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Gosh she's so gorgeous and hot..
I love my girlfriend so much and I wanted to marry her soon..
She's my angel..
Here she is..




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I love my girlfriend also. I won't marry Her, since I'm not a believer, both church or state; neither is she. Plus, I don't care about gorgeous or hot, she is clever, bright, sensitive, a very good reader. I do think she is the cutest and all, but those things vanish with time. ¿Wanna know how truly is your love?. Gain some weight, you or her.

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I totally didn't notice that!

heyitsthatguy wrote: Resurrecting a semi old thread  To all the ladies on the forum: any idea why girls seem to only like/go after total assholes? It's really annoying, and several of my friends have been affected by such situations

What did you say your name was? I think we must be friends.

heyitsthatguy wrote: Resurrecting a semi old thread To all the ladies on the forum: any idea why girls seem to only like/go after total assholes? It's really annoying, and several of my friends have been affected by such situations

Thatguy: I think it largely has to do with visibility. Who're you more likely to notice, a nice guy or an asshole? And who're you going to crush on, someone you have or haven't noticed?

Another possibility: Assholes believe they're the greatest thing since sliced bread, and that belief gets projected to people around them. Most assholes have friends after all... least, the kind you're talking about do. There is such a thing as the lonely asshole, but they don't in general have girlfriends, so I'll leave them out for the moment. Confidence is a great attractor, and most of all, it implies that they have something to be confident about. Whether or not they do may be an entirely nother matter, but in the social world, it's perceptions that matter, not reality. (Until/unless reality smashes the false perceptions, of course.)

I don't think it's as widespread a phenomenon as everyone seems to think, though. Once again with the visibility, you only notice the things that seem out of place to you: you notice the assholes because a) they make themselves noticed, and b) you think they don't deserve what they have. You notice the girls who are going out with people with no redeeming qualities because they're the ones who're talked about. You notice the "non-assholes" (half the time the people who characterize themselves as "nice guys" aren't really) being broken up with "unfairly" because - well, you don't, not in general. But you hear about breakups from your friends, and generally, since they're your friends, the story you're told is skewed in their favor, and against the rival and/or the ex-girlfriend.

Whether it's reality or just an illusion, the perceived "nice guys finish last" effect diminishes as you get older. So worry not, my dear. You have plenty of time ahead of you.

I'm young! I'm a prog fan! I feel so unincluded...



Edited by PaperDuck - October 10 2006 at 02:23

heyitsthatguy wrote: Resurrecting a semi old thread To all the ladies on the forum: any idea why girls seem to only like/go after total assholes? It's really annoying, and several of my friends have been affected by such situations

    
ok.....do you mean your friends are chased by ladies purely because of their a/hole staus?

Or do you truly believe that the female of the species WANTS an unhappy, abusive, unbalanced relationship?

"its really annoying".............. sheesh...............maybe its not a/holes they are going after, maybe women go for men with a higher pma over those with a low pma. And before you say "I'm a VERY positive guy" go back and read your posts......... not just HITG, but a lot of you guys, go back, read your posts and ask yourself..........."does that sound attractive"

Stop assuming there is something wrong with the women/girls you meet, because maybe THAT is the reason they go off with the a/holes.

Sorry thaat sounds a little harsh, but you asked......I answered.

NutterAlert wrote: ^^^^^^^ Long live American's   Who else would say unincluded rather than excluded.   Nice Job.

People who misuse apostrophes shouldn't throw stones. 

Some guys are silly though...

I was in a club Friday and this girl I had never bed before (but a friend of a friend of mine), started chatting to me about this guy who was chatting her up.  Apparently he was asking her if she knew the capital of Brasil!

But going back to the points made here... well I'm a confident guy and I can talk to women fairly easily, yet still I am undesirable it seems.  In my case, it's due to me being too talkative, or more recently, not talkative enough.  When I was at University, I used to talk about a lot of random stuff and I made silly comments; it didn't get me very far.  I have since then calmed down with my conversations and now I get to know someone first to find out what they're like and if they're a humorous type, then I'll act differently.  Some girls are real sticks in the mud, others are like a Ferrari on the Autobahn.  It's all about assessing what type of girl they are.  Not all girls are suitable, so don't chase any girl who seems to be your type.  The problem I now seem to have, however, is that I have nothing to talk about with anyone (I mean that with friends as well), because I don't like being as chatty as I used to be.

Having said all this, however, I don't let it worry me too much, as women are the least of my issues right now!

prog-chick wrote: heyitsthatguy wrote: Resurrecting a semi old thread To all the ladies on the forum: any idea why girls seem to only like/go after total assholes? It's really annoying, and several of my friends have been affected by such situations      ok.....do you mean your friends are chased by ladies purely because of their a/hole staus? Or do you truly believe that the female of the species WANTS an unhappy, abusive, unbalanced relationship? "its really annoying".............. sheesh...............maybe its not a/holes they are going after, maybe women go for men with a higher pma over those with a low pma. And before you say "I'm a VERY positive guy" go back and read your posts......... not just HITG, but a lot of you guys, go back, read your posts and ask yourself..........."does that sound attractive" Stop assuming there is something wrong with the women/girls you meet, because maybe THAT is the reason they go off with the a/holes. Sorry thaat sounds a little harsh, but you asked......I answered.

Edited by heyitsthatguy - October 10 2006 at 16:16