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Direct Link To This Post Posted: September 13 2010 at 13:59
And man-lampshade isn't extraneous? LOL...

Marriage is not only a legal contract, it is a cultural institution. Duh. Gay people want their marriages to be AS special on all levels to what marriage between straight people is now. Again, you are trivializing the rights gay people are fighting for by equating them to marrying lampshades.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: September 13 2010 at 14:30
Originally posted by jplanet jplanet wrote:

And man-lampshade isn't extraneous? LOL...

Marriage is not only a legal contract, it is a cultural institution. Duh. Gay people want their marriages to be AS special on all levels to what marriage between straight people is now. Again, you are trivializing the rights gay people are fighting for by equating them to marrying lampshades.




Gay marriage is not a cultural institution. It never has been in any society. Heterosexual marriage is a cultural institution, but only because it has been widely practiced and sanctioned for thousands of years. Traditions don't work by the passage of legislation, they work through repetition over long periods of time. If you think that the legalization of gay marriage (which I, again, support) will suddenly include you in a thousand year old institution you are fooling yourself. You have to build your own traditions.

I can say "I want my secret society to be AS special the Freemasons" but it's not going to happen. Not without centuries of hard work, anyway.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: September 13 2010 at 15:37
Originally posted by jplanet jplanet wrote:

And man-lampshade isn't extraneous? LOL...

Marriage is not only a legal contract, it is a cultural institution. Duh. Gay people want their marriages to be AS special on all levels to what marriage between straight people is now. Again, you are trivializing the rights gay people are fighting for by equating them to marrying lampshades.


 
It's a religious institution. Our culture has adopted it as it has adopted many Judeo-Christian beliefs and values. So you want religions to recognize gay marriage? Sorry, it doesn't work like that. You don't get to tell private people what to think.
 
I'm not trivializing anything. I'm just removing the government from the activity and openning it to all people. By your logic I'm trivalizing it for every group involved, which I supppose could be a valid criticism, but I hardly see how government involvement elevates an activity.
 
EDIT: Yes actually something I introduce to my argument is not extraneous to my argument. Something you introduce to my argument, which I have not done, is extraneous. It's pretty simple really.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: September 13 2010 at 16:56



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Direct Link To This Post Posted: September 13 2010 at 17:01

Don't Ask, Don't Tell Deemed Unconstitutional

OK, who the hell leaked that out? Tongue

Released date are often when it it impacted you but recorded dates are when it really happened...

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: September 13 2010 at 17:25
Originally posted by jplanet jplanet wrote:

Funny how people are only interested in keeping the government out of marriage now that gay people want in.

"Oh, we have to let gay people in the club? Come to think of it, we shouldn't even have this club to begin with!"

I find it humorous that you think your opinion is absent of the blatant bigotry that is so transparent in your reasoning. I mean, you can't possibly be serious! I'm sure your posts are an April Fool's joke...


Of course, this has already been addressed, but I've been gone a couple of days, so here's my two cents.

I don't think anybody here who opposes marriage as a government institution has come to that conclusion in the way you are suggesting. I personally don't believe in the concept of marriage, either. But as long as people are indeed getting married, everyone should be allowed to do it, yes. Would I rather the government not have anything to do with marriage? Absolutely. But the issues are separate for me; gay marriage should be allowed as long as marriage continues to exist in the present form, because that's equality. But as has been pointed out before, it would solve everybody's problem if the government left marriage alone entirely. Me saying that does not change my opinion than barring gays from marrying is still wrong. Of course it is. 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: September 13 2010 at 17:32
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Well played sir. LOL
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: September 13 2010 at 21:16
Wow, T, you got Pat to use an emoticon! Well played indeed.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: September 13 2010 at 21:40
Originally posted by thellama73 thellama73 wrote:

Wow, T, you got Pat to use an emoticon! Well played indeed.

He laughed, he used an emoticon, he used the word "well" in regards to a post of mine, he even said "sir"... 

...There's hope for us, for all mankind...

(or I guess I chose the right day to resume using acid, eating mushrooms and shooting smack.... )


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: September 13 2010 at 23:42
Originally posted by The T The T wrote:

Originally posted by Rabid Rabid wrote:

I don't understand the paranoia of showering with gay people......if you're hetrosexual and someone who's homosexual approaches you, is it beyond capability and intelligence to simply say 'no thanks, I'm hetrosexual'?
 
