The Silly Romanticist Club

My name is Winston and all I do is complain.  This archive is stupid.  Life sucks.  Why don't I have any friends.  No one likes me.  I am Winston.  I am better than you.

So yea, anyways, in school today I couldn't talk to the girl very much, but I think she smiled at me (or much MUCH more likely was smiling until she looked at me) but either way, hell, romanticism's about the idealness, not the actual occurance

Arrrghus wrote: heyitsthatguy wrote: So yea, anyways, in school today I couldn't talk to the girl very much, but I think she smiled at me (or much MUCH more likely was smiling until she looked at me) but either way, hell, romanticism's about the idealness, not the actual occurance You know, I think girls tend to smile at guys when they think the guys like them. A lot of very pretty girls keep smiling at me... that's why I came to that conclusion. There is no way that many girls would like me. In other news, Helen... well, there's nothing really. It mainly consists of us looking around and then our eyes meet for a while, and then we shyly look away. Maybe I'll make another song.

Yeah, know the feeling w/ the whole eye contact thing, it's awkward and weird. That's kinda what made me notice this one girl that I currently like, but I didn't start liking her until I actually sat down and talked to her for a while. I wonder why they keep making eye contact though...

Arrrghus wrote: heyitsthatguy wrote: Arrrghus wrote: heyitsthatguy wrote: So yea, anyways, in school today I couldn't talk to the girl very much, but I think she smiled at me (or much MUCH more likely was smiling until she looked at me) but either way, hell, romanticism's about the idealness, not the actual occurance You know, I think girls tend to smile at guys when they think the guys like them. A lot of very pretty girls keep smiling at me... that's why I came to that conclusion. There is no way that many girls would like me. In other news, Helen... well, there's nothing really. It mainly consists of us looking around and then our eyes meet for a while, and then we shyly look away. Maybe I'll make another song. Yeah, know the feeling w/ the whole eye contact thing, it's awkward and weird. That's kinda what made me notice this one girl that I currently like, but I didn't start liking her until I actually sat down and talked to her for a while. I wonder why they keep making eye contact though... That's actually how I noticed Helen in the first place; the weird awkward eye contact thing made me notice her pretty eyes, and then I got to know her (somewhat, though I've barely scratched the surface).

Yeah, though I've learned in the past, it's probably the LEAST reliable way to tell if someone likes you or not

Scapler wrote: cuncuna wrote: Scapler wrote: Arrrghus wrote: Okay, I retract my remark. Fine, now I can stop pouting.On a serious note, I do think I am in love, I have never felt the way I felt about her about anyone else before. Friend, you have to do something about that. Let go the fear of being rejected. Rejection is a very key moment in one's process of learning how to aproach a girl properly. Once you see that rejection is not that bad (you don't loose a kidney or a leg), you start feeling a lot more confident; also, it helps to catch the body language, wich is also useful in term of knowinf if someone actually likes you, or you are just imaging things.      I am not as afraid of rejection as you might think.But, as far as body language, do you have any suggestions of what to look for?

Lots of smiles at you; considerable disminution of the social distance while speaking (I've heard that northern people feel uncomfortable when talking to one of us, since southern people's social distance is shorter), general sense of no rejection to touch (hands, hair, arms). No fear for contact while sitting togheter; no fear of sitting togheter. Sensation of a growing intimacy, complicity between both of you, specially with the eyes. First, break into her personal space (I don't know the correct term for this in english, but is the distance that you keep while talking to others. Among relatives, a disminution of this distance is not strangem while with others, it is, unless you have some sort of intimacy. Sorry I can't explain this further, hopefully, you know what I mean). Anyway, see if she let you get a bit closer while talking. That indicates a lot of things.
    

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¿You are abused?...
    

cuncuna wrote: heyitsthatguy wrote: cuncuna wrote: Scapler wrote: cuncuna wrote: Scapler wrote: Arrrghus wrote: Okay, I retract my remark. Fine, now I can stop pouting.On a serious note, I do think I am in love, I have never felt the way I felt about her about anyone else before. Friend, you have to do something about that. Let go the fear of being rejected. Rejection is a very key moment in one's process of learning how to aproach a girl properly. Once you see that rejection is not that bad (you don't loose a kidney or a leg), you start feeling a lot more confident; also, it helps to catch the body language, wich is also useful in term of knowinf if someone actually likes you, or you are just imaging things.      I am not as afraid of rejection as you might think.But, as far as body language, do you have any suggestions of what to look for? Lots of smiles at you; considerable disminution of the social distance while speaking (I've heard that northern people feel uncomfortable when talking to one of us, since southern people's social distance is shorter), general sense of no rejection to touch (hands, hair, arms). No fear for contact while sitting togheter; no fear of sitting togheter. Sensation of a growing intimacy, complicity between both of you, specially with the eyes. First, break into her personal space (I don't know the correct term for this in english, but is the distance that you keep while talking to others. Among relatives, a disminution of this distance is not strangem while with others, it is, unless you have some sort of intimacy. Sorry I can't explain this further, hopefully, you know what I mean). Anyway, see if she let you get a bit closer while talking. That indicates a lot of things.      Well, to quote myself from several times in the WOMEN thread, "I'm f**ked"and no smartass comments about the literal meaning of that! ¿How old are you, exactly?. (Meaning, I've heard that a lot of people here is young).

16, and yes, I know I'm being shortsighted about this, it just can be incredibly frustrating

So.....anybody got any sappyass poems they wanna post? this is the room to do it in after all....

Arrrghus wrote: I wrote a chord progression to a love song for Helen...

Good enough

I feel bad, I f**kin bombed a test today that I helped the girl I like study for....I only hope she got a far better grade than me....I feel so guilty

Arrrghus wrote: heyitsthatguy wrote: Arrrghus wrote: I wrote a chord progression to a love song for Helen... Good enoughI feel bad, I f**kin bombed a test today that I helped the girl I like study for....I only hope she got a far better grade than me....I feel so guilty IRONY!!!! Well, I haven't been in the mood to write poetry for the song yet...

I think I asked her after she got her grade, she said she got a B+ for the quarter, and considering she said she got a C+ on her first test (tests count a looooot in this class) I think she did pretty well on it....so maybe I did help (now only if I had remembered what I taught)