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Dean
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Posted: August 14 2010 at 12:49 |
Equality 7-2521 wrote:
Pro-Life and Pro-Choice people have two different conceptions of a particular action. One finds that action permissible and the other does not. There's no corresponding responsibility on people making the value judgement. The action is either right or wrong. It's two siding trying to reason what the correct opinion is. There's no responsibility. I don't even know what you're referring to. |
When typing the original post I feared my point would be lost. I cannot express it differently, so I guess it will remain lost.
By making this statement you are distancing yourself from the real life person whose choice is being affected by the moral, emotional, ideological, value judgments being made. This level of detachment devolves you of any responsibility so as you rightly say there is no responsibility. I say reconnect this disconnect then have an opinion.
Equality 7-2521 wrote:
That's an entirely different situation.
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Yes it is and there is no denying it. I've even made that same observation myself. I was simply responding to an out of context quote.
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jammun
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Posted: August 14 2010 at 12:55 |
At least here in the U.S., the government (i.e., we the people as represented by the IRS) have already decided when life begins. It is at childbirth, not at conception. If you doubt this, get your wife pregnant today, on August 14, 2010, and try to claim the child as a dependent for this year's taxes.
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Can you tell me where we're headin'?
Lincoln County Road or Armageddon.
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Epignosis
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Posted: August 14 2010 at 12:58 |
jammun wrote:
At least here in the U.S., the government (i.e., we the people as represented by the IRS) have already decided when life begins. It is at childbirth, not at conception. If you doubt this, get your wife pregnant today, on August 14, 2010, and try to claim the child as a dependent for this year's taxes. | We know what the US government says. We think they're wrong.
You might also want to glimpse at a few of the previous 100 pages and find out what we think about the IRS too, while you're at it. 
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Equality 7-2521
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Posted: August 14 2010 at 12:59 |
TGM: Orb wrote:
Equality 7-2521 wrote:
Dean wrote:
Abortion has been a fact for thousands of years, whether there is legislation against it so it is criminalised and banned outright, it will continue to be practiced illegally and there is nothing that anyone can do to stop it. Illegal abortions are unsafe and dangerous and make no distinction about the age of the fetus or the mental state of the woman involved.
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Not trying to answer for MoM, but replace abortion with murder and you can say the same thing. That's not an argument. Every law will be broken.
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Not really, illegal murder wouldn't be any more dangerous than legal murder.
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I didn't mean in every single sentence, but in his main point yes it is the same really. Though I could argue that with murder being illegal victims tend to fight back and endanger the murderer, or murderer are forced to used crude murdering weapons like bombs or poison which can often backfire and hurt other people.
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"One had to be a Newton to notice that the moon is falling, when everyone sees that it doesn't fall. "
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Equality 7-2521
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Posted: August 14 2010 at 13:00 |
jammun wrote:
At least here in the U.S., the government (i.e., we the people as represented by the IRS) have already decided when life begins. It is at childbirth, not at conception. If you doubt this, get your wife pregnant today, on August 14, 2010, and try to claim the child as a dependent for this year's taxes. |
This is a joke right?
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"One had to be a Newton to notice that the moon is falling, when everyone sees that it doesn't fall. "
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Equality 7-2521
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Posted: August 14 2010 at 13:01 |
Dean wrote:
Equality 7-2521 wrote:
Pro-Life and Pro-Choice people have two different conceptions of a particular action. One finds that action permissible and the other does not. There's no corresponding responsibility on people making the value judgement. The action is either right or wrong. It's two siding trying to reason what the correct opinion is. There's no responsibility. I don't even know what you're referring to. |
When typing the original post I feared my point would be lost. I cannot express it differently, so I guess it will remain lost.
By making this statement you are distancing yourself from the real life person whose choice is being affected by the moral, emotional, ideological, value judgments being made. This level of detachment devolves you of any responsibility so as you rightly say there is no responsibility. I say reconnect this disconnect then have an opinion.
Equality 7-2521 wrote:
That's an entirely different situation.
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Yes it is and there is no denying it. I've even made that same observation myself. I was simply responding to an out of context quote. |
Explain yourself then. You didn't even attempt to explain how I would possibly be responsible for somebody else's actions.
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"One had to be a Newton to notice that the moon is falling, when everyone sees that it doesn't fall. "
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jammun
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Posted: August 14 2010 at 13:03 |
Epignosis wrote:
jammun wrote:
At least here in the U.S., the government (i.e., we the people as represented by the IRS) have already decided when life begins. It is at childbirth, not at conception. If you doubt this, get your wife pregnant today, on August 14, 2010, and try to claim the child as a dependent for this year's taxes. |
We know what the US government says. We think they're wrong.
