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    Posted: June 11 2010 at 09:32

I’ve wanted to hear people’s thoughts on Education for some time, and recent discussion in the teenager thread reminded me.  I want to hear from teachers especially, but also students and parents.  Talk about your experience anywhere, not just the USA.  The only “rule” is that this thread is about kids, not about college education. 

 

Are today’s kids getting a good education?  If not, what specifically do you feel are the barriers?  What needs to be done to improve and provide a well rounded education?   What do we need in terms of teaching skills?  Are teachers unions a barrier to good teachers, or do they help ensure good teachers?  What responsibilities are parents/students living up to, or not living up to?  What about charter schools, private schools, or home schooling?  Are these a threat to public education, or do they make it better?  What new techniques and technologies are truly worthwhile in the classroom, and what (if any) traditional techniques and tools should be kept?

 

We hear a lot of blame game from politicians, and let me make clear, I do not want this to be a political debate.  I want to hear what people really feel should change in our schools, to make them better and stronger.  But let’s try to set aside political discussions about funding levels.  That is a factor, but let’s talk about the other factors beyond that one. 

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I have very strong opinions about schools in the US.  I've seen things from both sides (as a student and as a teacher).  Here are my thoughts:

1. Schooling should not go beyond age 16.  Six years of elementary schooling, then four years of secondary schooling.  Done.  Move on.

2. Many of the courses required in public schools prove to be worthless to the majority of students.  How many of us use any math higher than basic algebra, for example?  Public schools are essentially universities in themselves, and I do not think this is helpful.  Course requirements should be pared down (more on that in a minute).

3. Zero tolerance for bullsh*t in high school.  I mean this.  You go to school and dick around?  You are wasting taxpayers' money.  You are robbing other students of a valuable eduction.  You are not cute.  No detention, no suspensions, no writing sentences 100 times.  You get two warnings, and after that, you are out.  See you at McDonald's.

4. No forced mainstreaming.  That goes for kids with mental / behavioral issues or kids who can't read / speak / understand English.  A teacher shouldn't have to dumb down lessons to accommodate others with special needs.  I got so sick of having to jump through a million hoops to satisfy the ESOL (English for Speakers of Other Languages) and IEPs (individual education plans).  Teachers can't even concentrate on the other 80% of the class.  If you have special needs, you should be accommodated elsewhere until you can handle the rigor of regular classes like everybody else.

5. No state standardized tests.  This is not to say they aren't good for anything, but after a lot of thought (and supporting them), I think we're better off without them.  They cost a lot of money, and it's gotten to the point that teachers teach the test only, students freak out, and failing once means failing for the year.  Bullsh*t.  Teachers should be trusted to provide a rigorous curriculum, and held accountable if they do not (I knew teachers who gave word searches for extra credit that effectively passed students who goofed off all year.  What good is that?).

6. Minimal homework.  I mean this too.  Would you like to go to work for 7-8 hours, then be sent home with 3 more hours worth of sh*t to do?  No.  Children should have time to be children.  Other than some assigned reading, an occasional essay, or maybe a half-dozen math problems, no homework.

7. Here are basic classes students should be required to take and pass:

-Algebra
-Geometry
-English (Grammar and Language)
-Literature
-Science (a general class on the scientific method, basic physics, biology, and chemistry)
-US History
-World History
-Civics (this should go in depth with the Constitution, US government, law, taxes, and all things pertaining to citizenship in the US)
-Life Skills (basic class dealing with avoiding/managing debt, how to balance a checkbook, how to budget, how to get a job, what to do if unemployed, how to do a basic tax return)
-Physical Education (gym)
-Health (nutrition, first aid, learning about and preventing disease including STDs, etc)
-Religion (Islam, Judaism, Christianity with an emphasis on the Bible, Hinduism, Buddhism, etc)

That's 12 requirements.  If a school uses a semester schedule (which I support- 4 classes a semester instead of 7 or 8 all year), and students go for four years, that's  32 courses.  That leaves 20 electives students can take to customize an education- foreign languages, art, music, higher level sciences, maths, histories, literature, mechanics, theater, etc).

Computer skills should be integrated into the curriculum where appropriate.

