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dtguitarfan ![]() Forum Senior Member ![]() ![]() Joined: June 24 2011 Location: Chattanooga, TN Status: Offline Points: 1708 |
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You know, you can mock. But from personal experience - before I began to take a more liberal viewpoint, I was a miserable, fearful, cynical b*****d. I hated people, I was angry all the time, and if you crossed me you'd better be sure I would try to get you back if I could get away with it. Now, I'm not going to say this is all because of "going liberal" - on the contrary, you know I have certain beliefs, and thus would credit God with this. But when I began to adopt a more liberal viewpoint, my attitude began to change. It was liberalism combined with viewpoints on my own religion - rather than looking around at people and being angry at how evil they all are, I realized I'm a b*****d myself, and thus have no right to be angry at anyone. But I also believe in grace. And if I am to accept grace in my life, I have to extend it to others. You can't possibly receive grace if you aren't willing to extend the same measure of it to others. And when I began to feel the affects of grace, both from truly receiving it and from extending it to others, it began to change the way I treated people. I rejected fear and anger and hate, and replaced them with faith and hope and love. So laugh all you want, but becoming more liberal/progressive/whatever you want to call it is making me a happier, more generous, more grace-extending, more loving person. Edited by dtguitarfan - January 23 2013 at 05:44 |
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If the US government were a private corporation, doing all it has done now, you would consider it more worthy and less corrupt?
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The left's worship of scientists (not science) is a continual source of irritation for me as well. It's a symptom of the progressive doctrine of experts being able to solve all our problems, whether they be experts in climate science, economics, or politics. It's good to have experts around, but they are just normal, fallible human beings like everyone else. Having a degree doesn't magically confer divine wisdom. |
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JJLehto ![]() Prog Reviewer ![]() Joined: April 05 2006 Location: Tallahassee, FL Status: Offline Points: 34550 |
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I think that's more it, for me. I mean, I love science (or so I thought...turns out I became libertarian so now I dont anymore!) and I think its great to know as much as we can, and look at all the great things science created.
But then it does get into this fixing humanity/running our lives business and IDK about all that. Again, wasn't eugenics accepted by most? And why not? It was for the betterment of society, it was scientific. Same with fascism.
Keynes sounds pretty solid on paper, but I think it fails in reality (and he personally seemed like a realistic guy) because IMO he denied our humanity. By looking solely at numbers and etc (which is what Keynsians want) I think it denies human nature. Which is that we are self interested, greedy and complex. He claims to have agreed with Hayek's road to serfdom but doesn't accept his policies could lead to such a situation? Even if its not intended, once we have something we want more, dont we? Edited by JJLehto - January 23 2013 at 08:30 |
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dtguitarfan ![]() Forum Senior Member ![]() ![]() Joined: June 24 2011 Location: Chattanooga, TN Status: Offline Points: 1708 |
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But I will tell a little of my story. This is going to get quite personal. I grew up in a culture that would say the words "Conservative Christian" to describe itself with no hesitency. These words belonged together, in this culture. Now I'd like sum up my own views during these years of my life, and compare them to the quote I provided earlier in the thread. To remind you, the quote was:
"Liberalism is trust of the people tempered by prudence. Conservatism is distrust of the people tempered by fear." - William E. Gladstone And here is a high-level summary of the views I once held:
Social views: If we allow immigrants to enter our country freely and not force the legal ones to speak English, there will be dire effects. If we allow Gay people equal rights, the moral fabric of society will be torn, and society will crumble. Atheists and homosexuals have these secret agendas, and are funded by mysterious and powerful people - they are out to get us. They want to take away our Christian rights. Christians are persecuted. Fiscal views: If we fund programs designed to help the poor, the poor will just be encouraged to be lazy. Society will crumble.
Views on the government and its role: the government is evil, and it is out to get us. It is far too powerful. We need to scratch and tear at it and bring it down from the unjust level of control it has. I am taxed far too much - this makes me angry. I could do so much more if I had more money!