You might also want to glimpse at a few of the previous 100 pages and find out what we think about the IRS too, while you're at it. 
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Well I have read more than a few of the previous pages, and whether or not I agree or disagree 'bout the government, I still would claim that a Libertarian cannot have an anti-abortion stance.
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Can you tell me where we're headin'?
Lincoln County Road or Armageddon.
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Epignosis
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Posted: August 14 2010 at 13:07 |
jammun wrote:
Epignosis wrote:
jammun wrote:
At least here in the U.S., the government (i.e., we the people as represented by the IRS) have already decided when life begins. It is at childbirth, not at conception. If you doubt this, get your wife pregnant today, on August 14, 2010, and try to claim the child as a dependent for this year's taxes. |
We know what the US government says. We think they're wrong.
You might also want to glimpse at a few of the previous 100 pages and find out what we think about the IRS too, while you're at it. 
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Well I have read more than a few of the previous pages, and whether or not I agree or disagree 'bout the government, I still would claim that a Libertarian cannot have an anti-abortion stance. | From Libertarians for Life:
http://www.l4l.org/
One
popular misconception is that libertarianism as a political
principle supports choice on abortion. And major
elements within the libertarian movement (the Libertarian
Party, for example) take abortion-choice stands.
Nonetheless, libertarianism's basic principle is that each
of us has the obligation not to aggress against (violate
the rights of) anyone else -- for any reason (personal,
social, or political), however worthy. That is a
clearly pro-life principle. Recognizing that, and
seeing the abortion-choice drift within the libertarian
movement, Libertarians for Life was founded in 1976 to show
why abortion is a wrong under justice, not a
right.
We
see our mission as presenting the pro-life case to
libertarians and the libertarian case to pro-lifers.
Among supporters of LFL, some of us are members of the
Libertarian Party, some are not. Some are religious,
some are not. (Doris Gordon, our Founder and
Coordinator, is a Jewish atheist.) Our reasoning is
expressly scientific and philosophical rather than either
pragmatic or religious, or merely political or
emotional.
To explain and defend our
case, LFL argues that:
1. Human offspring are human beings, persons from
conception, whether that takes place as natural or artificial
fertilization, by cloning, or by any other means.
2. Abortion is homicide -- the killing of
one person by another.
3. One's right to control one's own body does not allow violating
the obligation not to aggress. There is never a right to kill an
innocent person. Prenatally, we are all innocent
persons.
4. A prenatal child has the right to be in
the mother's body. Parents have no right to evict their
children from the crib or from the womb and let them die.
Instead both parents, the father as well as the mother, owe
them support and protection from
harm.
5. No government, nor any individual, has a
just power to legally "de-person" any one of us, born or
preborn.
6. The proper purpose of the law is to side
with the innocent, not against
them.
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Equality 7-2521
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Posted: August 14 2010 at 13:16 |
jammun wrote:
Epignosis wrote:
jammun wrote:
At least here in the U.S., the government (i.e., we the people as represented by the IRS) have already decided when life begins. It is at childbirth, not at conception. If you doubt this, get your wife pregnant today, on August 14, 2010, and try to claim the child as a dependent for this year's taxes. |
We know what the US government says. We think they're wrong.
You might also want to glimpse at a few of the previous 100 pages and find out what we think about the IRS too, while you're at it. 
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Well I have read more than a few of the previous pages, and whether or not I agree or disagree 'bout the government, I still would claim that a Libertarian cannot have an anti-abortion stance. |
You couldn't even tell me what a libertarian is, nor probably any significant amount of the justification for their beliefs. Please, you're talking nonsense.
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"One had to be a Newton to notice that the moon is falling, when everyone sees that it doesn't fall. "
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Proletariat
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Posted: August 14 2010 at 13:17 |
meh... socialism is better
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who hiccuped endlessly trying to giggle but wound up with a sob
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jammun
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Posted: August 14 2010 at 13:18 |
^^ Well enough then. Let the unwanted child be born. But who's going to fulfill the following:
Instead both parents, the father as well as the mother, owe them support and protection from harm.
This assumes way too much. And when the father and the mother fail , it then falls on the government to sub for the mother and the father. That's all I'm saying. I'm not saying it's right. I'm not saying it's the way it should be.
