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Topic: How Worthless Are You? Posted: March 25 2007 at 01:07 |
Bluesaga wrote:
Probably very much so in the grand scheme of things, but not enough for it to bother me at all on a personal level. I have beautiful music, I am happy. I wish others here could share my views, since we all have beautiful music, and despite the fact that society is going downhill, we still have music and should be happy for that fact alone (I love many things on this planet besides music of course, many of which I cannot explain...)
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Posted: March 25 2007 at 01:01 |
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You can have my Jordan Rudess travel mug...
Edited by Atavachron - March 25 2007 at 01:09
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Posted: March 25 2007 at 00:55 |
inpraiseoffolly wrote:
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I understand where you're coming from, I just don't like to see it hijacking my perfectly worthless thread...
You understand that anything I post in here is not at all serious (EXCEPT THIS PART OF THIS POST). I honestly don't care what you talk about in this thread (in fact, if it helps people, I'm all for it), but keep in mind that I like my fun and I will nag you about it. Just pay me no mind.
And back to not being serious now: DREAM THEATER ROCKS! |
I with you on fun. I'm sure you know that I'm not against a good joke (or even a cheap shot ).
BTW, Do you know where I can find a Dream Theater thermos to go with my Dream Theater Lunch Box?
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Posted: March 25 2007 at 00:07 |
^^^^
I understand where you're coming from, I just don't like to see it hijacking my perfectly worthless thread...
You understand that anything I post in here is not at all serious (EXCEPT THIS PART OF THIS POST). I honestly don't care what you talk about in this thread (in fact, if it helps people, I'm all for it), but keep in mind that I like my fun and I will nag you about it. Just pay me no mind.
And back to not being serious now: DREAM THEATER ROCKS!
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Posted: March 25 2007 at 00:02 |
inpraiseoffolly wrote:
You people, stop taking this thread seriously and treat it as the worthless place for worthless (and meaningless) discussion that it is.
Or else it will have served no purpose, and will truly have been... worthless. |
Well, you've hit on something that is very important to me. I have spent a lot of time working out these very issues. It goes right to the heart of why most people aren't very happy. I don't like to see people suffer, especially when they don't have to.
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Posted: March 24 2007 at 23:30 |
Probably very much so in the grand scheme of things, but not enough for it to bother me at all on a personal level. I have beautiful music, I am happy. I wish others here could share my views, since we all have beautiful music, and despite the fact that society is going downhill, we still have music and should be happy for that fact alone (I love many things on this planet besides music of course, many of which I cannot explain...)
Edited by Bluesaga - March 24 2007 at 23:31
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Posted: March 24 2007 at 23:04 |
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Pnoom!
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Posted: March 24 2007 at 21:35 |
stonebeard wrote:
Society does nothing but lower a person's worth.Just a thought, but I'm glad I'm living now rather than in the future. This world isn't going to last much longer. We'll destroy it.
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Stonies a psychic
Or maybe just stoned...
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rileydog22
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Posted: March 24 2007 at 20:02 |
Trickster F. wrote:
Eh, as long as the word "value" remains undefined, the word "worthless" will have no meaning either. |
So what you're saying is, worthless is worthless because we can't define it. Which, if you really think about it, is a really cool vicious circle.
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Man With Hat
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Posted: March 24 2007 at 19:19 |
Hey...you opened up the floodgates...
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Dig me...But don't...Bury me I'm running still, I shall until, one day, I hope that I'll arrive Warning: Listening to jazz excessively can cause a laxative effect.
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Pnoom!
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Posted: March 24 2007 at 17:11 |
You people, stop taking this thread seriously and treat it as the worthless place for worthless (and meaningless) discussion that it is.
Or else it will have served no purpose, and will truly have been... worthless.
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Posted: March 24 2007 at 17:07 |
bhikkhu wrote:
Man With Hat wrote:
I am worthless.
At least I always feel worthless...especially to the people (or person) I care about most. There seems to be only a handful of people who would care if I wasn't here, and that If i was never here to begin with not much would be different.
So...overall...I gotta say...I am pretty damn worthless. |
I used to have those feelings as well. What I finally realized is that everyone else has the same delusional thinking. You can't see your worth as reflected through someone else's eyes. They haven't got it figured out either. I used to feel very lonely, even when I was around large numbers of people. Now I don't socialize that often, don't have a significant other, and I don't feel lonely at all.
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Hmm...well thats very intriging...and a good point.
I guess I'm just searching for a purpose right now. I have no job, no responsibilities anywhere, no better half, few hobbies, and most of the time just wind up sitting around thinking how much I'm wasting the "most important years of my life"...as its put so many times. I sincerely hope that once I find something that gives me some importance in life (assuming I do) this feeling will go away.