8. Decent lunch with reasonable portions.  Three chicken nuggets with a side of green beans, a roll, and a cup of milk is not enough for a 14-year-old male.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 11 2010 at 11:01
Excellent points by Rob, obviously coming from someone who knows the system from the inside. The only point I don't agree with is No.3. 
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This is going to be a long and rambly post, so apologies in advance..

Some of you may have been aware that year I mentioned in passing that I was training to be a teacher. Specifically, I was training to teach Media Studies - a subject with a poor reputation in the UK, but in my opinion an increasingly vital aspect of any young person's education (but that's perhaps best left for another debate).

Well, I abandoned my training roughly two months ago for a number of reasons, some of them not remotely related to the nature of the job I was undertaking, but there were aspects of the UK education system which played a definite role in my final decision to quit.

In the seven months I spent working 4 days a week in two typical UK schools (both state schools, one in a rural area, the other inner-city) I got to see an awful lot...

I saw a lot of very dedicated, overworked staff battling an overbearing and complicated ever-changing system obsessed with assessment to the detriment of actual teaching. Teachers are no longer expected simply to deliver lessons - they are managers, counsellors, organisers of special activities, child-minders, and more besides. The amount of responsibility and the competing demands on their time is immense. I had naively entered into teaching expecting it to be a secure job - turns out it's a career, a life choice. To be a successful teacher you have to be dedicated to improving the lives of young people and pretty much nothing else. Whatever happens, I hope this thread doesn't turn into parents bashing teachers without having the faintest understanding of the extraordinary work they do under immense pressure and endless constraints.

Additionally, I saw a lot of dissatisfied students, many who simply had no wish to be there, no understanding of the importance of their education and absolutely no respect for each other, let alone most teachers (who I strongly believe must earn the respect of their students, not to simply expect it). I honestly think the situation is worse than it a mere five/ten years ago. Teachers have to persuade students and justify every single piece of work they set, they have to manage with vastly oversized classes, provide for children with all kinds of learning difficulties and prepare lessons which will challenge the very brightest students without alienating and frustrating those who are likely struggle with often simple work. Teachers can no longer expect A level (16-18) students to bring a pen to lessons.

I've already touched on the biggest problem I think our education system is facing, and it's one that isn't likely to change under our new government - assessment. The British "league tables" system has meant that schools are now engaged in a constant battle for points. Every school wants to achieve the best possible results in order to maximise enrolment for the next year (every student is worth a lump sum added to the school's budget, let's not forget). This has resulted in a number of damaging things. Firstly, it's pushed teachers and schools towards training kids to pass exams. That's a very different thing to educating. Schools and teachers will do literally whatever it takes to ensure they get the highest possible pass rates because failing to do so carries with it all kinds of problems. This helps to render those results more or less meaningless, and a very poor reflection of an individual's level or learning or ability within a subject. Secondly, this grades-focussed approach has lead to the micro-management of day-to-day assessment. Students are all assigned target grades based on often spurious statistical data and their "achievement" is assessed merely by checking to see whether they are "on target" or not.

I could go on for some time, I feel like I've barely scratched the surface here, but I'd better leave it for now.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 11 2010 at 11:21
Originally posted by Epignosis Epignosis wrote:


3. Zero tolerance for bullsh*t in high school.  I mean this.  You go to school and dick around?  You are wasting taxpayers' money.  You are robbing other students of a valuable eduction.  You are not cute.  No detention, no suspensions, no writing sentences 100 times.  You get two warnings, and after that, you are out.  See you at McDonald's.



I missed this whilst I was writing my post (had to take a call in the middle of writing it) and I agree with you on a lot of your points, though obviously we're talking about different countries with different systems. However, I wanted to pick up on this one as I fundamentally disagree with it, though I can see exactly why you've come to this conclusion. What particularly worries me is that it doesn't take into account why students might "dick around" and whether there are fundamental problems that need to be dealt with there. The thought of a student with really severe problems beyond their control (unstable family scenario or whatever) being denied an education just because they dealt with their problems in an immature fashion doesn't sit comfortably with me at all.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 11 2010 at 11:35
Originally posted by Trouserpress Trouserpress wrote:

Originally posted by Epignosis Epignosis wrote:


3. Zero tolerance for bullsh*t in high school.  I mean this.  You go to school and dick around?  You are wasting taxpayers' money.  You are robbing other students of a valuable eduction.  You are not cute.  No detention, no suspensions, no writing sentences 100 times.  You get two warnings, and after that, you are out.  See you at McDonald's.



