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Direct Link To This Post Posted: October 21 2008 at 12:25
I'm not fan of Neo prog. It's really not my thing.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: October 21 2008 at 12:27
Originally posted by Certif1ed Certif1ed wrote:

^I certainly don't hear any boundary pushing on Pure - it's a very run-of-the-mill album to my ears, with nothing new on at all. I fail to hear it as "Neo" or "Prog". I'd agree it sounds lazy, and I felt a bit ripped off when I heard it.
 
What's so new?
 
Which boundaries are being pushed?
 

Well, the neo prog experts could give you a more detailed and certain explanation, but I've found this album breaking the boundaries of neo prog, bringing some more heavy and symph features to the genre, while keeping the core of the genre. This albums shows that neo prog can be something more than that lazy melo-predictable sound, with the same soft riffs and lazy drums. For me, this change is very positive since I've always been complaining about the "softness" and "change resistance" of these bands.

However, I've just read your review, and it's OK, you don't like the album (however, I really think this is prog). That's the greatness of the diversity.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: October 21 2008 at 12:57
It's absoloutely fine that he does not like the album !!! Never had a problem with people not liking things, but liking (or not) is an emotional response to something - trying to "intellectualise" that simply misses the point and is a trap I think many reviewers fall into. the "this is wrong" rather than "I don't like"  trap is a a dangerous one to fall into, it merely makes the reviewer look like a dick, rather than the outcome I suspect they wish for and that is to make the music look poor!

Although this gem still has me chuckling....
"if I was reviewing this without considering my Prog needs,"  
Do you, does ANY one, think that ANY music would be better if the composer considered the listeners "prog needs"  Shocked LOL LOL 
Very dangerous territory for a musician to fall into, although I suspect a few that do, this is certainly NOT something you can accuse Nick Barrett of, indeed I suspect he couldn't give a wizards hat for your "prog needs" Wink 

I agree also that diversity makes for an interesting world, and with that thought I'm going to listen to some unadulterated POP music! Approve



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Direct Link To This Post Posted: October 21 2008 at 13:35
Originally posted by prog-chick prog-chick wrote:

I think Mark you made your feelings clear, you expressed you opinions plainly in your review.

Others have also expressed their feelings clearly.

There comes a point when dressing up your opinion as fact just becomes funny, and thanks, you gave me a bleedin good laugh !

P-Cx
 
Yes, and I'm expressing them again here - is there a problem?
 
I'm only asking questions!
 
I do not dress up opinions as fact - I look for the facts that support my gut instinct. Which opinions have I tried to purvey as fact?
 
Glad you enjoyed it!
 
Originally posted by prog-chick prog-chick wrote:

It's absoloutely fine that he does not like the album !!! Never had a problem with people not liking things, but liking (or not) is an emotional response to something - trying to "intellectualise" that simply misses the point and is a trap I think many reviewers fall into. the "this is wrong" rather than "I don't like"  trap is a a dangerous one to fall into, it merely makes the reviewer look like a dick, rather than the outcome I suspect they wish for and that is to make the music look poor!
 
In this case, it's because the music is poor - for Prog.
 
I make it my business not to mistake my likes or dislikes for what constitutes Prog.
 
If I really didn't like it, I would not have rated it "Good" - would I?
 
It's definitely NOT a masterpiece of Prog, though - the fanboys are having a laugh with us on this one!
Originally posted by prog-chick prog-chick wrote:


Although this gem still has me chuckling....
"if I was reviewing this without considering my Prog needs,"  
Do you, does ANY one, think that ANY music would be better if the composer considered the listeners "prog needs"  Shocked LOL LOL 
 
Well, it would be better PROG, wouldn't it - this is a PROG site after all - that is the point that you seem to be missing here.
 
I'm not talking about composers considering a listeners' needs at all - you've completely misread what I assumed to be obvious - that I'm reviewing the album from the perspective of someone (ie ME), expecting to hear Progressive Rock - and I'm not hearing it.
 
 
Originally posted by prog-chick prog-chick wrote:


Very dangerous territory for a musician to fall into, although I suspect a few that do, this is certainly NOT something you can accuse Nick Barrett of, indeed I suspect he couldn't give a wizards hat for your "prog needs" Wink 
 
That's fine, as long as he doesn't expect me to think it's PROG on a site dedicated to Prog.

Originally posted by prog-chick prog-chick wrote:


I agree also that diversity makes for an interesting world, and with that thought I'm going to listen to some unadulterated POP music! Approve

 
Good for you!
 
