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robertplantowns
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Posted: March 15 2006 at 04:00 |
One reason women do not like prog because is because they can't relate to the lyrics. For women lyrics are of an ultimate importance and they like sappy lyrics more than a good riff or chord progression. Women like to be able to sing along to music, and for women, the meaning of the song is more important than the music itself. Have you ever heard a woman say, "Hey check out that sweet interplay between those instruments." or, "wow the chord structures are so brilliant", or "hey check out that sick virtuosic solo" no simply because most women do not really care about those sorts of things. MOST. Not to say that women can't like prog or classical or jazz music, but they tend to prefer it for the "feeling" the music exudes rather than the sake of just listening to some interesting chords, lines, complex arrangements etc. Which is not to say that listening to music for its "feeling" is the wrong way of listening to music, but generally, women tend to hear music on a feeling standpoint. Ohh these lyrics make me feel this way, this song is soo sad, this is my sad collection of songs. (have you ever met a guy who has a "sad" collection of songs, or a "happy" collection) Oh this song is so romantic and makes me feel something something. Oh this classical song, or progressive rock song "feels" nice, but they won't like music for it's sheer virtuosity, complexity, originality, weird factor, or progressive qualities, which is what progressive music is all about. For instance, a woman could NEVER get into some really technical, atonal, math-metal that is so complex and intricate but doesn't give off any feeling whatsoever. THAT's why women tend to dislike progressive rock.
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martinprog77
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Posted: March 15 2006 at 03:52 |
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Prog-jester
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Posted: March 15 2006 at 03:52 |
Agree .Some girls whom I know use to listen to metal music(which sometimes related to prog...a few of them even aquainted with DT,PoS,Lacrimosa etc).I gave Collage's "Moonshine" to the girl from my university...now she wants more!!! Gonna give her some Neo Prog soon
Another girl who I know is going to be the keyboard player in my band(we play Doom,inspired by OPETH,MY DUING BRIDE and ESTATIC FEAR).What a pity - she lives in other town .But she enjoyed everything I sent her(a CD-r copies of the best from Genesis,IQ,Marillion,Collage,King Crimson,Camel etc works)...
The situation is not that hopeless!
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Easy Livin
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Joined: February 21 2004
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Posted: March 15 2006 at 03:47 |
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martinprog77
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Posted: March 15 2006 at 03:41 |
DONT WORRY PROG-JESTER YOU ARE TOO YOUNG AND AGREE WOMEN ARE FOR LOVE BUT CAN YOU IMAGINE HOW COOL TO HAVE A GIRLFRIEND [OR MAYBE MORE]WHO LOVES PROG .THAT COULD BE GREAT.
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Prog-jester
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Posted: March 15 2006 at 03:35 |
My mother likes melodic prog(Camel,Floyd,Marillion,Pendragon,Tai Phong and even Crimson's Epitaph! ).She also likes Deep Purple and Uriah Heep(seriuosly!)
I think that's all because of non-music stuff - the way the musicians look(if you were a girl would you prefer bold and old Peter Gabriel to handsome guys from N'Sync?),their abcense on TV("wot?They have no videos?I can't watch 'em on MTV???They suck!") etc.Just relax - women are not for prog,they're for love.
BTW,you have a wife.That's lucky!!!I never had even a girlfriend!!!
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martinprog77
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Posted: March 15 2006 at 03:28 |
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