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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 06 2005 at 17:46

That's because you have a crap PC!

 

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 06 2005 at 17:56
Ah...I see it now. Yuk....chicks are better.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 06 2005 at 17:59

Originally posted by gdub411 gdub411 wrote:

Ah...I see it now. Yuk....chicks are better.

You sure?



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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 06 2005 at 18:02
Originally posted by Tony R Tony R wrote:

Originally posted by gdub411 gdub411 wrote:

Ah...I see it now. Yuk....chicks are better.

You sure?

Hey,,,where did you ge tthat pic of Tuxxy's girlfriend?

Now thats what I call a Gold Medal Girl.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 06 2005 at 19:31
Originally posted by gdub411 gdub411 wrote:

Originally posted by Tony R Tony R wrote:

Originally posted by gdub411 gdub411 wrote:

Ah...I see it now. Yuk....chicks are better.

You sure?

Hey,,,where did you ge tthat pic of Tuxxy's girlfriend?

Now thats what I call a Gold Medal Girl.

 

That's not my girlfriend.

 

 

 

 

 

mine doesn't have a tattoo.

 

 

edit: I just found out she had it removed, a while after I met her



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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 06 2005 at 19:40
Originally posted by tuxon tuxon wrote:

Originally posted by gdub411 gdub411 wrote:

Originally posted by Tony R Tony R wrote:

Originally posted by gdub411 gdub411 wrote:

Ah...I see it now. Yuk....chicks are better.

You sure?

Hey,,,where did you ge tthat pic of Tuxxy's girlfriend?

Now thats what I call a Gold Medal Girl.

 

That's not my girlfriend.

 

 

 

 

 

mine doesn't have a tattoo.

What tattoo????

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 06 2005 at 19:41
Originally posted by maani maani wrote:



it is incumbent upon Christians to treat homosexuals with the same love, peace, forgiveness, humility, compassion, patience, selflessness, charity, service and truth that they treat any other person, whether Christian, Jew, Buddhist, Zoroastrian, atheist - or heterosexual.  To do otherwise is simply not Christian.

 



Maani, help me out... this isn't to do with homosexuality (at least i hope not) but i was wondering if you could help me. When i was growing up i went to a church of england primary school. I used to believe in God because i was AFRAID not to, that school messed me up, i felt forced to go to church (we would get told off if we didn't). As a child i did not believe in God or any of the bible or that christianity works but i was too afraid of being punished. My teachers used to say things like "you will go to hell" or "you will be killed" or "you will be put in jail" if i didn't believe in god. They taught this to many of the children at school since we were naive we were all scared that we had to be believe in god or terrible things would happen to us.

I finally had enough and turned my back on christianity (all because of my primary school enforcing it on me). I recently told a christian about this and they swore at me and said i was evil and that i am attacking christianity. I don't see how, just because i don't believe in it. I also do not believe that religion should be enforced. I was never baptised and therefore the teachers should not have made me feel as if i had to believe in god as a youth.

Maani, you say: it is incumbent upon Christians to treat homosexuals with the same love, peace, forgiveness, humility, compassion, patience, selflessness, charity, service and truth that they treat any other person, whether Christian, Jew, Buddhist, Zoroastrian, atheist - or heterosexual.  To do otherwise is simply not Christian.

surely my teachers and the christian that verbally attacked me are not following the above mentioned guidelines. I was wondering if you could give me your thoughts on all of this. Hope you reply!

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 07 2005 at 00:21

Nacho:

Why "Jesus' words only?"  After all, "All Scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness."  2 Tim. 3:16.

In this regard, it is true that Jesus did not say anything specifically about homosexuality.  But that is ultimately a moot point; there are dozens of things Jesus never said anything about or did, yet are clear and obvious within the "Christian construct," and living a "Christ-like" life.

There are two main Scriptural passages that address homosexuality.  The first, and harshest, is at Leviticus 18:22: "Thou shalt not lie with mankind as with womankind; it is abomination."  Note that the word "abomination" is even stronger than the word "sin," and denoted something that was truly "hateful" to God.

The second, and more detailed, one is at Romans 1:26-27: "For even the women exchanged the natural use for what is against nature [i.e., God].  Likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust for one another, men with men committing that which is shameful [read "sinful"], and receiving in themselves the penalty of their error which was due."  (Bracketed comments are mine)

Thus, the Scripture makes it clear that the homosexual lifestyle is inherently "sinful."

