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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 21 2012 at 10:16
Originally posted by Sean Trane Sean Trane wrote:

Originally posted by Dean Dean wrote:

Originally posted by Sean Trane Sean Trane wrote:

This doesn't mean that all subjects should be openly discussed... Obviously there is a fine line - which I'd hate to qualify as "politically correct" (and often is not politically correct, because it resembles to censorship), but it's clearly about the abuse of political correctness issue to make censorship (speaking of the abortion debate issue here, not the thread itself)... The censorship of the use of the word "vagina" is simply inacceptible in a free-speech society... How can an anatomical word be a dirty word??  In the name of prudery???
 
Let's call a cat a pussy then, shall we??LOL
You need to read the background of this "vagina" incident - the objection was not about the use of the word "vagina", the word "vagina" was not the subject of censorship - Lisa Brown was censured for the how she used the word, she was not censored for using it. Unfortunately - poor journalism and even poorer reading-skills have done their usual trick of ensuring this story is coitused up (anatomically correct word) beyond recognition. That is the real sad indictment on the state of the world today.
 
I had read enough of it to know (at least I think so) that it was the way she replied using her own sex that was the problem (despite the guy saying he'd use the word in front of en and not in front of women, showing this dude's got a heavy psychological problem),
Then evidently you did not read enough. The "guy" who censured her for the context in which she used it was not the same "dude" who said he would not use the word in front of women. So the second "dude" was a knee-jerk reactionist who also managed to completely miss-read the situation.
 
Originally posted by Sean Trane Sean Trane wrote:

 
This is still a censorship problem, because essentially, abortion is a 99% feminine-only issue and problem.... yet it seems that it's always (or mostly) the ones that are not concerned by the problem that make it an even more complicated problem for those who are concerned.... so she obviously told the guy, that he was not concerned and to stopping worrying about her wombs... So the guy clearly losing the point cried foul (on what possible grounds, I wonder)
That's still misreading the context and use of the word. But once again - it does not matter.
 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 21 2012 at 10:36
Just realize us Michiganders are really quite Censored up and taken in that context it all makes perfect sense. LOL

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 21 2012 at 10:38
"One week ago, the Michigan House of Representatives was taking up some of the most restrictive anti-choice legislation in the country. It was in the context of this bill that I said, "Finally Mr. Speaker, I'm flattered that you're all so interested in my vagina, but 'no' means 'no.'"

You can watch me say that here. My comment is made around the 1:50 mark, and you can see exactly how the legislators seated behind me reacted. While there was a scatter of applause from my colleagues, there were no dropped jaws, bulging eyes or fainting. In fact, the only remarkable thing about their response is that there was virtually no response at all.

Not until the next day. That's when I got word that Republican House leaders had banned me and my colleague Rep. Barb Byrum from speaking on the House floor. I was shocked.

Given my speech, I could only assume it was because I spoke to my Jewish values or because I had said vagina. But later that day, Rep. Mike Callton told the press that what I had said was so vile, so disgusting, that he could never bear to mention it in front of women or "mixed company."

Since we share the same religion, I'm guessing he wasn't referring to my kosher sets of dishes. Even though Callton has a bachelor's degree in biology and worked as a chiropractor, it was the word "vagina" that did him in.

As a storm of protest grew against our silencing and women across the state started to rally around my use of the word vagina, Republicans changed course. They insisted they had no problem with vaginas. Byrum and I were being punished for our lack of decorum. We were accused of throwing a "temper tantrum."

Take another look at the video. Do you see a temper tantrum? Does that look like a group of people shocked by what we said or how we behaved?



When complaints about our banning picked up pace, Republicans tried again. This time, their story was that I was kept from speaking because I said "no means no."

As Republicans continued to throw mud against the wall to see what stuck, they only made it worse for themselves. Thousands of women, not only in Michigan but across the country and even around the globe, saw exactly what was going on. What they saw was a male-dominated legislative body going to great lengths to silence two women who dared speak in opposition to a measure that would limit access to our health care. They saw it, and they didn't like it."