Now, if you compare these views to the quote above, you can see how I was distrustful and fearful. I fit that bill quite perfectly.
Now, I was a miserable b*****d during these years. I was legalistic and performance driven, and this only caused guilt to build up against myself because subconsciously I knew the double-standards I held, and I knew my own faults. I was socially awkward. I didn't trust people. When I was hurt by people, it just proved to me that I was right all along.
I became so miserable that I basically banished myself. I left the church, stopped talking to a lot of former friends, and for a period of time I pretty much only spent time in the following ways: work, gym, sitting at home in front of a computer screen or the TV. But when I left the church there was a part of me that wanted people to reach out to me and try to get me to come back. But I also wanted to be apologized to, I guess. But something strange happened. None of the people I considered to be "friends", formerly, reached out to me at first. Oh, a few months down the road a couple of them did, but it was too little, too late. But one man did reach out to me immediately. He begged me to come back. He said he needed a friend like me who understood what he was going through and held no judgement...because he was gay. He was the son of a Baptist minister, and had been told that what he was was wrong all his life, but it didn't change what he was: it only made him feel a debilitating guilt. I realized when he told me this that I had been watching him for quite some time trying to be straight. He thought what he was was a sin, and was trying to change himself. But it wasn't working, it was only making him miserable. Unfortunately, my friend's plea to get me back into the church was the wrong plea - I was through with the church. But it did come at an opportune moment, because I had no judgement in my heart. How could I? I had just rejected my beliefs, which dictated a judgmental attitude (in my mind). What right had I to judge when I was walking away from the whole system? The other thing that happened is, because I had no judgement, I was able to see for the first time in my life that maybe Homosexuality is not a choice. Maybe some people ARE just born that way, and can't help it. And if this is the case - how horrible of us to insist that they change!
Now, I won't tell the whole story, but eventually I came back to the church. But when I did, I had some conflicts to resolve. I had some ideas that just didn't fit together well, and I knew it. But eventually I began to understand how to fit together my views, and as I did this I also began to understand my past. And when this happened, I no longer looked back at my past with regret - I understood that it made me who I am today. It gave me a mission: to look for ways to be a more loving person. To take the hurt I experienced and use it to be more empathetic to other people who are hurting. Now, here is a summary of my current views:
Social views: Diversity, if we approach it with love and acceptance, makes us stronger. We're all struggling in our own ways, and if we admit that we can approach people who are different with love and acceptance, and when we do this we will make friends out of them. Another person's struggles can help us to understand our own - how dare we judge someone else's struggles just because they are not the same as our own? Diversity strengthens.
Fiscal views: each member of our society is vital, like cells in a body. We need social safety nets because these things strengthen society. A stronger society will be good for all - lower, middle, and upper class alike. Will some people take advantage of the system? Sure. But that doesn't make it a bad system. It doesn't mean the system is doing no good. I choose to trust, rather than become cynical. And in doing so, I am a happier person - I am not angry about my taxes. I know I'm pretty well off, compared to the majority of the world. So I can feel more contentment.
Government views: why should I become angry about what is outside of my control? I am blessed to be in a country that allows me to have some say in how it is run. I am blessed to be in a country that has a government with checks and balances. Sure, people in the government have done harm. But because of the way the system was set up, they can only do so much. And I have hope that it is getting better. So even when I hear about horrible things happening, I can be somewhat optimistic because I think these things will spur society on towards the goal of improving things.
You know, it's a strange thing - as I've adopted a more liberal view, I've become a different person in other aspects as well. You know the weirdest thing is that I smile more often than ever, haha! Where once, I was a socially awkward loner, now I have found it easier to talk to people - even people who are very different than myself. In fact, people who are very different are some of the most interesting people of all, because there is so much more to explore and seek to understand. Oh, I'm not by any means saying my journey is complete - in many ways I'm still very socially awkward and a loner. But I'm on a journey now, and I'm enjoying it. I'm not mad that I'm not at the destination - I have accepted that life is a journey and I am enjoying it.
