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Posted: October 07 2011 at 20:53
The key is to not give a sh*t. Channel your inner douchebag and objectify the hell out of her. Then you won't care and can talk freely. I know it sux, I hate it and despise douchebaggery in all its various forms, but sometimes the dark side of the force can be useful.
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Posted: October 07 2011 at 20:54
colorofmoney91 wrote:
I encountered bread girl again, and she stroked my hand on the money/bread bag exchange, but I got cold feet before my brain could form any word-constructs to fall out of my mouth and at her face.
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Posted: October 07 2011 at 20:55
Deathrabbit wrote:
The key is to not give a sh*t. Channel your inner douchebag and objectify the hell out of her. Then you won't care and can talk freely. I know it sux, I hate it and despise douchebaggery in all its various forms, but sometimes the dark side of the force can be useful.
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Posted: October 07 2011 at 20:56
Deathrabbit wrote:
The key is to not give a sh*t. Channel your inner douchebag and objectify the hell out of her. Then you won't care and can talk freely. I know it sux, I hate it and despise douchebaggery in all its various forms, but sometimes the dark side of the force can be useful.
Or he could be himself and let her decide whether she likes him for who he is or not.
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Posted: October 07 2011 at 20:56
Polo wrote:
lol that's not going to work
I meant mentally. Don't actually say like "nice ass". But if you can envision you're talking more to just a piece of meat than an amazing girl that really brightens your life, it helps.
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Posted: October 07 2011 at 20:59
colorofmoney91 wrote:
When I have gotten somewhere with girls, it definitely wasn't because I was acting like a douche.
Somehow my shyness has always been my foot in the door.
Unfortunately, being my polite shy self has always gotten me friend zoned. Even the shy girls I've found want someone who can at least act a little alpha male at times. I dont understand it and I hate it, but that's at least the rules where I live. Sometimes, I question whether its even worth it. But to clarify, I wasnt urging you to be uncouth or misogynist. Just rather to psych yourself out.
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Posted: October 07 2011 at 21:04
SolarLuna96 wrote:
Then you aren't looking for the right girls
Trust me young one, nice guys finish last. I'd love to be all high-minded and idealist about it, but I've had my face shoved in the dirt a few too many times because of it.
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colorofmoney91 wrote:
I'd love to be all high-minded and idealist about it, but I've had my face shoved in the dirt a few too many times because of it.
