Love is
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Topic: Love is
Posted By: Epignosis
Subject: Love is
Date Posted: December 22 2008 at 17:24
Just to spark discussion. I want to hear what everyone has to say.
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Posted By: Vompatti
Date Posted: December 22 2008 at 17:27
I think it's awesome.
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Posted By: The Quiet One
Date Posted: December 22 2008 at 17:32
Posted By: WinterLight
Date Posted: December 22 2008 at 17:36
The synthesis of care, responsibility, respect, and knowledge.
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Posted By: Raff
Date Posted: December 22 2008 at 17:45
Three years ago I would've voted 'painful'. Now, on the eve of my wedding day, I cannot but choose the second option.... REAL love (not infatuation) is a wonderful feeling, and I am very happy that it came along when I had already lost hope of ever finding it.
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Posted By: The T
Date Posted: December 22 2008 at 17:53
Nobody can define it for anybody else. There can be as many definitions of love as there are human beings (including those uncapable of human feelings...)
It's necessary. It's beautiful when you find it, horrible when you lose it, a utopia when you can't find it, an illusion when you can't feel it.
I like it.
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Posted By: Epignosis
Date Posted: December 22 2008 at 18:40
I think love is the height of masochism.
It's painful, but I like it.
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Posted By: MovingPictures07
Date Posted: December 22 2008 at 18:51
“Love is an expression and assertion of self-esteem,
a response to one's own values in the person of another. One gains a
profoundly personal, selfish joy from the mere existence of the person
one loves. It is one's own personal, selfish happiness that one seeks,
earns, and derives from love.”
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Posted By: jimmy_row
Date Posted: December 22 2008 at 19:19
a four letter word in the English language
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Posted By: The Doctor
Date Posted: December 22 2008 at 19:25
Love is kind
not one bit
love is blind
love is...
from the Maestoso album Grim
Love is great and a wonderful feeling when you have it and it's very painful when you lose it. Sadly, in our reality you can't have happiness without pain. Is the good feeling worth the pain? You bet.
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Posted By: Queen By-Tor
Date Posted: December 22 2008 at 20:27
Love is...
an evil thing.
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Posted By: Finnforest
Date Posted: December 22 2008 at 21:02
Posted By: Chris H
Date Posted: December 22 2008 at 21:05
Love is something I have yet to experience as just a teenager. I'll check back in when I think I have an idea.
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Posted By: tszirmay
Date Posted: December 22 2008 at 22:03
True love , think for a second......... It's only available with mutual trust. Trust is hard enough to find...... The mutual makes it even more precious. I am a hopeless romantic and I can state that there is a very fine line between love and pain. Just read some of Bryan Ferry's lyrics , its all about "Heartache" and not the stomach puke kind either......
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Posted By: Henry Plainview
Date Posted: December 22 2008 at 22:05
Haddaway.
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Posted By: JayDee
Date Posted: December 24 2008 at 03:56
The T wrote:
Nobody can define it for anybody else. There can be as many definitions of love as there are human beings (including those uncapable of human feelings...)
It's necessary. It's beautiful when you find it, horrible when you lose it, a utopia when you can't find it, an illusion when you can't feel it.
I like it. |
I thought you'd say "is The Dance of Eternity"
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Posted By: Vibrationbaby
Date Posted: December 24 2008 at 04:06
jimmy_row wrote:
a four letter word in the English language | Damn! You beat me to it.
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Posted By: martinprog77
Date Posted: December 24 2008 at 05:31
Love Is The Answer
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there are no second chances.
Never give a day away.
Always live for today.
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Posted By: Ricochet
Date Posted: December 24 2008 at 06:24
Real love is rare and almost impossible and it's a sacrifice. I've lost my faith in it a while ago.
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Posted By: JayDee
Date Posted: December 24 2008 at 06:29
Rico is brokenhearted.
There is a thin line between love and hate, that much is true.
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Posted By: Ricochet
Date Posted: December 24 2008 at 07:26
JayDee wrote:
Rico is brokenhearted.
There is a thin line between love and hate, that much is true.
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"You don't love because, you love despite" (W. Faulkner) - that's the tricky issue.
Too many people break up over nothing, let their flaws ruin their relationship (or do something utterly wrong to ruin it), too many people treat love superficially, too many people mistake love for sex...etc.