If you're THAT bothered by it, take a cork into the shower with you.
 
Pinch
 

The only two reasons to be afraid of showering with gay people are: 

1) Afraid they might rape you (?!?)

2) Afraid you might like what you see and YOU might find something in your self that you kept hidden. 

So the cork is not a good option. For 1) you might take a gun to the shower. For 2) the best idea is to bring vaseline, latex and lotions... Tongue 


 
Something in myself that I've kept hidden??  What......you mean like in  'Alien'? 
You obviously know much more about 2) than me....which lotions do you use ?  LOL
 
Wink  (Don't misinterpret the wink....I'm not making advances).  Big smile
 
 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: September 14 2010 at 00:01
I think straight people who think that gay people might jump on them in the shower are unwittingly revealing something about themselves, specifically that they themselves might jump on another member of the opposite sex in the shower. Why else would the notion that two sexually compatible people could sensibly and calmly shower alongside each other be so alien to them?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: September 14 2010 at 00:15
Actually, I was thinking for a few seconds about the whole shower issue and I realize it should be gay men the ones who wouldn't want to shower with attractive straight soldiers... 

... Let's say I take a shower next to an attractive woman... Yes, I will not jump on her of course, I'm in control to let reality dominate pleasure, stop the inner animal inside, and just take the damn shower. But if she's attractive, there might be... unwanted physical reactions, the discovery of which by the showering woman would cause an utter embarrassment. 

Now, if we take this to the gay/soldier scenario, we see why gay soldiers should avoid such situations... 

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: September 14 2010 at 00:40
I am sure that the fear is of being objectified in the mind of the gay soldiers, rather than any actual physical advances. Which has some validity, and I am sure is what drives men to choose male doctors and women to choose female doctors.

All I can offer to console someone who is concerned about that, is to tell them to realize that if someone will objectify anyone, it will happen regardless of whether they are clothed, and that in a don't ask/don't tell situation, you are at a disadvantage because you cannot be aware of who may objectify you...It is honesty that is not permitted now, not having gays in the military. And people objectify other people all the time, that's just life.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: September 14 2010 at 04:31
Originally posted by The T The T wrote:

Originally posted by thellama73 thellama73 wrote:

Wow, T, you got Pat to use an emoticon! Well played indeed.

He laughed, he used an emoticon, he used the word "well" in regards to a post of mine, he even said "sir"... 

...There's hope for us, for all mankind...

(or I guess I chose the right day to resume using acid, eating mushrooms and shooting smack.... )



I tried snorting crack but the rocks kept falling out. LOL

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"Number of times Jesus condemns homosexuality: Zero. 
  Number of times he condemns divorce: 4.  Adultery: 9. 
  Number of New Testament verses condemning the rich: 20+.
  Number condemning gay marriage: Zero."

       --  Pastor Fuzz    Link  


Edited by Slartibartfast - September 14 2010 at 04:41
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: September 14 2010 at 07:09
Originally posted by Slartibartfast Slartibartfast wrote:

Originally posted by The T The T wrote:

Originally posted by thellama73 thellama73 wrote:

Wow, T, you got Pat to use an emoticon! Well played indeed.

He laughed, he used an emoticon, he used the word "well" in regards to a post of mine, he even said "sir"... 

...There's hope for us, for all mankind...

(or I guess I chose the right day to resume using acid, eating mushrooms and shooting smack.... )



I tried snorting crack but the rocks kept falling out. LOL

Quotes
 
"Number of times Jesus condemns homosexuality: Zero. 
  Number of times he condemns divorce: 4.  Adultery: 9. 
  Number of New Testament verses condemning the rich: 20+.
  Number condemning gay marriage: Zero."

