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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 09 2015 at 18:10
Originally posted by garfunkel garfunkel wrote:

No.  Some folks believe that if there is an ordinance that "makes" everyone accept everyone, then racism, sexism and whatever other nonsense will go away.  Safe spaces for everyone!
Laws are not meant to change how people think or feel but how they act. Simply put, a Law is a system of rules that are enforced through social institutions in order to govern behavior.
Laws, and there are too many to list, can have the added benefit of persuading people to change how they think on a moral level, but again, that is not the intent.
 
You would not set off cherry bombs in your neighbor's driveway all night long because you think it's not acceptable behavior. However, making a public disturbance in the middle of the night would be breaking the law by disturbing the peace.
 
 Just for fun, what came first? The law and then the moral obligation or, the moral obligation and then the law prohibiting you from disturbing the peace, trespassing and other offences?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 09 2015 at 19:00
Ok, I can agree with that. I just don't think the ordinance (for example, the one in Houston mentioned earlier in the thread) necessarily solves the real problem. A law doesn't keep people from doing something, it just allows a punishment.



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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 09 2015 at 19:05
This is not a perfect world, but laws do keep most people from doing whatever they want to. Do you agree?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 09 2015 at 19:14
The basic idea of the laws (idealistic thinking, of course) is to prevent something that already happen to happen again.

If hate crimes and discrimination exists as a rule, you have to establish something to revert this "natural" tendency.

Otherwise, a false simetry could be made: "Everyone is equal, so we dont need a law to protect gay people".
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 09 2015 at 19:16
^ and actually the most important part of fighting prejudice is, of course, the education, and not the criminal part... but, again, you would need to legislate this, because schools and others educational levels dont tend to have a tradition on fighting prejudice (sexual and racial, for that instance).
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 09 2015 at 19:20
Definitely!  Although, I believe some people feel more insecure than others, are looking for unneeded attention and more protection, but it doesn't exist.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 09 2015 at 19:20
Originally posted by GKR GKR wrote:

The basic idea of the laws (idealistic thinking, of course) is to prevent something that already happen to happen again.

If hate crimes and discrimination exists as a rule, you have to establish something to revert this "natural" tendency.

Otherwise, a false simetry could be made: "Everyone is equal, so we dont need a law to protect gay people".
Idealistically, I agree with what you say. But no one will ever be seen as equal because even if people actually do become equal to one another, someone will still cry fowl. "You're Oreo cookie is bigger than mine!" It's human nature, I'm afraid.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 09 2015 at 19:24
Originally posted by Guldbamsen Guldbamsen wrote:

Last summer I attended this gay club called 'Cosy' together with some friends of mine. We often go there because of the fantastic clientele. No such thing as an unmemorable conversation in that place...and none of us are gay.  So on this particular night we thought it'd be the perfect ending to an insanely fun day, and boy were we right!  We find a table overlooking the dancefloor - order beers and drinks - and almost immediately we see this beautiful Asian girl dancing on our right.

Fast forward two weeks. Cosy, a little earlier this time. I'm ordering tequila in the bar, and right there on my left she is! We do a little chit-chat before she leans in and says 'you know I'm trans right?'. 'What?' 
I had absolutely no idea! I instantly feel good about not finding out the hard way. We both laugh about it and there were no bad feelings whatsoever. I still talk to her and consider her a good friend. (Yes her)

I just caught the Anthony Bourdain show where he's in Tokyo, or maybe Singapore, and the trannies are drop-dead gorgeous.  'Course the old bulge 'n tuck was sometimes a giveaway but they do a damn fine job.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 09 2015 at 19:25
Originally posted by garfunkel garfunkel wrote:

Definitely!  Although, I believe some people feel more insecure than others, are looking for unneeded attention and more protection, but it doesn't exist.
And why doesn't it exist? I took up marshal arts to learn to protect myself. I'll never win a UFC cage fight, but I can defend myself. Others can learn to defend themselves too. But they must believe that's possible to defend themselves and that laws exist to help them. To me, they go hand in hand.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 09 2015 at 19:26
Originally posted by RayRo RayRo wrote:

This is not a perfect world, but laws do keep most people from doing whatever they want to. Do you agree?


Nope. Besides the laws that cover "Don't kill", "don't steal", and "don't speed" most people don't know what other laws exist until they break them. It's not law that guide us, it's consequence. And consequences aren't always covered by laws alone.

Being a good person is not something that laws or government can ever, ever shape into being. They can establish the equality between people only as it relates to the bureaucracy. They can't dictate or direct human nature.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 09 2015 at 19:30
Originally posted by RayRo RayRo wrote:

It's human nature, I'm afraid.