- Lisa Brown 6/21/12



Edited by Slartibartfast - June 21 2012 at 10:42
Released date are often when it it impacted you but recorded dates are when it really happened...

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 21 2012 at 11:31
Originally posted by Easy Livin Easy Livin wrote:

Originally posted by The T The T wrote:


Progarchives.com/forum, the forum on this website has stopped being a music first and foremost forum long time ago, probably since the time of its creation. 

Take off the non-musical discussion from this forum and you will slash traffic in half, if not more. 
 
I sincerely hope that's not the case. Personally, I would be quite happy to see the traffic drastically reduce in order to move the balance back towards the reason the site was set up. We have lost too many fine contributors with a vast knowledge of prog, who became fed up with the way the forum had been hijacked by those with little interest in prog.
 
Perhaps we need a full discussion about the direction the site should pursue in the future. I know a number of high profile figures on the site are currently considering their options as they become worn down by the way things are. The more such people we lose, the more the site drifts from its intended purpose. That cannot be good for its long term future.

Keep in mind that all of us who visit the general discussion forum more often than the music ones were attracted to PA by the music. But then after we had 030129312 discussions on the same subjects we stayed because there were other things we could discuss besides "Yes vs Genesis" or "DTis overrated". Eliminate the general discussions area and you'll have a thriving community of members who will come and go and just a few very consistent ones will remain. At least I think so. 

I wouldn't cry about losing fine contributors. If they left is because they didn't care enough or they got fed up by something or they just wanted PA to be exactly like they wanted to be and all people be exactly like they are. Yes, open-mindedness scares ome people. Let them go to their protective bubbles where they don't have to face any other opinion but one similar to their own. There are tons of talented people PA has lost but tons that have arrived. 

If the site is really going to consider changes for the future, I hope Max leaves the music-exclusive mentality and opens GeneralDiscussionArchives.com Tongue
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 21 2012 at 12:20
Originally posted by The T The T wrote:

Originally posted by Easy Livin Easy Livin wrote:

Originally posted by The T The T wrote:


Progarchives.com/forum, the forum on this website has stopped being a music first and foremost forum long time ago, probably since the time of its creation. 

Take off the non-musical discussion from this forum and you will slash traffic in half, if not more. 
 
I sincerely hope that's not the case. Personally, I would be quite happy to see the traffic drastically reduce in order to move the balance back towards the reason the site was set up. We have lost too many fine contributors with a vast knowledge of prog, who became fed up with the way the forum had been hijacked by those with little interest in prog.
 
Perhaps we need a full discussion about the direction the site should pursue in the future. I know a number of high profile figures on the site are currently considering their options as they become worn down by the way things are. The more such people we lose, the more the site drifts from its intended purpose. That cannot be good for its long term future.

Keep in mind that all of us who visit the general discussion forum more often than the music ones were attracted to PA by the music. But then after we had 030129312 discussions on the same subjects we stayed because there were other things we could discuss besides "Yes vs Genesis" or "DTis overrated". Eliminate the general discussions area and you'll have a thriving community of members who will come and go and just a few very consistent ones will remain. At least I think so. 

I wouldn't cry about losing fine contributors. If they left is because they didn't care enough or they got fed up by something or they just wanted PA to be exactly like they wanted to be and all people be exactly like they are. Yes, open-mindedness scares ome people. Let them go to their protective bubbles where they don't have to face any other opinion but one similar to their own. There are tons of talented people PA has lost but tons that have arrived. 