I missed this whilst I was writing my post (had to take a call in the middle of writing it) and I agree with you on a lot of your points, though obviously we're talking about different countries with different systems. However, I wanted to pick up on this one as I fundamentally disagree with it, though I can see exactly why you've come to this conclusion. What particularly worries me is that it doesn't take into account why students might "dick around" and whether there are fundamental problems that need to be dealt with there. The thought of a student with really severe problems beyond their control (unstable family scenario or whatever) being denied an education just because they dealt with their problems in an immature fashion doesn't sit comfortably with me at all.


First, your comments in your first post are spot on and really hit home for us in the US as well.  Clap

I did not do a very good job explaining #3.
  Embarrassed  Let me elaborate if may.  You are absolutely right about problems at home.  I of all people would understand that (given where I taught).  At the same time, it simply isn't fair that students who are doing well have to put up with poor behavior (the same is true for teachers- teachers should be free to teach with minimal disruption).  Perhaps problem students could be moved to an educational facility where they could learn as well as build character and get whatever special attention they need (I worked at a charter school that did this).  The spirit of my #3 is simply that teachers and other students should not have to suffer on account of foolishness (whatever it's cause), that is all.  I apologize if it came off as too harsh or not understanding.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 11 2010 at 11:53
Originally posted by Epignosis Epignosis wrote:

Originally posted by Trouserpress Trouserpress wrote:

Originally posted by Epignosis Epignosis wrote:


3. Zero tolerance for bullsh*t in high school.  I mean this.  You go to school and dick around?  You are wasting taxpayers' money.  You are robbing other students of a valuable eduction.  You are not cute.  No detention, no suspensions, no writing sentences 100 times.  You get two warnings, and after that, you are out.  See you at McDonald's.



I missed this whilst I was writing my post (had to take a call in the middle of writing it) and I agree with you on a lot of your points, though obviously we're talking about different countries with different systems. However, I wanted to pick up on this one as I fundamentally disagree with it, though I can see exactly why you've come to this conclusion. What particularly worries me is that it doesn't take into account why students might "dick around" and whether there are fundamental problems that need to be dealt with there. The thought of a student with really severe problems beyond their control (unstable family scenario or whatever) being denied an education just because they dealt with their problems in an immature fashion doesn't sit comfortably with me at all.


First, your comments in your first post are spot on and really hit home for us in the US as well.  Clap

I did not do a very good job explaining #3.
  Embarrassed  Let me elaborate if may.  You are absolutely right about problems at home.  I of all people would understand that (given where I taught).  At the same time, it simply isn't fair that students who are doing well have to put up with poor behavior (the same is true for teachers- teachers should be free to teach with minimal disruption).  Perhaps problem students could be moved to an educational facility where they could learn as well as build character and get whatever special attention they need (I worked at a charter school that did this).  The spirit of my #3 is simply that teachers and other students should not have to suffer on account of foolishness (whatever it's cause), that is all.  I apologize if it came off as too harsh or not understanding.


No worries, thanks for clarifying. You are absolutely right that teachers and students shouldn't have to put up with disruptive behaviour, but it's such a complicated problem to try and solve. There are also systems in place where really problematic students can be taken out of normal classroom environments and sent to so-called "pupil referral units" (which I imagine is not unlike the school you taught at) but I think this system reaches only the most challenging of students, and I expect there are thousands who would benefit from such an experience but never make it that far (presumably money is the overriding factor here... when is it not?). Mind you, I've no idea how effective these PRUs tend to be. The aim is to eventually send students back into mainstream education, but I imagine you end up with a lot of "repeat offenders".

Personally, I have no valuable suggestions for how to deal with disruptive students. It was never a strength of mine during my brief tenure as a teacher.
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Some programs are more effective than others here.  The one I taught at for two years was amazing.  It only got closed down because of severe budget cuts, and we happened to be up for contract renewal that year.