There is no human nature, only social construct. Wink

By the way, I forgot: how do we legislate? By demanding as a organized movement - thats the political part of the LGBTA life. Nothing of this is easy or simple, of course.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 09 2015 at 19:30
Originally posted by RayRo RayRo wrote:

And why doesn't it exist? I took up marshal arts to learn to protect myself.

It's martial arts.

Sorry, occupation-related correction.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 09 2015 at 19:32
Originally posted by *frinspar* *frinspar* wrote:

Originally posted by RayRo RayRo wrote:

This is not a perfect world, but laws do keep most people from doing whatever they want to. Do you agree?


Nope. Besides the laws that cover "Don't kill", "don't steal", and "don't speed" most people don't know what other laws exist until they break them. It's not law that guide us, it's consequence. And consequences aren't always covered by laws alone.

Being a good person is not something that laws or government can ever, ever shape into being. They can establish the equality between people only as it relates to the bureaucracy. They can't dictate or direct human nature.
I understand what you are saying but my definition of law, which is universal, is that human behavior is controlled. How it works in someone's mind is not the prime point. Fear. Consequence, Or whatever.
The behavior of the person is governed. If it's governed through fear, it's still governed. 


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 09 2015 at 19:35
Originally posted by Atavachron Atavachron wrote:

Originally posted by RayRo RayRo wrote:

And why doesn't it exist? I took up marshal arts to learn to protect myself.

It's martial arts.

Sorry, occupation-related correction.

Whew! I'm tired! Tae kwon do to be exact.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 09 2015 at 19:38
Or to be politically correct: Taekwondo. Wink
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 09 2015 at 19:43
^ Well-spelled




Edited by Atavachron - November 09 2015 at 19:46
"Too often we enjoy the comfort of opinion without the discomfort of thought."   -- John F. Kennedy
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 09 2015 at 21:00
Originally posted by *frinspar* *frinspar* wrote:

Originally posted by RayRo RayRo wrote:

This is not a perfect world, but laws do keep most people from doing whatever they want to. Do you agree?


Nope. Besides the laws that cover "Don't kill", "don't steal", and "don't speed" most people don't know what other laws exist until they break them. It's not law that guide us, it's consequence. And consequences aren't always covered by laws alone.

Being a good person is not something that laws or government can ever, ever shape into being. They can establish the equality between people only as it relates to the bureaucracy. They can't dictate or direct human nature.

oh if it were but consequence that guides us! the world would be a better place. but alas!, it isn't.

I don't believe for a moment that it is fear of consequences why people don't all murder, steal or rape. it is definitely not for me. I don't do it because there is a tacit agreement about social conduct. even if there weren't any laws at all I would not do it.

this tacit agreement is usually only broken when people are driven to an extreme some way or the other. if I have no means of supplying myself with food or drink in a legal way I will steal.

there are also psychological extremes. so-called "hate crimes" fall in my opinion into this category. some people feel intimidated by people who look or behave differently or who have different believes, however irrational their fear may be.

mere greed, which is often the reason for certain crimes, is in my opinion a psychological extreme as well


Edited by BaldJean - November 09 2015 at 21:04


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 09 2015 at 22:59
That's all about conditioning, really.

As David Coverdale said on Vai's 'Passion and Warfare': We may be human, but we're still animals. Wink

Which goes back to the idea that we can be trained to think differently, as RayRo suggests, but in a dark and heavy-handed, creepy kind of way. I just don't agree that laws are going to change human nature.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 10 2015 at 00:37
You can be trained to do a lot of things but in the back of your mind you are going to think the way you've always thought. Only you can change the way you think.

Laws will not change human nature.
Laws can only control actions. They cannot control thoughts, opinions or beliefs.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 10 2015 at 02:03
Originally posted by garfunkel garfunkel wrote:

No.  Some folks believe that if there is an ordinance that "makes" everyone accept everyone, then racism, sexism and whatever other nonsense will go away.  Safe spaces for everyone!
Originally posted by TeleStrat TeleStrat wrote:

You can be trained to do a lot of things but in the back of your mind you are going to think the way you've always thought. Only you can change the way you think.

Laws will not change human nature.
Laws can only control actions. They cannot control thoughts, opinions or beliefs.
As I said in an earlier post: "you cannot legislate against prejudice, you can only legislate against using prejudice to discriminate". If we permit discrimination then we are condoning prejudice. If you cultivate a society where prejudice is tolerated then you will never be able to educate people to think differently. 

Racial prejudice has not gone away and it never will, and sexism and homophobia will never go away, but we can change the attitudes and perceptions of a significant majority of the population.
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