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Direct Link To This Post Posted: March 30 2013 at 08:27
Originally posted by Slartibartfast Slartibartfast wrote:

Originally posted by Ambient Hurricanes Ambient Hurricanes wrote:

^Everyone else who has come here has respectfully stated their opinion.  You're the first to try and demonize your opponents.  Please do not continue to do so.

By the way, people have been using the language of war as a metaphor for serious non-violent conflict for hundreds of years. 

I find it a little amusing that calling people out who demonize their opponents constitutes demonizing one's opponents.  If you make a really good argument against someone's silly stated position, that constitutes demonizing, bqhatevwr.

BTW, I don't  consider you people more than misguided, I hope you people mean well.




That's not what you did, though.  You made an accusation of militarism based upon one statement by a particular talk show host who wasn't advocating the idea of militarism at all, just using the language of war as a metaphor.  That's not a serious argument; it's simply twisting someone's words to make them (and the rest of the people who agree with them) look bad.

For the record, I (as I've already posted in the thread) am not in favor of banning gay marriage; I just want government out of marriage, period.  I believe that gay marriage is sinful but that it's none of my or the government's business telling people who they can marry.  So I'm not just an angry social conservative offended by your characterization of me.  I think its unfair to falsely accuse people on either side of the debate and will point it out when it happens.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: March 30 2013 at 08:37
Originally posted by Dean Dean wrote:

Originally posted by Ambient Hurricanes Ambient Hurricanes wrote:


By the way, people have been using the language of war as a metaphor for serious non-violent conflict for hundreds of years. 
Is now a good time to start using the language of peace instead? I stuggle to see how war can ever be a valid metaphor for non-violent conflict - the language of war is the language of incitement and of rabble-rousing, it is the language of the mob and mob-rule and of vigilanties and lynchings.


It's not, though.  Obviously, those who actually want to do violence to others use the language of war in it's literal sense, but people have been using it as a metaphor almost as long as literature has been around.  Examples: "Onward, Christian Soldiers," "The War on Poverty," "We've won the battle, but lost the war" and on ad infinitum.  It's a common figure of speech and it's usually pretty easy to tell when it's being used literally and when metaphorically (obviously, there are exceptions to that).  In the statement that Brian quoted, the radio host was using military terminology but didn't even mention any kind of offensive conflict; the metaphor may have been a bit stretched but the point was easy to determine.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: March 30 2013 at 09:02
Originally posted by Ambient Hurricanes Ambient Hurricanes wrote:

Originally posted by Dean Dean wrote:

Originally posted by Ambient Hurricanes Ambient Hurricanes wrote:


By the way, people have been using the language of war as a metaphor for serious non-violent conflict for hundreds of years. 
Is now a good time to start using the language of peace instead? I stuggle to see how war can ever be a valid metaphor for non-violent conflict - the language of war is the language of incitement and of rabble-rousing, it is the language of the mob and mob-rule and of vigilanties and lynchings.


It's not, though.  Obviously, those who actually want to do violence to others use the language of war in it's literal sense, but people have been using it as a metaphor almost as long as literature has been around.  Examples: "Onward, Christian Soldiers," "The War on Poverty," "We've won the battle, but lost the war" and on ad infinitum.  It's a common figure of speech and it's usually pretty easy to tell when it's being used literally and when metaphorically (obviously, there are exceptions to that).  In the statement that Brian quoted, the radio host was using military terminology but didn't even mention any kind of offensive conflict; the metaphor may have been a bit stretched but the point was easy to determine.


It is though, obviously. Use of a metaphor as a figure of speech is a direct association, unlike a simile, allegory or parable.
 
In the context of Brian's quote the radio host used not one but two pieces of military terminology in the same sentence, any interpretation that his intention was to incite offensive conflict would not be be stretching either metaphor.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: March 30 2013 at 09:36
For me, marriage will always be between a man and a woman, a husband and a wife. I'm not tok sure what to call a couple of wifes or a couple of husbands but my way of thinking makes marriage a man-woman thing.