I also taught at a smaller such school, but it lacked any discipline whatsoever.  It was also integrated in terms of gender (not good).  Boys would hit girls, talk about sex in the classroom- whatever they wanted.  And they got away with it.  I quit after three weeks (especially since we the teachers were often held responsible).  Complete rubbish, that school.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 11 2010 at 13:12
Originally posted by Epignosis Epignosis wrote:

It was also integrated in terms of gender (not good).


Hmm... I would've assumed that was the norm in the states. It certainly is over here these days. I've always felt that mixed gender schooling is preferable. Perhaps the most important thing about school is learning social skills to prepare you for life in the real world, outside the home. A friend of mine went to a girl's school, and she claims it just made boys seem like these strange, unknowable entities and made post-school life a lot tougher for her.


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Originally posted by Trouserpress Trouserpress wrote:

Originally posted by Epignosis Epignosis wrote:

It was also integrated in terms of gender (not good).


Hmm... I would've assumed that was the norm in the states. It certainly is over here these days. I've always felt that mixed gender schooling is preferable. Perhaps the most important thing about school is learning social skills to prepare you for life in the real world, outside the home. A friend of mine went to a girl's school, and she claims it just made boys seem like these strange, unknowable entities and made post-school life a lot tougher for her.


It is the norm, but not for a school of delinquents.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 11 2010 at 13:50
Originally posted by Epignosis Epignosis wrote:

Originally posted by Trouserpress Trouserpress wrote:

Originally posted by Epignosis Epignosis wrote:

It was also integrated in terms of gender (not good).


Hmm... I would've assumed that was the norm in the states. It certainly is over here these days. I've always felt that mixed gender schooling is preferable. Perhaps the most important thing about school is learning social skills to prepare you for life in the real world, outside the home. A friend of mine went to a girl's school, and she claims it just made boys seem like these strange, unknowable entities and made post-school life a lot tougher for her.


It is the norm, but not for a school of delinquents.


Ah, I see. Yeah, that might be a tad more problematic.
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8. Decent lunch with reasonable portions.  Three chicken nuggets with a side of green beans, a roll, and a cup of milk is not enough for a 14-year-old male.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 11 2010 at 16:39

I'm not exactly sure where to begin here. I'm only freshly out of college, meaning I have had very little time to reflect on my pre-college education. (Most of the time it has been on focused on college education pitfalls...buts thats not for this thread.) However, like most things in life I can mostly just point out problems, not offer solutions, which isn't too much of a help in actually fixing problems. But again, thats not for this thread.

I've gone through 12 years of this public education system, and from what I've seen I'm not really a fan. I agree with alot of points brought up by Rob and David. The biggest problem I see is that teachers must teach to the test (meaning those achievement tests in 4th, 8th, 11th grade in the states) which is incredibly limiting. First of all, those tests test only math and english. While important, there's alot of the world left behind here. Science is one of the most important fields (IMO) that should be emphasised more in school. I also really like Rob's idea of a "Life's Skills" course. These topics are really left out in the cold. Even if you take a accounting/econmics class you really don't learn about avoiding debt, et al that Rob listed. Aside from these specifics, life skills seem to be thrown out the window completely in formal education. All that talk of learning more out of school then in school on how to survive in the real world is pretty sketchy, especailly if you don't have an upbringing with reasonable, intellegent parents/gardians/role models/etc to teach you these things that are very important, and that everyone will need.
 
I also agree that there is way to much of an emphasis on homework. No need to force students to do all that in one night. I remember, even back in middle school (grades 6-8) that we had summer reading assingments there they would give a list of (pretty terrible) books and we would have to read a specified number and complete an essay or book report or some further assignment based on the book(s) we chose. Well, I gotta say that really had the opposite effect. Alot of people I know were really turned off reading because they were forced to do it, over the summer, from a very sparse list of sub-par material. It certainly didn't increase my desire to read either. I can understand that summer could be a bit problamatic with forgetting recently taught materials, but perhaps these materials should be taught better in the firstplace. And we always reviewed the first week of classes anyway (at least in the lower grades).
 
