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Direct Link To This Post Posted: February 17 2009 at 23:41
I'm very very sorry to hear this Brian. I hope everything works out for you, your family, and Amber. I will keep you in my thoughts as well. 


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: February 18 2009 at 13:04
Hi all just a quick report. I was down at her parents house yesterday and really have nothing new to report. There was a student at the middle school who said she saw Amber walking on the grounds of the middle school on Sunday and police searched the neighborhoods surrounding it but nothing turned up. The problem with the holiday weekend meant these leads were all two days old when they were reported. The student didn't know Amber had been reported missing and only heard about it yesterday. Using dogs and such was wiped out due the 2 inches of rain the area received over Monday and Tuesday. You can find links now to the news updates on her website here (they are at the bottom) They have as much info as the family does and they post it fairly quickly.:

www.amberleeannedubois.com

Thanks for your continued support.  It is very much appreciated.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: February 18 2009 at 13:12
I'm sorry to hear this.  I'm praying for her safe return as well.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: February 19 2009 at 15:47
Any word today on this? I am still hoping that she just took off with a friend for Mexico and can't get back or call.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: February 19 2009 at 18:14
Im sorry man, I feel real bad for you. I sorta know the feeling, because my brother got lost in Virginia in the mountains when we were visiting relitives last year, and he was missing for a few days. Luckaly someone found him and contacted us, but those couple of days were terrible.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: February 19 2009 at 18:33
Thanks again for the contiuned support.  There is no new news yet. The parents were doing a press conference today and i would suggest you check the links on Amber's Website for media updates in the next few hours.  Right now this is the best source of information.
 
 
Also the family is holding a candlelight vigil that I will be attending :
 


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: February 20 2009 at 04:04
sorry to hear this . ill pray for her and  lets hope she returns  to her family .
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: February 20 2009 at 13:24
Here is everything i know at this point.

The nature of the search is to eliminate things. They still list Amber as an endangered runaway. Until they change that status the FBI will monitor but not directly get involved. They thought from the few leads they had that she was in a certain area. They have determined she is not in that area and are calling off the search. They also have eliminated the parents and the mothers live in boyfriend as suspects. They all took and passed lie detector tests. They are searching all the computers in hopes Amber may have left an online clue. Her cellphone was used before she left the house on Friday to text her grandmother and one friend. None of the texts were suspicious. She turned her cell phone off after the last text. It was turned on briefly on Saturday for a few seconds and someone tried to unsuccessfully access the voicemail. It was turned off and has not been turned on since. (This is the main reason the police thought she was still in the area. The ping they got narrowed it to 5 mile radius. It wasn't on long enough to get an exact location. It could have been her because her mother had changed the password on the voicemail trying to determine if she had listened to any)

The local poilice are looking to organize other searches in the foothills around the city. It is at this point they need to change it to possible kidnapping instead of runaway to escalate this to another level. That is what we are waiting for. Everyone in the family has known all along this was an abduction because this is just not like Amber at all.
www.amberleeannedubois.com
Please continue to forward this to your contacts and ask them to do the same.  It is encouraging to note that Amber's site has had almost 30,000 hits in just 5 days. This hasn't even been broken by the national news yet either.  The more people that see this then the better chance somone who knows something can come forward.
Thanks for your continued effort and support. The whole family thanks you.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: February 21 2009 at 08:27
Brian, I now have posted this to my Italian blog (which has some US readers) and another of my web haunts.  Small fish, but it can't hurt.  

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: February 21 2009 at 09:27
if I had any social contacts I'd be passing the word... 

we are praying  for her prompt return Brian Heart.  I can't imagine what this like for your family... it's sad that anyone should ever know what it is like.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: February 21 2009 at 10:48

Finnforest any little bit all adds up Thanks so much.  Micky thanks prayers are needed just as much. 

Her is a little bit about Amber I want to share:

 


She had perfect attendance in school and was proud of that. She isn't a wild girl at all. No drinking, no drugs no boys. She loves to read, she loves science and is totally infatuated with wolves. She prefers to draw and write does not have a myspace or facebook page and has a core tight group of 6 friends that hang out all the time usually at Amber's house. On the day she went missing she had a check to the FFA agriculture class made out to he school to purchase a lamb. (Amber wants to go into field that deals with animals.) That check has not shown up at the bank. She did not have a spare set of clothes and even her cash was still in its place. This girl is no runaway.




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Direct Link To This Post Posted: February 21 2009 at 10:57
Her folks must be frantic.
Here's hoping that there's a happy outcome and soon.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: February 21 2009 at 11:28
I just read this for the first time. Friede and I keep our fingers crossed that everything will work out fine. I have relatives in California, though not exactly near Escondido, but I informed them nevertheless, and they will be on the lookout. all the best wishes to you and the family of your niece. since we have two girls of age 7 ourselves we can imagine how you and the parents feel


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: February 21 2009 at 11:35
Thanks Tony and Jean and Friede too.  You just never know who someone might know who knows something. At this point if Amber were abducted she could be anywhere. So we are just trying to raise the awareness everywhere.  National media has been slow comming around. Lots of local TV and Press though and her website now has almost 35,000 hits.
 
Stacy and I are just about ready to leave to join a volunteer search in the foothills and mountains surrounding the town for any kind of clue. I think we are going to very tired tonight.
 


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: February 21 2009 at 11:39
I would be remiss in that I can't answer each post individually but to be sure:
 
Thanks to all of you for your thoughts and comments, prayers, support and encouragement.  They are most appreciated and heartfelt  and that is from the entire family whom I have shared this thread with.  


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: February 21 2009 at 23:24
Hi All:
Stacy here, I know, I never post, please forgive this shy prog lover...I just want to thank all of you for your kind thoughts and words - my family really appreciates it.  You all are the best and  brightest people ever!  I think your lovely thoughts alone can possibly bring our darling Amber back to us.  When she returns I will direct her here to see your messages.  My entire family appreciates your continued prayers - thank you!!
Though we may never meet, I am in your debt,
Stacy


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: February 21 2009 at 23:35
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: February 22 2009 at 07:17
same here Stacy... a big set of huggies from Raff and I

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: February 22 2009 at 08:56
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: February 22 2009 at 09:06
Very sorry to hear about this.  My thoughts are with you two, Amber and her parents.  I hope for her safe return. 
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