If the site is really going to consider changes for the future, I hope Max leaves the music-exclusive mentality and opens GeneralDiscussionArchives.com Tongue
Will we ever find those lost buttons?   Cry
 
I agree with Teo - how much can anyone say about this band or that album that hasn't been said a gazillion times before, and there are only so many times you can say "No, Pink Floyd are not overrated", "No, punk didn't kill prog", "No, prog really was called prog back in 1971", "No, modern prog is prog", "No, prog metal is prog", "No, Dream Theatre are not treated badly here", "No, Metallica are not prog", "No, Stratovarius are not prog" "No, Prog does not have to be progressive" etc. regardless of the wide-eyed wonder of the snot-nosed brat that uttered the words, BUT, there are occasionally some very good music discussions,and sometimes there are some new bands or some forgotten old band that does result in "a buzz" of interest around the forum, and sometimes even I can learn something I either did not know, or wasn't aware of. BUT, the non-music side of the forum is also just as repeatative and occasionally just as provoking and interesting,and sometimes even I can learn something I either did not know, or wasn't aware of. I've said this before - it's the people that make this forum, not the topics we discuss, even the peoples that piss me off royally.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 21 2012 at 13:07
^WHAT DO YOU MEAN METALLICA ISN'T PROG
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 21 2012 at 15:14
The T and Dean are spot-on there.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 21 2012 at 15:33

My personal concern which I haven to be using this thread to voice, is for the overall balance and future of the site.

I joined this site in its early days when it was dedicated to prog in what i would define as it's purest form. Believe it or not, we had a long debate about whether Tangerine Dream should be added back then.
 
The general discussions and other non-prog sections were there for those who main passion was the music to discuss other matters of mutual interest. The success of the site though has led to people with little genuine interest in prog joining and participating in primarily the non-prog areas. Their interest in music is comparatively superficial and they spend more time in the non-prog sections than they do writing reviews and contributing to the prog discussions. I am of course generalising and I am of course referring only to certain unnamed members. I don't buy into the like/don't like philosophy with people I've never met, so I will keep my comments general.
 
I would like to see the site pulled back to being first and foremost about the music. I would genuinely like to see those who use the site mainly as a means of discussing controversial and sensitive matters go elsewhere and stop hijacking the site. Of course I do not wish to stop such discussions, but my perception is that they were far more constructive, informed and frankly interesting when they were among friends with a common prime interest.
 
These days, for me the site is spoiled by those who don't really care about it's reason for existing, but use it as a means of massaging their own egos.
 
I am genuinely concerned about the way the site is going. If we lose our prog experts and devotees the site will be in danger and the trolls will simply go elsewhere.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 21 2012 at 16:08
You're concerned that trolls would go elsewhere?
 
But more importantly, your post explicitly yearns for a community where we all have the same interests. Why would you want that? How is it a strength? How is such an attitude progressive or even interesting?
 
If you want to hang out with your buddies, hang out with your buddies. Form an email group. Or perhaps hang out more in the music folders. This is a public forum.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 21 2012 at 16:15
Personally, I wouldn't like to see the general topics taken away.  I think we have some really interesting discussions going on that are mostly devoid of controversy.  I don't shy away from controversy but, I am here for the music.  BTW, just recently added entries for the VHS of Talking Heads - Storytelling Giant, Laurie Anderson - Collected Videos and Home Of The Brave.  Three excellent videos that still aren't available on DVD.


Edited by Slartibartfast - June 21 2012 at 16:18
Released date are often when it it impacted you but recorded dates are when it really happened...

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 21 2012 at 16:28
Originally posted by Epignosis Epignosis wrote:

Originally posted by Dean Dean wrote:

Originally posted by Snow Dog Snow Dog wrote:

All seems a bit crazy to me.  To react to a legitimate word used in context in this way. How american.
To be fair Ian, regardless of the knee-jerk reaction from both camps after the event - the objection at the time was of the context not the word, "Mr Speaker, I'm flattered that you're all so interested in my lady parts, but no means no", would have been just as inapproriate and frankly, cheap. 


I completely agree.

This. I love swearing and being liberal as any 20-something, but they way this is being portrayed by dumb false martyrs sounds like she walked up to the podium, said "Women have have a vagina." and was then censured, disbarred, had her license revoked, fined $50, then enrolled in a rehab program for teaching Congresswomen about the dangers of vaginae.




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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 21 2012 at 17:18
Originally posted by Textbook Textbook wrote:

How is such an attitude progressive [...]?
 



