Sex?
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Topic: Sex?
Posted By: Failcore
Subject: Sex?
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 14:30
 Hilarious question I know, but I actually am really beginning to strongly dislike sex. It seems like it causes a crap ton of problems. I just was curious to see just how much of a minority us sex haters are.
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Posted By: colorofmoney91
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 14:35
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I'd say so, yeah. ------------- http://hanashukketsu.bandcamp.com" rel="nofollow - Hanashukketsu |
Posted By: Easy Livin
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 14:40
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Posted By: stonebeard
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 14:43
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Posted By: A Person
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 14:44
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stonebeard wrote:Posted By: Alitare
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 14:47
| Caused me more grief than pleasure so far. |
Posted By: Failcore
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 14:58
Oh, haha  . Nah, I love love. I'm not high up on my nerdy, intellectual high-horse. Just not so crazy about the physical aspects of it.-------------
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Posted By: darkshade
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 15:39
Really? I assumed you were referring to the emotional aspects of it. The physical part is pretty good, I'd say. ------------- http://www.last.fm/user/MysticBoogy" rel="nofollow - My Last.fm 
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Posted By: Alitare
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 15:39
| Sex and relationships have caused me so much grief. They've driven me to hating myself, having rampant thoughts of suicide, physically harming myself, praying to whichever Gods to kill me where I stood, caused me to feel the deepest pits of isolation, forced me into bloody tears night after night, given me crippling anxiety/panic attacks, and more. How is it that I never felt truly alone until I started dating someone? |
Posted By: darkshade
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 15:41
A drink and a guitar/piano/whatever are your best friends ------------- http://www.last.fm/user/MysticBoogy" rel="nofollow - My Last.fm
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Posted By: CPicard
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 15:47
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I like the stories of Alitare. Each time he posts, I feel... happy and relieved to be me. Back to the topic: not tonight, I've got a headache, headaaaaache. |
Posted By: Failcore
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 15:49
Oh yeah, I mean I'm a guy, of course my guy parts are attracted to it. But overall, it just seems like it screws relationships up. -------------
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Posted By: Alitare
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 15:54
I don't try to make my life out to sound awful - there have been some amazing parts. But the best parts were always when I was completely by myself. When other people come in all it does is make me hate everything. Women have made me hate sex. The emotional torture it comes with far outweighs any physical pleasure I might have. If I have to sit in a corner and feel like I'm falling into an endless pit while my chest explodes so hard that I'd do anything to make it stop and all I can think about is beating my head with my hard knuckles until I submit to a coma - I'd rather just beat off.
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Posted By: darkshade
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 15:59
Sometimes. It can strengthen relationships too. Depends on the persons ------------- http://www.last.fm/user/MysticBoogy" rel="nofollow - My Last.fm
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Posted By: Henry Plainview
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 16:02
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I've never had it, but I assume it would be disappointing.
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Posted By: Tapfret
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 16:05
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I am teaching my fellow nurses to use a computer program for documentation. The section for documenting social history has spaces for smoking, alcohol, illicit drug use and....sexual activity. Here is a fundamental problem with our societies view of sex. We have 3 subjects synonymous with self-destruction and the activity necessary (mostly) for procreation of our species happily linked together. The real funny part is the choices for the "Are you sexually active?" question are: Yes, No...and not currently. For those who are holding out hope. ------------- https://www.last.fm/user/Tapfret" rel="nofollow">  https://bandcamp.com/tapfret" rel="nofollow - Bandcamp |
Posted By: Henry Plainview
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 16:09
Well it could be problematic if a nurse has an STD... ------------- if you own a sodastream i hate you |
Posted By: Tapfret
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 16:13
Why? Do you go to hospitals where nurses make it a habit of having sex with patients? Besides, the questions are for gathering patient data. ------------- https://www.last.fm/user/Tapfret" rel="nofollow"> https://bandcamp.com/tapfret" rel="nofollow - Bandcamp |
Posted By: Henry Plainview
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 16:24
Sexually transmitted diseases can be spread through means other than sex!? And the possibility of having an STD is even more relevant for patients. ------------- if you own a sodastream i hate you |
Posted By: Vompatti
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 16:25
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Posted By: Failcore
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 16:30
Yea, I dunno, seems like maybe it should placed somewhere other than a list of vices tho. It is pertinent information, I guess because of STDs, however. I mean, I personally think sex without love is a vice, but that's my personal viewpoint; it's up to the individual to draw their own lines on where sex fits into the scheme of morality. -------------
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Posted By: Tapfret
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 16:32
Um, no. That's why they are called sexually transmitted diseases. Aside from blood transfusions, but we do not run about giving our own blood to patients. If they were spread that easily we would all have them and it would be a non-issue. If you are concerned about STD's being transmitted casually I would advise wrapping yourself in some impermeable membrane when in public. ------------- https://www.last.fm/user/Tapfret" rel="nofollow"> https://bandcamp.com/tapfret" rel="nofollow - Bandcamp |
Posted By: Failcore
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 16:47
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Yea, but you work with lots of sharp implements that you stick into ppl so potential for bodily fluid exchange is there.
