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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 31 2012 at 16:10
What???
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 31 2012 at 16:14
Oh and to throw one more hat into the ring...while this may be one person I DO know someone who enjoyed being pregnant as well.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 31 2012 at 16:20
Originally posted by JJLehto JJLehto wrote:

Oh and to throw one more hat into the ring...while this may be one person I DO know someone who enjoyed being pregnant as well.


Fair enough. I have conceded that some people do. I do not have data on whether that is a tiny minority or a vast majority, though. Would be at least enlightening if I found some great selection bias one way or the other, but alas.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 31 2012 at 16:24
Ron Paul enjoyed being pregnant????
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 31 2012 at 16:51
Originally posted by Gamemako Gamemako wrote:


Originally posted by Epignosis Epignosis wrote:

2. What?


You claimed that arguments in favor of abortion can be used to argue for infanticide. I have provided an example of how completely f**king preposterous that is.



Well, let's see:

1. A baby imposes upon the life, rights, and property of the mother before he is born.  This is true for much of childhood.

2. The unborn may be horribly disabled.  This is true for many children who have already been born.

3. An unborn child may remind the mother of her rape.  A born child may remind the mother of her rape.

This isn't preposterous.  Your "example" of how my claim was preposterous was this:

Originally posted by Gamemako Gamemako wrote:



So, I guess I learned today that the notion that a woman should be sovereign over her body justifies stabbing random infants with railroad spikes. Any more such wisdom to provide, Robert?



You accusing me and others of straw-man arguments is just rich.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 31 2012 at 16:54
Originally posted by Slartibartfast Slartibartfast wrote:

Originally posted by timothy leary timothy leary wrote:

Never seen so many experts on what a woman feels.

I have felt up some women in my life and I think that qualifies me as an expert. Tongue

There is about 50 funny comebacks to your answer......pick one
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 31 2012 at 17:35
Originally posted by Gamemako Gamemako wrote:

 He further suggested that reducing the discomfort for women would only serve to encourage casual sex and remove responsibility.

Regardless of who said what, I actually want to take a stand and come out pro-casual sex.

SO BRAVE. Beer

Mostly because I don't care about babies until they can feel pain which can be in the 2nd or 3rd trimester, depending on the study, I guess. Potential alone means very little to me. My argument is the existence of life as a collection of cells doesn't mean very much to us in practically every other circumstance. We only really start to care about harming life when it can feel pain. And we only really, actually, seriously care when that life is human (how biased, by the way, and for no good reason in the grand scheme of things). The question is not whether life begins at birth or conception or whatever. Life begins at conception. The question is whether we should care about the collection of cells we call life, and when we should care about them. In my view, "life liberty and pursuit of happiness" should apply to only those people who are born. But I do go further and grant that the the termination of a life that can feel pain is something we should try to avoid.

In my opinion, the termination of a life that cannot feel pain is no harm no foul, in a sense. But honestly that should probably apply to all animals that can feel pain, but hardly anyone is willing to take it that far, even for the sake of being consistent.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 31 2012 at 17:39
I don't cause harm to any animals. Even spiders nowadays. I try to respect lives.

Now someone will mention that I eat meat so I harm animals indirectly.

Then we can say we all harm people in China when we buy electronics...

Ok I know I better shut up...
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 31 2012 at 17:41
By the way, for Gamemako: I don't like it when I lose my online manners and I hate rudeness so I apologize for the "idiot" part. That doesn't mean I don't find your views (or, rather, the perspective you use to see things) on this subject rather disturbing, maybe even repulsive. But that is it. I don't like insulting people.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 31 2012 at 18:20
Originally posted by timothy leary timothy leary wrote:

Originally posted by Slartibartfast Slartibartfast wrote:

Originally posted by timothy leary timothy leary wrote:

Never seen so many experts on what a woman feels.

I have felt up some women in my life and I think that qualifies me as an expert. Tongue

There is about 50 funny comebacks to your answer......pick one

Number 42.

