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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 03 2013 at 17:12
Originally posted by smartpatrol smartpatrol wrote:

I see nothing wrong with polygamy, as long as everyone involved is okay with it
I don't think Bestiality should be allowed unless the animal in question can talk in a human language and say that they want it
I think the main problem is that polygamist "relationships" always seem to involve like, 12 year old girls or somebody equally non-consenting
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 03 2013 at 17:43

^ fear mongers, narrow-minded blue-rinse biddies and tabloid journalists used to say that kind of thing about homosexual relationships too.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 03 2013 at 19:30
Until we have mandatory gay polygamy I will not be satisfied.



But nah, what else can be said that hasn't been said 1000000000000000 times?
It's a human right (yeah not a gay right, but much more than that). Simple as that.
Long as it's been consented to by all involved, let em marry. And to deny the right is backwards and frankly just the need to force their personal opinion of "morality" on everyone.



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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 03 2013 at 19:41
Originally posted by Dean Dean wrote:

^ fear mongers, narrow-minded blue-rinse biddies and tabloid journalists used to say that kind of thing about homosexual relationships too.



Some still do!
Actually saw floating around FB "It's obvious gay marriage will just be an easy way for kids to be bait for hungry pedophiles"
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 03 2013 at 19:57
Originally posted by JJLehto JJLehto wrote:

Originally posted by Dean Dean wrote:

^ fear mongers, narrow-minded blue-rinse biddies and tabloid journalists used to say that kind of thing about homosexual relationships too.



Some still do!
Actually saw floating around FB "It's obvious gay marriage will just be an easy way for kids to be bait for hungry pedophiles"
Obviously the lack of gay marriage law was all that it took to prevent Priests, athletic coaches, and Elmo puppeteers to sexually abuse children.   Oh wait...it didn't.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 03 2013 at 19:59
Originally posted by stonebeard stonebeard wrote:

Originally posted by AlexDOM AlexDOM wrote:

If all states pass gay marriage which will happen, then polygamy, bestiality, and everything else is for grabs.

Not really. It is striking that homosexual relationships are so easily equated with bestiality.


I don't think he's equating homosexuality with bestiality; I think he's arguing more for a foot-in-the-door type of theory, where permitting one thing would open the floodgates for more and more permissiveness.  I think there's something to that theory, although I disagree with the idea that more permissiveness is a bad thing.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 03 2013 at 20:46
Originally posted by Ambient Hurricanes Ambient Hurricanes wrote:

Originally posted by stonebeard stonebeard wrote:

Originally posted by AlexDOM AlexDOM wrote:

If all states pass gay marriage which will happen, then polygamy, bestiality, and everything else is for grabs.

Not really. It is striking that homosexual relationships are so easily equated with bestiality.


I don't think he's equating homosexuality with bestiality; I think he's arguing more for a foot-in-the-door type of theory, where permitting one thing would open the floodgates for more and more permissiveness.  I think there's something to that theory, although I disagree with the idea that more permissiveness is a bad thing.

As far as slippery slopes go, it's pretty poor. I would reckon gay relationships/marriages have far more approval then polygamous ones, and so incredibly vastly overwhelmingly more approval than bestial...whatever you call those. Let's not pretend like this is a foot in the door to those things. It's a last-ditch effort to instill a fear for something most Americans want to have happen. 

And in case it comes up, I don't really see why polygamous marriage should necessarily be out of the question. I just don't think it would come up in debate because almost no one at all pursues it.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 03 2013 at 21:26
Originally posted by stonebeard stonebeard wrote:

Originally posted by Ambient Hurricanes Ambient Hurricanes wrote:

Originally posted by stonebeard stonebeard wrote:

Originally posted by AlexDOM AlexDOM wrote:

If all states pass gay marriage which will happen, then polygamy, bestiality, and everything else is for grabs.

Not really. It is striking that homosexual relationships are so easily equated with bestiality.


I don't think he's equating homosexuality with bestiality; I think he's arguing more for a foot-in-the-door type of theory, where permitting one thing would open the floodgates for more and more permissiveness.  I think there's something to that theory, although I disagree with the idea that more permissiveness is a bad thing.

As far as slippery slopes go, it's pretty poor. I would reckon gay relationships/marriages have far more approval then polygamous ones, and so incredibly vastly overwhelmingly more approval than bestial...whatever you call those. Let's not pretend like this is a foot in the door to those things. It's a last-ditch effort to instill a fear for something most Americans want to have happen. 

And in case it comes up, I don't really see why polygamous marriage should necessarily be out of the question. I just don't think it would come up in debate because almost no one at all pursues it.


In the middle of last century, most people would have scoffed at the notion of gay marriage eventually being allowed.  I don't think that polygamy is going to be allowed any time soon; I think, however, that we will probably see a gradual progression in the US of more and more sexual permissiveness in our laws and in our culture.  The thing about it is, however, that trying to stop the government from recognizing gay marriage in this country is somewhat pointless.  Gay marriage is already recognized in our culture; the government following suit is merely a formality as far as actually having an effect on the culture goes.  Of course, it means more when it comes to benefits and legal status and other things like that.