I'm going to listen to Black Ice by AC/DC, in the full knowledge that I'm going to hear a great Rock album with not one iota of Prog in sight.
 
I may even bang my head and play air guitar - and why not? Big smile


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: October 21 2008 at 14:31
Originally posted by Certif1ed Certif1ed wrote:

^I certainly don't hear any boundary pushing on Pure - it's a very run-of-the-mill album to my ears, with nothing new on at all. I fail to hear it as "Neo" or "Prog". I'd agree it sounds lazy, and I felt a bit ripped off when I heard it.
 
What's so new?
 
Which boundaries are being pushed?
 
 
 
 
Pendragon is traditionally one of the most melodic but predictable Neo Prog bands (I love their foirst albums though), very close to the Fairy Tale inspired A Trick of he tail,. even the use of Mellotron used to be almost exact to the one in Genesis.
 
But pure is a different thing, it's absolutely aggressive, at some points dark and even haunting, playing in the border that divides Neo, Symph and Heavy Prog.
 
Instead of melodic pieces with soft female mellotron vocals "a la Ripples",  now it's used to provide hard almost Gothic (not Goth) vocals, The guitar has a very important role, the friendly atmosphere has ceased almost completely to be replaced by almost metalic guitar riffs.
 
If that is not pushing the boundaries, I don't get what is.
 
As a fact, I'm sure that if this was Pendragon's debut, they would be in Eclectic rather than in Neo.
 
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BTW: I',m far rom being a Pendragon or any band fanboy, but I rated it with 5 dstars, because I bel8ieve they made a healthy move, so please, dobn't attack those who disagree with you calleng us fanboys.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: October 21 2008 at 14:38
Originally posted by Certif1ed Certif1ed wrote:

 
Yes, and I'm expressing them again here - is there a problem?


None at all.........a bit unnecessarily repeatative sure, but not a problem if it's an issue you feel strongly about.

Originally posted by Certif1ed Certif1ed wrote:

Which opinions have I tried to purvey as fact?
 
In this case, it's because the music is poor - for Prog.
 

It's definitely NOT a masterpiece of Prog, though - the fanboys are having a laugh with us on this one!


Your assumption that it's only been rated highly because of the actions of "fanboys" rather than the possibility that it could in fact be blinkin good and you could in fact be wrong speaks highly!

With what authority can you claim it to be "poor"  does that mean thousands upon thousands (who love it) have inferior intellect?  This is where your opinion becomes "fact"  this is where you step into that netherworld of mistaking your dislike for an album with an inferior album!

But no hard feelings, like I say it gave me and others a good chortle.

We have wonderd off topic here although it perfectly illustrates the point, the "problem" with "Neo" (remember a fan generated genre and classification not one that the musicians think or care about) the problem is that some people will try their damndest to try look clever by making it look rubbish. It's a soft target, it always has been.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: October 21 2008 at 15:10
Originally posted by Ivan_Melgar_M Ivan_Melgar_M wrote:

Originally posted by Certif1ed Certif1ed wrote:

^I certainly don't hear any boundary pushing on Pure - it's a very run-of-the-mill album to my ears, with nothing new on at all. I fail to hear it as "Neo" or "Prog". I'd agree it sounds lazy, and I felt a bit ripped off when I heard it.
 
What's so new?
 
Which boundaries are being pushed?
 
 
 
 
Pendragon is traditionally one of the most melodic but predictable Neo Prog bands (I love their foirst albums though), very close to the Fairy Tale inspired A Trick of he tail,. even the use of Mellotron used to be almopst exact to the one in Genesis.
 
But pure is a different thing, it's absolutely aggressive, at some po8ints dark and even haunting, playing in the botfer that divides Neo, Symph and Heavy Prog.
 
Instead of melodic pieces with soft female mellotron vocals "a la Ripples",  now it's used to provide hard almost Gothic (not Goth) vocals, The guitar has a very important roile, the friendly atmosphere has ceased almost completely to be replaced by almost metalic guitar riffs.
 
If that is not pushing the boundaries, I don't get what is.
 
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BTW: I',m far rom being a Pendragon or any band fanboy, but I rated it with 5 dstars, because I bel8ieve they made a healthy move, so please, dobn't attack those who disagree with you calleng us fanboys.
 
I wasn't aware that it was fighting talk, although I seem to have been put onto the defensive, as far as my review is concerned.
 
The end result may be progressive for Pendragon, but in the scheme of things, it sounds a lot like other music that's been released over the past 10 years. None of what you've described is progressive - and largely describes the textures rather than any inherent musical attribute that we might think of as Prog. If I compared it with... you see where this is going?
 
