WOMEN
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Topic: WOMEN
Posted By: darkshade
Subject: WOMEN
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 19:11
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it has come to my attention that a lot of guys here havent done much when it comes to girls, if anything. why is this?
im not here to make fun of you guys, my experience is not as high as id like it to be (no gf in a good year or so) so what is it? is it our musical tastes that turn others away? shy? our music takes up a lot of our time (damn long songs)?
i know for me, after i broke up with my last gf, which was the beginning of last summer, i decided to take a period of selabasy (sp?) for the summer and just chill with my friends and not have those relationship worries. since then nothing's materialized much, hooked up with a couple of girls but thats it. from here im just gonna see what happens. ------------- http://www.last.fm/user/MysticBoogy" rel="nofollow - My Last.fm 
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Posted By: Arsillus
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 19:22
| I think there are plenty of guys who have, but I think to those who haven't, it has been comically exaggerated. I'm not in or looking for a relationship right now, becasue frankly, I don't want to. I don't see a need to rush at my age. |
Posted By: heyitsthatguy
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 19:25
Never had a girl like me in my entire life, they won't even talk to me 
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Posted By: Tony R
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 19:36
No wonder,judging by your avatar picture you seriously need to stop crash-dieting... 
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heyitsthatguy wrote:Posted By: The Wizard
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 19:41
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I plan on getting a girlfriend in the coming week, I have me sites set on a perfect target. -------------  
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Posted By: bhikkhu
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 19:41
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I've had my experiences (perhaps too many), but have been in a period of celibacy for the last four years.
You have to broaden your horizons. Prog fans aren't that plentiful, and even more scarce in female form. It might also help to cut down on socializing here, and get out once in a while. ------------- a.k.a. H.T. http://riekels.wordpress.com" rel="nofollow - http://riekels.wordpress.com |
Posted By: Bj-1
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 19:42
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I've had a few girlfriends over the years, but that's long time ago. I don't have time or money enough to them now actually. ------------- RIO/AVANT/ZEUHL - The best thing you can get with yer pants on! |
Posted By: The Wizard
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 19:44
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This girl likes Syd Barrett, The Flaming Lips, Jefferson Airplane, and tons of great classic rock, which is good enough for me. She's also very pretty and likes me a lot. -------------
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Posted By: heyitsthatguy
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 19:44
 Seriously though, I have no opportunities, and I've only liked like 3 people, and actually tried to ask out one of them.......and she said yes, but then avoided me for a MONTH, then finally told me she lied the whole time and never liked me, and that I was a stalker. Now I'm too afraid to talk to any girls -------------
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Posted By: video vertigo
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 19:47
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I took a girl out on 2 dates senior year of high school. Furthest I've ever been is tagged out at first. ------------- "The rock and roll business is pretty absurd, but the world of serious music is much worse." - Zappa |
Posted By: Tony R
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 19:53
a long time ago? BJ you're only 18,playing doctors and nurses in baby school dont count mate...
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Posted By: JayDee
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 19:53
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So far, I had 3 x's in my life. I had my first girlfriend when I was a sophomore way back my college years. It only lasted 8 months. Reason for break up: Third party. Right now, I have a steady relationship with my present girlfriend ( who loves Genesis, Camel, Jethro Tull, Dream Theater etc.  ). We have some pics on the rogues gallery. We'll be celebrating our second anniversary this coming Oct. 31. We're actually thinking of marriage. Nobody can handle my tantrums better than her, I think.------------- 
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Posted By: JayDee
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 19:55
OUCH! Some girls are like that. Well I guess you should try again.  -------------
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Posted By: The Lost Chord
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 20:00
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ive had more than enough girls after me in my life...