However, I don't see how gay marriage existing affects me or my family. I don't even see how it somehow devalues marriage or anything like that. I don't see how the state recognizing that two persons of the same sex are married affects anybody but that couple; therefore, I have no real problem if gay marriage is allowed. I, personally, don't consider it a proper marriage, but I'm sure there will be plenty of gay marriages that will make better use of the institution than some heterosexual ones that seem to have turned it into a lamentable sport (celebrities and idiots of the sort).
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: March 30 2013 at 13:08
Of course it should be allowed. The thought of wanting it disallowed appalls me.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: March 30 2013 at 13:11
Originally posted by Triceratopsoil Triceratopsoil wrote:


ban marriage

Another good solution. Wink
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: March 30 2013 at 13:27
if two people want to get married.....gay or straight.....then its up to them.....not a bunch of people who read this book which is thousands of years old and rubbish anyways have the right to decide.....then again i dont believe in god so as a result i guess i don't believe in marriage..... 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: March 30 2013 at 14:18
^ Oh gosh, where mankind goes!
You can't smoke in restaraunts and, like the last idiot, have to drink coffee without cigarettes, but if you'd like to marry a person of the same sex, you're welcome.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: March 30 2013 at 16:24
Originally posted by Dean Dean wrote:

Originally posted by Ambient Hurricanes Ambient Hurricanes wrote:

Originally posted by Dean Dean wrote:

Originally posted by Ambient Hurricanes Ambient Hurricanes wrote:


By the way, people have been using the language of war as a metaphor for serious non-violent conflict for hundreds of years. 
Is now a good time to start using the language of peace instead? I stuggle to see how war can ever be a valid metaphor for non-violent conflict - the language of war is the language of incitement and of rabble-rousing, it is the language of the mob and mob-rule and of vigilanties and lynchings.


It's not, though.  Obviously, those who actually want to do violence to others use the language of war in it's literal sense, but people have been using it as a metaphor almost as long as literature has been around.  Examples: "Onward, Christian Soldiers," "The War on Poverty," "We've won the battle, but lost the war" and on ad infinitum.  It's a common figure of speech and it's usually pretty easy to tell when it's being used literally and when metaphorically (obviously, there are exceptions to that).  In the statement that Brian quoted, the radio host was using military terminology but didn't even mention any kind of offensive conflict; the metaphor may have been a bit stretched but the point was easy to determine.


It is though, obviously. Use of a metaphor as a figure of speech is a direct association, unlike a simile, allegory or parable.
 
In the context of Brian's quote the radio host used not one but two pieces of military terminology in the same sentence, any interpretation that his intention was to incite offensive conflict would not be be stretching either metaphor.


The fact that a metaphor is a direct association does not change the fact that it is a metaphor; the person using it does not mean it literally.  It is a big stretch of any metaphor to say that it literally means what it says.  Then it wouldn't be a metaphor any more, which this statement obviously was.  Here it is in context:

Originally posted by Steve Deace Steve Deace wrote:



If you're running for president in 2016 and you don't want to have to talk about these issues, you're certainly going to hope that the Supreme Court doesn't overextend its jurisdiction.  Because if it does, you're going to see an entire presidential primary defined by this issue.

This idea that some people have that the court is going to settle the issue in the Republican Party — it's going to do the exact opposite.  It's going to raise the issue to Orange Threat Level, it'll be DEFCON 6…It will become the defining litmus test.

All these pro-family groups, all of these people have invested decades in this fight, they've invested lots of human resources and human capital, they are not all going to throw up their hands.  They're going to double down, it's going to be even nastier, it will be an even more defined issue.

Firstly, he's not even advocating or threatening a conflict, he's predicting one.  Secondly, the context of his statement quite clearly shows that he is predicting a purely political conflict, not a physical one.  And yet liberal news outlets are portraying this as some kind of threat. 

