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jplanet ![]() Forum Senior Member ![]() ![]() VIP Member Joined: August 30 2006 Location: NJ Status: Offline Points: 799 |
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And man-lampshade isn't extraneous? LOL...
Marriage is not only a legal contract, it is a cultural institution. Duh. Gay people want their marriages to be AS special on all levels to what marriage between straight people is now. Again, you are trivializing the rights gay people are fighting for by equating them to marrying lampshades. |
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thellama73 ![]() Collaborator ![]() ![]() Honorary Collaborator Joined: May 29 2006 Location: United States Status: Offline Points: 8368 |
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Gay marriage is not a cultural institution. It never has been in any society. Heterosexual marriage is a cultural institution, but only because it has been widely practiced and sanctioned for thousands of years. Traditions don't work by the passage of legislation, they work through repetition over long periods of time. If you think that the legalization of gay marriage (which I, again, support) will suddenly include you in a thousand year old institution you are fooling yourself. You have to build your own traditions. I can say "I want my secret society to be AS special the Freemasons" but it's not going to happen. Not without centuries of hard work, anyway. Edited by thellama73 - September 13 2010 at 14:32 |
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Equality 7-2521 ![]() Forum Senior Member ![]() ![]() Joined: August 11 2005 Location: Philly Status: Offline Points: 15784 |
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It's a religious institution. Our culture has adopted it as it has adopted many Judeo-Christian beliefs and values. So you want religions to recognize gay marriage? Sorry, it doesn't work like that. You don't get to tell private people what to think.
I'm not trivializing anything. I'm just removing the government from the activity and openning it to all people. By your logic I'm trivalizing it for every group involved, which I supppose could be a valid criticism, but I hardly see how government involvement elevates an activity.
EDIT: Yes actually something I introduce to my argument is not extraneous to my argument. Something you introduce to my argument, which I have not done, is extraneous. It's pretty simple really. Edited by Equality 7-2521 - September 13 2010 at 15:38 |
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"One had to be a Newton to notice that the moon is falling, when everyone sees that it doesn't fall. "
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The T ![]() Special Collaborator ![]() ![]() Honorary Collaborator Joined: October 16 2006 Location: FL, USA Status: Offline Points: 17493 |
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Slartibartfast ![]() Collaborator ![]() ![]() Honorary Collaborator / In Memoriam Joined: April 29 2006 Location: Atlantais Status: Offline Points: 29630 |
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Don't Ask, Don't Tell Deemed UnconstitutionalOK, who the hell leaked that out?![]() |
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Released date are often when it it impacted you but recorded dates are when it really happened...
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JLocke ![]() Prog Reviewer ![]() ![]() Joined: November 18 2007 Status: Offline Points: 4900 |
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Of course, this has already been addressed, but I've been gone a couple of days, so here's my two cents. I don't think anybody here who opposes marriage as a government institution has come to that conclusion in the way you are suggesting. I personally don't believe in the concept of marriage, either. But as long as people are indeed getting married, everyone should be allowed to do it, yes. Would I rather the government not have anything to do with marriage? Absolutely. But the issues are separate for me; gay marriage should be allowed as long as marriage continues to exist in the present form, because that's equality. But as has been pointed out before, it would solve everybody's problem if the government left marriage alone entirely. Me saying that does not change my opinion than barring gays from marrying is still wrong. Of course it is. |
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Equality 7-2521 ![]() Forum Senior Member ![]() ![]() Joined: August 11 2005 Location: Philly Status: Offline Points: 15784 |
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Well played sir.
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"One had to be a Newton to notice that the moon is falling, when everyone sees that it doesn't fall. "
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thellama73 ![]() Collaborator ![]() ![]() Honorary Collaborator Joined: May 29 2006 Location: United States Status: Offline Points: 8368 |
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Wow, T, you got Pat to use an emoticon! Well played indeed.
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The T ![]() Special Collaborator ![]() ![]() Honorary Collaborator Joined: October 16 2006 Location: FL, USA Status: Offline Points: 17493 |
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He laughed, he used an emoticon, he used the word "well" in regards to a post of mine, he even said "sir"... ...There's hope for us, for all mankind... (or I guess I chose the right day to resume using acid, eating mushrooms and shooting smack.... ) |
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Rabid ![]() Forum Senior Member ![]() Joined: May 20 2008 Location: Bridge of Knows Status: Offline Points: 512 |
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Something in myself that I've kept hidden?? What......you mean like in 'Alien'?
You obviously know much more about 2) than me....which lotions do you use ?
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Textbook ![]() Forum Senior Member ![]() Joined: October 08 2009 Status: Offline Points: 3281 |
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I think straight people who think that gay people might jump on them in the shower are unwittingly revealing something about themselves, specifically that they themselves might jump on another member of the opposite sex in the shower. Why else would the notion that two sexually compatible people could sensibly and calmly shower alongside each other be so alien to them?
