The Most Interesting Thing About Your Life
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Topic: The Most Interesting Thing About Your Life
Posted By: Shadowyzard
Subject: The Most Interesting Thing About Your Life
Date Posted: June 26 2021 at 06:18
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I've had a quite interesting life, actually. Even my name was coincidentally given. Anyway, I'll only mention one interesting thing about my life. My dad was born in 1954 or so (not certain). And his exact date of birth is even less certain. As in rural places of Turkey then, sometimes the official stuff were being neglected. So, they (dunno who) made a wild guess after many years and decided to write 7th March 1954 (not sure about the year, have to ask) for his birthday. And guess what happened. I was born on 7th March 1981. Pure coincidence. (Though coincidence is a complex issue for me.) Also our surname was ment to be Durakoğlu, but mistakenly written as Durakoğulları. Oğul (oğlu) means "son" in Turkish, oğullar (oğulları) is its plural. So, Iron Maiden's "7th Son of the 7th Son" tells my story!  Anyone cares to tell some interesting things about his/her life? |
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Posted By: Lewian
Date Posted: June 26 2021 at 14:02
| The first girl I kissed in my life later became my sister. |
Posted By: Psychedelic Paul
Date Posted: June 26 2021 at 14:40
I once drove the equivalent of more than 22 times around the Earth (550,000 miles) in the space of 11 years, which didn't leave me much time for listening to prog. 
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Posted By: ExittheLemming
Date Posted: June 26 2021 at 17:00
The first girl I ever kissed is probably still in therapy ------------- 
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Lewian wrote:Posted By: Grumpyprogfan
Date Posted: June 26 2021 at 17:44
| Sixty-one years on Earth and not going bald. |
Posted By: Shadowyzard
Date Posted: June 27 2021 at 00:11
My hair couldn't endure after my 20s. It is actually "interesting" as I'm the only "bald" person among the people that I have a blood-relationship with. I'm also about 1.83 m tall, and one of the tallest people among my relatives. (We are quite crowded, BTW.) We are generally short. Only a cousin of mine is 1.89, and that is because her mother's blood-related relatives are giants. |
Posted By: DamoXt7942
Date Posted: June 27 2021 at 00:23
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Talking and discussing with you all in PA. No opportunity to do so if I don't join here. How amazing. ------------- http://www.facebook.com/damoxt7942" rel="nofollow"> 
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Posted By: someone_else
Date Posted: June 27 2021 at 01:57
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My daughter's date of birth and mine are made up by the same digits. ------------- 
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Posted By: BaldFriede
Date Posted: June 27 2021 at 04:09
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Jean and I are High Priestesses of Gaia, the ancient Greek Goddess of the Earth, and were pregnant at the same time due to artificial insemination. We even gave birth at the same time and held hands during this. -------------  BaldJean and I; I am the one in blue. |
Posted By: JD
Date Posted: June 27 2021 at 10:16
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Well, there is this...  And, back in Apr. 2002 I chased down and caught a guy half my age and much bigger than me after he committed armed robbery (knife) with a disguise (balaclava) at a local variety store here in town. I, along with two other neighbours, received awards from the OPP (Ontario Provincial police) for our efforts.
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Posted By: Shadowyzard
Date Posted: June 27 2021 at 11:16
^ JD, Skulls and bones were my "toys" in my childhood, till the end of my adolescence. My necromancy goes back to ancient times.  Here's some stuff that I've taken from my Facebook.  Here is the exterior of St. Nikolaos Church in my hometown. It is just near my grandparents' house in Gullubahce/Aydın/Turkey. Lots of childhood memories there. The municipality authority gave permission to my grandfather to use the area for feeding his goats, and also to grow and pick the fruits of the fragrant and delicious citrus trees. We lost my grandparents, yet the remembrances are still alive. Below is the "osteafilak" where many Greeks were buried (or thrown into). Extremely deep. The image cannot show it. Lots of metres deep. Perhaps 10s of metres, at least 10 metres as I can guess. To measure that, one has to see the structure from the opposite side. And literally filled with corpses and some of their belongings. No skull and bone photos that I've kept, I guess. R.I.P. people, sorry for having fun with your skeletons. We were young and naive...   And here is the church itself:  Lastly congrats for your bravery, dude! |
Posted By: Shadowyzard
Date Posted: June 27 2021 at 11:30
Ah, Google has a better image than mine of the "osteofilak".