Never kissed a girl in my life[IMG]height=17 alt="Big smile" src="http://www.progarchives.com/forum/smileys/smiley4.gif" width=17 align=absMiddle>
My friends dont get it, but i do. I adore girls, i think about girls all day...but i know for the most part its just my animal instinct. I come from a very good looking family, my mom was a model and my sister is an aspring model, my dad tells me stories of the 70's and his sex life as though he were a rock star (disturbing at times lol!!)
But anyways, i dont give a sh*te frankly, i have girls i could be with, relationships and the like....but it never interested me, always seems like a burden whenever i get close to one, and all of the friends i have crying everyday about their girl problems.
I have done NOTHING, absolutely NOTHING with girls. I just cant bring myself to do it...
Had a girl this weekend calling me over, BEAUTIFUL girl ive been dying to meet....so i met her, and she was ofcourse leaning in for the kill and then....prog rushes through my head, thoughts of my dads boat, my brother, sister, my music, my life...and im like sh*t stop dont do it you will regret this....and i know i will, i just know it, shed be on my ass bugging me everyday, or worse, shed be awkward and ignore me or some sh*te.
I just love being a free, 20 yr old virgin dude who doesnt give a rats ass about chics, and mind you my brother hasnt gotten anything either and hes had trouble getting something, and i always try to tell him to just screw it, but he says its easier for me to say.
But once you LOVE you just love and your life is living and thats IT. Screw it go hire a hooker and have a blast fellas if you really need it!![IMG]height=17 alt=Clap src="http://www.progarchives.com/forum/smileys/smiley32.gif" width=18 align=absMiddle>
PEACE!
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Posted By: heyitsthatguy
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 20:04
Thats the thing that sucks, I actually want a relationship and no sex, but all the girls go after dickheads who only care ABOUT sex......no justice anywhere -------------
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Posted By: aapatsos
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 20:05
you still have time man... don't worry 
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Posted By: sleeper
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 20:07
18? I thought he was 16 ------------- Spending more than I should on Prog since 2005 
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Posted By: aapatsos
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 20:08
good gor you J.D. 
I am in a similar situation I have a relationship for 5 years now (yes, 5) and we are also thinking of marriage etc. but not yet... in 2-3 years maybe... the bad thing: she doesn't like Jethro, Genesis etc.  tried to convince her many times...
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Posted By: heyitsthatguy
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 20:09
I know...I just feel lonely sometimes  -------------
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Posted By: Tony R
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 20:09
well...that's even worse.....
TLC,use any more expletives and you will be expletive deleted.... 
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Posted By: Bern
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 20:09
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I have never had a problem with girls... ...but after all I'm a super sexy québécois sex machine. -------------  
RIP in bossa nova heaven. |
Posted By: aapatsos
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 20:11
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I guess this thread will be the most interesting ever in PA
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Posted By: Tony R
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 20:11
hardly,we can see by your avatar that you like to blow your own.....
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Posted By: JayDee
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 20:12
That deserves a resounding applause!!!!!!!!!  -------------
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Posted By: Tony R
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 20:12
Could certainly be one of the shortest now the Manhatten Monkey Brain has joined in...
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Posted By: heyitsthatguy
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 20:13
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Posted By: aapatsos
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 20:14
have u been to a doctor recently man?
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Posted By: JayDee
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 20:14
Nice one Tony!  -------------
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Posted By: Bern
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 20:15
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RIP in bossa nova heaven. |
Posted By: aapatsos
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 20:16
thanks people, well things like these happen sometimes I have always been a 'quiet' guy (someday I may regret) |
Posted By: Arrrghus
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 20:24
Mickey, is this the girl who is supposedly your "bitch?" ------------- 
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Posted By: Bern
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 20:25
Is it the same girl you have planned on getting in the last year? -------------
RIP in bossa nova heaven. |
Posted By: The Lost Chord
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 20:28
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more use of expletives.