 
Originally posted by prog-chick prog-chick wrote:

Originally posted by Certif1ed Certif1ed wrote:

 
Yes, and I'm expressing them again here - is there a problem?


None at all.........a bit unnecessarily repeatative sure, but not a problem if it's an issue you feel strongly about.

Originally posted by Certif1ed Certif1ed wrote:

Which opinions have I tried to purvey as fact?
 
In this case, it's because the music is poor - for Prog.
 

It's definitely NOT a masterpiece of Prog, though - the fanboys are having a laugh with us on this one!


Your assumption that it's only been rated highly because of the actions of "fanboys" rather than the possibility that it could in fact be blinkin good and you could in fact be wrong speaks highly!
 
 
Whether it's "blinkin' good" or not is completely beside the point - how many times do I have to capitalise PROG?
 
If I have an opinion, then it is my opinion, and hence not wrong, but a Masterpiece of Prog? Pull the other one - it plays "On Reflection"! 
 
Originally posted by prog-chick prog-chick wrote:

Originally posted by Certif1ed Certif1ed wrote:

 
Yes, and I'm expressing them again here - is there a problem?


None at all.........a bit unnecessarily repeatative sure, but not a problem if it's an issue you feel strongly about.
 
 
Well, you seemed to feel it necessary to repeat your opinions of my review - it read like the last thing you were doing was laughing, to be honest.
 
I don't see why you're criticising me for repeating myself - it appears that you're not actually taking in what I said in my reivew or what I'm repeating here.

Originally posted by prog-chick prog-chick wrote:



With what authority can you claim it to be "poor"  does that mean thousands upon thousands (who love it) have inferior intellect?  This is where your opinion becomes "fact"  this is where you step into that netherworld of mistaking your dislike for an album with an inferior album!
 
 
Of course not - are you actually reading what I'm writing?
 
This is a waste of time - you're calling me names, and it's because I do not share your opinion!
 
The "authority" I use is simple reason, which may be read in my reivew, and counter-argued, using yet more reason - nothing more. It doesn't make my opinions fact - I simply use observable facts to bolster my gut reaction. I'm sure I aready said that.
 
Originally posted by prog-chick prog-chick wrote:



But no hard feelings, like I say it gave me and others a good chortle.
 
 
I do not find it funny to be essentially called a liar, a dick and all the other things you're insinuating or have actually said, obliquely or not. If you feel stupid, then that is your problem - I am in no way insinuating it, to the best of my knowledge, merely defeinding myself against this unprovoked attack for expressing my opinion in the way I see fit - for which, I hasten to add, I have never, not once, been reported or taken to task over, except by people that do not share my views - or in this case, understand that this site is primarily concerned with Progressive music.
 
So no hard feelings indeed.
 
Originally posted by prog-chick prog-chick wrote:


We have wonderd off topic here although it perfectly illustrates the point, the "problem" with "Neo" (remember a fan generated genre and classification not one that the musicians think or care about) the problem is that some people will try their damndest to try look clever by making it look rubbish. It's a soft target, it always has been.
 
I have NEVER tried to make the genre of Neo Prog look rubbish - I simply recognise that, as with any "subgenre" of Prog, there is more and less progressive examples, and examples I like more or less than others.
 
You're right that some see it as a soft target, and tar it all with the same brush - but maybe that's because an awful lot gets lumped into that category that doesn't really belong, alongsides the greats, such as Marilion, IQ and Twelfth Night, all of whom I have seen several times, and really admire their progressive works (although admittedly, I do not enjoy their non-Prog works).
 
 


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: October 21 2008 at 15:25
ok, cool off buddy,

I have not called you names.  I jumped back in on this because you asked me to. My comments in no way constitute an attack, if they come accross that way then I think we have a problem here.

In my posts I have directed some things in answer to your posts. Other things are in answer to the topic at hand, so just calm ye down! 

I will refain from further comment, it seems that you are feeling offended, at which point I apologise for the offense (none was intended on my part)

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It is ironic though, dontchya think (and this intended to be directed both at Certif1ed and at other reviewers) that those who find it easy to dish out a poor opinion of others in life are usually those less able to receive one? Confused



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Direct Link To This Post Posted: October 21 2008 at 15:35
Originally posted by Certif1ed Certif1ed wrote:

 
I wasn't aware that it was fighting talk, although I seem to have been put onto the defensive, as far as my review is concerned.
 