In an ideal world, you have me and my wife, or you and yours. We choose to bring life into the world. We raise our children at considerable personal sacrifice, with the upside of considerable personal and familial joy. Others are not so inclined.
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Can you tell me where we're headin'?
Lincoln County Road or Armageddon.
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jammun
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Posted: August 14 2010 at 13:22 |
Equality 7-2521 wrote:
jammun wrote:
Epignosis wrote:
jammun wrote:
At least here in the U.S., the government (i.e., we the people as represented by the IRS) have already decided when life begins. It is at childbirth, not at conception. If you doubt this, get your wife pregnant today, on August 14, 2010, and try to claim the child as a dependent for this year's taxes. |
We know what the US government says. We think they're wrong.
You might also want to glimpse at a few of the previous 100 pages and find out what we think about the IRS too, while you're at it. 
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Well I have read more than a few of the previous pages, and whether or not I agree or disagree 'bout the government, I still would claim that a Libertarian cannot have an anti-abortion stance. |
You couldn't even tell me what a libertarian is, nor probably any significant amount of the justification for their beliefs. Please, you're talking nonsense.
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You and I must know different libertarians. I guess there are divisions within that philosophy, as with any other.
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Can you tell me where we're headin'?
Lincoln County Road or Armageddon.
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TGM: Orb
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Posted: August 14 2010 at 13:23 |
Epignosis wrote:
TGM: Orb wrote:
Epignosis wrote:
stonebeard wrote:
Life begins at conception. Not all life is equal. An unborn fetus is not a "human being." I leave it up to embryologists to decide when it can feel pain and how much that pain matters. I support abortion because it's more practical than having a bunch of unwanted, un-careable babies wandering around. Oh and the woman's rights stuff.
I prefer not to give much of a sh*t about the morality of killing a fetus when we're all not getting too bent out of shape by real world human suffering and killing.
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So one's ability to feel pain makes it a human being? You're telling me that the comatose man in ICU is not a human being? 
As for "unwanted" babies, have you ever heard of adoption? My in-laws have four adopted children and they foster. And my wife, who studied to work in an adoption agency (but wound up being a teacher) tells me that there are many parents waiting for children to adopt. Your statement "unwanted, un-careable babies wandering around" really shows you have no clue what you are talking about.
Regarding women's rights...well, that's what happens when you have sex. It's a potential consequence of sex. Abortion is just another way the government seeks to protect people from the bad consequences of their behavior.
When would we accept the taking of someone's life to solve one's social problems?
As for rape...
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@your rape study; should any of the five women of that very small, thirty year old (and I'm guessing pretty localised) study who did choose abortions have been forced to go through nine months of pregnancy complete with all the social and personal (and possibly even health) problems that entails and then give birth to their rapist's (almost certainly unwanted) child after they were raped?
Uh, abortion isn't a governmental catch against unwanted consequences, it's a medical procedure that the government does not prohibit. Regardless of the morality you might attach to abortion, it seems rather unfair to accuse the government of actively coddling people simply because it doesn't prohibit it.
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Personally, I'm less sure what I think about abortion than about most things. I think it should stop being an exclusively female choice, on account of the fact that being a father is actually a pretty important thing (though I have no idea how you could make that work). I think that if you have unprotected sex, abortion should not be used as emergency contraception and I don't think that social inconvenience is enough of a justification to solve your own (admittedly significant) completely avoidable problems by killing whatever a fetus is.
Recently read this in A Rebours:
'What Society considered a crime was the act of killing a being endowed
with life; and yet, in expelling a foetus, one destroyed an animal
that was less formed and living and certainly less intelligent and
more ugly than a dog or a cat, although it is permissible to strangle
these creatures as soon as they are born.' |
I have plenty of evidence to show that the US's governing bodies actively seek to protect people from the consequences of their practices. The government bailouts are just one example. Schools passing failing students is yet another. Abortion is not the only piece to this trend. Sure it's a medical procedure, but why is it done? According to the first link about 93% (almost all) abortions are done on several as a way of making the mother's life more convenient. And that's a shame.
The link I gave about rape was not a blanket statement regarding whether a raped woman should or should not have an abortion. It was to debunk a common assumption about rape and abortion- that is all. Don't take it mean more than it does, and it doesn't pass judgment on those five women who did get an abortion.
You're guessing the study was pretty localized, but that doesn't make sense at all given how extremely rare it is to get pregnant by rape.