TLC...I wont tell you again....I suggest you log off until you can control yourself... ------------- "Only the sun knew why"
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Posted By: Bern
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 20:32
You had revelations?!  TLC : Woah! Who are you? Jesus : I'm Jesus! TLC : What do you want? Jesus : Just wanted to tell you : SCREW SEX! PROG OWNS! -------------
RIP in bossa nova heaven. |
Posted By: heyitsthatguy
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 20:34
Lol, is he plastered again? -------------
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Posted By: The Lost Chord
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 20:36
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wow, relax, im not drinking, just a happy lad
Anywho....if i was drinking this would be fully incoherent, which i find ammusing but everyone else hates but whatever.
Anyways, im trying to make a serious point about girls...and NO jesus did not give me my revelations, my motions and emotions did. So, whatever, so what you want, worry about your girls and girl problems...im a free spirit and your all invited to come to my huge ass prog part when i graduate, but dont be daft muppets and buggers, come with drinks and be happy, none of this fake forum bill ish.
I want happy dudes, and plenty of hot girls will be there so u can gawk and dwindle. ------------- "Only the sun knew why"
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Posted By: Asyte2c00
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 20:49
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How shall I answer this question? Well, I feel that I am quite comfortable around women at my school. I converse with them, ask them questions, annd occaisonally ridicule them. I seldom circumvent the rules of etiquette while I am around women, unless it is a girl I am attracted to.
A Depressing Figure: In my high school, roughly 850 students, split 50/50 about, I am only attracted to Four girls. That is .94% of the women at my school.
I hate my High School.
The paucity of female companionship in life coupled with my unceasing interest in progressive rock has propelled me to write. I often write lugubrious, melancholy stories based off the muses I experience while listening to prog albums. Its usually melancholy, yet extrodinarily real. My poems are of the same nature. Sinfield, Hammill, Curtis, and Gabriel are my biggest influences.
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Posted By: The Lost Chord
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 20:55
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i dont know how many men ive spoken to that have told me they would give the world to be young again, and to have not been married, when they are truly being honest.
Being free and living easy is the way to live, and it takes time to learn that. You should never work for your money, you should have fun making money...and you should always do what makes you happy, and what you knwo is right, and ofcourse, love, with all your might, before its too late (pinder, mish moshed).
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Posted By: VanderGraafKommandöh
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 20:55
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I thought Blowie was 14?
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Posted By: Bern
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 20:57
His profile says he is 16... -------------
RIP in bossa nova heaven. |
Posted By: Asyte2c00
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 21:03
Enjoyment OR Affluence
???
the choice is yours
(if you cannot have both)
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Posted By: Leningrad
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 21:17
Haven't had a girlfriend. I don't actually talk to girls often. Besides, all of them (almost) wear tight, revealing clothes, and date potsmoking skaters in grade 12. I'm not extremely popular (well, I post here  ) so I probably won't get one anytime soon. What's the best way to make a move without looking sleazy?
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Posted By: Bern
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 21:20
Just talk to girls and be nice. You don't actually have to "make a move" to start the machine. It will eventually all get together. -------------
RIP in bossa nova heaven. |
Posted By: darkshade
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 21:25
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for all you guys, this line works the best "You be a woman. I'll be a man. That's all" ------------- http://www.last.fm/user/MysticBoogy" rel="nofollow - My Last.fm
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Posted By: JJLehto
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 21:30
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Another thread about this?
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Posted By: Tony R
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 21:31
especially works in same sex relationaships...
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Posted By: VanderGraafKommandöh
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 21:31
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I find women approaching you is always the easiest. This is a bit of a lame idea and not one I've tried personally, but carry a lighter around with you. Girls always ask for a light. Having said that, I'd rather be with a non-smoker myself. -------------
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Posted By: Tony R
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 21:35
Wow,that must really get them panting! 
In your case I suggest you carry a sign for the toilets round with you,they are far more likely to ask you that...