But I guess my main grudge with my pre-college education (ironically very similar to my complaints with my college education) is that the teachers didn't really teach, or as I said, taught for the test. This is not a slight against the teachers themselves. I'm sure most were compotent people, that could actually teach, but for one reason or another they didn't. (Obviously there were just some bad teachers out there, but I suppose thats unavoidable.) Teachers should teach how to think for yourself, critical problem solving skills (and not just the kind in math where you need to find dimensions of a table), and not just be able to regurgitate information. Especially since in college that is certainly a more important skill. They should foster an positive attitude towards learning, and encourage students to constantly reach for more knowledge, inside or outside the classroom. Perhaps I'm just young and naive and you can't actually teach people these things. A utopian world I yearn for afterall....Either way, I believe in education. I think its very important. Knowledge is a keen weapon in life, and as I look around me at my peers (back then and even those that were in college with me) I am very saddened to see people not care about gaining knowledge and it frieghtens me a bit about the future when this generation gets more power. Perhaps other generations were just as fickle about these things at this age, obviously I have no way of knowing that, so maybe it all works out in the end afterall.
 
But then, that causes me to think. I have some excellent teachers over the years. But what made them so good? Is it that they made their classroom experience so much better that I was relaxed and open to creativity, possibilities, etc? Or did they just teach what was important in the long run? Or did they just have a special skill, where they really fit into the profession they chose? I'm leaning towards the first option myself. It seems to me that in an atmosphere thats enjoyable, comfortable, etc I'm more inclinded to be interested in what was being taught, even if I didn't really care for the subject matter. I guess this goes back to fostering that desire to learn, that the best teachers I have had certainly did. I suppose it also depends where in the education cycle you are as well. Though, there should always be plenty more to learn, and even in the last semester of 12th grade students should be taught something. Really taught. Of course, they are just so burnt out at that point, can students really care? But I'm rambling now...this point was brought up before.
 
So, to finish, I'll just say I did pretty well in high school. I'm sure a part of it was that I wanted to learn, to gain knowledge about the world (and conversely having people there that didn't care). But the point is, did it really prepare me for the real world? More than college did IMO, but probably not much in the grand scheme of things. Guess I'll find out, being I'm just knocking on that door now.
 
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My goodness there is so much great content here, and almost all of it are things I've heard echoed by parents before.

-more discipline of problem students
-less emphasis on standardized tests
-more life skills training
-less homework
-targeted curriculum adjustments
-simplification of mission

So the question remains...if parents can figure out so many common sense solutions to improve K-12, why does it seem so difficult to get changes through to the classroom?  What are the barriers to real reform?

I've been out of the education system for so many years, I'd love to hear more from our younger set, those who are still in high school. 
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Originally posted by Trouserpress Trouserpress wrote:

Originally posted by Epignosis Epignosis wrote:


3. Zero tolerance for bullsh*t in high school.  I mean this.  You go to school and dick around?  You are wasting taxpayers' money.  You are robbing other students of a valuable eduction.  You are not cute.  No detention, no suspensions, no writing sentences 100 times.  You get two warnings, and after that, you are out.  See you at McDonald's.



I missed this whilst I was writing my post (had to take a call in the middle of writing it) and I agree with you on a lot of your points, though obviously we're talking about different countries with different systems. However, I wanted to pick up on this one as I fundamentally disagree with it, though I can see exactly why you've come to this conclusion. What particularly worries me is that it doesn't take into account why students might "dick around" and whether there are fundamental problems that need to be dealt with there. The thought of a student with really severe problems beyond their control (unstable family scenario or whatever) being denied an education just because they dealt with their problems in an immature fashion doesn't sit comfortably with me at all.