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JJLehto ![]() Prog Reviewer ![]() Joined: April 05 2006 Location: Tallahassee, FL Status: Offline Points: 34550 |
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I don't question Docs belief in compassion, honesty and justice. Do I think they are misguided? Sure, but I have no doubt he's pissed off, feels its wrong, and his belief system is the proper way to relieve such issues. I will give him kudos for making no bones about it either. He doesn't beat around the bush or spin it. Says: yeah, I dislike the wealthy, I don't have much faith in people to do whats right, and doesn't seem to want a "fix" but replacement of a bad system.
Now I wont even delve into the libertarian =/= conservative thing but needless to say "liberals are generally nicer" is silly. If you can't take disagreement with yourself then yeah that'll suck
![]() I will admit, some of Docs mentality is a little upsetting, seems very angry, bitter and just untrusting but I can see why.
Guess I'm a fool....we're far from perfect but I think generally people are "good" (quite a complex word) and can run their lives.
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JJLehto ![]() Prog Reviewer ![]() Joined: April 05 2006 Location: Tallahassee, FL Status: Offline Points: 34550 |
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I am glad you have changed many of those views DT fan
![]() I used to be a very angry kid, and not for any good reason. I think I felt like I was some intellectual who knew best and was just sick of the world we lived in. Certainly I was very unhappy with the state of humanity. But yeah, most of my political views and world outlook was just built off anger.
It's a chicken/egg thing with me but as my overal world view, (really a change in me) thus political and philosophical views as well changed, it went along with this change from quite leftist to solidly libertarian.
I feel better, about myself, things in general. Still passionate, but the general anger, brooding and negativity I always felt in me is just..not there.
So believe me, I'm glad you are better as well. Because the politics is a seconday aspect man, we each have our own way of dealing with wrongs, and can only hope to convince peopel of it, but if you are happy with yourself that's what counts.
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The Doctor ![]() Special Collaborator ![]() ![]() Honorary Collaborator Joined: June 23 2005 Location: The Tardis Status: Offline Points: 8543 |
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I'll give you two examples of my silly statement. First, I have worked for a few ultra-conservatives and hated, hated, hated every moment of those experiences. They were dictatorial, expected to pay you as little as they could possibly get away with and expected you to basically turn over your life to them and live for them and your job. They were also angry and abusive bosses. I've never had that experience with liberal or moderate bosses. Second point is I live in Texas and here there are plenty of God, guns and "freedom" types. And they are some of the most dispicable people I have ever met. One of those upstanding ultra-conservatives threatened to shoot stray cats if they came anywhere near his old, beat up pickup truck and threatened to shoot me for feeding them. My girlfriend is from an ultra-conservative town in Texas (fortunately, she is not one of them) and while I've never been there (so yes, this is second hand information), she says they go around talking about God, but not only will they not help their neighbors or do anything for anybody, they are mean people who go out of their way to hurt and abuse others. These are not the kind of people I want having any say in our society. They are selfish, cruel and mean people, and I hate and despise selfish, cruel and mean people. EDIT: I do wish to clarify though. I have known moderate conservatives, old school Republican types who are not bad people. It is the ultra-conservative, anti-government, God, guns and "freedom" types that I find dispicable.
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I can understand your anger at me, but what did the horse I rode in on ever do to you?
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The Doctor ![]() Special Collaborator ![]() ![]() Honorary Collaborator Joined: June 23 2005 Location: The Tardis Status: Offline Points: 8543 |
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Does the pot calling the kettle black mean anything to you? You're the worst offender, MoM. I have tried to have discussions with you before, but invariably it ends up with you being insulting. You can't stand anyone who disagrees with your warped, anti-government view of reality. Fine. I will no longer make any attempt to discuss anything with you.
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I can understand your anger at me, but what did the horse I rode in on ever do to you?