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The government may be protecting people from the consequences of their actions, however this is not an area where they are doing so. It is an area where they are not intervening rather than an area where they are intervening. I agree that it's a damn shame that a vast majority of abortions are done for convenience. I just don't blame the government for that (and I think the blame for how many abortions are done for convenience falls to A) a culture where children and serious relationships are put off longer than ever before and B) the fact that women are more than ever now expected to hold up a conventional career). Concerning localisation: 'This was apparently all she could find' is the phrase used to explain the low number of participants. Now, even if that number represents all she could find across the entirety of the US, that's study in one particular country where taboos concerning abortion may well have resulted in a radically different response to other countries. Either way, the representation of the study here gives no indication of its reliability and the rather tactical choices of words like 'most' and 'few' makes it very hard for me to believe that the page in question is treating the study it is based on with complete openness and intellectual honesty (out of 33 people, I have no idea how many a 'few' are). The way that this particular study is represented here is to undermine the credibility of the 'pro-abortion' example of rape victims as being justified in having abortions with the strawman title 'abortion cures rape'. However, I think this representation has either completely missed the point of said example or deliberately misrepresented it, which is that not even one person should be forced to unwillingly go through a nine month pregnancy and then have their rapist's baby simply because they were raped. The point of said example is not that abortion will make the rape more bearable, nor that all women who get raped will choose an abortion. Rather the point of that example is that when you have no choice in matter of abortion, someone may be pregnant through no fault of their own and then be forced to go through nine months of pregnancy and have a baby.
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Epignosis
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Posted: August 14 2010 at 13:25 |
jammun wrote:
^^ Well enough then. Let the unwanted child be born. But who's going to fulfill the following:
Instead both parents, the father as well as the mother, owe them support and protection from harm.
This assumes way too much. And when the father and the mother fail , it then falls on the government to sub for the mother and the father. That's all I'm saying. I'm not saying it's right. I'm not saying it's the way it should be.
In an ideal world, you have me and my wife, or you and yours. We choose to bring life into the world. We raise our children at considerable personal sacrifice, with the upside of considerable personal and familial joy. Others are not so inclined.
| Are you not aware of the large number of private and non-profit adoption agencies in the US?
As I mentioned earlier, there are plenty of eager parents who would welcome this child into their home as their own.
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jammun
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Posted: August 14 2010 at 13:34 |
Epignosis wrote:
jammun wrote:
^^ Well enough then. Let the unwanted child be born. But who's going to fulfill the following:
Instead both parents, the father as well as the mother, owe them support and protection from harm.
This assumes way too much. And when the father and the mother fail , it then falls on the government to sub for the mother and the father. That's all I'm saying. I'm not saying it's right. I'm not saying it's the way it should be.
In an ideal world, you have me and my wife, or you and yours. We choose to bring life into the world. We raise our children at considerable personal sacrifice, with the upside of considerable personal and familial joy. Others are not so inclined.
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Are you not aware of the large number of private and non-profit adoption agencies in the US?
As I mentioned earlier, there are plenty of eager parents who would welcome this child into their home as their own.
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As an adoptee myself, I am well aware of that option. I am not particularly religious, but Thank God my biological mother was a young, unwed Catholic college student, who would never have thought of aborting, or else I would not be here to discuss this with you at all.
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Can you tell me where we're headin'?
Lincoln County Road or Armageddon.
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Epignosis
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Posted: August 14 2010 at 13:39 |
TGM: Orb wrote:
Epignosis wrote:
TGM: Orb wrote:
Epignosis wrote:
stonebeard wrote:
Life begins at conception. Not all life is equal. An unborn fetus is not a "human being." I leave it up to embryologists to decide when it can feel pain and how much that pain matters. I support abortion because it's more practical than having a bunch of unwanted, un-careable babies wandering around. Oh and the woman's rights stuff.
I prefer not to give much of a sh*t about the morality of killing a fetus when we're all not getting too bent out of shape by real world human suffering and killing.
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So one's ability to feel pain makes it a human being? You're telling me that the comatose man in ICU is not a human being? 
As for "unwanted" babies, have you ever heard of adoption? My in-laws have four adopted children and they foster. And my wife, who studied to work in an adoption agency (but wound up being a teacher) tells me that there are many parents waiting for children to adopt. Your statement "unwanted, un-careable babies wandering around" really shows you have no clue what you are talking about.
Regarding women's rights...well, that's what happens when you have sex. It's a potential consequence of sex. Abortion is just another way the government seeks to protect people from the bad consequences of their behavior.
When would we accept the taking of someone's life to solve one's social problems?