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 01 2013 at 21:10
Two consenting adults who are in love and want to get married have no bearing on my life whatsoever. Some states still have old sodomy laws on the books that, if they were enforced, would cause the incarceration of half the population - many of them Republicans.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 02 2013 at 14:31
If all states pass gay marriage which will happen, then polygamy, bestiality, and everything else is for grabs. That debate will come in too, I wonder what popular opinion will say to that...

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 02 2013 at 14:37
Originally posted by AlexDOM AlexDOM wrote:

If all states pass gay marriage which will happen, then polygamy, bestiality, and everything else is for grabs. That debate will come in too, I wonder what popular opinion will say to that...
 
Yes and then Trolliality or whatever anal sex with trolls is called will be being debated. 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 02 2013 at 14:50
As far as I am concerned, Polygamy is fine if they are all consenting adults...not so much if they are 14 year-old girls who have no choice in the matter, which unfortunately seems to be the case in societies that practice it.
 
Bestiality...not sure how a beast actually consents to this other than by not biting off the offending humans sex organs.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 02 2013 at 14:51
At the core of a marriage/civil union is the assumption that it is an agreement between two individuals.  Issues of inheritance, child custody, beneficiary status, visitation, etc. all have this assumption implicit.  The permission of same-sex marriage is to apply all the benefits of marriage as it stands equally to same-sex couples and hetero couples.  To allow polygamy would require significant changes to current law.

For the moment putting down social science theories that argue against polygamy for a host of reasons, overall it's such a rare situation that it would be better handled through a formal contract among the set of adults.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 02 2013 at 14:53
Originally posted by AlexDOM AlexDOM wrote:

If all states pass gay marriage which will happen, then polygamy, bestiality, and everything else is for grabs. That debate will come in too, I wonder what popular opinion will say to that...


"Human sacrifice! Dogs and cats living together - mass hysteria!"

Many states banned interracial marriages for years, and not just in the South (California did away with their law in 1948). It wasn't until 1967 that the U.S. Supreme Court overturned state bans on interracial marriage as a  violation of the 14th Amendment.

Surprisingly, the earth did not stop rotating on its axis, nor did the sun sink from the heavens.

What Chief Justice Earl Warren said about racial discrimination in marriage could just as easily be paraphrased about homosexual marriage:

 "There is patently no legitimate overriding purpose independent of invidious racial discrimination which justifies this classification. The fact that Virginia prohibits only interracial marriages involving white persons demonstrates that the racial classifications must stand on their own justification, as measures designed to maintain White Supremacy...

"The freedom to marry has long been recognized as one of the vital personal rights essential to the orderly pursuit of happiness by free men ... To deny this fundamental freedom on so unsupportable a basis as the racial classifications embodied in these statutes, classifications so directly subversive of the principle of equality at the heart of the Fourteenth Amendment, is surely to deprive all the State's citizens of liberty without due process of law. The Fourteenth Amendment requires that the freedom of choice to marry not be restricted by invidious racial discriminations. Under our Constitution, the freedom to marry, or not marry, a person of another race resides with the individual and cannot be infringed by the State."
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 02 2013 at 14:53
I see nothing wrong with polygamy, as long as everyone involved is okay with it
I don't think Bestiality should be allowed unless the animal in question can talk in a human language and say that they want it
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 02 2013 at 14:56
What if a human (let's call him Mr. Blackie Lawless) fugs like an animal? Is it bestiality?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 02 2013 at 15:05
Okay, well I meant having sexual relations with an animal
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 02 2013 at 15:11

I am pretty certain that Vompatti is quite approving of Bestiality.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 03 2013 at 14:39
Originally posted by AlexDOM AlexDOM wrote:

If all states pass gay marriage which will happen, then polygamy, bestiality, and everything else is for grabs.

Not really. It is striking that homosexual relationships are so easily equated with bestiality.
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