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Gerinski
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Topic: Your music collection when you will die Posted: November 29 2011 at 15:41 |
Sorry to bring up this rather grim subject but I wonder if anybody has also had thoughts about this. I’m 45, not yet old but coming into that age when more and more you start to see people of your age dying prematurely, falling victims of cancer etc. I don't lead a very healthy life either. Even if I will hopefully still live long, suddenly death does not seem so remotely far away as it used to.
During many years I have built up a decent collection of close to 700 albums and I hope that by the time I will die it will have grown up significantly bigger. Quite a lot of time, effort and money will have been spent on this hobby of prog.
On the other hand I have no children and no plans to have any, my girlfriend does not like prog and the few friends I have who like prog live in my native Spain 1200 kms from where I live now, and in any case they have already music collections not much different from mine. No one from my family is a progger either.
If I die suddenly tomorrow I can only guess what my girlfriend would do with my music collection and all my other stuff. I guess she would ask my family and a few of my friends in Spain if they were interested in keeping something but given the distance I guess they might probably say ‘no thanks, do whatever you want with it all’.
The idea that my music collection might end up being sold for peanuts to some flea-market trader, or even worse, thrown away in a waste container makes me feel uncomfortable. So much passion and money wasted.
Have you had similar thoughts? What could be a good legacy so that our hard-earned music collection will be preserved and enjoyed by someone who can truly appreciate it?
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The Doctor
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Posted: November 29 2011 at 15:45 |
I wonder if we could will our collections to PA to distribute to needy prog fans around the world. No seriously. I'm sure my gf would take a few of my CDs, but not that many of the 1500 or so that I have. Think a PA giveaway would be an awesome way to distribute my music collection after I'm dead.
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Triceratopsoil
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Posted: November 29 2011 at 15:54 |
I'm going to tell them to make a fort and put my body inside.
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Posted: November 29 2011 at 15:57 |
I don't have a proper music collection, so no loss.
But I guess I will (eventually) have to figure out something with my dad's cassettes and vinyls.
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rushfan4
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Posted: November 29 2011 at 16:02 |
If you don't have any friends or family that are interested in it I am sure that music schools or libraries would probably be happy to take them.
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Nogbad_The_Bad
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Posted: November 29 2011 at 16:05 |
rushfan4 wrote:
If you don't have any friends or family that are interested in it I am sure that music schools or libraries would probably be happy to take them. |
That's pretty much what I would do. Once my kids and friends had had their pick donate the rest to public libraries.
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The T
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Posted: November 29 2011 at 16:07 |
My 1500 cds of classical music and my almost 1000 of rock music (mostly prog) will aucfer a sad fate I guess. But I intend to live as long as possible, so they may be obsolete when I pass away. But if death suddenly strikes, I hope the rock part is sent to a friend of mine and the classical to...
Have you ever thought that if one of us in PA dies suddenly, most probably other PA members will never find out? Such is the nature of virtual communities. Cherish your real life communities.
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The Doctor
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Posted: November 29 2011 at 16:10 |
The T wrote:
My 1500 cds of classical music and my almost 1000 of rock music (mostly prog) will aucfer a sad fate I guess. But I intend to live as long as possible, so they may be obsolete when I pass away. But if death suddenly strikes, I hope the rock part is sent to a friend of mine and the classical to...
Have you ever thought that if one of us in PA dies suddenly, most probably other PA members will never find out? Such is the nature of virtual communities. Cherish your real life communities. |
My computer is set up so that if I don't log on to it for a period of seven days (which would require my death), it will spam the hell out of all the libertarian threads.
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chefrobb
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Posted: November 29 2011 at 16:13 |
I'm takin' everything with me......
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akamaisondufromage
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Posted: November 29 2011 at 16:18 |
All going on the viking burial ship.
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The T
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Posted: November 29 2011 at 16:20 |
The Doctor wrote:
The T wrote:
My 1500 cds of classical music and my almost 1000 of rock music (mostly prog) will aucfer a sad fate I guess. But I intend to live as long as possible, so they may be obsolete when I pass away. But if death suddenly strikes, I hope the rock part is sent to a friend of mine and the classical to...
Have you ever thought that if one of us in PA dies suddenly, most probably other PA members will never find out? Such is the nature of virtual communities. Cherish your real life communities. |
My computer is set up so that if I don't log on to it for a period of seven days (which would require my death), it will spam the hell out of all the libertarian threads. |
So basically you are already dead...
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Gerinski
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Posted: November 29 2011 at 16:24 |
chefrobb wrote:
I'm takin' everything with me......
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Well for sure an option is to take the egyptian way and ask that your personal belongings (= prog collection) be buried with you, but that would still make me sad as a waste, I don't believe I need my CDs to enjoy prog in my afterlife (even if I believed in it). If heaven exists, it is full of prog anyway!
And if I go to hell, I guess I'm damned to listen to Justin Beaver for the rest of eternity
Edited by Gerinski - November 29 2011 at 16:28
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Hercules
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Posted: November 29 2011 at 16:25 |
I'm one of the elder statesmen on here, I guess; I'm 61 in Jan.
I have no children, so I do have to decide what to do with a colossal collection of rare prog if I shuffle off this mortal coil.
But I ain't planning to go JUST yet so I guess I should have a bit of time to think about it.
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Posted: November 29 2011 at 16:32 |
Gerinski wrote:
And if I go to hell, I guess I'm damned to listen to Justin Beaver for the rest of eternity |
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Alberto Muñoz
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Posted: November 29 2011 at 16:36 |
if my daughter don't want my coolection i will send to my university's discotheque.
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Posted: November 29 2011 at 16:36 |
I hope that my daughter (now 16) will have developed a good musical taste when I pass away, so I guess I'll have to stay quite a while if I want to see this wish come true. But even if not, I have enjoyed my records, so they have served their purpose well.
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Progosopher
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Posted: November 29 2011 at 16:48 |
To be quite frank, I have not thought about it much. I would prefer my collection to go to someone, singular or plural, who would appreciate it. Since it is vast, near 4,000 titles, and in multiple forms (CD, downloads, cassettes, lps [fortunately no more 8-tracks]), and diverse (Various genres of rock including prog, blues, classical, International, jazz) this may be a difficult undertaking. I only have a couple of friends who are into Prog specifically, so I would want that part to go to them. I am 51 with no kids. I have, however, nine nieces and nephews, but none of them are interested in Prog. They are so normal they would probably see it all as that weird music their weird uncle listens to and not take it seriously in any way.
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The world of sound is certainly capable of infinite variety and, were our sense developed, of infinite extensions. -- George Santayana, "The Sense of Beauty"
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zappaholic
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Posted: November 29 2011 at 17:06 |
Haven't thought about it either. Since I am Forever Alone, I'll probably die in my apartment and it'll be at least a week before anyone discovers my corpse. The collection and all my other stuff - hmm, probably oughta look into drawing up a will.
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Slartibartfast
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Posted: November 29 2011 at 17:12 |
I actually have thought about it. Yeah, no kids, so either my wife can sell them if she lives longer or donate them to a library, school or public. I think it's actually rather valuable, so if I were to die today aaaaaarrrrrrrrrggggggg
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colorofmoney91
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Posted: November 29 2011 at 17:57 |
I don't really care what happens to anything after I die; I'll be too dead.
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