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Posted By: A Person
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 16:50
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Posted By: Tapfret
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 16:57
And who do you think that risk truly applies to? I'll give you a hint, its not the patient. ------------- https://www.last.fm/user/Tapfret" rel="nofollow"> https://bandcamp.com/tapfret" rel="nofollow - Bandcamp |
Posted By: Failcore
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 17:07
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Yea, but its still a possibility I'm sure. Don't tell me you can't conceive of someone, especially a new hire making a mistake like that. Plus, even if there wasn't it'd still have to be there as a legal ass-covering measure. Anyway, we're getting off-topic. Back to why sex ruins everything ever. -------------
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Posted By: Alitare
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 17:12
| I find I am unable to adequately commit to interpersonal human relationships, sex or otherwise. Press your space face close to mine, love. Freak out in a Moonage Daydream, oh yeah. |
Posted By: Failcore
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 17:20
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*Zoidberg Voice* Are you coming onto me?
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Posted By: Henry Plainview
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 17:25
Which is another reason that it's a good question to ask the patient (which is what you're actually doing)! ------------- if you own a sodastream i hate you |
Posted By: Tapfret
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 17:35
Well, of course. And for the record (at least in this state) we are subjected to a number of titers/serologies to ensure we are free of the most heinous bloodborne pathogens (hep c, etc.). ------------- https://www.last.fm/user/Tapfret" rel="nofollow"> https://bandcamp.com/tapfret" rel="nofollow - Bandcamp |
Posted By: Drew
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 17:44
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No- I like Star Trek
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Posted By: Tapfret
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 17:50
I see a common thread amongst you guys. For one thing, quit over analyzing everything. It is alienating to others and for the individual, does nothing to promote true self-examination. You guys are all young. I was in the same place at one time. The path to strong interpersonal relationships starts with a quality inTRApersonal relationship. Self-actualization is more than just jargon. One thing women really love is to be listened to; listened to and truly heard. Can't be done when your own thoughts are constantly eating at you. You are a loudspeaker for your own self-worth and well being, projecting it onto others and the world around you. There is more than just sex. Your occupational health depends on it as well. I'm sure it seems trite, but give yourselves time. Eat healthy and exercise. I'm not talking about 400 crunches, simply walk. You guys are clearly intelligent, just try not to use it as a hammer. Things will fall into place. ------------- https://www.last.fm/user/Tapfret" rel="nofollow"> https://bandcamp.com/tapfret" rel="nofollow - Bandcamp |
Posted By: Triceratopsoil
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 17:52
| I see you haven't met Dustin yet. |
Posted By: Failcore
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 17:52
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I'm not that young...kinda wish I was. -------------
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Posted By: Tapfret
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 18:00
Given the younger crowds responses in this thread and recalling my own experience, I miss it not one bit. I like where and who I am. Of course it is rather hot outside. Somewhere with a little more cool air and rain would be nice. ------------- https://www.last.fm/user/Tapfret" rel="nofollow"> https://bandcamp.com/tapfret" rel="nofollow - Bandcamp |
Posted By: Alitare
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 18:42
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I'm not some lonely dunderhead that's had sex once and it was a failure. I've been having consistent sex for the past couple years (sometimes as much as three or four times a day). I know all of that self-actualization garbage by heart. Tell me how that helps you when your girlfriend just took 20 ambien and is so mentally spaced that she begs to steal her dad's wallet and card. Or tell me how all that self-help nonsense is applicable to each human being, without accepting the differing psychological compositions of all humans? How does it help when your fiancee just tried to kill herself by overdosing on Advil PM? I mean it was only eight of them and she didn't even have alcohol in her system. The poor girl, she was just tired of life, is all. Personally I thrive on my feelings toward myself. I love myself just enough to like being me, and I hate myself just enough to never want to stop improving (in my eyes). I have found the balance that works for me. It's other people that I can't handle very well. At times I want to hug every human being that ever cried as if they were my only child. I don't know what I'll be tomorrow, but I'm always happy with what I am, today. Tell me how losing five pounds and eating apples and smiling in the mirror helps you when your mother talks about killing herself, or when your girlfriend tries to chop her arms off with an X-acto knife or when your fiancee has a bipolar episode or when your two year old stepson is lying in the floor screaming because we don't got any goddamn pretzels and all anybody can do is cover their eyes and cry and shake in the corner. Please connect the dots in which I have proffered.