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The T ![]() Special Collaborator ![]() ![]() Honorary Collaborator Joined: October 16 2006 Location: FL, USA Status: Offline Points: 17493 |
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Actually, I was thinking for a few seconds about the whole shower issue and I realize it should be gay men the ones who wouldn't want to shower with attractive straight soldiers...
... Let's say I take a shower next to an attractive woman... Yes, I will not jump on her of course, I'm in control to let reality dominate pleasure, stop the inner animal inside, and just take the damn shower. But if she's attractive, there might be... unwanted physical reactions, the discovery of which by the showering woman would cause an utter embarrassment. Now, if we take this to the gay/soldier scenario, we see why gay soldiers should avoid such situations... ![]() ![]() |
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jplanet ![]() Forum Senior Member ![]() ![]() VIP Member Joined: August 30 2006 Location: NJ Status: Offline Points: 799 |
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I am sure that the fear is of being objectified in the mind of the gay soldiers, rather than any actual physical advances. Which has some validity, and I am sure is what drives men to choose male doctors and women to choose female doctors.
All I can offer to console someone who is concerned about that, is to tell them to realize that if someone will objectify anyone, it will happen regardless of whether they are clothed, and that in a don't ask/don't tell situation, you are at a disadvantage because you cannot be aware of who may objectify you...It is honesty that is not permitted now, not having gays in the military. And people objectify other people all the time, that's just life. Edited by jplanet - September 14 2010 at 01:04 |
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Slartibartfast ![]() Collaborator ![]() ![]() Honorary Collaborator / In Memoriam Joined: April 29 2006 Location: Atlantais Status: Offline Points: 29630 |
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I tried snorting crack but the rocks kept falling out. ![]() Quotes "Number of times Jesus condemns homosexuality: Zero. Number of times he condemns divorce: 4. Adultery: 9. Number of New Testament verses condemning the rich: 20+. Number condemning gay marriage: Zero." Edited by Slartibartfast - September 14 2010 at 04:41 |
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Epignosis ![]() Special Collaborator ![]() ![]() Honorary Collaborator Joined: December 30 2007 Location: Raeford, NC Status: Offline Points: 32553 |
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Number of times Jesus condemns arson: Zero Number of times Jesus condemns littering: Zero Number of times Jesus condemns incest: Zero Number of times Jesus condemns bestiality: Zero Number of times Jesus condemns drunk driving: Zero Number of times Jesus condemns child molestation: Zero Number of times Jesus condemns drug addiction: Zero Number of times Jesus condemns arguments from silence: Zero Jesus did endorse a definition of marriage: And He answered and said to them, “Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning ‘made them male and female,’ “and said, ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh?’” (Matt. 19:4.) |
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Easy Money ![]() Special Collaborator ![]() ![]() Honorary Collaborator / Retired Admin Joined: August 11 2007 Location: Memphis Status: Offline Points: 10679 |
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True, the New Testament is very consistent and thorough about its attitude towards the wealthy, funny that you never hear about those verses even here on PA from those that like to quote from the Bible. Edited by Easy Money - September 14 2010 at 07:31 |
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Epignosis ![]() Special Collaborator ![]() ![]() Honorary Collaborator Joined: December 30 2007 Location: Raeford, NC Status: Offline Points: 32553 |
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Would it matter? Very few people here believe in the Bible. If you will notice, I quote scripture to show what I believe, not what I expect others to believe. The topic of wealth is such an interesting one, especially since the notion of wealth accumulation in the ancient Near Eastern world is a different concept than what we understand. |
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Easy Money ![]() Special Collaborator ![]() ![]() Honorary Collaborator / Retired Admin Joined: August 11 2007 Location: Memphis Status: Offline Points: 10679 |
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^ I think you pick and choose what Bible verses are best for you. I can pull up plenty posts in economic/political discussions on PA where you defend the wealthy which is at complete odds with the teachings of Jesus in the New Testament. Meanwhile, most if not all verses condemning homosexuality are found in the Old Testament.
Any Bible scholar can tell you the rule of law in the Old Testament was superseded by Jesus' sacrifice in the New Testament. |
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Equality 7-2521 ![]() Forum Senior Member ![]() ![]() Joined: August 11 2005 Location: Philly Status: Offline Points: 15784 |
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"One had to be a Newton to notice that the moon is falling, when everyone sees that it doesn't fall. "
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Epignosis ![]() Special Collaborator ![]() ![]() Honorary Collaborator Joined: December 30 2007 Location: Raeford, NC Status: Offline Points: 32553 |
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Did you even read the article I linked to? I just said the notion of wealth accumulation in the Ancient Near East is very different from that which we in the US have. It is not wrong to be wealthy- the Bible tells us that in plenty of places. It is when one's wealth becomes more important than following Christ and obeying his commands that there's a problem. I defend the wealthy from the government taking what they've earned. That position is not unbiblical. If you want to see what the Bible has to say about wealth, here and here. So if the bolded statement above is true (I'm not saying it is or isn't), then is murder okay now? And by the way, the Old Testament law never applied to me in the first place. I'm a Gentile and I've never lived among the Israelites. Notice how I've never once quoted a passage about homosexuality from the OT law in these discussions. |
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