And hey T, just because you are a doody head you don't need to take it personal. Tongue


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 31 2012 at 18:20
Originally posted by Gamemako Gamemako wrote:


All well and good, would that people didn't insult me on the basis of those exaggerations.


I insulted you?

Originally posted by gamemako gamemako wrote:


In my experience, most women do not (again, I have found no women that actually do). I did find some research that suggested that "quite a few" women were happy to have a child, but disliked being pregnant (textbook reference to study that does not have actual data). I have had trouble accessing the actual study it because it's... government-funded, public-domain research. Confused

If anyone wants to try his hand at it, article title is "The Relationship of Military Imposed Marital Separations on Maternal Acceptance of Pregnancy". Should be 503 total subjects, and they'll probably break down reported attitudes. Could be interesting to see how women in a highly-conservative, highly-religious demographic feel. Still need more data from other demographics, though. Not quite as bad as our individual selection bias, but still not good.


If the abstract is to be trusted I don't see this report actually being relevant to our discussion.

Originally posted by Gamemako Gamemako wrote:



No, I suggested that some differences in demographic may account for differences in attitude (hence, Teo's response about race -- or so I assumed). I used religion because it is a choice (unlike, say, race), and I misremembered that Teo was Christian.


You said no then rephrased what I said?

Originally posted by Gamemako Gamemako wrote:



In absolutes presented only by putting words in my mouth. Hell, the only time I've said anything without a qualifier was "1) Find me a woman who enjoyed being pregnant. Good luck. You'll need it.".


Everything in that sentence suggest that the woman doesn't exist or is exceedingly rare.

Originally posted by Gamemako Gamemako wrote:



Or a mockery of the notion of possession in the context of Rob's every-cell-has-full-human-rights view.

//EDIT: No, I don't actually expect you to catch that.


Fair enough.

Originally posted by Gamemako Gamemako wrote:



You know, I first read that as confirming my viewpoint, but to review it as neutrally as possible, I'm not sure I can say either way without asking clarification. She clearly didn't like carrying the child, but in retrospect liked the... experience? In particular, it reminds me of Aronson's classic experiment on hazing that found that people really liked things that they had to suffer to get. That's one of the reasons it doesn't at all surprise me to hear when women are not enjoying pregnancy: suffer through it, and you'll be more likely to care diligently for the offspring.


I believe you're not understanding her. It's an effect of not being able to fully view an experience while going through it. Much like during every class I've ever taken I've felt as though I had learned nothing, but after the conclusion the great multitude of information acquired became apparent. At least that was my interpretation of the woman.

Originally posted by Equality 7-2521 Equality 7-2521 wrote:

"I miss being pregnant. It's nice to have my child all to myself."


Got me there. Kinda glad I've never met that particular woman, though.

Originally posted by Gamemako Gamemako wrote:



That would be someone speaking out of ignorance of the experience.


Yet also showing a desire to go through the experience. If the hatred of pregnancy was as prevalent as you suggest, it's unlikely that people would strive to go through it. Most people are ignorant of root canals, but they are sufficiently conditioned by society to fear it.

Originally posted by Gamemako Gamemako wrote:



Some is not very specific. You could mean 50%, in which case either viewpoint is "normal", or 5%, in which case it is rather rare.


Did I have to be specific? The argument arose from my rejection of an absolute statement regarding inequality of sexes because of the need to carry a child to term. Even one woman would really disprove that notion. In any case, if the true number is less 25% I would be shocked. 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 31 2012 at 18:36
Originally posted by Gamemako Gamemako wrote:



Or a mockery of the notion of possession in the context of Rob's every-cell-has-full-human-rights view.



