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jojim
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Topic: Are you a prog type? Posted: May 03 2006 at 08:01 |
When reading all this threads I wonder who are the people behind that masks of names. When I started to get into prog in the early 70-ies I was one of perhaps two classmates who liked this kind of music. I was also a bit shy, had no girls around me. Was that the reason I fell in love with prog? All my friends who had girls and were not shy didn't like prog. I found myself sometimes sitting in the cellar in the dark on a seat just listening to prog (GENESIS, GENTLE GIANT etc) instead lurking around with my friends. - So the question is: are you this type? The typical prog type?
Did you change till now?
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Valarius
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Posted: May 03 2006 at 09:17 |
I am. But buy choice. Kinda.
I'm agoraphobic AND asexual. Music has been my life since the age of five. My only real friends are my band mates. I did have friends in school, but most of the time I use to just walk around listening to music on my walkman (those were the days).
It sounds kinda lame really... but when I was growing up and all the boys started to like girls and discovered alcohol etc... I stuck with my music. I come from a very musical family so it's always been a part of my life.
As you've guessed I currently don't have a girlfriend. 
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Bob Greece
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Posted: May 03 2006 at 10:14 |
Yes, it's sad but true. I was like that at school too. I've changed a little since those days but my taste in music is still the same.
Proggers do it on their own.  
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Bob Greece
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Posted: May 03 2006 at 10:18 |
Valarius wrote:
I'm ... asexual
... I currently don't have a girlfriend.  |
If you're asexual, why would you want a girlfriend? 
Don't worry anyway. You're still very young yet.
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glass house
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Posted: May 03 2006 at 10:19 |
No not really, I was a metalhead during schooltime, always had friends around. Was a bit agressive those days, better now. I listened to Genesis and GG, but metal more.
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WaywardSon
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Posted: May 03 2006 at 10:28 |
At school I was a bit of a metal head, then I moved more to prog music, but I donīt consider myself a prog type and only listen to prog (I would become isolated) So I think the secret is to listen to some other mainstream stuff as well. I also listen to bands like Live and Velvet Revolver.
So at the end of the day I donīt really have any social fitting in problems 
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TheProgtologist
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Posted: May 03 2006 at 10:52 |
I guess I am the prog anti-type.
I have settled down now but in my youth I was a loud,abrasive,rowdy hell-raiser,was always quick to fight,and was never shy around girls.A voracious reader and also a big jock in school,played football,lacrosse and baseball.But never hung out with the jocks because even though I was good in sports I had long hair,and smoked weed like crazy.
No one could figure me out because I was a big metalhead but also listened to tons of prog,which I have been into since about the age of 11.
I was a total study in opposites.
Edited by TheProgtologist - May 03 2006 at 10:55
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Bob Greece
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Posted: May 03 2006 at 11:23 |
TheProgtologist wrote:
No one could figure me out because I was a big metalhead but also listened to tons of prog,which I have been into since about the age of 11.
I was a total study in opposites.
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I'm a study in opposites but the other way round. I have always looked really normal and listen to prog but I have always been quite keen on some extreme metal as well. People could never believe that I listened to that kind of music.
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Rosescar
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Posted: May 03 2006 at 11:32 |
Well, it's true that I don't have a girlfriend, but...
Nope. I got a lot of friends (of different nationalities), I play in a
soccer team for an in-school tournament, I listen to some other stuff
(Classical, Metal, Hard Rock, Classic Rock). I don't really ever go out
though but I've been asked to come with people several times and though
I'd loved to go, either I couldn't, they suddenly couldn't, or I just
didn't manage to pick up the phone.
Anyway, I guess that since I've discovered prog, my "social status" has gone upwards instead of downwards.
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My music!
"THE AUDIENCE WERE generally drugged. (In Holland, always)." - Robert Fripp
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Blacksword
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Posted: May 03 2006 at 14:38 |
I'm not sure I conform completely to a prog type. Despite being 37 I'm single with pretty much no hope of changing the situation, so I guess that may be consistent..
As a teenager I was a metal head, who was introduced to prog by a fellow head banger. I took to it immediately, and I've loved it since. I have a lot of friends, and I'm quite sociable and extrovert, but have difficulty sharing my space and time women - hence the single thing. Could be an only child thing, I guess. I never learned to share space or resolve conflicts as a child. I think I'm happier on my own with my music and my friends.
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Ultimately bored by endless ecstasy!