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Posted By: Shadowyzard
Date Posted: June 27 2021 at 11:36
And finally... Here's me inside the church.
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Posted By: SteveG
Date Posted: June 27 2021 at 13:34
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The most interesting thing about my life is that I never wanted it to be exciting or interesting. But it was, anyway. ------------- This message was brought to you by a proud supporter of the Deep State. |
Posted By: Shadowyzard
Date Posted: June 27 2021 at 13:50
| ^ I never wanted to be rich and famous... And, luckily; I'm not. |
Posted By: Grumpyprogfan
Date Posted: June 27 2021 at 17:10
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This song was on the Dr. Demento show in the 80's. I'm on keyboard. The cool thing about this is... Dr. Demento sent us, through mail, his entire show that evening on 4 LP's. Weird Al had the most requested song of the evening. "Christmas at Ground Zero". Otherwise, happy with family and routine. Uninteresting but content. |
Posted By: AFlowerKingCrimson
Date Posted: June 30 2021 at 07:59
I started to go bald at the age of 21 or so. Unlike 99.9 percent of the population I refuse to view it as some kind of shortcoming or deficit though. It's just genetics and something I have little to no control over so why think of it as some kind of bad thing. Society seems to want everyone to be perfect just so they can profit off of their insecurities(ie hairclub for men). Anyway, my brother has a full head of hair and so does my dad. Baldness is carried over from your mother's side though which makes sense since her brothers and father were all bald or balding. My mother doesn't even have one grey hair(ok maybe one)and she's well into her seventies.
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Posted By: ExittheLemming
Date Posted: June 30 2021 at 08:31
An empty barn needs no thatch  -------------
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Posted By: Grumpyprogfan
Date Posted: June 30 2021 at 08:32
^My post was a lighthearted quip. Not to be taken seriously. 
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Posted By: Psychedelic Paul
Date Posted: June 30 2021 at 09:00
Then again, if you're 61 years old and baldly going where many men have gone before, you can always wear a hat.  |
Posted By: BrufordFreak
Date Posted: June 30 2021 at 16:16
Now, those facts are AMAZING! How did you do that? Did you know each other? Were they C-sections? I am truly amazed! ------------- Drew Fisher https://progisaliveandwell.blogspot.com/ |
Posted By: BaldJean
Date Posted: June 30 2021 at 19:05
we were pregnant via artificial insemination. we had actually only wanted one kid, but the method we chose (intrauterine insemination) only has a 10-15% chance to work, so we both went for it. the first attempt was a failure, the second attempt worked for both. they were not C-sections. Friede went into labor first, I followed shortly afterwards. Dorothy (the girl I was pregnant with) was born first, but Alice followed shortly afterwards. but both are OUR daughters, and we exchanged them between the two of us all the time because we wanted them to have a close relationship to both their mothers -------------  A shot of me as High Priestess of Gaia during our fall festival. Ceterum censeo principiis obsta |
Posted By: Grumpyprogfan
Date Posted: June 30 2021 at 19:46
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Posted By: Nogbad_The_Bad
Date Posted: June 30 2021 at 20:03
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Apparently I have 2 well balanced intelligent grown up daughters. No idea how that happened, it's probably down to their mother. ------------- Ian Host of the Post-Avant Jazzcore Happy Hour on Progrock.com https://podcasts.progrock.com/post-avant-jazzcore-happy-hour/ |
Posted By: BaldJean
Date Posted: July 01 2021 at 04:16
you are lucky it happens to you at this age. we were both 24 (the age difference between us is 53 days only) when our hair started falling out, even the eyelashes and nostril hairs. we met at a meeting of a self-help group. actually we had two first meetings because at these group meetings it did not make "click". but when we met on business (for which we wore wigs and false eyebrows and eyelashes) it did make "click". we actually sat together and wrote down the story of our second first meeting once and posted it here. the story is funny and slightly erotic too. for those who are curious here it is: The story of our second first meeting is funny and worth telling. Jean worked for an international US-based travel