Also, generally, when socializing I feel better, for one reason I don't have the time to sit and analyze my situation. I just want to enjoy things now, and when I don't get the chance to it gets me further down.
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Dig me...But don't...Bury me I'm running still, I shall until, one day, I hope that I'll arrive Warning: Listening to jazz excessively can cause a laxative effect.
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Posted: March 24 2007 at 15:11 |
Society does nothing but lower a person's worth.
Just a thought, but I'm glad I'm living now rather than in the future. This world isn't going to last much longer. We'll destroy it.
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Posted: March 24 2007 at 15:01 |
Man With Hat wrote:
I am worthless.
At least I always feel worthless...especially to the people (or person) I care about most. There seems to be only a handful of people who would care if I wasn't here, and that If i was never here to begin with not much would be different.
So...overall...I gotta say...I am pretty damn worthless. |
I used to have those feelings as well. What I finally realized is that everyone else has the same delusional thinking. You can't see your worth as reflected through someone else's eyes. They haven't got it figured out either. I used to feel very lonely, even when I was around large numbers of people. Now I don't socialize that often, don't have a significant other, and I don't feel lonely at all.
Trickster F. wrote:
Eh, as long as the word "value" remains undefined, the word "worthless" will have no meaning either. |
Well said.
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Trickster F.
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Posted: March 24 2007 at 14:10 |
Eh, as long as the word "value" remains undefined, the word "worthless" will have no meaning either.
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Posted: March 24 2007 at 14:04 |
I am worthless.
At least I always feel worthless...especially to the people (or person) I care about most. There seems to be only a handful of people who would care if I wasn't here, and that If i was never here to begin with not much would be different.
So...overall...I gotta say...I am pretty damn worthless.
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Dig me...But don't...Bury me I'm running still, I shall until, one day, I hope that I'll arrive Warning: Listening to jazz excessively can cause a laxative effect.
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Posted: March 24 2007 at 13:06 |
andu wrote:
Indeed value (of anything) comes only by the relation to a fruition, just like use comes from the relation to the purpose or fulfillment comes from the relation to expectations etc. And just like T, I have come to think one's basic worth is that for oneself. As for me, my life sucks as I have come to lose most of the things I need and cherish , so from this point of view I'm pretty worthless to myself. I have also broken the relations with family and friends in order to endure the emptiness, so there's nothing worthy for any side coming from this part. I am worth 300 euro/month for the guys I work for and that's a decent... appreciation in this part of the world, but again I'm not satisfied (this goes very well together with my post on the "Do you like your job" poll).BTW, "ceai" (to be pronounced "chai") means tea in my language, too.
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You hit on a couple of important things there Andu. Value is something we assign. It is an illusion, something created in the mind. Expectations are some of the most dangerous things around. We create them based on the same kind of delusional thinking. When they don't come to fruition, we are unhappy. You also mentioned loss. We feel loss, because of the level of attachment (or value) we place on things. In reality, they have no value as such. They are just things, like any other.
I lost everything I owned, my friends, and my freedom a while back. I came out of it with the realization that there is actually nothing to have. Everything just exists as it does, and life flows as it will. This was the most liberating thing I had ever experienced. I now see endless opportunity, where there was nothing but hopelessness before. When existence is viewed from a wider perspective, individual gains lose their importance. The motive for improving myself now, is to make the world a better place.
Edited by bhikkhu - March 24 2007 at 14:56
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Posted: March 24 2007 at 13:02 |
Hmm.... as a 17-year old who's academically strong, takes the usefull classes(math, physics and chemistry) at school, and has a promising future as a well-earning, tax-paying participant, I'm worth quite a bit to the Norwegian society, I guess... And emotionally speaking, I believe my family finds me far from worthless. And as a decent guitar player, I guess I'm worth something to the band I play in... And as a Pepsi Max addict, I guess I'm Pepsi finds me a customer of a certain worth.... and all of that is fine and dandy But in the grand scheme, I'm nothing. As cheesy as it may be, "in the end, it doesn't even matter"(Linkin Park ) Not that that bothers me(much) in any way though. I find purpose to live and breathe every day.
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The scattered jigsaw of my redemption laid out before my eyes
Each piece as amorphous as the other - Each piece in its lack of shape a lie
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Posted: March 24 2007 at 11:18 |
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Posted: March 24 2007 at 11:17 |
andu wrote:
BTW, "ceai" (to be pronounced "chai") means tea in my language, too.
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Moi aussi.
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