Relationships anyone?

Some woman will flip out and proceed in comparing you with other men. Then when it's all over, she says that she loves you. She treats you badly but expects in return total devotion as a husband. Then she puts you on the spot in front of other guys. If you take it too seriously, you will hate the world. If your wife points out a fault of yours during her lady's time and at a social gathering, ....and some outspoken wise guy passes judgement on you it can turn into a fight and all directly to do with the lady's time. I wanted to be a monk long ago but, I have children now and great responsibility. I have been married 4 times and tried to keep my cool and remain honest. Every woman has their own way of dealing with grief. Even worse is when a woman will clam up for 3 days and not bother to explain what's on her mind, leaving you in the dark wondering what the problem is? I've watched my wife give birth 3 times and I find that men don't understand what it feels like to have a sledgehammer pounding into you. But, if you are very sensitive, you have a nightmare to experience until the lady's time is over. Your kids might ask you on the way to school, "Daddy, why was Mommy yelling at you this morning?" It's suppose to be normal life according to the Rosanne T.V. shows from the past but, when you are in the thicket of it all, I'm sorry but, your mind can be at stake.

 

But well, I don't dispair, I mean, right now there's a girl that I like and it's getting very tough to get around her. She is kind of closed about her feelings so is difficult to get around and know what she feels and everything, but I guess there's no more choice than been honest and talk to her about my interest in her and hear what she thinks and feels about it...

 

I'm no expert on relationships... I just know that I don't want my own safety, I want to share time, share love, like a 50-50... Both have to be interested... if not, someone will be hurt... my two cents.

It's insulting and abusive to a woman because for example:...let's say it's over 100 degrees with a dense heatwave, and the woman who just happens to have a beautiful body , REALLY ONLY wants to wear shorts and blouse to avoid massive sweating but she is now suddenly put on display and stared at by men and confronted with some type of psychological put on game by a male. That's when her value of the male gender may become questionable. Guys gey intoxicated and laugh over the issue of how a woman can have the freedom to flaunt their body through a sexy outfit but, yet they themselves would get arrested if they walked about in their underwear. They think it's real stylish to make sarcastic remarks about it but hey! their gender gave women this image and many women who are branded as lost souls in this world find the entire reality insulting to their life. Many women feel as if they have been branded. I pray that women will someday see an end to all of this.
I think it is sad, all the women I have toured with who were outstanding musicians and eventually broke down in the many dressing rooms because a promoter was forcing them to dress sexy. Women would often express they felt rejection from getting the definition of a human being. Instead, they were being used in a business prop by male promoters as if that decision had been written in stone during the course of history.