I think the whole polygamy thing is a little weird because, from a Christian perspective, it's much less of an issue than homosexual marriage.  Scripture never explicitly condemns it (although it does restrict pastors to monogamy).  The taboo on polygamy is much more of a cultural than a biblical thing; you can make a convincing argument from Scripture that polygamy is sin, but the Old and New Testament authors were much more concerned about homosexuality. 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 04 2013 at 04:11

I've always thought polygamy as a form of masochism. Polynagging, polybackseat driving, ploytake the trash out, poly-mother-in-laws? Ermm No thanks.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 04 2013 at 04:39
I accept "civil unions" but oppose gay marriage.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 04 2013 at 05:14
Originally posted by Snow Dog Snow Dog wrote:

I accept "civil unions" but oppose gay marriage.
I oppose this statement because its meaning varies from country to country, state to state. For example a couple joined by civil union is only legally valid in the country or state it was made. Civil marriage is recognised internationally, civil union is not.
 
If you were to say "I accept civil gay marriage but oppose gays partaking in the religious rite of marriage" then I'd have no objection (since I am an athiest such rites are irrelevant to me). Making this a religious argument is the same as saying I oppose athiest marriage.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 04 2013 at 06:47
It's kind of funny that this debate is so hot in a country which prides itself as the country of freedom Confused

BTW regarding previous comments regarding the 'naturalness' or otherwise of homosexuality, it is indeed some mystery how and why homosexuality has endured Darwinian natural selection for so long (I guess few doubt by now that it has genetic components), but not any more a mystery as why do we still have genetic diseases such as cystic fibrosis which causes infertility in 97% of the affected people. A simplistic interpretation of Darwinian natural selection would suggest that such a genetic disorder should have been long eradicated from the gene pool but the reality is that it has not (in fact it is fairly common among Caucasians), and many other examples abound. Proof that nature can not be so simplistically interpreted (and to clarify, I'm not saying that homosexuality is a disease!).

There are theories regarding a possible evolutionary advantage of communities with homosexual members:





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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 04 2013 at 07:00
Originally posted by rushfan4 rushfan4 wrote:


There are multiple points of view, but essentially you have the liberal side that says love is love let anyone marry who wants to marry.  Then there is the conservative side that says that God says that marriage is between a man and a woman and homosexuality is a morally reprehensible sin.   And then there are all points in between. 
I'm digressing here, but it's always amusing that in the US you call 'liberals' the center-left (democrats) and 'conservatives' the center-right (republicans) while in Europe we use the term 'liberals' for the center-right (conservatives, pro-capitalist system, christian-democrats). (and the term 'socialists' for the center-left, which nowadays are not much different from liberals but just with a bit more social-oriented agenda).

These terminologies (even the simple 'right' and 'left' words) were based on social environments which are no longer valid and I think that by now in the 21st century it's time that society should make a profound reflection and revision, because many not-so-well-educated people still forge their ideologies based on such cliches and terminologies without understanding what they are actually supporting, and heavily distorting the current political landscapes.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 04 2013 at 07:08
^let's confuse the particular with the Estates General:
Blame the French, the seating arrangements were their fault dammitWink
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 04 2013 at 09:18


I think the whole polygamy thing is a little weird because, from a Christian perspective, it's much less of an issue than homosexual marriage.  Scripture never explicitly condemns it (although it does restrict pastors to monogamy).  The taboo on polygamy is much more of a cultural than a biblical thing; you can make a convincing argument from Scripture that polygamy is sin, but the Old and New Testament authors were much more concerned about homosexuality. 
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No, I think the concern was on sexual immorality period... Whether that be hetero, homo, bestiality, lust in general, porn, etc.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 04 2013 at 09:20
Originally posted by Gerinski Gerinski wrote:


Originally posted by rushfan4 rushfan4 wrote:


There are multiple points of view, but essentially you have the liberal side that says love is love let anyone marry who wants to marry.  Then there is the conservative side that says that God says that marriage is between a man and a woman and homosexuality is a morally reprehensible sin.   And then there are all points in between. 

I'm digressing here, but it's always amusing that in the US you call 'liberals' the center-left (democrats) and 'conservatives' the center-right (republicans) while in Europe we use the term 'liberals' for the center-right (conservatives, pro-capitalist system, christian-democrats). (and the term 'socialists' for the center-left, which nowadays are not much different from liberals but just with a bit more social-oriented agenda).
These terminologies (even the simple 'right' and 'left' words) were based on social environments which are no longer valid and I think that by now in the 21st century it's time that society should make a profound reflection and revision, because many not-so-well-educated people still forge their ideologies based on such cliches and terminologies without understanding what they are actually supporting, and heavily distorting the current political landscapes.
Many well-educated people also do. Sometimes because they know it's convenient for them. And most are called "politicians". Specially here in the US, painting every political debate as a two-road-only alternative it's quite good for both parties.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 04 2013 at 09:23


I don't think he's equating homosexuality with bestiality; I think he's arguing more for a foot-in-the-door type of theory, where permitting one thing would open the floodgates for more and more permissiveness.  I think there's something to that theory, although I disagree with the idea that more permissiveness is a bad thing.
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Yes I am equating them, sin is sin according to scripture and in God's eyes. Sure some carry different consequences and weight, but both are against God and separate us from Him apart from Christ. 
Although sexual sin is in a category on its own compared to others for numerous reasons.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 04 2013 at 09:33
^And that is your business why?  Even if we take some 2000 year old poorly written novel as the word of god (the equivalent of me taking Action Comics #1 as the word of superman), why is it your business?  If you are "right" with your god, isn't other people's relationship with their god, their own business and none of yours?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 04 2013 at 10:09
Originally posted by Gerinski Gerinski wrote:

It's kind of funny that this debate is so hot in a country which prides itself as the country of freedom Confused

 
Yes...it is.
 
 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 04 2013 at 10:21
Freedom to conservatives in the US means freedom for the haves to take advantage of the have nots and freedom for the religious to control the lives of everyone else. 
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