As for rape...
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@your rape study; should any of the five women of that very small, thirty year old (and I'm guessing pretty localised) study who did choose abortions have been forced to go through nine months of pregnancy complete with all the social and personal (and possibly even health) problems that entails and then give birth to their rapist's (almost certainly unwanted) child after they were raped?
Uh, abortion isn't a governmental catch against unwanted consequences, it's a medical procedure that the government does not prohibit. Regardless of the morality you might attach to abortion, it seems rather unfair to accuse the government of actively coddling people simply because it doesn't prohibit it.
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Personally, I'm less sure what I think about abortion than about most things. I think it should stop being an exclusively female choice, on account of the fact that being a father is actually a pretty important thing (though I have no idea how you could make that work). I think that if you have unprotected sex, abortion should not be used as emergency contraception and I don't think that social inconvenience is enough of a justification to solve your own (admittedly significant) completely avoidable problems by killing whatever a fetus is.
Recently read this in A Rebours:
'What Society considered a crime was the act of killing a being endowed
with life; and yet, in expelling a foetus, one destroyed an animal
that was less formed and living and certainly less intelligent and
more ugly than a dog or a cat, although it is permissible to strangle
these creatures as soon as they are born.' |
I have plenty of evidence to show that the US's governing bodies actively seek to protect people from the consequences of their practices. The government bailouts are just one example. Schools passing failing students is yet another. Abortion is not the only piece to this trend. Sure it's a medical procedure, but why is it done? According to the first link about 93% (almost all) abortions are done on several as a way of making the mother's life more convenient. And that's a shame.
The link I gave about rape was not a blanket statement regarding whether a raped woman should or should not have an abortion. It was to debunk a common assumption about rape and abortion- that is all. Don't take it mean more than it does, and it doesn't pass judgment on those five women who did get an abortion.
You're guessing the study was pretty localized, but that doesn't make sense at all given how extremely rare it is to get pregnant by rape.
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The government may be protecting people from the consequences of their actions, however this is not an area where they are doing so. It is an area where they are not intervening rather than an area where they are intervening.
I agree that it's a damn shame that a vast majority of abortions are done for convenience. I just don't blame the government for that (and I think the blame for how many abortions are done for convenience falls to A) a culture where children and serious relationships are put off longer than ever before and B) the fact that women are more than ever now expected to hold up a conventional career).
Concerning localisation: 'This was apparently all she could find' is the phrase used to explain the low number of participants. Now, even if that number represents all she could find across the entirety of the US, that's study in one particular country where taboos concerning abortion may well have resulted in a radically different response to other countries. Either way, the representation of the study here gives no indication of its reliability and the rather tactical choices of words like 'most' and 'few' makes it very hard for me to believe that the page in question is treating the study it is based on with complete openness and intellectual honesty (out of 33 people, I have no idea how many a 'few' are).
The way that this particular study is represented here is to undermine the credibility of the 'pro-abortion' example of rape victims as being justified in having abortions with the strawman title 'abortion cures rape'.
However, I think this representation has either completely missed the point of said example or deliberately misrepresented it, which is that not even one person should be forced to unwillingly go through a nine month pregnancy and then have their rapist's baby simply because they were raped. The point of said example is not that abortion will make the rape more bearable, nor that all women who get raped will choose an abortion. Rather the point of that example is that when you have no choice in matter of abortion, someone may be pregnant through no fault of their own and then be forced to go through nine months of pregnancy and have a baby.
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Epignosis
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Posted: August 14 2010 at 13:40 |
jammun wrote:
Epignosis wrote:
jammun wrote:
^^ Well enough then. Let the unwanted child be born. But who's going to fulfill the following:
Instead both parents, the father as well as the mother, owe them support and protection from harm.
This assumes way too much. And when the father and the mother fail , it then falls on the government to sub for the mother and the father. That's all I'm saying. I'm not saying it's right. I'm not saying it's the way it should be.
In an ideal world, you have me and my wife, or you and yours. We choose to bring life into the world. We raise our children at considerable personal sacrifice, with the upside of considerable personal and familial joy. Others are not so inclined.
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Are you not aware of the large number of private and non-profit adoption agencies in the US?
As I mentioned earlier, there are plenty of eager parents who would welcome this child into their home as their own.
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As an adoptee myself, I am well aware of that option. I am not particularly religious, but Thank God my biological mother was a young, unwed Catholic college student, who would never have thought of aborting, or else I would not be here to discuss this with you at all. | I'm not adopted, but I wasn't born under ideal circumstances.