       --  Pastor Fuzz    Link  


Number of times Jesus condemns arson: Zero
Number of times Jesus condemns littering: Zero
Number of times Jesus condemns incest: Zero
Number of times Jesus condemns bestiality: Zero
Number of times Jesus condemns drunk driving: Zero
Number of times Jesus condemns child molestation: Zero
Number of times Jesus condemns drug addiction: Zero
Number of times Jesus condemns arguments from silence: Zero

Jesus did endorse a definition of marriage: 
And He answered and said to them, “Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning ‘made them male and female,’ “and said, ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh?’” (Matt. 19:4.)
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: September 14 2010 at 07:30
Originally posted by Slartibartfast Slartibartfast wrote:



Originally posted by The T The T wrote:


Originally posted by thellama73 thellama73 wrote:

Wow, T, you got Pat to use an emoticon! Well played indeed.

He laughed, he used an emoticon, he used the word "well" in regards to a post of mine, he even said "sir"... 
...There's hope for us, for all mankind...
(or I guess I chose the right day to resume using acid, eating mushrooms and shooting smack.... )
I tried snorting crack but the rocks kept falling out. LOL<font><font size="+1">Quotes
      
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"Number of times Jesus condemns homosexuality: Zero. 
  Number of times he condemns divorce: 4.  Adultery: 9. 
      
  Number of New Testament verses condemning the rich: 20+.
  Number condemning gay marriage: Zero.

True, the New Testament is very consistent and thorough about its attitude towards the wealthy, funny that you never hear about those verses even here on PA from those that like to quote from the Bible.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: September 14 2010 at 07:43
Originally posted by Easy Money Easy Money wrote:

Originally posted by Slartibartfast Slartibartfast wrote:



Originally posted by The T The T wrote:


Originally posted by thellama73 thellama73 wrote:

Wow, T, you got Pat to use an emoticon! Well played indeed.

He laughed, he used an emoticon, he used the word "well" in regards to a post of mine, he even said "sir"... 
...There's hope for us, for all mankind...
(or I guess I chose the right day to resume using acid, eating mushrooms and shooting smack.... )
I tried snorting crack but the rocks kept falling out. LOL<font><font size="+1">Quotes
      
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"Number of times Jesus condemns homosexuality: Zero. 
  Number of times he condemns divorce: 4.  Adultery: 9. 
      
  Number of New Testament verses condemning the rich: 20+.
  Number condemning gay marriage: Zero.

True, the New Testament is very consistent and thorough about its attitude towards the wealthy, funny that you never hear about those verses even here on PA from those that like to quote from the Bible.


Would it matter?  Very few people here believe in the Bible.  If you will notice, I quote scripture to show what I believe, not what I expect others to believe.

The topic of wealth is such an interesting one, especially since the notion of wealth accumulation in the ancient Near Eastern world is a different concept than what we understand.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: September 14 2010 at 07:51
^ I think you pick and choose what Bible verses are best for you. I can pull up plenty posts in economic/political discussions on PA where you defend the wealthy which is at complete odds with the teachings of Jesus in the New Testament. Meanwhile, most if not all verses condemning homosexuality are found in the Old Testament.
Any Bible scholar can tell you the rule of law in the Old Testament was superseded by Jesus' sacrifice in the New Testament.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: September 14 2010 at 08:03
 
Gary North's 20 volume work examining the biblical justification of the free market system.


Edited by Equality 7-2521 - September 14 2010 at 08:05
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: September 14 2010 at 08:11
Originally posted by Easy Money Easy Money wrote:

^ I think you pick and choose what Bible verses are best for you. I can pull up plenty posts in economic/political discussions on PA where you defend the wealthy which is at complete odds with the teachings of Jesus in the New Testament. Meanwhile, most if not all verses condemning homosexuality are found in the Old Testament.
Any Bible scholar can tell you the rule of law in the Old Testament was superseded by Jesus' sacrifice in the New Testament.


Did you even read the article I linked to?  I just said the notion of wealth accumulation in the Ancient Near East is very different from that which we in the US have.  It is not wrong to be wealthy- the Bible tells us that in plenty of places.  It is when one's wealth becomes more important than following Christ and obeying his commands that there's a problem.

I defend the wealthy from the government taking what they've earned.  That position is not unbiblical.

If you want to see what the Bible has to say about wealth, here and here.

So if the bolded statement above is true (I'm not saying it is or isn't), then is murder okay now?

And by the way, the Old Testament law never applied to me in the first place.  I'm a Gentile and I've never lived among the Israelites.  Notice how I've never once quoted a passage about homosexuality from the OT law in these discussions.
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