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    Posted: September 13 2006 at 19:11
it has come to my attention that a lot of guys here havent done much when it comes to girls, if anything. why is this?
 
im not here to make fun of you guys, my experience is not as high as id like it to be (no gf in a good year or so) so what is it? is it our musical tastes that turn others away? shy? our music takes up a lot of our time (damn long songs)?
 
i know for me, after i broke up with my last gf, which was the beginning of last summer, i decided to take a period of selabasy (sp?) for the summer and just chill with my friends and not have those relationship worries. since then nothing's materialized much, hooked up with a couple of girls but thats it. from here im just gonna see what happens.
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I think there are plenty of guys who have, but I think to those who haven't, it has been comically exaggerated. I'm not in or looking for a relationship right now, becasue frankly, I don't want to. I don't see a need to rush at my age. 
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Never had a girl like me in my entire life, they won't even talk to me Ouch


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Originally posted by heyitsthatguy heyitsthatguy wrote:

Never had a girl like me in my entire life, they won't even talk to me 

No wonder,judging by your avatar picture you seriously need to stop crash-dieting...
     
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I plan on getting a girlfriend in the coming week, I have me sites set on a perfect target.
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    I've had my experiences (perhaps too many), but have been in a period of celibacy for the last four years.

You have to broaden your horizons. Prog fans aren't that plentiful, and even more scarce in female form. It might also help to cut down on socializing here, and get out once in a while.
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I've had a few girlfriends over the years, but that's long time ago. I don't have time or money enough to them now actually.
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This girl likes Syd Barrett, The Flaming Lips, Jefferson Airplane, and tons of great classic rock, which is good enough for me. She's also very pretty and likes me a lot.
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Originally posted by Tony R Tony R wrote:

Originally posted by heyitsthatguy heyitsthatguy wrote:

Never had a girl like me in my entire life, they won't even talk to me 

No wonder,judging by your avatar picture you seriously need to stop crash-dieting...
     


LOL

Seriously though, I have no opportunities, and I've only liked like 3 people, and actually tried to ask out one of them.......and she said yes, but then avoided me for a MONTH, then finally told me she lied the whole time and never liked me, and that I was a stalker. Now I'm too afraid to talk to any girls


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I took a girl out on 2 dates senior year of high school. Furthest I've ever been is tagged out at first.
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Originally posted by Bj-1 Bj-1 wrote:

I've had a few girlfriends over the years, but that's long time ago. I don't have time or money enough to them now actually.


a long time ago? BJ you're only 18,playing doctors and nurses in baby school dont count mate...
    
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So far, I had 3 x's in my life. I had my first girlfriend when I was a sophomore way back my college years. It only lasted 8 months. Reason for break up: Third party.Unhappy

 Right now, I have a steady relationship with my present girlfriend ( who loves Genesis, Camel, Jethro Tull, Dream Theater etc.Approve). We have some pics on the rogues gallery. We'll be celebrating our second anniversary this coming Oct. 31. We're actually thinking of marriage. Nobody can handle my tantrums better than her, I think.

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Originally posted by heyitsthatguy heyitsthatguy wrote:

Originally posted by Tony R Tony R wrote:

Originally posted by heyitsthatguy heyitsthatguy wrote:

Never had a girl like me in my entire life, they won't even talk to me 

No wonder,judging by your avatar picture you seriously need to stop crash-dieting...
     


LOL

Seriously though, I have no opportunities, and I've only liked like 3 people, and actually tried to ask out one of them.......and she said yes, but then avoided me for a MONTH, then finally told me she lied the whole time and never liked me, and that I was a stalker. Now I'm too afraid to talk to any girls



OUCH! Some girls are like that. Well I guess you should try again.Big smile

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ive had more than enough girls after me in my life...
 

Never kissed a girl in my life[IMG]height=17 alt="Big smile" src="http://www.progarchives.com/forum/smileys/smiley4.gif" width=17 align=absMiddle>

 

My friends dont get it, but i do.  I adore girls, i think about girls all day...but i know for the most part its just my animal instinct.  I come from a very good looking family, my mom was a model and my sister is an aspring model, my dad tells me stories of the 70's and his sex life as though he were a rock star (disturbing at times lol!!)

 

But anyways, i dont give a sh*te frankly, i have girls i could be with, relationships and the like....but it never interested me, always seems like a burden whenever i get close to one, and all of the friends i have crying everyday about their girl problems.

 

I have done NOTHING, absolutely NOTHING with girls.  I just cant bring myself to do it...

