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Direct Link To This Post Posted: October 08 2009 at 04:11
I'm married to a Chinese woman. Now the Chinese are often maligned for their taste in music but I have to say... oh f**k it, it's true. My Heart Will Go On is their anthem by proxy. But that she tolerates f**k Buttons and other things I play shows the depth of her love.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: October 08 2009 at 04:50
Originally posted by -Radioswim- -Radioswim- wrote:

Originally posted by tdfloyd tdfloyd wrote:

It is a very rare occasion when I play prog for anyone but myself.  My friends don't like it.  If I play it for my wife,  then I know I will be getting some Madonna or Mega Dance Classics vol 33 or some garbage like that.  Not worth it.
 

I am playing prog for my kids and they like most of it!  Clap 

That's my master plan in life... have some youngters and fill their heads with grandiose prog. :D


Untill the day comes you've got three daughters... whahahahaha
Still, even then, there is hope. It's just that most children will object to the music of their parents during puberty, there's a need to listen to new music. The influence of the peer-group (kids of the same age) is about 50%, DNA about 45% and the parents have about 0% - 5% influence in the development of the kid. Good luck with your master plan!

(I do have the same plan myself though.. )
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I grew up listening to my dad's music because it was so much better than the radio. I was born in 1981 but from about 7 I listened to Jethro Tull, Deep Purple, Led Zeppelin, The Who, The Rolling Stones, Pink Floyd. It was one of his Tull records, A Passion Play (more so than Floyd really) that got me heavy into prog, I STUDIED that album.
 
So there's hope for my daughter.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: October 08 2009 at 09:00
Originally posted by kingfriso kingfriso wrote:

Originally posted by -Radioswim- -Radioswim- wrote:

Originally posted by tdfloyd tdfloyd wrote:

It is a very rare occasion when I play prog for anyone but myself.  My friends don't like it.  If I play it for my wife,  then I know I will be getting some Madonna or Mega Dance Classics vol 33 or some garbage like that.  Not worth it.
 

I am playing prog for my kids and they like most of it!  Clap 

That's my master plan in life... have some youngters and fill their heads with grandiose prog. :D


Untill the day comes you've got three daughters... whahahahaha
Still, even then, there is hope. It's just that most children will object to the music of their parents during puberty, there's a need to listen to new music. The influence of the peer-group (kids of the same age) is about 50%, DNA about 45% and the parents have about 0% - 5% influence in the development of the kid. Good luck with your master plan!

(I do have the same plan myself though.. )
 
I hope you are right with the DNA part.  Was playing Yes Symphonic yesterday and my kids were around but were not paying attention until the Squire bass solo section of Ritual.   She came running over and I had to play it over 3 more times!  She loved it!!  There is hope!!!
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: October 08 2009 at 09:34
I was fortunate during high school, college, and for a few years after to have my best friends be prog fans.  Alas that era has passed, but now I have a new circle of online prog head friends at this site.  Works for me.  Big smile

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: October 08 2009 at 10:28
My best friend loves progressive rock even though he doesn't really know what it is. He really likes Yes and Dream Theater, but hates most King Crimson. I played Birds and Buildings for him once and he liked that too. He mostly listens to pop and rap though.
I introduced another one of my friends to Magma a few days ago, it started off as a joke but he actually likes them now. He wants to make techno-zeuhl.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: October 08 2009 at 20:18
Without prog I'd still have classical and jazz, and the other rock/folk stuff I like.  But I'd be missing out on a lot of the music I really love.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: October 09 2009 at 00:35
Not so much when friends are around, but family, definitely. It's just a question of what type or era its going to be. The old man will go for classic crimson, tull or floyd. My brothers will be reaching for some Zappa, beefheart,  or hawkwind or something, while I try and open their eyes to some great new prog. Either way, Its always enjoyable having the family round.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: October 09 2009 at 00:44
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I have a couple of friends who like prog, but they're mostly into prog metal, so they literally laugh when I put on a Marillion disc.

So usually not


I have a friend who is into hardcore and the most extreme metal (cannibal corpse, behemoth...) and I was surprised when he told me he loves 'clutching at straws'. Fish-era Marillion is repected by metalheads, I used to listen to a metal radio broadcast where one of the broadcaster's nickname was Phil Marillion.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: October 09 2009 at 03:30
At this point in time, my fellow progaholics and I all live a few hours apart.
 
 
Originally posted by lucas lucas wrote:

I used to listen to a metal radio broadcast where one of the broadcaster's nickname was Phil Marillion.
 