I wasn't aware that disagreeing with you meens fight, until now, everybody ha been as clear and gentle as possible, nobidy has atacked you or your opinions....That we disagree? Yes, but that's what we are here for, to express our opėnions with strength and education.
 
I'm usually in the position you are now,but wirst, normally I'm alone in front of four or five members (including you in ·The Stranglers thread) and didn't believed I was in a fighting or defensive position.
 
Originally posted by Certif1ed Certif1ed wrote:

 The end result may be progressive for Pendragon, but in the scheme of things, it sounds a lot like other music that's been released over the past 10 years.
 
The scheme is progressive (with low case) and innovative for NEO PROG, a genre that was accused of being stuck in time,
 
And yes, everything has been done in the past 10 or 40 years, still bands play Symphonic as the bands in the 70's and still today some bands play Jazz in the vein of Louis Armstroong 60 years ago....There's nothing new under the sun, simply an innovative approach.
 
Originally posted by Certif1ed Certif1ed wrote:

 None of what you've described is progressive - and largely describes the textures rather than any inherent musical attribute that we might think of as Prog. If I compared it with... you see where this is going?
 
Maybe not progressive for Avant or Rio, but surely progressive for Neo, and about being  Progressive Rock...There's no doubt about his, except in your mind, but you are entiitled to your opinion and we to disagreee.
 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: October 21 2008 at 15:47
When reading up on this thread and the one I wish was strangled, I start to understand why there hasn't been much of a community feeling in the prog environment, that's for sure.

The "this isn't prog because I say so" mode on discussion is really disheartening at times, same goes for "if you don't see this as prog you're lacking in intelligence and understanding" approach seen elsewhere on the site today.

We're talking music here folks, an art that entertains us and gives us something. We have differences in personal taste, in musical perception as well as appreciation - is it so hard to have peace with the notion that one can't be an expert on all aspects of the music that is a part of this site?

Discussing ones personal understanding of this form of art really shouldn't be important enough to result in hurt egoes, big emotions and melodrama. We're adults after all, not attending kindergarten...
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: October 21 2008 at 18:19
Originally posted by Windhawk Windhawk wrote:

When reading up on this thread and the one I wish was strangled, I start to understand why there hasn't been much of a community feeling in the prog environment, that's for sure.

The "this isn't prog because I say so" mode on discussion is really disheartening at times, same goes for "if you don't see this as prog you're lacking in intelligence and understanding" approach seen elsewhere on the site today.

We're talking music here folks, an art that entertains us and gives us something. We have differences in personal taste, in musical perception as well as appreciation - is it so hard to have peace with the notion that one can't be an expert on all aspects of the music that is a part of this site?

Discussing ones personal understanding of this form of art really shouldn't be important enough to result in hurt egoes, big emotions and melodrama. We're adults after all, not attending kindergarten...
 
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But who cares? We just go on, because at the end we have more music to enjoy
 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: October 21 2008 at 18:51
I haven't listened to all of Pure, but I got pretty bored with it about halfway through. It seems to me that Pendragon are doing their best to mimic Galahad's latest release?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: October 21 2008 at 19:37
I'm listening to these Myspace songs for Pure, and they're pretty damn boring. You have disappointed me prog chick!

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: October 21 2008 at 20:16
I agree with windhawk. Too often the argument is that something is not prog because factor X or Y is not present. Let me expand on why that is a problem - Too often the same criteria used to "exclude" or "disqualify" a group or album is used as a description of another. Prog Metal is not prog despite the time changes and complex chord structures. RIO or Symphonic is prog because of the time changes and complex chord changes. (all examples not true to a t, but approximate).

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: October 21 2008 at 21:06
I purposely stayed away from this thread because the title alone is asking for trouble (and my hunch was spot on in this case).

Why are we still having this discussion? We can all go 'round, and around and around and nothing gets accomplished. The biggest reason I've stayed away (and something tells me I wished I would've stayed away completely) is it's the same tired argument over and over. Sometimes I truly wonder if people pile on because it makes them look good to the other prog snobs, when in fact they've only heard a wee little bit (not saying it's fact, but just a wonderment). I'm not saying it in every case, but wonder if the 'mob mentaility' takes over in some.

I like neo progressive music. It makes me feel good and I feel like I'm hearing something special when I hear my favorite bands within the genre. The same goes for Genesis, Kansas, Barclay James Harvest and Yes. It all boils down to personal taste because some neo I cannot tolerate <<cough....Galleon!!!>>.

