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    Posted: April 26 2005 at 11:00
it is sad that the gays dont even realize they perpetuate the negative reception they get with (the aforementioned) camping and just their basic attitudes in general....two homos from this site have just attacked my songs but with no reasons other than (its bad music, too techno) yet one of them only listened to one song one time and went on to categorize the rest of my music which they hadnt even heard.....obviously the reactions to my blunt yet truthful and non-malevolent statements on the homophobe thread....i mean if you expect criticism to be taken seriously you have to give specific reasons why you like or do not like something...yet of course they informed me that i just cant take criticism and therefore should not have asked for any....also i have found homosexuals wont allow you to just dislike a gay man as a person, you cant find them unpleasant ...that isnt a decision you can make based on a gay subject's personality....its much more (or less)than that according to them.....if you dotn like a gay man the only reason possible is cuz he's gay....these are the types of attitudes that make people intolerant of homos

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 26 2005 at 11:07

....also i have found you cant just dislike a gay man as a person, you cant find them unpleasant ....its more than that.....if you dotn like a gay man the only reason possible is cuz he's gay....these are the types of attitudes that make people intolerant of homos

 

Not just homosexuals but other races too!

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 26 2005 at 11:09
hopelevre, do you have anything sensible to say?
If you don't just shut up please!!
You're annoying everyone!!!
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 26 2005 at 11:10

Homos?????

I'm not a huge advocate of political correctness, but it seems you are trying to provoke a fight. Try and have little respect and dont tar everyone with the same brush of ignorance.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 26 2005 at 11:10
very true snow but i see the percentages the highest among :
1: homosexuals
2: black americans(they just almost 100 % generally are steeped in "hate whitey cuz he's hating you" from the time they are born, of course there are always exceptions, but on the whole they are far more racist towards whites than whites toward them, again this is the dynamic in the states i cant speak for the globe, but I dont see it really being that way anywhere else)

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 26 2005 at 11:11
what the abbreviation of homosexual isnt politically correct ? get over yurselves...are you kidding? i can say homosexual but not homo?...some of you people on this site are swallowing so much of their own sh*t they think it must be epicurious

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 26 2005 at 11:16

Generalisation is always a bad thing. Period!

If there is a problem with black against white in the US then there will be a reason for this. Your 'white' administration will be too afraid to examine what those reasons are.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 26 2005 at 11:18

Originally posted by hopelevre hopelevre wrote:

what the abbreviation of homosexual isnt politically correct ? get over yurselves...are you kidding? i can say homosexual but not homo?...some of you people on this site are swallowing so much of their own sh*t they think it must be epicurious
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Homo was used as a derogatory term in the UK in the 70's/80's. Maybe it wasn't in the states.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 26 2005 at 11:20
yes of course....leave it to a brit to let us kno the "proper" way....you know nothign of the problem nor how it manifests itself but are content to blame it on the "white" administration....yea yu brits have it all figured out, just dotn allow too many negroes in the country and yu wont have any problems, way to go...by the way ,im caucasian and that same white admin. that is oppressing the negroes is oppressign me the chinese the mexicans and alot of others who werrent born into said admin. but you dotn see us all walking around saying they are singling us out and blaming everyone but ourselves for not being ambitious ebough to do soemhting about it....see , the other oppresesed groups realize the only way to change our situation is to get out there and work for it, the blacks are content to fester in the filth they are in and wait for what they think the world owes them, that is why refugees from 50 years ago now are upper middle class here whereas the blacks economic class is not changing even though they have had the same rights for more years

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 26 2005 at 11:24

you clearly missed out on a formal education. Your spelling and grammar are dreadful.

I guess you have been opressed.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 26 2005 at 11:27
how rich....my grammar english and spelling are tiptop asshole, a typo isnt a fault in one's education, and why is it necessary to punctuate forum posts

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 26 2005 at 11:31

Originally posted by hopelevre hopelevre wrote:

it is sad that the gays dont even realize they perpetuate the negative reception they get with (the usual suspect's) camping and just their basic attitudes in general....two homos from this site have just attacked my songs but with no reasons other than (its bad music, too techno) yet one of them only listened to one song one time and went on to categorize the rest of my music which they hadnt even heard.....obviously the reactions to my blunt yet truthful and non-malevolent statements on the homophobe thread....i mean if you expect criticism to be taken seriously you have to give specific reasons why you like or do not like something...yet of course they informed me that i just cant take criticism and therefore should not have asked for any....also i have found wont allow you to just dislike a gay man as a person, you cant find them unpleasant ....its much more than that according to them.....if you dotn like a gay man the only reason possible is cuz he's gay....these are the types of attitudes that make people intolerant of homos

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 26 2005 at 11:43

Hi Hopelevre ,

could you edit your first post and take my name out of it! I wish not to be associated with this thread! You cannot take a sentence out of context especially on a such a touchy sublect and involve anyone you like! I will also PM you this post.