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Posted By: VanderGraafKommandöh
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 21:37
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Tony, it's a way of striking up conversation, that's all. I guess a Rush t-shirt would have the same affect as the "toilet this way" sign? -------------
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Posted By: Tony R
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 21:41
Girl:Have you got a light please? Geck:Yes certainly,I dont smoke myself but I like to keep one handy and might I say what a beautiful blouse you are wearing tonight. Where's she gone? |
Posted By: VanderGraafKommandöh
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 21:49
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Blouse? When did you last see a lass wearing a blouse, Tony? Bird (popular Bolton term for a girl): Hey sweety, do you have a light? Tony: sorry love, no, Geddy Lee tells me not too, it's bad for my girly voice. Bird: who? Tony: Geddy Lee... singer and bass player of Rush? Bird: *shakes head* who? Tony: Oh forget it! Phwoar!!!! What a nice pair of Bristols under that blouse! Bird: Erm, I... erm... have to go, sorry... -------------
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Posted By: Tony R
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 21:52
Several ways to answer that Gecko )but ultimately you are obviously not familiar with the tried and trusted chat up lines of one Ritchie Richard,whom you remind me of:
http://www.bbc.co.uk/comedy/guide/articles/b/bottom_7770880.shtml - http://www.bbc.co.uk/comedy/guide/articles/b/bottom_7770880.shtml 
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Posted By: VanderGraafKommandöh
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 21:57
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Ah, what a classic show Bottom was! Never as good as The Young Ones though. I don't actually use chat up lines and never will do. I am just myself (which is maybe where I'm going wrong...). -------------
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Posted By: heyitsthatguy
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 21:59
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To be honest, at this point, I'm almost terrified to talk to a girl....the last time I built up the courage for anything similar....well, look at my previous posts here
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Posted By: VanderGraafKommandöh
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 22:02
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Have you tried the blow up doll variety? But whatever you do, don't watch the film Wilt... or read the book either. -------------
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Posted By: Tony R
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 22:04
The point is that any relationship is a leap into the unknown. If you visit the well enough times you might just get to.....(thinks..carry the water home,do the dishes,spend hours in supermarkets,not speak for a week everytime you go for a booze up with your mates,learn that aspirins and paracetemol dont always cure headaches....).....leap in and drown!
Oh and alimony (or maintenance as it is called here in the UK)...
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Posted By: Australian
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 22:24
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To be honest I've never tried to be "cool" with the chicks, and will not for some time. ------------- 
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Posted By: moreitsythanyou
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 22:58
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I seriously don't care about girls all too much. I mean, never to the point where I'd want to ask anyone out. There was this period where me and (certain other person in forum) liked the same girl and both of us were too polite to ask her out at the risk of abandoning eachother, not like we would have done it anyway. Anyways, since I'm relatively new to my district (or at least it feels like it) I'm focusing more on making friends than dating them. -------------  <font color=white>butts, lol[/COLOR] |
Posted By: heyitsthatguy
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 23:10
You'd date me? -------------
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Posted By: moreitsythanyou
Date Posted: September 13 2006 at 23:12
Lol, misinterpretation ------------- <font color=white>butts, lol[/COLOR] |
Posted By: bhikkhu
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 00:06
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Wait a minute, I want more of Tony and Geck0. They're better than Adam and Dr. Drew on "Love Lines." ------------- a.k.a. H.T. http://riekels.wordpress.com" rel="nofollow - http://riekels.wordpress.com |
Posted By: cuncuna
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 11:03
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ASK YUKORIN...
90% of my friends are female. I prefer them for several reasons. Never had problems about the subject (finding a girlfriend). One clue is not to think about girlfriend as a supermarket item. Other clue is not to "search". Just wait until something clicks in your mind - heart - stomach. When interested in someone, be yourself. Don't act silly or funnier - cleverest than you actually are. Do not idealize. My few male friends are the kind of guy that thinks about "looks" as a very deep human quality. The fact is, people in love has their eyes closed most of the times. ------------- ¡Beware of the Bee! |
Posted By: Padraic
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 11:18
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Never had a problem with the ladies in high school - I looked good then.,. Been married for 6 years and with said lady for over 10. Life is good. |
Posted By: mystic fred
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 12:08
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I am hardly qualified to discuss success with women - or am i? i have been married and divorced twice, had many long relationships, dozens of short ones, so i can't complain, i'm an expert on how not to pick the right woman
from reading some of the above threads i say guys, remember girls are people who feel exactly the same as you, they're not aliens from another planet - friendship is the most important thing, i've learned that to my cost. As for now, i'm "resting" between wives.