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Empathy
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Posted: May 03 2006 at 15:17 |
I seem to be fitting the mold, apparently, although more along the
lines of The Progtologist and Blacksword. I was a pop-monger
until puberty. Once puberty hit, I discovered metal. Parallel to metal, I also
discovered Rush, Genesis, and Yes. I was definitely an extrovert, and
seemed to get along with a wide range of different "cliques", although
I was technically a "Chorus Geek" (sang in some form of ensemble or
other all through high school). I played a lot of baseball growing up,
but now I'm not as athletic as I was (I need to get back in shape!)  Now I'm married, with no kids... yet.
Once I had my first "experience" (as Mr. Hendrix put it), and
discovered Pink Floyd, my musical horizons really exploded, and I've
been discovering and enjoying bizarre and weird music ever since (in
not only prog, but pretty much any genre, short of country or hip-hop).
Edited by Empathy - May 03 2006 at 15:17
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Pure Brilliance:
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sleeper
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Posted: May 03 2006 at 15:30 |
I dont know, do all progers hate most of the modern world?
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Spending more than I should on Prog since 2005
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Blacksword
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Posted: May 03 2006 at 15:43 |
sleeper wrote:
I dont know, do all progers hate most of the modern world? |
Yes, most aspects of it, apart from the Internet which is the perfect medium to share our disgust!
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Ultimately bored by endless ecstasy!
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Blacksword
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Posted: May 03 2006 at 15:44 |
Empathy wrote:
I seem to be fitting the mold, apparently, although more along the
lines of The Progtologist and Blacksword. I was a pop-monger
until puberty. Once puberty hit, I discovered metal. Parallel to metal, I also
discovered Rush, Genesis, and Yes. I was definitely an extrovert, and
seemed to get along with a wide range of different "cliques", although
I was technically a "Chorus Geek" (sang in some form of ensemble or
other all through high school). I played a lot of baseball growing up,
but now I'm not as athletic as I was (I need to get back in shape!) Now I'm married, with no kids... yet.
Once I had my first "experience" (as Mr. Hendrix put it), and
discovered Pink Floyd, my musical horizons really exploded, and I've
been discovering and enjoying bizarre and weird music ever since (in
not only prog, but pretty much any genre, short of country or hip-hop).
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Ah yes, Rush was my intro to prog too. Exit Stage Left to be precise, and Genesis promptly followed.
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Ultimately bored by endless ecstasy!
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R o V e R
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Posted: May 03 2006 at 15:45 |
i'm a funny person
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heyitsthatguy
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Posted: May 03 2006 at 15:45 |
Bob Greece wrote:
Valarius wrote:
I'm ... asexual
... I currently don't have a girlfriend.  |
If you're asexual, why would you want a girlfriend? 
Don't worry anyway. You're still very young yet. |
Um, there are kinda a LOT more things to a relationship than sex. I'm pretty much asexual, but I still want a girlfriend, but hahah like that's gonna happen. Anyways, socially in some settings I'm pretty outgoing, while in others I'm more reclusive. But I mostly hang out w/ my friends on weekends so I guess i dont qualify for this "prog" title.
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Inferno
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Posted: May 03 2006 at 15:55 |
uh...
I'm normal, drink and used to be on drugs, listened to prog, rock,
Hardcore, Jazz, Metal...name it, you got it and that since i'm 8.
Always had girlfriends.
Maybe that's because I'm a musician, but I maybe your just missing a
point or two in life to not being able to simply have girlfriend...I
mean, how tough is that?
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heyitsthatguy
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Posted: May 03 2006 at 15:57 |
Ha....you make it sound so easy
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Blacksword
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Posted: May 03 2006 at 16:10 |
Inferno wrote:
uh...
I'm normal, drink and used to be on drugs, listened to prog, rock,
Hardcore, Jazz, Metal...name it, you got it and that since i'm 8.
Always had girlfriends.
Maybe that's because I'm a musician, but I maybe your just missing a
point or two in life to not being able to simply have girlfriend...I
mean, how tough is that?
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Pretty tough. The ratio of men to women in my town is about 5 - 2, allegedly, and the women are more masculine than the men!
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Ultimately bored by endless ecstasy!
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R o V e R
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Posted: May 03 2006 at 16:18 |
Blacksword wrote:
Inferno wrote:
uh...
I'm normal, drink and used to be on drugs, listened to prog, rock, Hardcore, Jazz, Metal...name it, you got it and that since i'm 8. Always had girlfriends.
Maybe that's because I'm a musician, but I maybe your just missing a point or two in life to not being able to simply have girlfriend...I mean, how tough is that?
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Pretty tough. The ratio of men to women in my town is about 5 - 2, allegedly, and the women are more masculine than the men!  |
what?
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