Please stop using that adjective as though it's inherently desirable or that those who love progressive music have to be "progressive" (whatever that means) in other aspects of their lives.  Pinch
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 21 2012 at 17:25

http://www.populist.com/

THE PROGRESSIVE POPULIST, a newspaper that believes people are more important than corporations, premiered in November 1995 as a monthly tabloid publication based in Storm Lake, Iowa, with editorial offices in Austin, Texas. In October 1999 it expanded to twice-monthly publication. In 2005, the editorial offices were moved a few miles south, to Manchaca, Texas.

The Progressive Populist reports from the heartland of America on issues of interest to workers, small-business owners and family farmers and ranchers. It serves as "The People's Voice in a Corporate World."






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Edited by Slartibartfast - June 21 2012 at 17:29
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 21 2012 at 17:38
Originally posted by Textbook Textbook wrote:

You're concerned that trolls would go elsewhere?
Confused What Bob wrote seemed pretty plain to me. If the "trolls" drive away the people who keep this site active as a Prog site then its popularity will decline and the "trolls" will f*ck-off to some other more popular site. It's the concept of crapping in your own nest, or the parasite that kills the host, and other such idioms.
Originally posted by Textbook Textbook wrote:

  
But more importantly, your post explicitly yearns for a community where we all have the same interests. Why would you want that? How is it a strength? How is such an attitude progressive or even interesting?
Skipping Rob's very valid point about the over-use of "progressive" around here as some positive trait. Bob said "with a common prime interest" - you know, that prime interest that gathers us all here - can you guess what that is? Do you need a clue what the prime interest that brings us to the Prog Archives Forum [Your Ultimate Prog Rock Resource] is?
Originally posted by Textbook Textbook wrote:

If you want to hang out with your buddies, hang out with your buddies. Form an email group. Or perhaps hang out more in the music folders. This is a public forum.
Once again, no it is not - it is a members only forum on a privately owned website running on a privately owned server. Any website or forum where you can be denied access by simply blocking your account is not a public forum.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 21 2012 at 18:54
So there's no such thing as public then because you can be forcibly removed from a public space should you behave in a certain way, just as you will be banned from here from behaving in a certain way.
 
And we do have a common prime interest. We're all interested in unusual music. Who are these people who come here who are not interested in innovative music? I don't see them around. I think that's a euphimism for "people who are different from me."
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 21 2012 at 19:05
Originally posted by Textbook Textbook wrote:

So there's no such thing as public then because you can be forcibly removed from a public space should you behave in a certain way, just as you will be banned from here from behaving in a certain way.
Huzzah! Now, where's this freeze peach?
Originally posted by Textbook Textbook wrote:

  
And we do have a common prime interest. We're all interested in unusual music. Who are these people who come here who are not interested in innovative music? I don't see them around. I think that's a euphimism for "people who are different from me."
There are people who give the impression that they are not really that interested in Progressive Rock; there are people here who seldom, if ever, post in a music thread; there are people here who do not seem to be very knowledgeable about Progressive Rock and there are people here who are not motivated to talk "music" at all - now I've nothing against those people, and I do wonder why they are here sometimes, but the last thing that ever crosses my mind is "are they different from me", except of course, everyone here is different from me... I hope... because I certainly don't want to be like anyone here.
 
I think "innovative music" is too vague by quite a margin and not really what a sizable number of Progressive Rock bands are about. But I know what you mean I'm just being contrary for the sake of it.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 21 2012 at 20:03
Dean: But you're not one of the people who want this place to be a recursive "I like x!" "I like x too!" circle-jerk affair.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 21 2012 at 20:12
Originally posted by Textbook Textbook wrote:

Dean: But you're not one of the people who want this place to be a recursive "I like x!" "I like x too!" circle-jerk affair.


Can you name someone who is does?
 


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Epig: There's this thing called guile.
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Originally posted by Textbook Textbook wrote:

Epig: There's this thing called guile.


There's this thing called answering the question.
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