This is not at all what I said nor what I adhere to.  Human sperm + human egg = human being.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 31 2012 at 18:51
Originally posted by Equality 7-2521 Equality 7-2521 wrote:

It's strange that the same thing you describe is really true of a child once it has been born, but yet people would not describe that experience so negatively. Evidently there's nothing to be said of the emotional connection forged between mother and child while in the womb. It's quite simple if you can look past your own worldview for a moment though.

No one is forced to keep their children (adoption centers) nor do born children violate bodily autonomy. 

Originally posted by Negoba Negoba wrote:

I think he's just a troll.
 

I am not; I just can't keep up with this thread. I don't have time or you guys are in different timezones or both.

Originally posted by The T The T wrote:

Good thing Gamemako and Dudemanguy will never be able to talk about that except from their cold, ultra-cerebral, empty point of view.

Yes we are both cold-hearted for wanting to allow woman to have choice on whether or not to terminate their pregnancy. Ermm

 



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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 31 2012 at 18:55
Originally posted by Epignosis Epignosis wrote:

Originally posted by Gamemako Gamemako wrote:



Or a mockery of the notion of possession in the context of Rob's every-cell-has-full-human-rights view.



This is not at all what I said nor what I adhere to.  Human sperm + human egg = human being.

Human sperm + human egg = zygote.Wink


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 31 2012 at 18:58
^No Dudemanguy maybe you are not cold but you sound like it, at least cold in the way you seem to treat abortion almost like any other contraceptive method (your words). I'm sure then you understand why that statement might sound, ehem, horrible to some people.

Hey, remember, I still favor allowing abortion though not late abortions...
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 31 2012 at 18:59
Originally posted by Equality 7-2521 Equality 7-2521 wrote:

I insulted you?


Not you. Nevermind, it's not worth discussing. Sleeping dogs, sleeping dogs.

Originally posted by Equality 7-2521 Equality 7-2521 wrote:

If the abstract is to be trusted I don't see this report actually being relevant to our discussion.


According to the book though which I found the study, they did ask whether participants enjoyed being pregnant, and it includes anecdotes from the study. Whether that particular data was actually included in the study, I cannot say.

Originally posted by Equality 7-2521 Equality 7-2521 wrote:

You said no then rephrased what I said?


Perhaps I have misunderstood you. I cannot say what part of a woman's upbringing or genetics would lead her to love or loathe pregnancy. Again, I used the example of something that is choice so it would be easier to swallow. Clearly, I mishandled that one pretty badly. Regardless, some event or combination of events lead to a person's attitude towards pregnancy, and if that is reflected in tangible demographics, then it may help explain the divide.

Originally posted by Equality 7-2521 Equality 7-2521 wrote:

Everything in that sentence suggest that the woman doesn't exist or is exceedingly rare.


Yes, that was the intent. That was the occasion where I used no qualifier at all (i.e. the time I did speak in absolutes). Come to think of it, I also said that religion has no place in law, but included a long bit about why I think there really aren't exceptions to the rule.

Originally posted by Equality 7-2521 Equality 7-2521 wrote:

I believe you're not understanding her. It's an effect of not being able to fully view an experience while going through it. Much like during every class I've ever taken I've felt as though I had learned nothing, but after the conclusion the great multitude of information acquired became apparent. At least that was my interpretation of the woman.


The problem is that she's describing the same experience in two ways: once as negative and once as positive. Estimation of your knowledge is one thing, but she is simply describing an experience. Does she hate the experience but like having gone through it? That is the notion that reminded me of Aronson's study. I don't know. Then again, those sorts of effects are not usually conscious.

Originally posted by Equality 7-2521 Equality 7-2521 wrote:

Yet also showing a desire to go through the experience. If the hatred of pregnancy was as prevalent as you suggest, it's unlikely that people would strive to go through it. Most people are ignorant of root canals, but they are sufficiently conditioned by society to fear it.


That is possible, but root canals do not have the positive connotations in society that childbearing does. This notion that being a mother is somehow transcendent is pervasive in our culture, but not necessarily true in any sense.