Still, having said that, I reiterate that although a Christian may feel obligated to inform a homosexual family member or friend of this, it should never be done in a judgmental or condemning fashion, and that, once informed, the homosexual person should be treated with the same love, peace, humility, forgiveness, etc. that should be accorded anyone else if one is to truly live a "Christ-like" life.

Frenchie:

You are among way too many people for whom the "Church" (capital C) has been its own worst enemy.  This is why so many Christians have rejected - and continue to reject, in growing numbers - organized, mainstream, hierarchical "religion" in favor of "home churches" and other alternative churches.  "Christianity" lost its way when it become "politicized," and fell away from the most basic precepts of Jesus' life and ministry.  It is often said that "Religion is about laws, rules and behavior; faith is about a relationship with God and Christ."  While there is a place for "religion," faith is the more important of the two.  The "Church" - and many supposedly faith-based political groups (including the so-called "Christian Right" here in the U.S.) - focus way too heavily on the former at the expense of the latter.  Indeed, not only are they focused on "laws and behavior," but they also take Scripture out of context to support unloving, unforgiving and ultimately un-Christian views.

You are 100% correct in believing that "religion should never be enforced" (though I'm pretty sure you mean "forced").  After all, faith cannot be "given," much less forced upon someone.  It must come from inside.  Even "religion" - the laws and behavior that underlie a "Christ-like" life - cannot, and should not, be "forced upon" anyone.  This entire notion is antithetical to what Jesus did and taught.  He Himself would preach in villages, on mountains, from boats offshore, anywhere he could.  But He never "demanded" that anyone listen; people were free to listen or not - and, if they did listen, they were free to accept or reject what He offered.  He never once judged or condemned anyone for choosing not to listen or to reject His teachings.  And when He sent the apostles and disciples out to preach the Gospel, He told them to go to each house and offer the Gospel.  But He also told them that if the people did not want to hear it, the apostle or disciple was to "shake the dust from their feet" and move on to the next house.  That is, there was to be no "coercion"; the Gospel was to be preached lovingly, humbly and patiently, with no judgment or condemnation if someone chose not to hear it, or to reject it.  The entire idea of "ram-it-down-your-throat" proselytizing is also anathema to Jesus' words and actions.

Any Christian who would "attack" you for your lack of belief does not understand who Jesus was or what He was about, and thus does not understand their own faith.  "Attack" infers judgment or condemnation, and the Scripture clearly admonishes Christians not to engage in either; that any and all "judgment" is reserved exclusively to Jesus "at the end."

I am truly sorry that you were forced to undergo such harsh and un-Christian treatment, and that it led to you completely rejecting faith.  If it is of any help, you need never be "afraid" of not believing.  After all, "free will" is ultimately the freedom to accept or reject God.  Thus, you are simply exercising your free will in rejecting Him.  I can, of course, only hope that perhaps one day you will find some sort of inner faith - however that manifests itself - and feel comfortable expressing that faith without fear of condemnation.

Peace.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 07 2005 at 03:23
Originally posted by BaldFriede BaldFriede wrote:

Originally posted by Sean Trane Sean Trane wrote:

Just become atheists: the most sensible thing to do. no god to tell you what to do and how to do it. Seriously, this is the 21st Century, you'd think humans would be grown up enough to stop believing in a super-natural being counting your screw-ups to see if you are going to hell or not!

Baldfriede,

Starting a religion is likely to be sect and is game for you, since you are your own priestess but this stuff can get to your head quick and drive you to insanity.

14 women...... (vestry virgins I hope.....) Do you need a god? I could submit a resumé, if asked gently enough..... I would choose a prog anthem(Ritual - nous sommes du soleil), a prog prayer(Sheep) and have a prog prosternation position (preferably in very minimalistic clothing).

Just kidding of course but don't mess with that stuff because many are losing it quickly.

I had to look up "prosternation" in a dictionary and came up with

prosternation

\Pros`ter*na"tion\, n. [F. See Prostration.] Dejection; depression. [Obs.] --Wiseman.

Are you sure about your choice of words?

In my dictionary in French:  Prosterner is to bow low and to prostrate (to an altar or icon). Nothing to do with scatology, rest assured, and no psychiatry either!

I could be wrong because there are a lot of Faux Amis between French and English (one of the most famous is Finally and Eventually are almost synonym in English but surely not in french: finalement is Finally but Eventuellement means in the possibility of)

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 07 2005 at 03:51

OK Maani, if you consider that the whole scriptures are inspired by God himself, I have nothing else to say. Funny that something that is SO important to the churches today wasn't even mentioned by Jesus... (I see you don't comment about the camel and the needle...)

