Help with a girl...

I actually find this thread very helpful. And add to that I've never had so much fun with a thread than right now \:D/ .

I personally prefer to use the "Hi, are you free today, how'd you like to have a cup of coffee? (and here I add, "or tea, since I don't drink coffee"). Hmm, wait a sec. I've done that quite a few times already, and it has never worked actually. I usually just get the plain: "Hmm, sorry, I'm busy today, maybe I call you?" thean when I offer to get her phonenumber, she asks for mine instead, and ends up sending me an sms stating she's taken or that she's a busy type :D How sad.

And for some reason at clubs I can't talk about anything without ending up arguing about their poilitical views :/ So what ever you do, don't do like I do, when they ask about your interests, I reply: Philosophy, Politics Progressive Rock and Jazz. They're usually telling me to stop at politics, but hey, that's life.

So usually I just go with the girls that ask me out. The problem about that is, that I don't probably fancy them as much as those I ask myself, so I'll have to develope a relationship, and like last time they tend to end. She was odd though. She blinded me with a scarf and took me around the city as a surprise. Then when she took it off we were on the other side of the street :S

Edited by Passionist - February 27 2007 at 09:01

Tiresias wrote: ....this is actually the least helpful thread ever. Oh well

you saw my advice, now go play some RPGs

....this is actually the least helpful thread ever.

Oh well

shut up both of you, neither of ya are gettin' any

Yeah, so her dad can catch me with my pants down and chase after me with a butcher's knife?!?!?

YOU, sir, are the one who doesn't learn.

Geck0 wrote: Love den = geeksville No strings attached = you must play Oblivion with me and listen to The Wake I'm game = just let me finish this level and I'll be with you... oh, I just died, let me just try once more...

Being 18 and doing a girl in your parents' house = OK

Being 26 and doing a girl in your parents' house = Not so much

Love den = geeksville
No strings attached = you must play Oblivion with me and listen to The Wake
I'm game = just let me finish this level and I'll be with you... oh, I just died, let me just try once more...

Yeah, that's it. But I don't really want a relationship. If a girl wants to come and get it on in my love den with no strings attached, I'm game.

I think the main problem is that instead of girls, you guys are much more interested in RPGs

My advice is:

If you're a teenager, why worry about girls?  You'll just get shafted, so wait until you're more mature (and the girls are also more mature) and then try and find someone.  You really don't need to think about girls until you're in your 20s at least.