Thank you for doing so!

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 26 2005 at 13:47
i am no racist....in fact i have several black "friends"...tehy come over to my house and i help them produce their songs with my equipment at no charge, yet amongst themselves i am considered a "chump"....tehy will talk derisively about me in my presence in their own esoteric jargon as if im"too white" to see through its negative oversions...nevertheless i dotn hold this against them....i realize this is a product of their environment, and they are welcomed back into my home time and again.....here is a link to a song they freestyled to while i helped lay what i think is definately an innovative-for-the-genre style beat...further, i was very good friends with a homosexual at a time in my life, we spent much time together(up to 3-4 nights a week, including overnight stays in the others' home, i am NOT homophobic)until he realized i would never leave my fiancee or even betray her once sexually with him....i made attempts to rekindle our friendship several times but they wer not allowed to avail me


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 26 2005 at 14:06
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....also i have found you cant just dislike a gay man as a person, you cant find them unpleasant

??? It's just as easy to dislike a gay man as it is a straight man, surely?



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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 26 2005 at 17:16

Originally posted by hopelevre hopelevre wrote:

it is sad that the gays dont even realize they perpetuate the negative reception they get with (the aforementioned) camping and just their basic attitudes in general....two homos from this site have just attacked my songs but with no reasons other than (its bad music, too techno) yet one of them only listened to one song one time and went on to categorize the rest of my music which they hadnt even heard.....obviously the reactions to my blunt yet truthful and non-malevolent statements on the homophobe thread....i mean if you expect criticism to be taken seriously you have to give specific reasons why you like or do not like something...yet of course they informed me that i just cant take criticism and therefore should not have asked for any....also i have found homosexuals wont allow you to just dislike a gay man as a person, you cant find them unpleasant ...that isnt a decision you can make based on a gay subject's personality....its much more (or less)than that according to them.....if you dotn like a gay man the only reason possible is cuz he's gay....these are the types of attitudes that make people intolerant of homos

Actually I just gave my honest opinion. I thought I even treated you with kid gloves on. You have a right to your opinion on gays and your posts didn't offend me. I listened to a 2nd song and found it better...Silly something or another...it was barely 2 minutes long is all I remember. You had PMEd me and I even responded nice to you...I am not sure what your problem is but sorry if I hurt your feelings For someone who is NOT gay, you sure are sensitive.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 26 2005 at 17:27
im sorry ...im glad yu liked the other song better and i just felt you didnt give my work enough of a chance more because of personality conflict than other reasons....no hard feelings, and i have meant nothing ive posted here as an insult by any means, to any one person or group ,...sometimes what i say is said with a bit of sarcasm to proove a point and many times i dotn make it obvious enough to all involved that that is what it is....
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 26 2005 at 17:45
Its very sad that homophobes as well as racists still exist in this world... very sad indeed!

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 26 2005 at 17:50
Originally posted by goose goose wrote:

Originally posted by Snow Dog Snow Dog wrote:

....also i have found you cant just dislike a gay man as a person, you cant find them unpleasant

??? It's just as easy to dislike a gay man as it is a straight man, surely?

Well first of all you are quoting me and I didnt say that! I was quoting Hopelerve. But what you say is his point anyway, if you dislike a gay man you can be accused of disliking him because hes gay(being the reason) At least thats what I think Hopelerve was saying.

There you go, as clear as mud



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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 26 2005 at 18:02
I get uncomfortable around gays (I am not one despite some of my stupid posts and PMs) because a) I think they might be "checking me out" ; b) they CAN act girly and giddy ; c) I get weirded out when they kiss or hold hands. I will tolerate the gay community, but I can't accept it. IOW, I will never hurt the gay community, but I certainly won't advocate them either.
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