I'm just curious, if you believe that the whole scriptures are inspired by God, how can you explain, if only to yourself, the 23rd chapter of Deuteronomy? Should we take it seriously? And what about that fantastic tale of the 600 years old Noah and his ark?

 

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 07 2005 at 05:36
People, homosexuality or "homosexual lifestyle" is not sin. Please do not listen to what "Christians" say because they either want to make you feel bad or do it anyway. "Christians" want to go to heaven so they tell as many others as possible that those are going to hell. This increases their chances, they think. Hurting people is OK because it is "respectful" to tell people they are sinners and are going to hell.

If you are gay and believe in God, don't listen to "Christians" but instead ask Him why you are here and why He made you the way you are, and He will tell you that your purpose is love. He will tell you that loving somebody is never a sin and does not hurt anyone. You make the choice to love someone but who you fall in love with is not your decision, it is His. You will never know why you are gay, but it doesn't matter. There are millions like you and we are all part of His plan.

Don't read the Bible like "Christians" do. The Bible is old and has been translated many times. It is not written by God but by man. And man wants you to feel bad. (He used to want to kill you, but he is not allowed to today.) God doesn't want you to feel bad. He is your father and friend and supports you and loves you just the way you are. Those who hate you and tell you that you are going to hell are not your friends.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 07 2005 at 07:52
Originally posted by gdub411 gdub411 wrote:

Seriously, though, Bald John and Bald Fred post so often on this site, one wonders where they find time to perform in a band and run a restaurant as well. Also, one gets a feeling that they're just here to shamelessly promote the lp and then when they find out no-one gives a crap, they'll depart our fair forum for good


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 07 2005 at 09:31

People (especially those with low levels of education/exposure to the wider world) fear that which is different, and hate what they fear. This is a universal human failing.Stern Smile

Add to that equation the longstanding Christian tradition of equating sexuality with sin (especially sexuality of the non-procreative variety), and you have the reasons why homosexuality tends to be condemned by many -- especially those of a more rigid, fundamental bent.

My question, Man Overboard, is why does the lack of acceptance by ignorant, small-minded bigots upset you? It seems to me that in your situation I would not want to be "taken into the fold" by such people, because in order to gain that acceptance, I would have to compromise myself.

Yes, being on the receiving end of bigotry and hatred still hurts at times, and we could wish for a nicer world, but this is the imperfect world we live in. When people disdain & disrespect you for no real reason, remember that the failing is THEIRS, not yours!

"They" are NOT your peers, and "they" are not all going to suddenly change -- these things take generations -- so I advise you to stop worrying about the opinions of those who don't and WON'T understand or know you, and to live your life in the way that is right for you. Love and accept yourself, and you will find love from other worthy people.Smile



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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 07 2005 at 11:04
Originally posted by maani maani wrote:

Frenchie:

You are among way too many people for whom the "Church" (capital C) has been its own worst enemy.  This is why so many Christians have rejected - and continue to reject, in growing numbers - organized, mainstream, hierarchical "religion" in favor of "home churches" and other alternative churches.  "Christianity" lost its way when it become "politicized," and fell away from the most basic precepts of Jesus' life and ministry.  It is often said that "Religion is about laws, rules and behavior; faith is about a relationship with God and Christ."  While there is a place for "religion," faith is the more important of the two.  The "Church" - and many supposedly faith-based political groups (including the so-called "Christian Right" here in the U.S.) - focus way too heavily on the former at the expense of the latter.  Indeed, not only are they focused on "laws and behavior," but they also take Scripture out of context to support unloving, unforgiving and ultimately un-Christian views.

You are 100% correct in believing that "religion should never be enforced" (though I'm pretty sure you mean "forced").  After all, faith cannot be "given," much less forced upon someone.  It must come from inside.  Even "religion" - the laws and behavior that underlie a "Christ-like" life - cannot, and should not, be "forced upon" anyone.  This entire notion is antithetical to what Jesus did and taught.  He Himself would preach in villages, on mountains, from boats offshore, anywhere he could.  But He never "demanded" that anyone listen; people were free to listen or not - and, if they did listen, they were free to accept or reject what He offered.  He never once judged or condemned anyone for choosing not to listen or to reject His teachings.  And when He sent the apostles and disciples out to preach the Gospel, He told them to go to each house and offer the Gospel.  But He also told them that if the people did not want to hear it, the apostle or disciple was to "shake the dust from their feet" and move on to the next house.  That is, there was to be no "coercion"; the Gospel was to be preached lovingly, humbly and patiently, with no judgment or condemnation if someone chose not to hear it, or to reject it.  The entire idea of "ram-it-down-your-throat" proselytizing is also anathema to Jesus' words and actions.