Eh, I don't buy the "unstable family directly correlates to behavioral problems" thing at all.
If the kid is mentally ill/mentally unstable, of course having family problems may potentially exacerbate this.
I can understand that, because I went through it personally as someone who lived their entire teen years and probably even longer than that with mental illness and having had problems with being able to really talk to my parents properly made things worse by wrecking havoc on my paranoia and anxiety issues.
But there is no excuse for a kid who is completely mentally healthy, but just has family problems, to be acting up at school.
 If you have the luck of having a healthy mind, you should be able to make the good decisions not to act like a fool at school. If you choose to act like an idiot, an immature little brat, bring on the punishments.
I've known more than a few kids who have had to endure pretty bad family situations (alcohol and/or drug addict fathers, divorced parents, fighting parents etc etc) but were always well behaved at school, because they were just mentally healthy.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 12 2010 at 10:55
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Originally posted by Trouserpress Trouserpress wrote:

Originally posted by Epignosis Epignosis wrote:


3. Zero tolerance for bullsh*t in high school.  I mean this.  You go to school and dick around?  You are wasting taxpayers' money.  You are robbing other students of a valuable eduction.  You are not cute.  No detention, no suspensions, no writing sentences 100 times.  You get two warnings, and after that, you are out.  See you at McDonald's.



I missed this whilst I was writing my post (had to take a call in the middle of writing it) and I agree with you on a lot of your points, though obviously we're talking about different countries with different systems. However, I wanted to pick up on this one as I fundamentally disagree with it, though I can see exactly why you've come to this conclusion. What particularly worries me is that it doesn't take into account why students might "dick around" and whether there are fundamental problems that need to be dealt with there. The thought of a student with really severe problems beyond their control (unstable family scenario or whatever) being denied an education just because they dealt with their problems in an immature fashion doesn't sit comfortably with me at all.


Eh, I don't buy the "unstable family directly correlates to behavioral problems" thing at all.
If the kid is mentally ill/mentally unstable, of course having family problems may potentially exacerbate this.
I can understand that, because I went through it personally as someone who lived their entire teen years and probably even longer than that with mental illness and having had problems with being able to really talk to my parents properly made things worse by wrecking havoc on my paranoia and anxiety issues.
But there is no excuse for a kid who is completely mentally healthy, but just has family problems, to be acting up at school.
 If you have the luck of having a healthy mind, you should be able to make the good decisions not to act like a fool at school. If you choose to act like an idiot, an immature little brat, bring on the punishments.
I've known more than a few kids who have had to endure pretty bad family situations (alcohol and/or drug addict fathers, divorced parents, fighting parents etc etc) but were always well behaved at school, because they were just mentally healthy.


I once had a student who would literally run laps through and around the school (this was at the crappy school I quit after three weeks).  He would laugh at you and just run around.  The teachers would have to chase him down and tackle him (again, really crappy school).  Really smart kid, but Lord did he try us.

Come to find out, he had no father at home, and his mother was on drugs.  He took care of his sister and himself.  He did the cooking.  Meaning he had to act like a grown up the rest of the day.  School was the only place he could be a kid.  He was someone who needed more help than the system was prepared to give.  And no, he didn't belong in the classroom if he was going to be disruptive, but he wasn't just being awful for no reason.

But that's a more extreme case.  I agree that in most cases, problem students should be held completely responsible for their own behavior.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 12 2010 at 11:11
I agree with many of Rob's points.
Maybe it's just because "Old Man Syndrome" has hit me WAY too early in life, but I find it almost impossible to relate to most kids in their mids teens despite the fact I'm only just barely out of my teen years (21 years old), just because of how many of them behave.
The "Cool to be dumb" attitude is just absolutely rife in the lower socio-economic area schools in Melbourne, and obviously, a problem across the world, but this thread is more about the local, rather than global experience, so I'll speak about the issue in such a manner.

Anyway, back  to the "Cool to be dumb" thing. It just seems that teachers in Australia have absolutely zero idea  of how to curb that problem.
First off, it starts off as the kids that were raised with no father or something like that and as a result, it's totally screwed with them mentally, and they are constantly compensating for having no dad by acting tough, refusing to do the school work, effectively just making themselves dumb.

Then there are the kids who don't really have the problems, just due to the fact they are bored teenagers who just don't give a sh*t about worldly things and understanding other cultures and haven't experienced real hard ship, they want to create their own culture, and create their own hardships and experiences.
These kids want to get in on the aforementioned crowd who genuinely had it rough, and then it's just this vicious cycle.