agency. They wanted to open a branch in Cologne, and Jean was chosen to organize it because she had taken German in High School. After she had organized the basics (finding a space to rent and employees) she needed some brochures translated. Friede worked as a free-lance translator back then, and Jean chose her from an ad in the local paper (this was 1993; ads were still being placed in newspapers back then). We talked with each other on phone, and it was decided that we meet at a restaurant to discuss the details. We had immediately liked each others voices on the phone and had the vague feeling we had heard them before (which of course we had at these meetings) but couldn't place them. So we decided to dress up for each other, and we each chose very daring dresses. The meeting took place on Jun 14th 1993, which was the 24th birthday of Steffi Graf (who we were and still are great fans of). We were both 24 too. Friede chose a blood red dress with LOTS of cleavage back and front. The cleavage in front went all the way down to the crotch in a V. In the back it ran all the way down to the crack of ass. She didn't wear any underwear. Since the dress was rather loose around the top occasionally her pussy, a nipple or her ass flashed. She also wore 8 inch high heels in the same color as the dress. She wore a black wig which reached halfway down her back and also false eyebrows and eyelashes. She had also put on a lot of bright red lipstick. Jean wore a skintight semi-transparent poison green dress that had a metallic sheen and also no underwear. The dress looked as if it was painted on; everything contoured beneath - her breasts, nipples. navel and ass, and she had a pronounced camel toe. She wore 8 inch heels in the color of her dress too which made her a giantess because she is 6'0'' without heels already. She had put on a strawberry blonde wig of the same length as Friede's and also false eyebrows and eyelashes. She had put on a lot of bright red lipstick too. And now we come to the special feature
of the dresses: Both were extremely narrow around the legs and
ankles; we could only take 6 inch steps in them. Both dresses were incredibly hot. No, hot is not enough; they were sizzling. We both arrived by taxi. Jean was the first to arrive and hobbled towards the entrance. She was still a few feet away when Friede arrived. She saw a hot woman in green hobbling towards the entrance and hopefully called out: “Excuse me, are you Miss Tolleson”? Jean stopped, turned around and replied “Yes. You must be Miss Greifswald then”. “Yes”. Friede hobbled over to her, and we both looked at each other for a long time. And we both thought: “Wow, this is an incredibly hot woman”! And we both developed embarrassing wet spots on our dresses. Jean finally said: “Let's get in”! We both hobbled in and set down at our table (Jean had booked one for us). A lot of eyes in the restaurant were on us, especially male ones. We will spare you the details of what we ate though we both remember very well; this day was burned into our brains as if with a branding iron. We will just tell you that we stared at each other all the time. We discussed business before and between courses. And all the time we had the feeling that we had heard the other's voice before but just could not place it. Jean finally called for the waiter and asked for the check. Friede offered to pay her share but Jean said she could put it on expenses. While Jean scrambled for her purse in her handbag Friede said in German: “I noticed you ate me with your eyes all the time. Are you by any chance a lesbian”? Jean blushed for a moment but said “ja”. Friede continued: “Well, I am too, and we could make out tonight. But first you should know something about me”. With that she removed her wig and her false eyebrows and eyelashes. Jean stared at her for a moment. Then she started to laugh and removed her wig and false eyebrows and eyelashes as well, and then we both laughed. Of course we now realized where we had heard the other's voice before. The whole restaurant stared in disbelief at these two hot women who suddenly had turned bald, and the waiter's jaw dropped open. Jean paid, and we left the restaurant arm in arm as fast as we could in our dresses. Our breasts and asses must have wobbled a lot because of the many quick little steps; we must have been quite a sight to behold. The rest is history; we have been a
couple ever since. ------------- A shot of me as High Priestess of Gaia during our fall festival. Ceterum censeo principiis obsta |
Posted By: moshkito
Date Posted: July 01 2021 at 06:12