By the way, glad you're here!
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jammun
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Posted: August 14 2010 at 14:51 |
Epignosis wrote:
jammun wrote:
Epignosis wrote:
jammun wrote:
^^ Well enough then. Let the unwanted child be born. But who's going to fulfill the following:
Instead both parents, the father as well as the mother, owe them support and protection from harm.
This assumes way too much. And when the father and the mother fail , it then falls on the government to sub for the mother and the father. That's all I'm saying. I'm not saying it's right. I'm not saying it's the way it should be.
In an ideal world, you have me and my wife, or you and yours. We choose to bring life into the world. We raise our children at considerable personal sacrifice, with the upside of considerable personal and familial joy. Others are not so inclined.
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Are you not aware of the large number of private and non-profit adoption agencies in the US?
As I mentioned earlier, there are plenty of eager parents who would welcome this child into their home as their own.
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As an adoptee myself, I am well aware of that option. I am not particularly religious, but Thank God my biological mother was a young, unwed Catholic college student, who would never have thought of aborting, or else I would not be here to discuss this with you at all. |
I'm not adopted, but I wasn't born under ideal circumstances.
By the way, glad you're here! 
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I am very happy and very lucky to be here. I am very blessed to have even been born, not to mention growing up during an era of particular musical excellence, which is after all why this site exists. Others who had no choice in the matter (abortees) are not so fortunate.
But I had a loving family, and a mother who made me take piano lessons with that French lady, Mrs. DuTant. And for every hour I practiced the easy classical canon every day (much against my will) I came to love the notes, the rhythms, the sound. Next thing you know, I was playing Gloria in a garage band.
My grandmother lived next door to a family who owned the local music store (in Kansas, that meant albums, instruments, the whole enchilada). I talked my mom into giving me $5 to buy Freak Out from that store.
I love it, and am forever indebted to the one (unknown) who chose not to abort. Jeez, really, I'm gonna start tearing up here. Please don't hold it against me.
Edited by jammun - August 14 2010 at 15:11
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Can you tell me where we're headin'?
Lincoln County Road or Armageddon.
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Dean
Special Collaborator
Retired Admin and Amateur Layabout
Joined: May 13 2007
Location: Europe
Status: Offline
Points: 37575
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Posted: August 14 2010 at 15:20 |
Equality 7-2521 wrote:
Dean wrote:
Equality 7-2521 wrote:
Pro-Life and Pro-Choice people have two different conceptions of a particular action. One finds that action permissible and the other does not. There's no corresponding responsibility on people making the value judgement. The action is either right or wrong. It's two siding trying to reason what the correct opinion is. There's no responsibility. I don't even know what you're referring to. |
When typing the original post I feared my point would be lost. I cannot express it differently, so I guess it will remain lost.
By making this statement you are distancing yourself from the real life person whose choice is being affected by the moral, emotional, ideological, value judgments being made. This level of detachment devolves you of any responsibility so as you rightly say there is no responsibility. I say reconnect this disconnect then have an opinion.
Equality 7-2521 wrote:
That's an entirely different situation.
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Yes it is and there is no denying it. I've even made that same observation myself. I was simply responding to an out of context quote. |
Explain yourself then. You didn't even attempt to explain how I would possibly be responsible for somebody else's actions.
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I have already stated that I cannot express myself differently, so any attempt I make to explain myself further is destined to failure, but as you insist, I'll have another try.
I never said you would possibly be responsible for somebody else's actions. I am assuming here there is a difference between "being responsible" and "having a responsibility" where the former is being accountable while the other is an obligation. I'm aware that resonsibility is the state of being responsible, but in the context I used it, when refering to the obligation (née responsibility) of the people who affect the choices of another to allow for the provision of a level of post-event support as a consequence of their active stance, not their being accountable for interfering in the decision in the first place.
So if you are pro-choice or pro-life you should have an obligation to support the existence of after-care at all levels for the life-time of the mother and child if the resultant choice is not to terminate. If the pro-choice decision was to terminate then those pro-choicers should have an obligation to support the provision post-stress care.
Edited by Dean - August 14 2010 at 19:27
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JJLehto
Prog Reviewer
Joined: April 05 2006
Location: Tallahassee, FL
Status: Offline
Points: 34550
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Posted: August 14 2010 at 15:21 |
Hai gaiz, I miss anything good in here?
Abortion eh?
That doesn't involve flaming the rich and big business I'm out lol
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