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Originally posted by kingfriso kingfriso wrote:

Untill the day comes you've got three daughters... whahahahaha
Still, even then, there is hope. It's just that most children will object to the music of their parents during puberty, there's a need to listen to new music. The influence of the peer-group (kids of the same age) is about 50%, DNA about 45% and the parents have about 0% - 5% influence in the development of the kid. Good luck with your master plan!

(I do have the same plan myself though.. )
 
Too funny, that's what happened to me, and what you say about influence/DNA/parents is true. But surprinsingly, out of the collection I have, they like Dream Theater, they think that at least it sounds modern, hey my oldest one that has 15 managed to play some on the school's radio.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: October 09 2009 at 12:18
I usually don't listen to prog around my friends. Usually when we're hanging out, one of them will put on some music, but it's usually whatever they have on their Ipods. The only friend of mine who listens to anything remotely progressive is more into prog metal and technical death metal, which is fine because I enjoy it as well. 


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: October 09 2009 at 13:38
I've had the luck of guiding my friends' tastes with mine, and usually have succeeded!
It's great when you suggest a genre or a band to your friends and they like it...when they don't it's fine too, musical tastes is always a difficult subject.
Having similar musical tastes eases the conversations and times you spent with your friends, and if it's prog music, better yet!Smile
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: October 09 2009 at 19:18
Luckily most of my friends are fairly into Prog. One of my friends is a big Yes and Rush fan and likes to listen to pretty much all the stuff I put on. Then I have a friend that is an obsessive Pink Floyd fan which has gotten really annoying. If we're ever in a musical discussion I can't say anything against the Floyd without him having an emotional breakdown. He also likes King Crimson but he's usually into the more mainstream type Prog bands and gets latched on to bands way to easily which becomes tiresome. The rest of my friends usually won't say anything against Prog, but they aren't huge fans. I guess I've got it alright.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: October 10 2009 at 03:56
I am a bit shy of my eclectic musical tastes at work at least.
 
Somehow the ordinary Joe seems to connect Prog rock with drugs..
 
"Hmm, he plays weird music, must be a stoner or drug addict"
 
Hence the headphones at work :)
 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: October 10 2009 at 04:16
I tend to play more "normal" stuff when friends are around - they do know about my weird tastes, but seeing as how most of them don't really care for the ultra-weird stuff, I don't like to torture them. I'll just put on some Tom Waits, Nick Drake, Neil Young, John Martyn, Porcupine Tree, or something like that and everyone's happy.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: October 10 2009 at 04:22
Originally posted by LegacySpecial LegacySpecial wrote:

Originally posted by kingfriso kingfriso wrote:

Untill the day comes you've got three daughters... whahahahaha Still, even then, there is hope. It's just that most children will object to the music of their parents during puberty, there's a need to listen to new music. The influence of the peer-group (kids of the same age) is about 50%, DNA about 45% and the parents have about 0% - 5% influence in the development of the kid. Good luck with your master plan! (I do have the same plan myself though.. )

 

Too funny, that's what happened to me, and what you say about influence/DNA/parents is true. But surprinsingly, out of the collection I have, they like Dream Theater, they think that at least it sounds modern, hey my oldest one that has 15 managed to play some on the school's radio.


Yeah I happen to know these things, I studied Child rearing studies (Pedagogiek or parenting) for one year on the university of Nijmegen. After I quit I started on Music Therapy, which is one of the best discissions I ever made.

It is also relevent to turn on some new prog to convince people of it's power, the old prog can be to strange for people. They don't recogniseze the music AND the sound of it with '70 prog. Arena's Contagion is suprisingly convincing for a lot of people.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: October 10 2009 at 08:32
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I have found that the best way to clear a room is to put on The Residents.  Big smile
 
[...] the misssus likes pretty much anything I listen to, except The Residents.  Oh well, you can't win 'em all.  Cry
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My wife actually likes the Residents.  Or maybe I should say that after years and years and years of having to suffer listening to my favorite band the brainwashing has finally worked!  Seriously, she has come to like them and has gone to concerts.  This is how you know you have a chance at a life-long relationship.  Try telling that to Dr Phil(th).

My own choice for instant room clearer: anything by Nurse with Wound.  Better than Raid for killing unwanted household pests.

To the original question--way back in high school, I might say that my friendships were actually built around prog.  These days, though, my friends know my tastes but I don't think they have much patience for much of it.  I can get by with some good doses of Acid/Prog Folk, but if Comus comes up, forget it.  As someone else mentioned earlier, Camel's major records are a pretty safe bet for most company.  

If the point of all this is to keep your friends. 
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