Originally posted by Equality 7-2521 Equality 7-2521 wrote:

Did I have to be specific? The argument arose from my rejection of an absolute statement regarding inequality of sexes because of the need to carry a child to term. Even one woman would really disprove that notion. In any case, if the true number is less 25% I would be shocked. 


Fair enough.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 31 2012 at 19:00
Originally posted by The T The T wrote:

^No Dudemanguy maybe you are not cold but you sound like it, at least cold in the way you seem to treat abortion almost like any other contraceptive method (your words). I'm sure then you understand why that statement might sound, ehem, horrible to some people.

Hey, remember, I still favor allowing abortion though not late abortions...

Eh, I see what you mean. But then again a lot of things I say probably sound horrible to some people LOL

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Impregnated woman = just a vessel for the fetus?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 31 2012 at 19:01
Originally posted by Epignosis Epignosis wrote:

Well, let's see:

1. A baby imposes upon the life, rights, and property of the mother before he is born.  This is true for much of childhood.

2. The unborn may be horribly disabled.  This is true for many children who have already been born.

3. An unborn child may remind the mother of her rape.  A born child may remind the mother of her rape.


1) That is not relevant at all. It is not part of her body, and she can divest the child in any case. That it "imposes" on her "property" is not an argument in favor of abortion in the first place. The fetus imposes on her body, which is a very, very, very different situation (and one with a lot of legal history). An infant does not impose on a woman's body.

2) So what? Refer to 1).

3) I've never heard an argument that "it reminds me of something, so I can destroy it", not in the case of abortion or of vandalism or anywhere. Also, refer to 1).

Originally posted by Epignosis Epignosis wrote:

This isn't preposterous...You accusing me and others of straw-man arguments is just rich.


None of the things you listed ever even came within 438 miles of actual arguments. I proposed an actual pro-choice argument, and showed how far it was from promoting infanticide. It sounds incredibly stupid because it is. Ergo, it sarcastically debunks your explicit suggestion that all pro-choice arguments can be used to promote infanticide, and I'll leave it up to the 3 points above as to whether most can be used to support infanticide.

Originally posted by stonebeard stonebeard wrote:

Regardless of who said what, I actually want to take a stand and come out pro-casual sex.

SO BRAVE. Beer


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Originally posted by stonebeard stonebeard wrote:

And we only really, actually, seriously care when that life is human (how biased, by the way, and for no good reason in the grand scheme of things)...


Indeed, though I'm not sure we have anything around yet which rivals humanity. Maybe when we start breeding hyper-intelligent monkeys... Wink

Originally posted by The T The T wrote:

By the way, for Gamemako: I don't like it when I lose my online manners and I hate rudeness so I apologize for the "idiot" part. That doesn't mean I don't find your views (or, rather, the perspective you use to see things) on this subject rather disturbing, maybe even repulsive. But that is it. I don't like insulting people.


Yeah, I can't say my behavior has been much better. I originally posted that earlier long message with a direct insult to Rob before I realized how unproductive it was. Embarrassed
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: January 31 2012 at 19:55
What????

You just make shiz up don't you???

As I've said before, the central argument is a weighing between a woman's autonomy rights and the immature human's right to continue living. 

If you completely discount the second part of the balance, then I have nothing to say to you and may the Spaghetti Monster have mercy on your whatever you are.

The "feels pain" doesn't hold any water with me because it is impossible to measure perceived pain, and you could actually measure pain responses long long before anything resembling sentience, another near immeasurable that is sometimes used.




Negoba claimed that the idea that women shouldn't suffer disproportionately was hedonism. He further suggested that reducing the discomfort for women would only serve to encourage casual sex and remove responsibility. The only alternative, then, is that all suffer equally. Well, or that women suffer disproportionately, but he also seemed to discount that in a previous post. Therefore, the only conclusion that can be made is that he wants the lives of men to suck equally for nine months. I further noted that this sort of "equality" is terribly reminiscent of communism.
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