Kids that just come to school to socialize, to be "cool" and "tough", to "rebel" (which is by far the biggest irony, because the less educated and the less you understand, the less chance you have of being able to make a difference, which is why the true rebels are often highly educated, worldly, intelligent people).
And then, it's not enough for these kids to play out their "Tough" and "Coolguy/girl" antics at school, so they take it to the street, in the form of harassing random people on the street, petty theft, assaults and even stuff like drug dealing.
This really came to light recently when I was stopped by a few kids in their mid teens that asked me for a dollar, some cigarettes and then proceeded to ask if I'd just hand over my skateboard (I just kinda walked off, and I think they realized I was older than them and could absolutely smash their faces in with my skateboard if I needed too, so they laid off and didn't follow me).
These are exactly the type of kids that want to be perceived by their peers are tough, and cool, and being too educated is considered nerdy and uncool , hence you're not gonna fit into the crowd.

Yeah, teachers will go on about "peer pressure' as topics at school, but I know for me at my school, they sure as hell didn't really go into the core values that might have actually had a chance at penetrating the kids brains and making them understand the value of actually being educated and that being dumb is actually not at all cool, because inevitably in the long term, the "cool to be dumb" kids suffer most financially and with their general day to day standard of living.

And perhaps, while I'm there, if kids play up, hell yeah, hand it to them real good, rather than a slap on the wrist with a 10 minute lunch time detention.
Like in the US, kids that waste their time in schools here are wasting Australian tax payers dollars, so better that the kids use their time productively.
If not, boot them out, and they'll understand real hardship, finding a job and being able to fend for themselves, which is going to too much time out of their lives for them to be worrying about standing around at train stations walking around with that pretentious tough kid attitude.

History, an absolute must subject IMHO.
A solid understanding of history helps to create more worldly people that understand there is something bigger and more important than themselves.
Life Skills? HELL YES. Absolutely a great idea.
Real computer skills are an absolute must too. It boggles my mind that 10 years into the 21st century, that I have to hear stories from IT techs getting calls from relatively young people asking about things like how to re-install a corrupt a driver for the printer so that the printer works or even idiots that call asking why stuff isn't working, but they haven't even turned the damn thing on.
Some people think it's enough to just be able to click the mouse around use the web browser.
NO, THAT ISN'T ENOUGH. People need how to actually learn to use a computer properly, understand what the hardware in their computer actually does to a reasonable degree, and to be able to troubleshoot every day problems.
There is no excuse not to be able to do/know that kind of stuff if you're between the ages of 18-40, unless you were legitimately brought up in a ghetto house hold that couldn't afford a computer, but otherwise, for the well off first world peoples, there is NO excuse.
I'm just inclined to think you're a complete drooling idiot if you don't understand the reasonable basics to properly get around a computer and to be able to solve problems and constantly have to call IT tech support.

Religion?
No, sorry Rob, but NO kid should have to be forced to do a religion class.
A lot of your points were great, but you lost me on that one. Religion is not an essential thing and I know myself, as a staunch atheist, I would have been DAMN pissed off if I had to waste my time doing a religion class when I could be studying something like history or grammar.
If a kid wants to do the religious class, cool, but putting kids through it even though a lot of them are not going to enjoy it at all and a fair chunk will be atheist.
I personally also find some aspects of religion to be repulsive and offensive, and I would not want to be subjected to a class that would not at all sit well with me on a personal level.

Anyway, I might have more later seeing as I have a pretty big beef with the Australian education system, but time for bed, heh.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 12 2010 at 11:26
Originally posted by Petrovsk Mizinski Petrovsk Mizinski wrote:



History, an absolute must subject IMHO.
A solid understanding of history helps to create more worldly people that understand there is something bigger and more important than themselves.


Originally posted by Petrovsk Mizinski Petrovsk Mizinski wrote:


Religion?
No, sorry Rob, but NO kid should have to be forced to do a religion class.
A lot of your points were great, but you lost me on that one. Religion is not an essential thing and I know myself, as a staunch atheist, I would have been DAMN pissed off if I had to waste my time doing a religion class when I could be studying something like history or grammar.



Interesting.
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