PS my most successful chat-up line - "fancy a......drink"
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Posted By: NutterAlert
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 12:22
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I am of course very skilled with the ladies....
Has to be said the World would be a much better place if it was populated only by women. Look at the ignornat bozos on this site (no offense meant to anyone, apart from the few, and you know who you are, right!).
My very best friends are women, the people who I share my deepest concerns with and problems with are all women.
Sometimes I just despair with the male of this species...
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Posted By: Dalezilla
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 13:59
I'm not in a hurry, because I want a Canadian girl, not a Finnish one. 
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Posted By: The Lost Chord
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 14:40
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"I am of course very skilled with the ladies...."
lmmfao ------------- "Only the sun knew why"
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Posted By: VanderGraafKommandöh
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 15:04
Oh I quite agree, NA. Most of my close friends are female and they are indeed the easiest to converse with when it comes to concerns and worries. I have a few older male friends (when I say older, I mean 27-30) who are caring guys, but's that because they've lived lives and they've been where most teenagers are at the moment. Sometimes I feel quite happy not having a woman in my life, it saves a lot of hassles and I am far less stressed too. There's no rush for me. -------------
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Posted By: Wilcey
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 15:13
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i believe it works like this..........
the male is one thing, the female is another, and when they come together it becomes a third thing.......a very special and powerful thing. .........but there needs to be a lot of understanding for that third thing to be a good thing! the two halves make a whole if they work together, it takes two to make it work, and it takes two to make it fail. It's collusion, and sometimes it takes a while to find the partner that fits, but it's amazing when that happens! (of course I don't exclude gay couples from this) P-C
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Posted By: Falling Flower
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 15:14
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I've come too the conclusion I have more experience with girlfriends then some of you guys.
And I don't think it's the music, because I met a guy who likes all good prog bands and I find it so sexy.  ------------- 
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Posted By: Melomaniac
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 15:15
Well said!
Though it is evident that such an enlightened comment comes from a 'Chick' ! What male has the required sensitivity to make such a statement? ------------- "One likes to believe in the freedom of Music" - Neil Peart, The Spirit of Radio |
Posted By: VanderGraafKommandöh
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 15:16
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Yes, understanding is the top of the pile for couples for me, without that, the relationship will inevitably fail. I like my own time, doing things I want to do, so an overbearing girlfriend would not be for me. Clingyness is not for me. From experiencing some of my female friends, I find girls seem so bored nowadays and they crave for a guy and then when they do get one, they're overbearing and clingy. I've seen it with my own eyes and I feel sorry for some of the guys, because they're too nice to say anything about it. -------------
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Posted By: Falling Flower
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 15:24
Then they married the wrong person.
One day you'll meet a girl who'll give you the feeling that just listening to her voice is a 100 times more beautiful then listening to your favorite cd. -------------
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Posted By: Falling Flower
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 15:26
O I can't stand girls who don't give their guys any freedom. I had a girl like that in my class and she was always annoyed when her boyfriend was out with his friends instead of with her.
I always told her to let the guy have some time for herself.
And then she started saying mean stuff like "You give your guy too much time for himself, do you even know where he is?"  -------------
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Posted By: Wilcey
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 15:31
Funny, because it was my partner who taught me this!
