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Topic: Aren't we all insane?
Posted By: The Truth
Subject: Aren't we all insane?
Date Posted: March 05 2011 at 20:13
Is insanity really insanity or is it a misunderstood form of human behavior? What truly makes one insane? I write about this in my poetry, there are times when it seems to me that we're all insane. Now what is your take on insanity?

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Posted By: JJLehto
Date Posted: March 05 2011 at 20:58
You can't even know for sure that anyone outside you even exist...so yeah

Wacko


Posted By: Islandstone
Date Posted: March 05 2011 at 21:26
According to Einstein, the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results". In that term, I guess we're all insane from time to time. It could be that we hope a certain approach will work, and therefore we keep trying. Or, we do some things the same way over and over again because it has become a habit.


Posted By: Man With Hat
Date Posted: March 05 2011 at 22:27
Which begs the question what is normal?
 
If there is this normal/sane level, I would have to believe most people deviate from it, in some way, even if slight.
 
Or: Yeah...the human race is one clusterf**k of awful and is screwed up beyond belief.


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Posted By: The Dark Elf
Date Posted: March 05 2011 at 22:42
You are insane. I am merely eccentric.

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Posted By: Triceratopsoil
Date Posted: March 05 2011 at 23:26
LOL K Tan-tan


Posted By: AtomicCrimsonRush
Date Posted: March 06 2011 at 06:58
Insanity is trying to post on here and finding out the whole dang site is down for hours.... who is responsible! crazy....

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Posted By: Tuzvihar
Date Posted: March 06 2011 at 07:11
Originally posted by AtomicCrimsonRush AtomicCrimsonRush wrote:

Insanity is trying to post on here and finding out the whole dang site is down for hours.... who is responsible! crazy....


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People call insane those who they can't understand.




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Posted By: zravkapt
Date Posted: March 06 2011 at 07:16
That '500 - Internal error' thing made me go insane.


Posted By: AtomicCrimsonRush
Date Posted: March 06 2011 at 07:19
Yeah me too - i gave up after 20 times..... thought the Nazis had taken it down... lol

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Posted By: topographicbroadways
Date Posted: March 06 2011 at 07:26
Originally posted by AtomicCrimsonRush AtomicCrimsonRush wrote:

Yeah me too - i gave up after 20 times..... thought the Nazis had taken it down... lol

Shocked lets not start that topic againLOL


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Posted By: ExittheLemming
Date Posted: March 06 2011 at 07:29
I think insanity has now been broadly monopolised by the legal profession i.e. it no longer denotes a particular mental state or mode of behaviour, but just a form of defence via diminished responsibility etc

Behaviour that is outside societal norms is no help to us here at all alas i.e. what is acceptable conduct in some cultures is viewed as 'completely deranged' in others (e.g. the English actually like cricket, go figure)
I've long been fascinated by those artists who seem to exist on the 'precipice of wholeness' while producing their greatest work but very often 'step off the edge' into the abyss of incoherence never to return e.g. Syd Barrett, Nietzsche, Jim Morrison, Artaud etc

As to what constitutes mental health or mental illness erm...perhaps behaviour that endangers oneself or potentially endangers others might be in the ball park?




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Posted By: Negoba
Date Posted: March 06 2011 at 08:40
I do mental health as a large part of my profession, so I'm going to sound pretty textbook-y.
 
Someone who has difficulty knowing the inner world from reality (and by reality I mean the world that the majority of people sense and perceive in a similar way...like boiling water is hot, the sky is blue, etc).
 
All you have to do is watch Charlie Sheen to see someone who has lost the line between his own imagination and the "real world." Cocaine does that to people, it's actually a very common pattern. Who know if he has underlying mental illness. But if you watch the interview, that's the definition of delusional.
 
The are people who are just a "leetle bit crazy" who simply perceive things at a slightly different angle, but are still interacting with reality enough that it has meaning for the rest of us. Alot of artists tap on that space. I think the original question is about the borderline place, where I think all of us can go sometimes. That's a very different place from when you're actively hallucinating.


