Help with a girl...

The Lost Chord wrote: 18 is an awful age for girls man, to be blunt.  But, i say always be forward with people, and dont get in a relationship because they suck, and it will ruin your life...especially at 18   Just get with her and have fun, ask her if shes down for some sexual experimentation and if she is then damn ur in for some fun times, good luck

You sound like Wizzie!

Hey guys,

I have a pretty odd situation.  I'm 18, never really had a decent relationship.  This year, I've been talking to this girl whom I work with, but haven't gotten the courage to flat out ask her out.  We've been out for coffee once and try and make plans to do so again (tonight, actually, though I missed her call back). 

Her friends have also asked me privately if I l like this girl, but I didn't really give an answer. 

My issue is that I dunno if she's in to me.  The cards are usually stacked against me, as I have terrible luck with women of all sorts, but this one seems pretty safe. 

I'm just nervous as to being rejected because the last few relationships were either supremely f**ked up or never got off the ground.

I actually have no idea why I wrote this, probably just bummed that I missed the call.

He could have tried Gabriel's Intruder.

StyLaZyn wrote: Rather that weeding this thread, Did you ask her out?

yeah, he did, and it didn't go well but I think he's still trying and he pulled something or other on Valentine's Day that at least increased his odds......but anyway, back to the topic of pirates...

aye, let the pirates heal your woes....

Well since its sorta on topic I think I'll vent about my current situation with the opposite sex.
I work with all females and one other guy, every single one of them is in a long term relationship and they all seem completely mesmerized about my situation with girls. Whenever any of them get the chance I get questioned about what I find attractive and my experiences in the past etc. They all seem to act like they've never met a 21 year old who hasn't ever been involved in a longterm relationship. It's kinda awkward/embarrassing but a little bit fun.

Is that like purple elephants?

progismylife wrote: Zappa88 wrote: heyitsthatguy wrote: Zappa88 wrote: heyitsthatguy wrote: Zappa88 wrote: heyitsthatguy wrote: Boy was I a whiny f**ker 5 months ago    Was??   Haha try, still are truuust me, as many of the other Velveteers know, it's nowhere near as bad as it was then   Worse than me two weeks ago, when Jodi took my heart and lit it on fire only and then throw it in a woodchipper and scatter the remains in the Dead Sea? Far, far, far worse I wasn't at the best place in my life either, and it was more or less the last pillar to collapse before I completely lost it. But hey, I've got a wall of cynicism to protect me from those nasty things people call "emotions", so ha!   Oh gosh, I pity the fool!   I havent lost my mind yet, so I still feel the pain   I lost my mind before being rejected by girls.

heyitsthatguy wrote: Zappa88 wrote: heyitsthatguy wrote: Zappa88 wrote: heyitsthatguy wrote: Boy was I a whiny f**ker 5 months ago    Was??   Haha try, still are truuust me, as many of the other Velveteers know, it's nowhere near as bad as it was then   Worse than me two weeks ago, when Jodi took my heart and lit it on fire only and then throw it in a woodchipper and scatter the remains in the Dead Sea? Far, far, far worse I wasn't at the best place in my life either, and it was more or less the last pillar to collapse before I completely lost it. But hey, I've got a wall of cynicism to protect me from those nasty things people call "emotions", so ha!

Hehe don't have one. Too much Rush to listen to.