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The Doctor ![]() Special Collaborator ![]() ![]() Honorary Collaborator Joined: June 23 2005 Location: The Tardis Status: Offline Points: 8543 |
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I can understand your anger at me, but what did the horse I rode in on ever do to you?
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JJLehto ![]() Prog Reviewer ![]() Joined: April 05 2006 Location: Tallahassee, FL Status: Offline Points: 34550 |
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I understand.
All I can say is, those experiences are valid but simply, it doesn't represent a massive swath of people.
Again, its more a personal thing...the "good" people are so, regardless of how their views end up. You bring up texas, well maybe its me living a more progressive state, AND in a progressive area of NJ to boot...plenty of the same core issues are present in many liberals. Maybe you just don't see enough in Texas but I have.
Don't believe it, I cant make you, but I'll swear it above anything....selfishness, cruelty and meanness are there in plenty of liberals.
This isnt the palce for religion, but from my experiences the kind you talk about tend to be the phony ones...
Those that take their religious beleifs seriously tend to be much more open minded, nicer and guess what...are less dogmatic about the Bible.
As for bosses, preaching to the choir. The mentality of many are pretty disturbing. I personally have been screwed out of 2 jobs, one minor one big (and it had the potential to be life smashing, thank god it didnt happen) my father got canned from his job of 33 years and in disgraceful manner, my mother has been severely mistreated at work, as has my best friend. My guess is we all have been there and know others. I just no longer let my anger cloud me.
Your anger is just, because its based off injustice and people being wronged, but it has clouded you. I've been there, thought deep and done much self reflection and while I cant say anything about your beleifs, Im confident that anger has a good grip on you.
OK the government doesnt just give me money, and nor will anyone else, so I need to get to work
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JJLehto ![]() Prog Reviewer ![]() Joined: April 05 2006 Location: Tallahassee, FL Status: Offline Points: 34550 |
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which BTW...more time I spend in this beauracratic, hierarchal institution I think "do we really want THIS running our country??" I've spent 3 hours trying to solve a problem I shouldn't even have to, going between machine techs and IT, each handing off to the other, and were given names of people I can't contact.
All to try and get 3 printers working. Managers are zero help in all of this.
But ya know, lets give more of society up to a beauractic hierarchy to decide how best things should be run, it works great in corporate America
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The Doctor ![]() Special Collaborator ![]() ![]() Honorary Collaborator Joined: June 23 2005 Location: The Tardis Status: Offline Points: 8543 |
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It ain't perfect. And it probably never will be. As least as long as there are humans involved. But it is necessary and to me it beats the hell out of every man for himself. And as to your first post, yes, of course there is anger there. I don't deny that. I hate seeing the strong pick on the weak. I always have. As for religion, I was not condemning all religious people, simply the ultra-right "christians" whom I do not even really consider real Christians. There are plenty of centrist and leftist Christians who are just fine. My gf is a Catholic.
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I can understand your anger at me, but what did the horse I rode in on ever do to you?
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Finnforest ![]() Special Collaborator ![]() ![]() Honorary Collaborator Joined: February 03 2007 Location: The Heartland Status: Online Points: 17226 |
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Conservatism is distrust of the people tempered by fear.