I am however glad when friends of mine manage to pull a beautiful "love story" - and wish them to never change that (like my best friend, who will deeply shock me if ever breaking up with the girl he's with right now, that's how strong their bond looks like - like you, JayDee, having happily build a family - like Raff & Micky, finally united for life since yesterday and having went through tough times to achieve that...and such)
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Posted By: JayDee
Date Posted: December 24 2008 at 07:39
Ricochet wrote:
JayDee wrote:
Rico is brokenhearted.
There is a thin line between love and hate, that much is true.
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"You don't love because, you love despite" (W. Faulkner) - that's the tricky issue.
Too many people break up over nothing, let their flaws ruin their relationship (or do something utterly wrong to ruin it), too many people treat love superficially, too many people mistake love for sex...etc.
I am however glad when friends of mine manage to pull a beautiful "love story" - and wish them to never change that (like my best friend, who will deeply shock me if ever breaking up with the girl he's with right now, that's how strong their bond looks like - like you, JayDee, having happily build a family - like Raff & Micky, finally united for life since yesterday and having went through tough times to achieve that...and such)
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Thanks man.
I also agree with your second paragraph.
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Posted By: The Pessimist
Date Posted: December 24 2008 at 08:32
It's the best feeling in the world when you share it with someone. It's the most lonely thing in the world when you give it to someone without it being returned. It's pretty good for your ego when several people love you. However, the darkest thing is that it's the most painful thing in the world when it is taken away from you. In all situations.
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Posted By: WinterLight
Date Posted: December 24 2008 at 08:49
By the responses in this thread, one would conclude that love is a cliche.
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Posted By: Ricochet
Date Posted: December 24 2008 at 09:19
WinterLight wrote:
By the responses in this thread, one would conclude that love is a cliche.
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Yep. One as in you & you alone. The way you've initially put it, love sounds like chemistry.
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Posted By: WinterLight
Date Posted: December 24 2008 at 09:26
Ricochet wrote:
WinterLight wrote:
By the responses in this thread, one would conclude that love is a cliche.
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Yep. One as in you & you alone. The way you've initially put it, love sounds like chemistry.
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Perhaps Fromm's definition may not be the stuff of greeting cards or Harlequin novels, but it certainly does coincide with the view of Western philosophy and the great world religions.
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Posted By: Ricochet
Date Posted: December 24 2008 at 09:35
WinterLight wrote:
Ricochet wrote:
WinterLight wrote:
By the responses in this thread, one would conclude that love is a cliche.
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Yep. One as in you & you alone. The way you've initially put it, love sounds like chemistry.
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Perhaps Fromm's definition may not be the stuff of greeting cards or Harlequin novels, but it certainly does coincide with the view of Western philosophy and the great world religions.
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Greeting cards or Harlequin Novels are expressions of or about love. Expressions of love can turn into cliques. Love (with the big L, preferably) can hardly be called a clique.
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Posted By: WinterLight
Date Posted: December 24 2008 at 10:53
Ricochet wrote:
Greeting cards or Harlequin Novels are expressions of or about love.
No. I suggest that they're simply sentimentalizations of love.
Expressions of love can turn into cliques. Love (with the big L, preferably) can hardly be called a clique.
I think that you mean "cliche" rather than "clique." In any case, my point was that the characterizations of love delineated in this thread are indeed cliches.
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Posted By: clarke2001
Date Posted: December 24 2008 at 11:00
Kim Wilde was right. Love is..what you want it to be.
To quote John Varley: Wouldn't it be sweet to be 17 again, and to have a broken heart for the first time again?
For me, love is the sheer joy and a reason for a living--I'm in love again, with a gorgeous lady, it's a fresh new start for me and it's great!
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Posted By: zappaholic
Date Posted: December 24 2008 at 19:47
Love stinks.
/j. geils ftw
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Posted By: CPicard
Date Posted: December 25 2008 at 10:49
Love is the thema of most of the TOP 40 hit singles. Love sells perfume, chocolate, sex toys - not together. Love is just a tool. Love is love is love is love... Love is lava. Love is a protection. Love is boring. Luv, luv, luv, luv, luuuuuuv.
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Posted By: JayDee
Date Posted: December 25 2008 at 19:19
http://www.quotescard.com/love/lw3.jpg - True Love
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Posted By: stonebeard
Date Posted: December 25 2008 at 20:15
U2 - "Love is Blindness" Love is blindness I don't want to see
Won't you wrap the night
Around me
Oh my heart
Love is blindness
In a parked car
In a crowded street
You see your love
Made complete
Thread is ripping
The knot is slipping
Love is blindness
Love is clockworks
And cold steel
Fingers too numb to feel
Squeeze the handle
Blow out the candle
Love is blindness
Love is blindness
I don't want to see
Won't you wrap the night
Around me
Oh my love
Blindness
A little death
Without mourning
No call
And no warning
Baby...a dangerous idea
That almost makes sense
Love is drowning
In a deep well
All the secrets
And no one to tell
Take the money
Honey
Blindness
Love is blindness
I don't want to see
Won't you wrap the night
Around me
Oh my love
Blindness Achtung Baby is U2's best work and one of the greatest albums ever.