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Posted By: Equality 7-2521
Date Posted: March 06 2011 at 08:55
I think we tend to perceive things in a very discrete way. As a result, we have these categories like normal, crazy, and really crazy. In reality I'd imagine it's more of a continuum upon which we all rest somewhere. So in that sense, yes we are all crazy to some degree. Clearly though some are much further along that line than others.

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Posted By: Negoba
Date Posted: March 06 2011 at 09:03

Absolutely.

In the space between wake and sleep, I think all of us can simultaneously live in the inner reality and the outer one to a degree.
 
And few of us truly grasp how much our personal experiences filter even our basic sense perceptions of shared experience.
 
Even in establishment psychiatry, there is a very deliberate effort to be clear that it is a continuum between traits and more serious disorders. We all know people (ourselves) with some obsessive habits. How is that different from OCD? Really the only difference is degree, and how much the habits interfere with the ability to have a reasonable life. Pretty subjective.
 
Some conditions are so severe that even once you cross the magic threshold of "no longer to fulfill major role obligations or complete daily life activties" things can still get much worse. Actual schizophrenia, etc.
 
 
 


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Posted By: Dean
Date Posted: March 06 2011 at 09:31
Originally posted by Negoba Negoba wrote:

Even in establishment psychiatry, there is a very deliberate effort to be clear that it is a continuum between traits and more serious disorders. We all know people (ourselves) with some obsessive habits. How is that different from OCD? Really the only difference is degree, and how much the habits interfere with the ability to have a reasonable life. Pretty subjective.
 
I think the degree of "obssesion", while not being absolute, can be categorised if only by the word "compulsive". Someone with OCD suffers (in my opinion/observation) more from the compulsion to correct disorder than they are obsession to put disorder into order.

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Posted By: Negoba
Date Posted: March 06 2011 at 10:26
The stock definition of obsession is a persistent intrusive thought. The song that you can't get out of your head is an obsession though a mind and for most of us not life-altering kind.
 
A compulsion is a behavior that a person must do to dissipate the obsession (again the stock definition). Usually anxiety will build and build until the compulsive act is performed.
 
Cleanliness and orderliness are common theme in OCD but they aren't the only ones.
 
Now, in my observation, both obsessive traits / tendencies and full OCD are generally centered around a person's feeling of control vs. helplessness in their environment.
 
I'm interested in exactly what you mean by "disorder in order" in comparison to "correct disorder" i.e. what distinctions you make.


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Posted By: Dean
Date Posted: March 06 2011 at 10:59
Originally posted by Negoba Negoba wrote:

 
I'm interested in exactly what you mean by "disorder in order" in comparison to "correct disorder" i.e. what distinctions you make.
Dunno - I was reaching for phrases that essentially said the same thing, but were different. As you said, someone with OCD goal is to relieve the anxiety created by the disorder - they need to correct the disorder they see and regain their control, whereas someone who is just obsessive is not driven by that compulsion, they will put disorder into some form of order and call it an obsession (eg "obsessive" picture straighteners). The distinctiion I think I'm trying to make is that for someone with OCD the act is not the obsession, the need to impose it is.

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Posted By: The T
Date Posted: March 06 2011 at 12:45
What Shields say. Psychologists these days are starting to avoid the "has it-doesn't have it" dichotomy with mental disorders and use a more degree-based approach. I have felt myself how I have some tendencies and behaviors that, taken to a larger degree, would constitute a disorder or cause me stress (an important factor). On the other hand, much of what's considered abnormal for me are just social constructs based on social behavior and daptability to what most people do, which is sad since it gives excuse to put lots of people, teenagers too, in mental hospitals and in treatment. In a way, the whole mental-illness thing is a functional tool to try to make everybody fit a standard, a control tool and nothing else. And can be abused and a lot.

