Movements of a Relationship
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Topic: Movements of a Relationship
Posted By: Asyte2c00
Subject: Movements of a Relationship
Date Posted: October 10 2006 at 19:44
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I asked this girl to a show last weekendd; she was excited to go, however, she was unable to go becasue her mom told her she had other obligations to fulfill. I told her it was alright and she replied that she would definitely want to hang out sometime. In process of asking her out, I got her phone number, I gave her mine.
Before I would only talk to her at work, however, since I have her phone number I am to arrange and do other things like movies, go out to eat, ect...
Is this the start of sommething special?
Is this the most important step of a burgeoning relationship?
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Posted By: TheProgtologist
Date Posted: October 10 2006 at 21:22
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Without trying to sound too corny the cornerstones of any relationship besides love is trust and respect. -------------  |
Posted By: GoldenSpiral
Date Posted: October 10 2006 at 23:38
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A number is only a small step in a long journey. Along with the Progtologist, trust and respect are huge things. If you talk to her often and have good conversations, chances are she respects you. Trust is really the next important step, but the best way to achieve that is to see this girl in a social setting, i.e. ASK HER ON A DATE. what a pathetic bunch we proggers are...  but seriously... I've been in a relationship for 6 years now (since high school), and it definitely takes more than a phone number to have a relationship. ------------- http://www.myspace.com/altaic" rel="nofollow - http://www.myspace.com/altaic ALTAIC "Oceans Down You'll Lie" coming soon |
Posted By: Sean Trane
Date Posted: October 11 2006 at 04:02
what the progtologist said!  ------------- let's just stay above the moral melee prefer the sink to the gutter keep our sand-castle virtues content to be a doer as well as a thinker, prefer lifting our pen rather than un-sheath our sword |
TheProgtologist wrote:Posted By: toolis
Date Posted: October 11 2006 at 04:21
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^there are many important steps while building a relationship... exchanging phone numbers is good for starters, much like it will be going out or kissing...
later on, if things go well, sex will be very importand and as time goes by, respect and trust.. and if you decide to get married and have children maybe money too... ok, i went too far... my point is, depends on the time and the place of your relationship, so basically, all of the above... ------------- -music is like pornography... sometimes amateurs turn us on, even more... -sometimes you are the pigeon and sometimes you are the statue... |
Posted By: Jared
Date Posted: October 11 2006 at 04:43
it's been so long for me, that I just can't possibly remember that far back...
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Posted By: mystic fred
Date Posted: October 11 2006 at 05:28
the first thing you must do is win over her "mom", otherwise your relationship will be difficult, but not impossible - if you fall out with her family - elope!!
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Posted By: bhikkhu
Date Posted: October 11 2006 at 12:24
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Respect my man. Trust is included with that, because you can't respect someone you don't trust. ------------- a.k.a. H.T. http://riekels.wordpress.com" rel="nofollow - http://riekels.wordpress.com |
Posted By: cuncuna
Date Posted: October 13 2006 at 01:00
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First kiss, according to Mercedes (girlfriend). I kind of agree; certainly, I remember 5 horrible kisses that turned me off very badly. Not many people is aware about corporal language, wich tells as much as spoken one. ------------- ¡Beware of the Bee! |
Posted By: Arsillus
Date Posted: October 13 2006 at 01:20
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Trust. If you don't have that you can't have anything else. |
Posted By: cuncuna
Date Posted: October 13 2006 at 10:52
Food. Feed your lady, otherwise, she'll get mad at you and will complain about everything. True story. Girls need care, love (lots), kisses (lots); but most of all, they need food. Almost always, that food needed is cheesecake.
Here they are (girlfriend on white, friend on pink), looking peaceful and innocent. But when the time comes, they will throw me into the kitchen in the middle of roars and complains that won't stop until a proper meal is offered to them; something like hand made potato noodles with hand made tomato sauce, quiché, orange pancakes, chocolate pancakes, etc. This photograph shows only 2 of them, so be carefull, they come in diferent colours, all beautiful as a thousand rainbows. ------------- ¡Beware of the Bee! |
Posted By: micky
Date Posted: October 13 2006 at 10:56
not corny at all... with trust and respect... you've got nothing.. I can vouch for that personally.. ------------- The Pedro and Micky Experience - When one no longer requires psychotropics to trip |
Posted By: Neil
Date Posted: October 13 2006 at 10:57
I had a friend who did just that. Didn't go down well with his girlfriend when he started going out with her mom instead. ------------- When people get lost in thought it's often because it's unfamiliar territory. |
Posted By: Meddler
Date Posted: October 13 2006 at 11:00
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I'm going to say Trust. Although respect is just as much [maybe] as the former.
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Posted By: Tony R
Date Posted: October 13 2006 at 14:38
yeah.... she offered her honour he honoured her offer and all night long it was honour and offer... Old corny one, I know! 
you gotta read it aloud... |
Posted By: Tony R
Date Posted: October 13 2006 at 14:42
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I preferred Prof Rideout's other "movements" thread...that version of Wipeout was so cool!
Some of the audience seemed to have the urge to run though... 
Sounds like a great hippy band actually: "Prof Rideout's Other Movements" 
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Posted By: Peter
Date Posted: October 13 2006 at 14:49
Not to worry -- more pollish silliness will certainly follow.
(The song can still be found on the "How old were you when" thread.) ------------- "And, has thou slain the Jabberwock? Come to my arms, my beamish boy! O frabjous day! Callooh! Callay!' He chortled in his joy. |
Posted By: Garion81
Date Posted: October 13 2006 at 19:21
Hm ol" Pete hittin' the prune juice again?
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Posted By: Asyte2c00
Date Posted: October 15 2006 at 19:58
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What are a few ways to establish trust?
I agree with you all, this is is a vital part in any sincere relationship.
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