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Posted By: VanderGraafKommandöh
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 15:31
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Exactly, both of my best friends used to be like that, but they seem to have calmed down a bit since they've been stable relationships. Just because men are generally idiots and don't always understand women, doesn't mean women should take them for granted. A lot of guys are compassionate and want the best from a girlfriend and truly do love them, yet a lot of women seem to get paranoid when they're not with them, that their boyfriend is out with other girls. I've seen it numerous times. Of course though, men are the worst, so I'm not solely having a go at women here. I admire women actually and men generally treat them like dirt. -------------
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Posted By: stonebeard
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 15:31
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Currently, I'm trying to move in on a friend of mine who's dating this guy who has been acknowledged by me and my friends as a "total prick." She even dumped him at my suggest, but got back together. We'll see how it goes.------------- http://soundcloud.com/drewagler" rel="nofollow - My soundcloud. Please give feedback if you want! |
Posted By: Melomaniac
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 15:32
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ONe thing I've noticed about girls in general, in a relationship, is that they are passionless. What I mean is that they get up, go to work, come back from work, go to sleep, start all over again... No hobbies, pastimes, or passions whatsoever. They are so fully concentrated on their professional lives that they end up missing everything else worthwhile. We men (read overgrown kids) are more hobby-prone it seems, and that is why we need OUR time, and most women don't seem to understand this.
Well I am a lucky b*****d! My girlfriend has her passions and hobbies !!! ------------- "One likes to believe in the freedom of Music" - Neil Peart, The Spirit of Radio |
Posted By: Falling Flower
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 15:33
Meh..I'm the total opposite...wich isn't good either I tend to give my guys too much freedom and not even get angry if they mess around with other girls.-------------
Tool makes the butterflies in my tumybox go woooooooosh |
Posted By: VanderGraafKommandöh
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 15:38
Not in the case of my particular female friends, until now. They always wanted to party, pick up guys and quite often they didn't even go to work the day after. Luckily they've changed for the better, but it is worrying indeed. That's why they're clingy, because they don't have any hobbies and they don't want to be alone. I'm not a woman, but I enjoy my own company (it used to be the complete opposite, I used to hate my own company so much, I used to always go out and be with people) and it's my observation that women don't generally enjoy their own. -------------
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Posted By: Melomaniac
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 15:41
Exactly ! ------------- "One likes to believe in the freedom of Music" - Neil Peart, The Spirit of Radio |
Posted By: Falling Flower
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 15:47
I love myself...
Does this make me a man? -------------
Tool makes the butterflies in my tumybox go woooooooosh |
Posted By: Raff
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 15:53
Very, very wrong in the case of this particular woman. I do enjoy my own company very, very much (to the extent that I always travel on my own), and I'd rather be alone than in the company of people I dislike. But, of course, I'm an adult, and a very independent one at that, and very picky when it comes to people. |
Posted By: Falling Flower
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 15:55
Yeah, I ment what she said, only she said it better. -------------
Tool makes the butterflies in my tumybox go woooooooosh |
Posted By: VanderGraafKommandöh
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 15:58
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Oh I know that Raffaella and Debby, but I was referring to other girls who I know from where I live. I think it's where I live, it's dull and boring.
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Posted By: heyitsthatguy
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 16:07
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All people of the female sex seem to avoid me for some reason or another, but I'm just trying to learn to ignore any feelings I have for anyone...and that's my opinion for now
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Posted By: Badabec
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 16:12
 You won't get a girlfriend with this behaviour! ------------- Mesmo a tristeza da gente era mais bela E além disso se via da janela Um cantinho de céu e o Redentor - Antônio Carlos Jobim, Toquinho & Vinícius de Moraes - Carta ao Tom 74 |
Posted By: heyitsthatguy
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 17:55
Well, I've tried, and at this point not liking anyone at all is better than chronic rejection *emo'd* -------------
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Posted By: The Wizard
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 18:16
Actually I find that not to be true. My biggest weakness is my lack of 'move-making' skills. -------------
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Posted By: The Wizard
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 18:19
Your approach is awful. It's better to be rejected than not try at all. I used to get rejected all the time. I still do. I don't care, the fact that you're trying dosent make you a loser, but giving up does. -------------
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Posted By: heyitsthatguy
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 18:29
I know, I've heard this all before from my friends hundreds of times, but it's hard to randomly just go up to a girl I dont know (and that's ALL of them) and just start talking.....it always seems like I need a reason to talk to them -------------
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Posted By: Peter
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 21:33
 But are you as picky when it comes to noses? Every roamin' Roman knows!
