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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 15 2017 at 11:17
I have to say that this has not really been my experience.  Most of my various girlfriends have liked some prog and continued to do so after the relationship was over, so they weren't just trying to keep me happy.  But certainly most audience members tend to be guys.  Even that, though, varies to some degree by country.  Prog concerts I've been to in France, Belgium, Germany and Scandinavia tend to achieve gender parity (unlike hard rock or heavy metal in those same countries).  It seems to be a US/UK thing (I can't speak for Japan) if anything.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 15 2017 at 11:24
Why don’t women like prog? Who cares.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 15 2017 at 12:43
Why don't people who work in the auto industry like prog? How do we know that people who work in the auto industry don't like prog? We don't. How do we know that girls don't like prog? We don't. This thread has no point really.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 15 2017 at 12:47
Please rename it the "Misogyny Thread", or the "ProgArchives captures the American Zeitgeist" thread.  
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 15 2017 at 15:39
Originally posted by Kepler62 Kepler62 wrote:

Why don't people who work in the auto industry like prog? How do we know that people who work in the auto industry don't like prog? We don't. How do we know that girls don't like prog? We don't. This thread has no point really.

and yet you responded to give us your point
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 15 2017 at 16:01
Why doesn't everybody like prog??! It kills me to not feel validated by other peoples liking the music I like! 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 15 2017 at 21:25
Originally posted by The T The T wrote:

Why doesn't everybody like prog??! It kills me to not feel validated by other peoples liking the music I like! 


One reason I like prog is because no one else does. It is a way I can escape from a world of 21 pilots and Panic at the Disco, whom are actually two of the better pop bands I have heard. But then again, I do wish people would respect my favorite type of music
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 15 2017 at 22:16
BECAUSE PROGRESSIVE MUSIC DOESN'T HAVE MELODIES, CHORD PROGRESSIONS OR RELATABLE LYRICS, THAT'S WHY



Well in mainstream examples:


















Classical music isn't dead, it's more alive than it's ever been. It's just not on MTV.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 15 2017 at 22:25
Oh yeah:



Classical music isn't dead, it's more alive than it's ever been. It's just not on MTV.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 15 2017 at 22:30
Prog + female pop vocals = guaranteed commercial success


Why haven't bands exploited that, they could be raking in billions a night????  Shocked


Edited by Thatfabulousalien - May 15 2017 at 22:30
Classical music isn't dead, it's more alive than it's ever been. It's just not on MTV.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 16 2017 at 00:20
....why don't many girls like Thrash ??
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 16 2017 at 01:26
Probably for the same reason that boys are f*cking clueless.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 16 2017 at 01:48
If a girl is wearing a Slayer TV and can sing the whole lyrics of the Season in the Abyss album back to front, and tell you weather something is Prog, death, black, grindcore or NWOBH, I'm pretty sure she's a metal fan. In fact, I've met quite a few of those in my experience. I've also met prog fans who happened to be girls
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 16 2017 at 02:30
Five come across a few Prog chicks, but less Metal ones. I thought it would've been the other way around ??
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 16 2017 at 03:44

The thing somewhere above about women preferring overall sensations/fenomena (I can't remember the exact wording) rather than details rings true with me, although I can't speak for everyone. I'm not really interested in discussing super-technical stuff, I don't care which exact sub-genre of metal I'm listening to, I find it jarring the way (some... plenty, in my experience) boys always need to know more than whoever they're talking to ("NO YOU DUMBASS ON THE LIVE VERSION IT'S ____ ON BASS") - I just want to chill and enjoy and let all the good music wash over me with cool people...

 
Anyway though some gigs attract plenty of girls, let's face it it's very rarely anything close to 50-50. I'd like more prog and metal girls around! Bring your crew!


Edited by happythe - May 16 2017 at 08:23
Stop me from dreaming?
Okay :-(
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 16 2017 at 04:06
I think a lot of males like prog because they can't get chicks. They live at home with their mothers eat Mars bars wash them down with Coke and when they're not listening to prog they're on their X-box or watching internet porn.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 16 2017 at 06:45
Why are so many rap fans and performers black? why are so many boyband fans teenagers? why are so many 50 Shades of Grey fans women?
We don't need to achieve some sort of bizarre quota and/or equilibrium, things are they way they are and that's fine.

"Sir, we have achieved an even split between native americans, whites, blacks and women when it comes to prog, but we've found 70% of fans are tall"
"I'm 1,84, sir and willing to give my prog credentials to a dwarf in order to reach the desired goal of an even split"
"Fantastic!...oh, wait..only 0.7% of fans are handicapped, we need to ditch almost 50% of the fanbase!"

I'm joking, of course but in a similar vein, I've seen guys complaining that certain movies lack girls, blacks, whites, etc. Positive racism/sexism is still racism/sexism. The only sin for a movie is lacking good actors because someone chose a cast based on things different from acting!
As you can see, I digress a lot

Going back to the topic. My gf loves prog. She's into Yes, ELP and DT among others.
Two random guys agreed to shake hands. Just Because. They felt like it, you know. It was an agreement of sorts...a random agreement.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 16 2017 at 08:30
Originally posted by Kepler62 Kepler62 wrote:

I think a lot of males like prog because they can't get chicks. They live at home with their mothers eat Mars bars wash them down with Coke and when they're not listening to prog they're on their X-box or watching internet porn.


            
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 16 2017 at 08:32
Originally posted by Kepler62 Kepler62 wrote:

I think a lot of males like prog because they can't get chicks. They live at home with their mothers eat Mars bars wash them down with Coke and when they're not listening to prog they're on their X-box or watching internet porn.

Yep, that’s pretty much the jest of it. Big smile
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 16 2017 at 09:18
Originally posted by Kepler62 Kepler62 wrote:

I think a lot of males like prog because they can't get chicks. They live at home with their mothers eat Mars bars wash them down with Coke and when they're not listening to prog they're on their X-box or watching internet porn.


That's bullsh*t. I never eat Mars bars.
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