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Posted By: Henry Plainview
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 18:57
OK then. So what are we arguing about again? ------------- if you own a sodastream i hate you |
Posted By: Tapfret
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 19:05
Sex, apparently. ------------- https://www.last.fm/user/Tapfret" rel="nofollow"> https://bandcamp.com/tapfret" rel="nofollow - Bandcamp |
Posted By: Tapfret
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 19:16
I don't know what to tell you. You are 21 and know everything and reject that which you "know". This Springer world that you live in is one you can only deliver yourself from. And none of it has squat to do with sex. And you know that. ------------- https://www.last.fm/user/Tapfret" rel="nofollow"> https://bandcamp.com/tapfret" rel="nofollow - Bandcamp |
Posted By: Alitare
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 19:47
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Yeah, I just wanted to bust your chops. All that stuff is true, but whatever. Besides, how can you judge my world as being a 'springer' world? You're superior to me, right? |
Posted By: zappaholic
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 19:50
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By now I'm pretty well used to being asexual. The great dating pool has made it clear that I am neither needed nor wanted in it. ------------- "Democracy is the theory that the common people know what they want, and deserve to get it good and hard." -- H.L. Mencken |
Posted By: Padraic
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 19:56
| I'm apparently not as big a nerd as some others here. |
Posted By: Luna
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 20:25
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Posted By: Slaughternalia
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 21:44
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you guys have done sex man im so jelly ------------- I'm so mad that you enjoy a certain combination of noises that I don't |
Posted By: Failcore
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 21:49
QFT brother, QF-f**king-T -------------
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Posted By: Triceratopsoil
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 21:50
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Posted By: Andy Webb
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 21:57
OMG U HAV TEH WIEF AND TEH SECKS ------------- http://ow.ly/8ymqg" rel="nofollow">  
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Posted By: Failcore
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 21:58
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My never entering the dating scene has more to do with the fact that I'm prolly way too damn picky. I can count the number of girls that have interested me in this 25 years on Earth on one hand with 3 of the fingers removed. And those times I was actually so stunned that this was such an awesome chick I couldn't do anything. -------------
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Posted By: The Dark Elf
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 23:07
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Seriously, you folks need to go offline every once in a while. Sex is great. With a woman, not your hand. ------------- ...a vigorous circular motion hitherto unknown to the people of this area, but destined to take the place of the mud shark in your mythology... |
Posted By: Andy Webb
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 23:08
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Posted By: Henry Plainview
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 23:13
Everything else has disappointed me, why wouldn't that?
Yes, you definitely are. I don't know how old you are, but you probably need to grow up. ------------- if you own a sodastream i hate you |
Posted By: A Person
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 23:17
This is almost what I was going to post earlier, word for word. |
Posted By: Andy Webb
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 23:22
I think he's 25  ------------- http://ow.ly/8ymqg" rel="nofollow">
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Posted By: The Truth
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 23:25
coolin does have the Albertan womenz. ------------- http://blindpoetrecords.bandcamp.com/" rel="nofollow">  
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Posted By: tamijo
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 23:35
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There is not that many free pleasures around, this is one of the better ones.
Im getting a bit old, but you younger ones, should def. not give up on this one. Ya it can be hard on you emotionally, but its worth the risk. ------------- Prog is whatevey you want it to be. So dont diss other peoples prog, and they wont diss yours |
Posted By: stonebeard
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 23:36
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If you are not morbidly obese and can at least be in the presence of a female without having an asthma attack, there is someone out there who is willing to let you put your penis inside her. The thing is you'll probably have to check online sites. ------------- http://soundcloud.com/drewagler" rel="nofollow - My soundcloud. Please give feedback if you want! |
Posted By: Andy Webb
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 23:37
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Posted By: The Dark Elf
Date Posted: August 09 2011 at 23:49
Henry, you need to be a bit less cynical. Loosen up. Enjoy. ------------- ...a vigorous circular motion hitherto unknown to the people of this area, but destined to take the place of the mud shark in your mythology... |
Posted By: Henry Plainview
Date Posted: August 10 2011 at 00:09
How do you know he didn't live elsewhere for a while? Seriously though, I don't know what your "standards" are, but you need to make them more realistic before you end up 40 and alone and have to go buy a bunch of duct tape.
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