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Posted By: Vompatti
Date Posted: March 06 2011 at 13:41
Some people never go insane . . .


Posted By: seventhsojourn
Date Posted: March 06 2011 at 15:14
Originally posted by ExittheLemming ExittheLemming wrote:

I think insanity has now been broadly monopolised by the legal profession i.e. it no longer denotes a particular mental state or mode of behaviour, but just a form of defence via diminished responsibility etc

Behaviour that is outside societal norms is no help to us here at all alas i.e. what is acceptable conduct in some cultures is viewed as 'completely deranged' in others (e.g. the English actually like cricket, go figure)
I've long been fascinated by those artists who seem to exist on the 'precipice of wholeness' while producing their greatest work but very often 'step off the edge' into the abyss of incoherence never to return e.g. Syd Barrett, Nietzsche, Jim Morrison, Artaud etc

As to what constitutes mental health or mental illness erm...perhaps behaviour that endangers oneself or potentially endangers others might be in the ball park?


 
What about drink-driving? Potentially dangerous behaviours do not equal mental illness and the majority of people with mental illness are not violent. However, a person may be detained in hospital if he meets the criteria for mental illness and is a danger to self/others. 


Posted By: Earendil
Date Posted: March 06 2011 at 15:18
I'd say first you have to have a standard to judge by, which since no two people see the world exactly the same, is probably not possible.  But still, it's easy to see how most people act and compare the person who is arguably insane to them within your own mind.  But I think the main factor that people would judge insanity by is if the insane person is able to contribute to society or to "fit in" despite their unusual behavior.  Bahhh... we're all insane.


Posted By: seventhsojourn
Date Posted: March 07 2011 at 07:37
The concept of insanity has been around for a long time and in the ancient world madness was thought to come from the gods, e.g. Nebuchadnezzar’s delusion of clinical lycanthropy. I guess what we’re talking about here are the functional disorders (rather than organic disorders that have an identifiable cause) and the manner in which those disorders, such as Schizophrenia, manifest themselves in abnormalities of emotion, cognition and behaviour. We are what we are, but often we are defined by what we are not. Morality and laws are largely concerned with negative behaviours, with the things that we don’t do rather than what we do.

 

Schizophrenia also has negative symptoms, not just the positive/florid symptoms that some people may tend to think of; things like lack of motivation, flattening of mood, etc. Schizophrenia isn’t even a single condition with a single set of diagnostic criteria (at least seven types, before you even think about schizo-affective disorders). Disease is a concept that changes over time and may have no real existence in itself; people used to be locked away in asylums because they suffered epilepsy or because they exposed themselves in public. Psychiatric disorders are usually diagnosed through the patient’s subjective experiences, and the value judgements of those making the diagnosis. I can’t provide figures for the number of successful appeals against compulsory detentions, but the fact remains that appeals are successful. Two different doctors might make different diagnoses of the same individual; the same doctor might make two different diagnoses on two separate admissions of the same individual.      

 

The anti-psychiatry movement that peaked in the 1960s questioned the empirical approach and the medical model, and although its main ideas have subsequently been discredited the movement did raise valid and interesting ideas. Normality is enforced conformity; labelling people as ‘mentally ill’ is a device that society uses to maintain order; society stigmatises the individual and adds to his problems. Glaswegian psychiatrist R. D. Laing viewed illness as ‘the reality which we have lost touch with’ and he even advocated the use of recreational psychedelics. Laing stressed social and environmental factors; symptoms weren’t markers of illness but reactions to stress, e.g. the double bind theory, when one parent says a child is good and the other says the child is bad. The child cannot decide on behaviour, the family can be viewed as dysfunctional and in the broader sense so as can society itself. We all carry concepts of one another, of how we see others and expect others to see us, and here Laing was influenced by the existential philosophy of the likes of Jean-Paul Sartre. For Sartre the ‘self’ is not constant, we adopt different roles and the Superego acts as a filter in restricting our drives. Sartre described the self-deception of ‘bad faith’ where one denies one’s freedom to choose, instead of being true to our own selves.