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Posted By: Slartibartfast
Date Posted: December 26 2008 at 00:58
it may not be all you need, but it's good have and to share and of course most of us are here due to a little act of loving
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Posted By: topofsm
Date Posted: December 26 2008 at 01:27
Slartibartfast wrote:
it may not be all you need, but it's good have and to share and of course most of us are here due to a little act of loving
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I don't know. I'm a simple person, and I think all I really need is love to live a happy life.
But I like other things too.
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Posted By: fusionfreak
Date Posted: December 31 2008 at 08:27
I have been alone for 2 years now,it's appalling:loneliness is a poison since I'm sure I'm able to bring something POSITIVE to anybody.
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Posted By: Luke. J
Date Posted: December 31 2008 at 08:52
Love is all you need.
To make it short, love can be everything and has so many faces, totally depends on the position. It can be painful, gappy, sad, true, false, enlightening, pleasant, beautiful, ugly, cruel..
My personal experience are maybe that diverse, too. But as I'm still young, there will be even more to experience.. /delete every cheesy statement in your mind, please..
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Posted By: Jared
Date Posted: December 31 2008 at 09:00
It's been such a very long time, I honestly can't remember....
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Posted By: Jim Garten
Date Posted: December 31 2008 at 09:05
The best thing that ever happened to me
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Posted By: Slartibartfast
Date Posted: December 31 2008 at 12:03
Ricochet wrote:
too many people mistake love for sex...etc.
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I don't know about that, but I do love sex.
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Posted By: ClemofNazareth
Date Posted: December 31 2008 at 12:09
martinprog77 wrote:
Love Is The Answer |
.. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oc1sgCT7X2c - like oxygen ...
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Posted By: Mikerinos
Date Posted: December 31 2008 at 13:27
Love is a lot like Dream Theater, overly complex and a waste of time.
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Posted By: Bj-1
Date Posted: January 01 2009 at 18:27
Love is a fist!
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Posted By: Abstrakt
Date Posted: January 01 2009 at 18:38
One of, if not THE best feeling ever! Could also be crappy, though...
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Posted By: Peter
Date Posted: January 01 2009 at 23:38
Multi-faceted, and often pure and very, very powerful. Consider the love of a parent for a child.
I speak from experience -- that form of love is beautiful, uplifting, immensely moving, life-affirming, etc, etc!
I would lay down my life for one of my children.
Likely the poll targets the love of man & woman, boyfriend & girlfriend, etc, but as I've indicated, love does not need to have a sexual dimension.
Deep friendship can be a manifestation of love too. One can even love one's pet.
"Because love's the final word -- nothing conquers love.
reason has to bow, if love demands it."
I believe we all want love, and we all need it (unless one is psychopathic).
Did you know that scientists have found that the child who is deprived of hugs (as a demonstration of parental love) will be stunted in growth? What does that tell you?
We are social beings, as are our closest animal relatives:
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Posted By: Chris S
Date Posted: January 02 2009 at 02:24
I think...when ' it's good love is great, when ' it's' bad it is bloody awful. But that does not make it less.......
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Posted By: Jim Garten
Date Posted: January 02 2009 at 06:59
Nice post, Peter
Mikerinos wrote:
Love is a lot like Dream Theater, overly complex and a waste of time.
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Don't agree with the sentiment, but bloody funny post, nonetheless
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Posted By: harmonium.ro
Date Posted: January 02 2009 at 07:17
Love is not love which alters when it alteration finds ...
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Posted By: Syzygy
Date Posted: January 02 2009 at 07:31
Love means nothing when you're playing tennis.
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I've got my doubts about how much to contribute
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Posted By: Jim Garten
Date Posted: January 02 2009 at 08:02
Syzygy wrote:
Love means nothing when you're playing tennis. |
Unless that's a reference to the scoring system (no pun intended), I assume that's a direct translation of a line from some obscure Kobaian love song; in which case, I think it lost something in the translation - I believe the true translation states "Love means nothing when your hovercraft is full of eels"
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Posted By: Vompatti
Date Posted: January 02 2009 at 08:42
Love is a cylindrical piano.
