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Direct Link To This Post Posted: March 04 2010 at 17:02
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There has been a ton of new exposure due to the Chelsea King case. (We even saw a newspaper article from Australia!) So much so we will probably start up searches again next weekend.  Carrie, Amber's mother, has been on Larry King, Nancy Grace, Good Day America and The Today show in the last two days.  Mo, Amber's father, held a press conference right after the DA's did yesterday at the San Diego Court House.  As of today we have no physical evidence linking Gardener to Amber.  
That being said I feel so bad for the King family. This has to be impossibly hard for them. 

I hate to add a semi political statement here but this really bothers me.  In California 20 years ago we spent 17% of our budget on education and 3% on our prison system. Today we spend 9% on education and 10% on the prison system and while we can raise tuition 33% to our universities and Colleges  raise class size by 10 more students per teacher in our k-12 schools and cut music and the arts from our education system  without a bat of the eye we can't seem to keep track of the most violent of our criminals after we release them back into society.  In fact our beloved governor has just said he will be releasing thousands of short time prisoners back into society.  Either we are putting people in prison who have no business being there causing major over crowding or we have tremendously broken system that doesn't seem to be able to right itself. This does not start or end in California either. 

The reason I bring this up is that  John Gardener had three separate addresses he lived in since being released from prison in 2006.  Yet Megan's law states the sex offender must register every time they move. Not one agency bothered to follow up on this in 4 years.  I find that absolutely irresponsible. A beautiful, smart, talented life has been snuffed out because we didn't follow up.  
As Neil Young said:

There's one more kid
that will never go to school
Never get to fall in love,
never get to be cool.

RIP Chelsea and I am so sorry we failed you.
  
Sorry off my soap box.  


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: March 05 2010 at 06:01
I can't blame you for being bitter Brian. This just seems to be some kind of sick nightmare that never ends.



I've fixed the link in Raff's post above.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: March 05 2010 at 06:06
Here's a link to Amber's grandmother's Blog on Larry King:

http://larrykinglive.blogs.cnn.com/2010/03/03/a-grandmothers-anguish/


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: March 07 2010 at 16:28
Notice to all interested in this story please read this announcement:

http://www.nbcsandiego.com/news/local-beat/Major-Development-in-Amber-Dubois-Case-Sources-86763297.html

Do not ask me anything until after this event I can say nothing at this time. . 



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Direct Link To This Post Posted: March 07 2010 at 16:31
we are here Brian.. and following it. 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: March 07 2010 at 17:50
oh Brian.... Broken Heart that hurts ...our prayers are with you and your family.  ALL of ours are I'm quite sure. 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: March 07 2010 at 17:57
I am so very, very sorry, BrianCry....
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: March 07 2010 at 18:11
Oh Brian. Anything I might write would sound crass.

Deeply sorry for your loss.






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Direct Link To This Post Posted: March 07 2010 at 18:18
.......................so sorry Garion...........peace and solitude
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: March 07 2010 at 18:27
So very sorry.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: March 07 2010 at 18:27
Originally posted by Tony R Tony R wrote:

Oh Brian. Anything I might write would sound crass.

Deeply sorry for your loss.









Heart well said my friend... but considering how this news is affecting me.  I do feel the need to say something more... and I think this post from the thread at ProgEars says it best as to why this hurts so much.... and may speak to what a lot of us may feel.

Lou said:
I did not meet Amber, but felt as though I knew her through this thread.I am devastated.So,so sorry Brian.

Well said. I have monitored this thread, always hoping for the best for this wonderful young person, while fearing the worst. My deepest sympathies for everyone who knew and cared for her.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: March 07 2010 at 18:27
Devastating... I've been following this thread with so much hope along this year... sorry, deeply sorry.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: March 07 2010 at 18:31
I don't know what to say - this is terrible. Broken Heart

I'll be praying.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: March 07 2010 at 18:31
I'm at a loss for words... Can't imagine what her parents are going through now. I just wish them the strength to cope with this terrible loss. 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: March 07 2010 at 18:49
My heart is hurt.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: March 07 2010 at 18:51
What a horrible world we're living in.
I'm so sorry.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: March 07 2010 at 18:52
I can't express anything but sincere regret for your loss. It's a devastating end to a year of suffering, but also tireless efforts made and hope expressed this way. 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: March 07 2010 at 19:09
Awful. I'm very sorry. 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: March 07 2010 at 19:36

RIP Amber Leeanne Dubois 1994-2009 We will so miss you my darling. I can't say anything more right now.


I just cannot believe this. 


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: March 07 2010 at 19:37
Words can not do this any justice.
So terribly sorry.



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