 

This ties in with the work of Erving Goffman who defined stigma as ‘the process by which the reaction of others spoils normal identity’. We all put on an act in social interactions to make desired impressions on others. Goffman commented on the segregation of the mentally ill, subject to different rules from society. Russell Barton developed Goffman’s ideas on the ‘wharehousing’ of people and coined the term ‘Institutional Neurosis’ where individuals are robbed of all individuality, inability to make decisions/plan ahead. As recently as thirty years ago there was the phenomenon of ‘schizophrenic trousers’, i.e. schizophrenic patients in long-stay institutions were noted to wear trousers that were too short in the leg, hence ‘schizophrenic trousers’. Of course this says more about society, about the standards of care and the prevailing attitudes to these people at that time. And even today, nanny society seems to want us all to fit in as ‘good patients’.  

 

 

 

 

 

 

 



Posted By: Vibrationbaby
Date Posted: March 07 2011 at 09:38


This is insane. Cool  And the pilot isn't even a nazi.




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Posted By: Negoba
Date Posted: March 07 2011 at 10:23

While there is a continuum, mental illness is a real thing. It's not just deviation from normal behavior, whatever that is.

Insanity is a non-technical term in 2011, and it is reasonable to say that it's pointless to try to pick a specific line where mental illness actually becomes "insane." Some people with heavy disease burden can still function reasonably.
 
Of course they have Adonis DNA, which other mere mortals only wish for.


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Posted By: Dean
Date Posted: March 07 2011 at 11:33
Originally posted by Vibrationbaby Vibrationbaby wrote:



This is insane. Cool  And the pilot isn't even a nazi.


parallax view Geek
 
...for the sake of those viewing in monochrome, the wingspan of a F-14 is approx 64 feet and the height of an average Joe about 6 feet - proportionally the people in the photograph are 1.5 times bigger than the plane¹, which means the plane is 1.5 times further away from the camera. Assuming a 135mm lens, with a viewing angle of 10º, then the people are approximately 500 feet from the camera, and the aircraft is 750 feet away - or the distance between the aircraft and the people is 250 feet. The other point to observe is that the are standing on the deck of an aircraft carrier - this is evident because the starboard wing-tip is below the deck-line - this suggests that the aircraft is also about 250 feet away from the deck of the boat. Also the flight-deck of a USS aircraft carrier is approximately 250 feet above sea level, so the plane must also be 250 feet above the wave-tops. So while it is certainly an impressive piece of flying the aircraft, pilot and co-pilot are 250 feet from any danger in all directions - so from the pilot's perspective it's a perfectly calculated piece of flying [during a staged flying display I may add] and not especially crazy.
 
 
 
 
 
¹ in the image the plane is aproximately 7 times bigger than the people - it should be 10.66 times bigger (64/6), therefore the people look 10.66/7=1.52 times bigger.


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Posted By: TheGazzardian
Date Posted: March 07 2011 at 11:45
Originally posted by Dean Dean wrote:

Originally posted by Vibrationbaby Vibrationbaby wrote:



This is insane. Cool  And the pilot isn't even a nazi.


parallax view Geek
 
...for the sake of those viewing in monochrome, the wingspan of a F-14 is approx 64 feet and the height of an average Joe about 6 feet - proportionally the people in the photograph are 1.5 times bigger than the plane, which means the plane is 1.5 times further away from the camera. Assuming a 135mm lens, with a viewing angle of 10º, then the people are approximately 500 feet from the camera, and the aircraft is 750 feet away - or the distance between the aircraft and the people is 250 feet. The other point to observe is that the are standing on the deck of an aircraft carrier - this is evident because the starboard wing-tip is below the deck-line - this suggests that the aircraft is also about 250 feet away from the deck of the boat. Also the flight-deck of a USS aircraft carrier is approximately 250 feet above sea level, so the plane must also be 250 feet above the wave-tops. So while it is certainly an impressive piece of flying the aircraft, pilot and co-pilot are 250 feet from any danger in all directions - so from the pilot's perspective it's a perfectly calculated piece of flying [during a staged flying display I may add] and not especially crazy.
 