 

Had a girl this weekend calling me over, BEAUTIFUL girl ive been dying to meet....so i met her, and she was ofcourse leaning in for the kill and then....prog rushes through my head, thoughts of my dads boat, my brother, sister, my music, my life...and im like sh*t stop dont do it you will regret this....and i know i will, i just know it, shed be on my ass bugging me everyday, or worse, shed be awkward and ignore me or some sh*te.

 

I just love being a free, 20 yr old virgin dude who doesnt give a rats ass about chics, and mind you my brother hasnt gotten anything either and hes had trouble getting something, and i always try to tell him to just screw it, but he says its easier for me to say.

 

But once you LOVE you just love and your life is living and thats IT.  Screw it go hire a hooker and have a blast fellas if you really need it!![IMG]height=17 alt=Clap src="http://www.progarchives.com/forum/smileys/smiley32.gif" width=18 align=absMiddle>

 

PEACE!

    

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Originally posted by The Lost Chord The Lost Chord wrote:

ive had more than enough girls after me in my life...
 
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My friends dont get it, but i do.  I adore girls, i fuking think about girls all day...but i know for the most part its just my animal instinct.  I come from a very good looking family, my mom was a model and my sister is an aspring model, my dad tells me stories of the 70's and his sex life as though he were a rock star (disturbing at times lol!!)
 
But anyways, i dont give a sh*te frankly, i have girls i could be with, relationships and the like....but it never interested me, always seems like a burden whenever i get close to one, and all of the friends i have crying everyday about their girl problems.
 
I have done NOTHING, absolutely NOTHING with girls.  I just cant bring myself to do it...
 
Had a girl this weekend calling me over, BEAUTIFUL girl ive been dying to meet....so i met her, and she was ofcourse leaning in for the kill and then....prog rushes through my head, thoughts of my dads boat, my brother, sister, my music, my life...and im like sh*t stop dont do it you will regret this....and i know i will, i just know it, shed be on my ass bugging me everyday, or worse, shed be awkward and ignore me or some sh*te.
 
I just love being a free, 20 yr old virgin dude who doesnt give a rats ass about chics, and mind you my brother hasnt gotten anything either and hes had trouble getting something, and i always try to tell him to just screw it, but he says its easier for me to say.
 
But once you LOVE you just love and your life is living and thats IT.  Screw it go hire a hooker and have a blast fellas if you really need it!!Clap
 
PEACE!


Thats the thing that sucks, I actually want a relationship and no sex, but all the girls go after dickheads who only care ABOUT sex......no justice anywhere


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Originally posted by heyitsthatguy heyitsthatguy wrote:

Never had a girl like me in my entire life, they won't even talk to me 

    
you still have time man... don't worry
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Originally posted by Tony R Tony R wrote:

Originally posted by Bj-1 Bj-1 wrote:

I've had a few girlfriends over the years, but that's long time ago. I don't have time or money enough to them now actually.


a long time ago? BJ you're only 18,playing doctors and nurses in baby school dont count mate...
    

18? I thought he was 16LOL
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Originally posted by Majestic_Mayhem Majestic_Mayhem wrote:

So far, I had 3 x's in my life. I had my first girlfriend when I was a sophomore way back my college years. It only lasted 8 months. Reason for break up: Third party.[IMG]height=17 alt=Unhappy src="http://www.progarchives.com/forum/smileys/smiley6.gif" width=17 align=absMiddle>


 Right now, I have a steady relationship with my present girlfriend ( who loves Genesis, Camel, Jethro Tull, Dream Theater etc.[IMG]height=17 alt=Approve src="http://www.progarchives.com/forum/smileys/smiley14.gif" width=17 align=absMiddle>). We have some pics on the rogues gallery. We'll be celebrating our second anniversary this coming Oct. 31. We're actually thinking of marriage. Nobody can handle my tantrums better than her, I think.


good gor you J.D.
I am in a similar situation

I have a relationship for 5 years now (yes, 5) and we are also thinking of marriage etc. but not yet... in 2-3 years maybe...

the bad thing: she doesn't like Jethro, Genesis etc. tried to convince her many times...
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Originally posted by aapatsos aapatsos wrote:

Originally posted by heyitsthatguy heyitsthatguy wrote:

Never had a girl like me in my entire life, they won't even talk to me 

    
you still have time man... don't worry


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Originally posted by sleeper sleeper wrote:


Originally posted by Tony R Tony R wrote:

Originally posted by Bj-1 Bj-1 wrote:

I've had a few girlfriends over the years, but that's long time ago. I don't have time or money enough to them now actually.


a long time ago? BJ you're only 18,playing doctors and nurses in baby school dont count mate...
    
18? I thought he was 16


well...that's even worse.....
    
    

TLC,use any more expletives and you will be expletive deleted....


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