Can't get over that line in DT's story, so wrong when I think about the people I know. My story is sim to his but from a somewhat opposite perspective. Used to be a rather foaming at the mouth leftist, angry and rebellious in my youth of my parents generation and values. As mentioned yesterday, I've discovered that the older I get, the more I realize how wise my folks were about many things in life. I find myself slowly on a path to being less angry and more at peace. Service helps a lot, when I stopped bitching about others and reached out more to help those around me. And this is why I rather lament how personal you guys get with each other, how you quite bitterly go for each other's throats. It's why I don't participate here much. We're all on our own paths, finding our own answers to personal questions. It isn't necessary to demonize each other to do that. Although I admit when I was the age many of you here are, I was just as guilty.....I can remember how much I loathed conservatives.....ugh......I will hate no one anymore, even those I feel are wrong in their worldviews.... One other thing....since quite a few of us profess to having changed our views substantially since younger, angrier days, is it possible that it isn't a specific political stripe that caused our anger/bitterness, but perhaps other factors in process of growing up? That perhaps any political side is capable of stoking anger and fear in young adherents. Surely Geoff you'd agree when watching leftists who smash windows and burn cars in various protests, that both sides are equally capable of egging on rage and cynicism. There are plenty of examples of dysfunction everywhere. As I've mentioned before, you're more than willing to define conservatives with quite unflattering language but seem to not see problems with your own "side." It's not that convenient. It never has been. I know conservs who are amazingly nice people and I know liberals who are the most obnoxious pricks you've ever seen. Having been into the Green Party for years I know all liberals are not angels, and I saw my share of hypocrisy and anger. Should I generalize and try to convince others that's some overall truth? No, it's wrong to do I agree Geoff that it is a journey, on that much we see eye to eye ![]() |
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...that moment you realize you like "Mob Rules" better than "Heaven and Hell"
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I'm just sorry that people seem to be angry and bitter. Wish nothing but happiness to everyone here, liberal and libertarian alike.
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dtguitarfan ![]() Forum Senior Member ![]() ![]() Joined: June 24 2011 Location: Chattanooga, TN Status: Offline Points: 1708 |
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Thanks - I try.
You're right, there is extremism on both sides. And we do need to realize this and be careful of it. I am fighting against the extremism I see, and you are fighting against the extremism you see. Coincidentally, I recently read an article that is about this same idea of extremism on both sides, though the author (a former leader of the right wing Conservative Christian movement who has reneged) goes in the direction of pointing out that atheism is just as extreme as religious fundamentalism: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/frank-schaeffer/the-new-atheist-crusade-a_b_222864.html
This is somewhat of a rabbit trail, but I think it relates and I'm going to try to tie this in. I have a friend from Japan whom I met at the last Prog Power USA festival. I recently had some conversation with him about Budhism - he follows Jōdo Shinshū. I recently wrote a blog post about how I found some similarities in his faith to my own, and how examining his faith with an open mind gave me a better understanding of my own. After writing this blog post, my friend's sensei actually read it and emailed me. He mentioned a concept they call "mon-shin", which roughly translates to the english words "hearing-faith". He said this to me:
"For me the religious life is being open to the world of change and the new revelations it bears into my life."
It's funny he said this to me, because that same night I started reading a book that had the following quote as its introduction:
"Never accept and be content with unanalyzed assumptions, assumptions about the work, about the people, about the church or Christianity. Never be afraid to ask questions about the work we have inherited or the work we are doing. There is no question that should not be asked or that is outlawed. The day we are completely satisfied with what we have been doing; the day we have found the perfect, unchangeable system of work, the perfect answer, never in need of being corrected again, on that day we will know that we are wrong, that we have made the greatest mistake of all."
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Agreed, Pat. DT, slight correction....I'm not "fighting" anything anymore. Did that for a long time, had enough. Now I'm just trying to be very concentrated on helping those in my sphere....which more or less started when my father got sick.....caring for him changed me profoundly....and after he was gone I just shifted my attention to others in the family (and friends) who need help. Sure beats fighting. ![]() |
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The T ![]() Special Collaborator ![]() ![]() Honorary Collaborator Joined: October 16 2006 Location: FL, USA Status: Offline Points: 17493 |
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So what's clear now is that many people believe what they believe because of personal experiences and out of being the exact opposite of what they use to believe or be surrounded by. So we're basically saying political beliefs are gut reactions. No wonder people get upset and call names at each other like Geoff does. When the politics belief of one is so personal, so intrinsically tied to one's whole life structure, it's no wonder any mere attack on the probable validity of this will cause immediate defensive reaction which will eventually turn offensive.
That's what worries me about too much power on the hands of one person or group of persons. Too much power will enable the purging of past life's sins or avenging of wrongs but through everybody else.
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