 

Dean, can I call you CSI? LOLTongue


Posted By: Slartibartfast
Date Posted: March 07 2011 at 12:01
Perhaps the question should be if we aren't are we really human?


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Posted By: TODDLER
Date Posted: March 07 2011 at 12:14
If mental illness runs in your family it is debatable how you, yourself, have been influenced or how that illness has had an affect on you personally from growing up around the environment itself. It would seem according to the majority of society, that when it comes to family, you are expected to take the responsiblity of your kin. This is okay within itself however, some individuals who collect from the state and have been documented with an illness are smart enough to exploit your life by specifically misusing you because they resent you. They can destroy your opportunities in the work force. It can become a nightmare of events in your life.

You might be a naturally shy person that keeps to themselves. Because those around you who personally know of your brother or sister with mental issues, you are thrusted upon the stand before the jury. You will be confronted for the rest of your life.  They will make cruel judgements on you because you are a blood relation to that person. Guilty by association. It's perfectly natural for people in society to feel this way and question your behaviour......even if you are quiet and well behaved, keeping to yourself. It may very well be that you are in control of your life, loving, plain and simple, while people around you will persist that something is deadly wrong with you. This is not good. It can develop depression, cause you missed opportunities, lower your confidence, destroy your marriage, and years later....you find yourself seeking council hoping it might change your life.
 
It never ends! If your family member resents you for an early part of your life and now for many years you have changed your entire life, living differently, raising children, it will not register in their mind. They will haunt you about your annoying past! Something that you have let go of when you finalized your decision 10 years ago is suddenly thrust upon you in front of your children. Because your family member has a mental illness they cannot or will not see into the future or understand change in humans. You will endlessly be compared to your kin. Not a good situation to be in.   


Posted By: Vibrationbaby
Date Posted: March 07 2011 at 14:43
Originally posted by Dean Dean wrote:

Originally posted by Vibrationbaby Vibrationbaby wrote:



This is insane. Cool  And the pilot isn't even a nazi.


parallax view Geek
 
...for the sake of those viewing in monochrome, the wingspan of a F-14 is approx 64 feet and the height of an average Joe about 6 feet - proportionally the people in the photograph are 1.5 times bigger than the plane¹, which means the plane is 1.5 times further away from the camera. Assuming a 135mm lens, with a viewing angle of 10º, then the people are approximately 500 feet from the camera, and the aircraft is 750 feet away - or the distance between the aircraft and the people is 250 feet. The other point to observe is that the are standing on the deck of an aircraft carrier - this is evident because the starboard wing-tip is below the deck-line - this suggests that the aircraft is also about 250 feet away from the deck of the boat. Also the flight-deck of a USS aircraft carrier is approximately 250 feet above sea level, so the plane must also be 250 feet above the wave-tops. So while it is certainly an impressive piece of flying the aircraft, pilot and co-pilot are 250 feet from any danger in all directions - so from the pilot's perspective it's a perfectly calculated piece of flying [during a staged flying display I may add] and not especially crazy.
 
 
 
 
 
¹ in the image the plane is aproximately 7 times bigger than the people - it should be 10.66 times bigger (64/6), therefore the people look 10.66/7=1.52 times bigger.


Pilot's commentary :

" It's not risky at all with practice. It was my opening pass in an F-14 Tomcat tactical demo at sea. It started from the starboard quarter of the carrier slightly below deck level. Airspeed was about 210 kt. with the wings swept forward. I selected afterburner at about a half a mile out, and the aircraft accelerated to 350 kt. As I approached the fantail I rolled into an 85 degree bank and did a hard 50 degree turn finishing about 50 to 20 degrees off the boat's axis. Microseconds after the photo was taken after rolling wings level at an altitude slightly above the flight deck I pulled vertical with a quarter roll to the left ending with an immelman roll out at 90 degrees and continued with the rest of the demo.''