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Posted By: The Lost Chord
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 21:37
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i wholeheartedly disagree with almost everything said here, but heres my input:
Ever watch Bambi? Anyways, dont get twiterpated...which is getting infautuated basically. Love is a very mysterious thing, and it is used almost entirely to discuss sexual themes when this is entirely incorrect.
I am currently in love with many, many ideas and themes.
A woman entering my life as a "love" is a very distant and confusing idea to me. I have a brother, a sister, two parents and a pretty big family. I know my aunt and uncle don't love eachother, and my very own two parents are having crisis problems which they overshadow through other things.
I have never met a "happy" couple in my life, only two people that made a decision based on societal influence.
This happens all the time and it is happening right here, right now.
If you feel you have found "love" with another person, than that is great and i would love to study the situation and see how it unfolds. Im not saying its impossible, but to me its almost 100% unlikely to happen.
TRUE happiness is aquired through one self, and the interaction with others, not the MERGING with other which is what marraige will do to someone. I LOVE my brother and my sister, but if i ever tied it so close that everything i did was under surveilance or decisions i made were based on other terms....i would not be happy.
Just putting my input in ------------- "Only the sun knew why"
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Posted By: Peter
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 21:38
Hey, Hey, just ask them if they have any spare change, in that case.
 Ask enough, and you'll have enough for some Chinese cooking wine to drown your sorrows in!
 Mmmmmmm! Cheap!
(There: see folks? I've just helped a total stranger! Boy, do I feel good!) ------------- "And, has thou slain the Jabberwock? Come to my arms, my beamish boy! O frabjous day! Callooh! Callay!' He chortled in his joy. |
Posted By: The Wizard
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 21:41
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I have a hot date tommorow for the Wolfmother concert, should be great fun. -------------
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Posted By: stonebeard
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 21:41
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Love? I have no idea what that would feel like. But I know someone who I'm very comfortable around, who I can talk to, who make me feel good about myself. The only missing picture of the puzzle is sexual intimacy, which I'd definitely not want without all of the above criteria, but if one is in a serious relationship with the above criteria, I think it's a bit puzzling to avoid the missing factore (the sexual intimacy). But with out the emotional connection, it would be an empty experience with only fleeting resonance. ------------- http://soundcloud.com/drewagler" rel="nofollow - My soundcloud. Please give feedback if you want! |
Posted By: KoS
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 21:44
That was a good one. I stil don't understand his problem, I strike up conversations with anyone, although I often do have better luck with girls after a few driinks, more courage and I can stand boring conversations. |
Posted By: Peter
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 21:49
Have you told Jim how you feel, Stones?Rumour has it, he's into empty experiences with fleet enemas....
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Posted By: stonebeard
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 21:51
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Sorry, Peter. Had I known there are "name brand" enemas (), I'd have altered the wording a bit. Jim has told me his true feelings about one early 80s Scotting prog band, though.... ------------- http://soundcloud.com/drewagler" rel="nofollow - My soundcloud. Please give feedback if you want! |
Posted By: Peter
Date Posted: September 14 2006 at 21:54
What can I say, Stoner -- hospital work at a young age, and being around nurses warps one....
 "Fleet" as in fast, too.  ------------- "And, has thou slain the Jabberwock? Come to my arms, my beamish boy! O frabjous day! Callooh! Callay!' He chortled in his joy. |