am very fond of you. But you are only quite a little fellow, in a wide world, after all.
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Dean
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Posted: December 09 2009 at 10:18 |
Equality 7-2521 wrote:
Nope unless both guy and girl are very ugly. |
both? 
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Jim Garten
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Posted: December 09 2009 at 10:19 |
Negoba wrote:
Just the fact that you think to yourself "Would I?" means you're already there. |
But if the answer to that question is "yes, if she weren't a friend"... 
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Finnforest
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Posted: December 09 2009 at 10:20 |
Dean, your mailbox is FULL!! 
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...that moment you realize you like "Mob Rules" better than "Heaven and Hell"
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rushfan4
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Posted: December 09 2009 at 10:23 |
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In re: to Finn's avatar: That scene in Battlestar where Kara and Adama Jr. were boxing each other, was a rather unfortunate scene for the show, but it also was somewhat instrumental in showing Kara's ability to stand toe to toe with the big dogs. And they couldn't just be friends.
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Negoba
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Posted: December 09 2009 at 10:27 |
Jim Garten wrote:
Negoba wrote:
Just the fact that you think to yourself "Would I?" means you're already there. |
But if the answer to that question is "yes, if she weren't a friend"... |
That describes the majority of my friendships.
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You are quite a fine person, and I am very fond of you. But you are only quite a little fellow, in a wide world, after all.
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jampa17
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Posted: December 09 2009 at 10:30 |
Nah... that describes most of their friendships towards me... girls tend to love me, always as a friend...
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Change the program inside... Stay in silence is a crime.
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Dean
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Posted: December 09 2009 at 10:36 |
Finnforest wrote:
Dean, your mailbox is FULL!! |
hmm, it's full of band suggestions for Crossover 
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