No mean feat. Guess it helped that the guy had over 4,000 hours on Tomcats. This photo has been plastered all over the net with different captions. Contrary to some of these the pilot was not grounded for 30 days. Pilot was Dale Snodrass who ended his carreer with most F-14 hours.

 


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Posted By: seventhsojourn
Date Posted: March 07 2011 at 14:45


Posted By: manofmystery
Date Posted: March 07 2011 at 16:41
Wrench

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Posted By: omri
Date Posted: March 08 2011 at 07:43
I have 2 small things to add to the discussion :
 
The first is Rush's "Everybody got to deviate from the norm"
 
The second is mine "Sanity is overrated"


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Posted By: ExittheLemming
Date Posted: March 08 2011 at 08:12
Originally posted by seventhsojourn seventhsojourn wrote:

Originally posted by ExittheLemming ExittheLemming wrote:

I think insanity has now been broadly monopolised by the legal profession i.e. it no longer denotes a particular mental state or mode of behaviour, but just a form of defence via diminished responsibility etc

Behaviour that is outside societal norms is no help to us here at all alas i.e. what is acceptable conduct in some cultures is viewed as 'completely deranged' in others (e.g. the English actually like cricket, go figure)
I've long been fascinated by those artists who seem to exist on the 'precipice of wholeness' while producing their greatest work but very often 'step off the edge' into the abyss of incoherence never to return e.g. Syd Barrett, Nietzsche, Jim Morrison, Artaud etc

As to what constitutes mental health or mental illness erm...perhaps behaviour that endangers oneself or potentially endangers others might be in the ball park?


 
What about drink-driving? Potentially dangerous behaviours do not equal mental illness and the majority of people with mental illness are not violent. However, a person may be detained in hospital if he meets the criteria for mental illness and is a danger to self/others. 


Point taken, I clearly don't know what constitutes mental health or otherwise but I'd hazard that like myself, the OP has some serious misgivings as to the credibility of  meets the criteria as defined by the so-called experts in the field. (Hence the thread?)

(Strictly tongue in cheek) Madness results when the self employed cross their own picket lines. Wink


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Posted By: Negoba
Date Posted: March 08 2011 at 08:26
Or as my manic friend used to say...when you start to believe your own BS.
 
 


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Posted By: topographicbroadways
Date Posted: March 08 2011 at 08:27
I'm listening to Magma at the moment, i'd say an accurate simulation of insanity

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Posted By: ExittheLemming
Date Posted: March 08 2011 at 08:33
Originally posted by Negoba Negoba wrote:

Or as my manic friend used to say...when you start to believe your own BS.
 
 


Meaning?


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Posted By: Negoba
Date Posted: March 08 2011 at 08:49

This guy was basically always joking, always cynical, always saying things just to get a rise out of people. It was always difficult to tell where he was serious and when he was joking. He loved the unrest this caused, but it was also a source of humor for everyone around him. 

But he always used to say "Never believe your own bullsh*t."
 
You when you start to believe your own made up stories, you're in trouble.


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You are quite a fine person, and I am very fond of you. But you are only quite a little fellow, in a wide world, after all.


Posted By: ExittheLemming
Date Posted: March 09 2011 at 02:49
Originally posted by Negoba Negoba wrote:

This guy was basically always joking, always cynical, always saying things just to get a rise out of people. It was always difficult to tell where he was serious and when he was joking. He loved the unrest this caused, but it was also a source of humor for everyone around him. 

But he always used to say "Never believe your own bullsh*t."
 
You when you start to believe your own made up stories, you're in trouble.


I'm not trying to be disagreeable here and you can call me paranoid if you like Jay, but is this a typo or a warning?


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