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Luna
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Posted: September 24 2014 at 21:35 |
It must feel like the rug was pulled from under you. Parents are designed for stability and the most basic level of love and care. They still love you. They still care about you. Their problems with each other are very likely their own and not having anything to do with you. With that, it still is a terrible feeling to have something so basic taken from you. But it's not the end. They might get better. My parents didn't. but they were screaming at each other for years before they decided that.
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A Person
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Posted: September 24 2014 at 21:38 |
:((((
My parents screamed at each other for years and were nearly divorced but got back together, now they seem to mostly be passive aggressive at worst.
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Polymorphia
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Posted: September 24 2014 at 21:42 |
Really hope it isn't final. A horrible thing to happen to any family.
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Billy Pilgrim
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Posted: September 24 2014 at 21:48 |
Billy Pilgrim wrote:
Sorry to hear that Horizons, hopefully your family works this out and you can look back on this as a little bump on an otherwise smooth ride. Sometimes couples go through troubles like this and end up working it out. |
One of my good friends went through this recently. His mom took his sisters and up and moved to a city about 70 miles away from where they were living before. She almost divorced her husband, but gave it time for the kids, lots has happened for them since then but now shes back living at home and they seem happier than ever. Time will help, especially since like you said, they've always been so happy and it felt so perfect. be there for both of them, don't feed any negativity, and be patient, you'll get through it, and they will too. Hope it works out man.
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Horizons
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Posted: September 24 2014 at 22:50 |
Thanks for the support people. It's just very hard for me.
On another note - i've been given a writing assignment on analyzing a piece of art. Naturally i'm trying to think of an album that could be looked into from multiple points - history, lyrics, themes, impact etc. Ideas that i'm considering..
Unknown Pleasures ITCOTCK FOABP
Thoughts? Suggestions?
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Luna
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Posted: September 24 2014 at 22:51 |
To Be Kind is full of depth. And don't say I didn't suggest Nervous Young Man.
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twseel
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Posted: September 25 2014 at 00:26 |
Just like Luna said, they will still love you Austin, and surely it will be resolved at some point and it will become peaceful again. As for tha assignment, try Spiderland
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Billy Pilgrim
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Posted: September 25 2014 at 00:33 |
Just copy paste an album review
For influence ITCOTCK would be best, then you could talk about the effect it had on other artists and what it led to and cram a whole bunch of different stuff in there.
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Icarium
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Posted: September 25 2014 at 05:00 |
have anyone here seeen Wardrobe 13
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twseel
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Posted: September 25 2014 at 07:17 |
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rushfan4
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Posted: September 25 2014 at 07:57 |
Icarium wrote:
have anyone here seeen Wardrobe 13 |
Do you mean Warehouse 13?
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HolyMoly
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Posted: September 25 2014 at 08:20 |
Sorry to hear of your parents' troubles, Austin. Maybe it's all for the best, and the time away will refresh the waters a bit. Still, I can only imagine what it's like to be in your shoes.
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Padraic
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Posted: September 25 2014 at 08:25 |
Horizons wrote:
My parents have been married for 19 years. In my eyes, as well as everyone else's, they are the definition of the perfect marriage. Never argued, never disagreed, provided for each other as well as my sister and i, and loved each other so deeply that it resonated to anyone nearby.
But today they sat me down and told my sister and i that my father will be moving out because they have fallen out of love right now and it has become difficult. This has become the saddest day of my entire and have been completely blindsided by something unimaginable. I wish i could write 10000 words to describe my parents and the relationship they have but at the moment i'm completely shattered.
I'm sorry for anyone who has gone through this and i wouldn't wish this to the worst of people- i hope that love and marriage will become a cherish and successful thing in everyone's life if desired. I love you all.
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Austin I am deeply saddened to hear this, and can't imagine what you must be going through. Especially as this seemed to have come out of nowhere. I hope that you find the strength to get through this, and like all awful things in life, time will be the only real healer. I'm sure they've said this, but it's true: at least never doubt your parents love for you, as a father I can assure you of it. Sending all positive thoughts and energies your way today.
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Mongoose
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Posted: September 25 2014 at 08:34 |
I wouldnt mind watching Wardrobe 13 tbh
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A Person
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Posted: September 25 2014 at 08:53 |
Mongoose wrote:
I wouldnt mind watching Wardrobe 13 tbh |
you have 13 posts :o
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twseel
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Posted: September 25 2014 at 09:35 |
mattress, have you listened to mo*te yet
i cant wait coz i know youll love it like i ssd o
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A Person
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Posted: September 25 2014 at 09:46 |
twseel wrote:
mattress, have you listened to mo*te yet
i cant wait coz i know youll love it like i ssd o |
not yet, i have not yet been in the mood :(
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twseel
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Posted: September 25 2014 at 09:52 |
A Person wrote:
twseel wrote:
mattress, have you listened to mo*te yet
i cant wait coz i know youll love it like i ssd o | not yet, i have not yet been in the mood :( |
thats a downer matt but just let me hear when you are ready to try it out
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A Person
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Posted: September 25 2014 at 09:53 |
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HolyMoly
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Posted: September 25 2014 at 10:06 |
A Person wrote:
Mongoose wrote:
I wouldnt mind watching Wardrobe 13 tbh |
you have 13 posts :o
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13 Fantastic, Unimpeachable Posts, at that.
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