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Posted By: Abstrakt
Date Posted: January 02 2009 at 09:51
I think i'm in love right now...
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Posted By: Peter
Date Posted: January 02 2009 at 10:30
Tell you what though: I'd LOVE a cup of coffee right now!
Must go out and buy some cream first -- TTYL!
And don't tell me to put milk in it -- that's just sick!
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Posted By: The T
Date Posted: January 02 2009 at 11:49
Peter wrote:
Multi-faceted, and often pure and very, very powerful. Consider the love of a parent for a child.
I speak from experience -- that form of love is beautiful, uplifting, immensely moving, life-affirming, etc, etc!
I would lay down my life for one of my children.
Likely the poll targets the love of man & woman, boyfriend & girlfriend, etc, but as I've indicated, love does not need to have a sexual dimension.
Deep friendship can be a manifestation of love too. One can even love one's pet.
"Because love's the final word -- nothing conquers love.
reason has to bow, if love demands it."
I believe we all want love, and we all need it (unless one is psychopathic).
Did you know that scientists have found that the child who is deprived of hugs (as a demonstration of parental love) will be stunted in growth? What does that tell you?
We are social beings, as are our closest animal relatives:
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Posted By: Slartibartfast
Date Posted: January 02 2009 at 12:40
Love is CD Baby, CD Baby loves you...
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Posted By: The T
Date Posted: January 02 2009 at 15:31
WinterLight wrote:
By the responses in this thread, one would conclude that love is a cliche. |
Thanks nature for those cliches then... How awful life would be if we would have to rationalize everything...
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Posted By: jammun
Date Posted: January 02 2009 at 20:48
Love Is
the last Eric Burdon and the Animals album, which coincidentally contained a version of "To Love Somebody".
You don't know what it's like,
Baby you don't know what it's like.
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Posted By: Slartibartfast
Date Posted: January 02 2009 at 20:53
Your CDs have been gently taken from our CD Baby shelves with sterilized contamination-free gloves and placed onto a satin pillow.
A team of 50 employees inspected your CDs and polished them to make sure they were in the best possible condition before mailing.
Our packing specialist from Japan lit a candle and a hush fell over the crowd as he put your CDs into the finest gold-lined box that money can buy.
We all had a wonderful celebration afterwards and the whole party marched down the street to the post office where the entire town of Portland waved "Bon Voyage!" to your package, on its way to you, in our private CD Baby jet on this day, Sunday, April 6th.
I hope you had a wonderful time shopping at CD Baby. We sure did. Your picture is on our wall as "Customer of the Year." We're all exhausted but can't wait for you to come back to CDBABY.COM!!
Thank you, thank you, thank you!
Sigh...
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Posted By: zappaholic
Date Posted: January 03 2009 at 02:09
http://www.dieselsweeties.com/archive/1908 - http://www.dieselsweeties.com/archive/1908
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Posted By: Visitor13
Date Posted: January 03 2009 at 11:37
Love is
a cheap substitute for friendship.
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Posted By: Peter
Date Posted: January 03 2009 at 12:49
Visitor13 wrote:
Love is
a cheap substitute for friendship.
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I hardly think the two are mutually exclusive.
I don't know your age, but it's very easy to be cynical about love --and life in general -- when young. (I know, because I wasn't always middle-aged.)
Did/does your mother love you? Was that "cheap?"
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Posted By: Vompatti
Date Posted: January 03 2009 at 13:11
As cheap as http://bukowski.net/poems/oranges.php - three oranges ?
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Posted By: Visitor13
Date Posted: January 03 2009 at 13:14
Peter wrote:
Visitor13 wrote:
Love is
a cheap substitute for friendship.
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"A friendship that can end was never a friendship in the first place" - some catholic saint, can't remember which one now
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Posted By: Peter
Date Posted: January 03 2009 at 13:27
What I mean is, that one can love one's true (same sex) friends, no? Love is not just confined to the realm of sexuality, is it?
Don't mothers (or fathers, one would hope) love their children? Isn't parental/familial love one of the most important forms of love?
I think many here -- yourself included-- are being very "cool" and flippant about the subject. That's fine, but I'm trying to be sincere.
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Posted By: Visitor13
Date Posted: January 03 2009 at 13:34
I don't know if that saint was trying to be "cool" or flippant about the subject.
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Posted By: Slartibartfast
Date Posted: January 03 2009 at 16:07
If you're a Mr. Bungle fan it just might be a fist...
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