I don't care who likes it and who doesn't. It's like the Obama vs. McCain thread: you're not changing my opinion and I'm not changing yours. Moreso, I could give a frog's fat a** who likes what and who doesn't. It doesn't sway me in one way or another. As long as I enjoy it, who cares???!!!

And as for the Pendragon comments, it's another case of opinions. Personally, I found it to be brilliant and it sounds nothing like their music in a 10 year span. But that's me. If you find it boring, whoopty friggin' doo!!! If I find it to be awesome, well whoopty friggin' doo!!! At the end of the day (you'll be lying in a suit of grey...sorry...Spock's Beard moment) my opinion only matters to me.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: October 21 2008 at 21:52
Not to pick a fight, but who would honestly be here if we didn't care about each other's opinions? Isn't that what this site is? I know I personally am very interested in what you and everybody else thinks. If there is no interaction of opinions, this site is pointless.

That said, arguing is probably the most useless thing the human race has ever come up with, second to only prose poetry, maybe.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: October 21 2008 at 21:53
Originally posted by E-Dub E-Dub wrote:

I purposely stayed away from this thread because the title alone is asking for trouble (and my hunch was spot on in this case).

Why are we still having this discussion? We can all go 'round, and around and around and nothing gets accomplished. The biggest reason I've stayed away (and something tells me I wished I would've stayed away completely) is it's the same tired argument over and over. Sometimes I truly wonder if people pile on because it makes them look good to the other prog snobs, when in fact they've only heard a wee little bit (not saying it's fact, but just a wonderment). I'm not saying it in every case, but wonder if the 'mob mentaility' takes over in some.

I like neo progressive music. It makes me feel good and I feel like I'm hearing something special when I hear my favorite bands within the genre. The same goes for Genesis, Kansas, Barclay James Harvest and Yes. It all boils down to personal taste because some neo I cannot tolerate <<cough....Galleon!!!>>.

I don't care who likes it and who doesn't. It's like the Obama vs. McCain thread: you're not changing my opinion and I'm not changing yours. Moreso, I could give a frog's fat a** who likes what and who doesn't. It doesn't sway me in one way or another. As long as I enjoy it, who cares???!!!

And as for the Pendragon comments, it's another case of opinions. Personally, I found it to be brilliant and it sounds nothing like their music in a 10 year span. But that's me. If you find it boring, whoopty friggin' doo!!! If I find it to be awesome, well whoopty friggin' doo!!! At the end of the day (you'll be lying in a suit of grey...sorry...Spock's Beard moment) my opinion only matters to me.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: October 21 2008 at 22:12
It's not because I care what others think. Is that why you're on? Maybe I misunderstood your point.

And I assume you're asking me why I'm on this site rather than on the internet in general. Right? I'm here for pretty much the same reasons why a majority of the people are here: I enjoy discussing progressive music.

Maybe there's too much of a 'finality' to my statements because I do seek the opinions of others if I'm interested in a certain band or for other reasons. So, OK you caught me. Opinions do matter to a degree. My point (which I thought was pretty clear) is that it's not my job to mold you into my way of thinking...just like it's not your job to mold me into your way of thinking. Furthermore, I don't care if we agree or not. That doesn't mean we're bad people.

I'm actually a bit stunned to think I had to explain this.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: October 21 2008 at 22:14
Originally posted by LiquidEternity LiquidEternity wrote:



That said, arguing is probably the most useless thing the human race has ever come up with, second to only prose poetry, maybe.


Man alive. I said pretty much the same thing (in regards to arguing). The only difference is our approach. I wished I would've taken yours.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: October 21 2008 at 22:39
Ha, of course there is plenty of sense to what you're saying. But I see a lot of that "my opinion is mine and that's all I need" attitude on the internet, and sometimes it's not right. Here, I don't know. But there have been lots of bands I've had the wrong opinion about and people here or elsewhere have helped me see around what was in my way. I don't know. Does that make sense? Don't wander around on here with walled-in opinions, in any thread. The reason that people keep arguing is because there's something to be said for the truth of both sides.

I'm not exactly sure what it is I'm trying to iterate. Maybe just that I see no reason for people to be dead set on an opinion and to get upset when people try to adjust them. Whose opinions do we fiddle with the most? The people we care about. It's only people I don't like whose opinions I don't care about. Maybe that's it. Maybe people claiming not to care about other people's opinions merely says to me that such a person doesn't care about people. Right or not, that's what I end up seeing, and I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one.

Note, I am not in any way accusing you of not caring about people.

I'm guessing this opinion debate has pooped all over these forums for years.
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