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Hi, One moment that had more of an influence on my artistry and ability to write and then direct on the stage, and film. In a film class I made a small film that was not a living room piece or anything. It was a conceptual piece, however, I could easily tell you that it was simply, my putting visuals on some music, a couple of pieces of which I happened to put together and created a collage of sorts, that for some reason, and a few visuals that I put on them, made sense and created a "story", that in the end, was not clear if it was a dream or not. It had a piece of music from an album from Italy (Ultima Spiaggia) and then it wormed its way into Kevin Ayers' Once I Awakened, and then closed it with the continuation of that piece and Mike Oldfield leading the rip! The ending of it (during some credits) were from "American Prayer" with Jim's bit about the dream being over. I got an A for the whole thing, and the professor even stated in front of the class, what a magnificent conceptual piece it was, and brilliantly filmed. I got seriously sick during finals but was able to bring what I had to the end party, and I showed it with the music on a cassette, which made the timing not perfect, but the visuals helped relate to the music. Everyone else had done their living room this and that and small time nothing to show for their work. No one else even used "music" as the main part of it all ... one guy did have some incidental music that I did not think matched or fit. more like a favorite is my guess. Believe it or not, I had no idea what I wanted until I happened to hear the Kevin Ayers' album Dr. Dream, which gave me the main "story" board for the little film, and then the opening was accentuated with the visuals I created to illustrate the Ultima Spiaggia piece. Kevin was gracious enough to allow me to use the music. Ultima Spiaggia at the time, seems to have been a non-existent persona and never replied, and the ending piece was declined by Ray Manzarek. I shelved the project and never looked back, and to this day, I have its greatest moment in my heart ... it was while cutting it and trying to mix/match the film to the music and I found the spot for the music start and when the visual matched the music I was high for 3 days. It was far out, and I knew that the illustration of the music was right, and the use of the music was even better, specially Kevin's which made possible the "concept" and visual nature of the film. I have never tried to renew/redo the whole thing. Film, like writing, and any art, is not about the past, and while I might someday use Kevin's piece again, I doubt that it will come off perfect ... on the day I filmed that it was slightly windy, and the trees moved, and I brought the girl out of those tree shadows and it created a Victorian, if not Gothic momentary feeling which had not been intended but the lyric in the song says something about the wind, which automatically matched the visuals and made it seem like a dream that was or wasn't. Today, I'm not sure I would shoot the same way or the same thing, and that another actress would stand out as beautifully as Joy H. on that day did. I miss filming, and my greatest sadness is that I was so much in debt for school and was already working 40 hours weekly to pay for it, and it took me 20 years to pay for it all with no help anywhere. I write a lot about film and theater (could not do film that early -- not enough English!), and it is all the foundation of my "visualization" and "visuals" that come from dreams and all the arts for me. That, is the only secret I have. All else is not important!
------------- Music is not just for listening ... it is for LIVING ... you got to feel it to know what's it about! Not being told! www.pedrosena.com |
Posted By: Grumpyprogfan
Date Posted: July 01 2021 at 06:47
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Posted By: Shadowyzard
Date Posted: July 01 2021 at 09:28
Indeed. My HD's (one of them external) don't include such photos. There can be some, in one of my external hard drives that I left in Ankara though. Yet here are some interesting images from my external disk. Two of them are: a skull and a bone! Here's the skull. It was shared by a friend of mine: the singer of the awesome prog metal band Dissona. The Butterfl-eye!  Here's the bone: My brother found it from the bottom of the sea. I love it! (The photo was taken by me.)  And here are some stuff for satisfying me ego: Me with long hair. Gotta be 2006 or something.  And here's me, without long hair, whilst when I still had hair! Gotta be 2007 or something. I'm preparing a spell too! To make my hair vanished!  |