Any Christian who would "attack" you for your lack of belief does not understand who Jesus was or what He was about, and thus does not understand their own faith.  "Attack" infers judgment or condemnation, and the Scripture clearly admonishes Christians not to engage in either; that any and all "judgment" is reserved exclusively to Jesus "at the end."

I am truly sorry that you were forced to undergo such harsh and un-Christian treatment, and that it led to you completely rejecting faith.  If it is of any help, you need never be "afraid" of not believing.  After all, "free will" is ultimately the freedom to accept or reject God.  Thus, you are simply exercising your free will in rejecting Him.  I can, of course, only hope that perhaps one day you will find some sort of inner faith - however that manifests itself - and feel comfortable expressing that faith without fear of condemnation.

Peace.



Many thanks. This helps me understand a lot more about how christianity should be run!

Thank God i'm an atheist

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 09 2005 at 14:03
Aw I wrote a big huge reply and then it disappeared

I'll recap. 

Maani:  Many Christians would probably see our progressive music collections, and if they had any idea of the time, money, and love we've devoted to them, they would forget our sexualities almost immediately in order to focus on that.    But I don't see that as taking away from my spirituality...  the way some people look at something extremely delicate, rare, and beautiful and take it as a sign of God's presence, so do I see a bit of the divine's creation in the existance of some of this music, if that makes sense and doesn't sound blasphemous (it's not meant to).

Peter:  Thank you for reminding me of this thread!  With that whole flowerchild mess, I'd completely forgotten about it.    I agree with your points.  I haven't been to a church since 2003...  there was one I'd gone to for a few years, and when they found out my oh so terrible secret, that was pretty much they end of that.  Where they'd once been so supportive and kind, they became nearly demonic in their rejection of me.  Those were wasted years of my life... silly Pentacostals.   

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 09 2005 at 14:20
it is not a sin to love anyone, and christians dotn look at it that way, to my knowledge......i am not a christian, let  me be clear, and i dont believe in a deity that can respond to any supplication of mine ar anyone else's....but christians, i believe, for the most part look at the sin of gayness as being the way that homosexuals express their love for each other.... you can love people without having sexual relations with them, and you can have sexual relations without love being involved.....there are many men i love and even find attractive being a lover of art and natural beauty, but i do not desire intercourse with them.....there are many females i feel the exact same way about......i think human beings tend to be overwhelmed by their emotions towards others to the point that they confuse an affinity towards someone with a sexual attraction, and i am sure most of us have had this experience once or several times, and later looked back on it and understood that actions we may have taken were not the proper ones
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Warning: Spoilers ahead.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Bible in 50 Words

God made, Adam bit, Noah
arked, Abraham split, Joseph
ruled, Jacob fooled, bush talked,
Moses balked, Pharaoh plagued,
people walked, sea divided,
tablets guided, promise landed,
Saul freaked, David peeked,
prophets warned, Jesus born,
God walked, love talked, anger
crucified, hope died, Love rose,
Spirit flamed, Word spread, God
remained.

There you go,no need to bother reading it now!!

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^ Quoting DB now are you?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 09 2005 at 21:38
Originally posted by Tony R Tony R wrote:

Warning: Spoilers ahead.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Bible in 50 Words

God made, Adam bit, Noah
arked, Abraham split, Joseph
ruled, Jacob fooled, bush talked,
Moses balked, Pharaoh plagued,
people walked, sea divided,
tablets guided, promise landed,
Saul freaked, David peeked,
prophets warned, Jesus born,
God walked, love talked, anger
crucified, hope died, Love rose,
Spirit flamed, Word spread, God
remained.

There you go,no need to bother reading it now!!

...that was far more interesting than those countless pages of who begot who.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 10 2005 at 03:02
Originally posted by Tony R Tony R wrote:

Warning: Spoilers ahead.

The Bible in 50 Words

God made, Adam bit, Noah
arked, Abraham split, Joseph
ruled, Jacob fooled, bush talked,
Moses balked, Pharaoh plagued,
people walked, sea divided,
tablets guided, promise landed,
Saul freaked, David peeked,
prophets warned, Jesus born,
God walked, love talked, anger
crucified, hope died, Love rose,
Spirit flamed, Word spread, God
remained.

There you go,no need to bother reading it now!!

 that about sums it up , I think! Thanks Tony! Please join me in the excommunication fellowship after your blasphemy!

let's just stay above the moral melee
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keep our sand-castle virtues
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