The Silly Romanticist Club

Geck0 wrote: Mickey, you're an hypocrite.

Because your idea of love/sex is silly.

I think I'm the silliest of them all: I pursued my actual girlfriend for three long years. On those years, I wrotte bad romantic poetry, I spent a lot in silly phone calls, I tried to find her among hundreeds of people in the middle of a popular religious party, expecting some sort of magic encounter that never happen, I sang a couple of songs, both silly. She only took me as boyfriend after being accepted in a very far university; I travelled for 6 years every three weeks to spent time toghether from late friday to early monday and now I'm pretty much broke since I spent lots of money on those travels, plus, I only had temporary independent jobs in all that time, since a harder schedule would have made impossible a relationship. And I think it was all worthy; no regrets on anything, though right now I'm temporary screwed up, I have her at my side and that is the only thing that makes me a happy person. Now things are a bit different; she is close finally, no more travelling across the country, no more little time, and, as a couple, the whole experience has made us really really close. Pretty much like "Arizona Dreams", on that final esquimal scene with the flat fish. ¿Silly?. You bet.

cuncuna wrote: I think I'm the silliest of them all: I pursued my actual girlfriend for three long years. On those years, I wrotte bad romantic poetry, I spent a lot in silly phone calls, I tried to find her among hundreeds of people in the middle of a popular religious party, expecting some sort of magic encounter that never happen, I sang a couple of songs, both silly. She only took me as boyfriend after being accepted in a very far university; I travelled for 6 years every three weeks to spent time toghether from late friday to early monday and now I'm pretty much broke since I spent lots of money on those travels, plus, I only had temporary independent jobs in all that time, since a harder schedule would have made impossible a relationship. And I think it was all worthy; no regrets on anything, though right now I'm temporary screwed up, I have her at my side and that is the only thing that makes me a happy person. Now things are a bit different; she is close finally, no more travelling across the country, no more little time, and, as a couple, the whole experience has made us really really close. Pretty much like "Arizona Dreams", on that final esquimal scene with the flat fish. ¿Silly?. You bet.

Edited by Frasse - October 31 2006 at 04:54

cuncuna wrote: Frasse wrote: cuncuna wrote: I think I'm the silliest of them all: I pursued my actual girlfriend for three long years. On those years, I wrotte bad romantic poetry, I spent a lot in silly phone calls, I tried to find her among hundreeds of people in the middle of a popular religious party, expecting some sort of magic encounter that never happen, I sang a couple of songs, both silly. She only took me as boyfriend after being accepted in a very far university; I travelled for 6 years every three weeks to spent time toghether from late friday to early monday and now I'm pretty much broke since I spent lots of money on those travels, plus, I only had temporary independent jobs in all that time, since a harder schedule would have made impossible a relationship. And I think it was all worthy; no regrets on anything, though right now I'm temporary screwed up, I have her at my side and that is the only thing that makes me a happy person. Now things are a bit different; she is close finally, no more travelling across the country, no more little time, and, as a couple, the whole experience has made us really really close. Pretty much like "Arizona Dreams", on that final esquimal scene with the flat fish. ¿Silly?. You bet.   That's not silly, but really romantic.   I'm about to give up after only two years, guess I'm not romantic enough.     ¡Never give up, progger!, unless she throws hot oil at you. Fight, be clever, use your better tricks, learn new ones (for exmaple, how to cook beautiful desserts). Take a look at what male birds have to do in order to be accepted by their female possible companions. ¡Now go back there and impress her!. If she is not married or in a very long relationship, you better waste yourself until getting her or die trying.

Would being called a stalker be considered "having hot oil thrown at you"?

Arrrghus wrote: Okay, I want to talk about what happened with Helen on Saturday in detail (don't want to do it in the VR). This thread seems like a good one to do it. Okay, the group I was in was dancing at a costume party and one girl said, "I'm gonnna play a slowdance song and I want you and Helen to dance." We were forced to dance with each other and Helen (because she is shy) left early in the dance (she made excuses such as getting a drink). The same thing happened again (we were forced a second time). Then, a while later, another slowdance was played and all of my and Helen's friends were encouraging me to ask her to dance with me. I got the courage and we danced for the whole song. It was one of the greatest moments of my life. Eventually she started to look into my eyes and smiled... and I felt so relaxed and at peace with her. I really liked her before, but now I'm convinced I'm in love. Whenever I think of that moment, I get this weird feeling in my stomach/chest. How's that for romantic?

Yay! We can be in love together!



Wow, that came out wrong

Scapler wrote: heyitsthatguy wrote: The Wizard wrote: heyitsthatguy wrote: The Wizard wrote: Arrrghus wrote: The Wizard wrote: Arrrghus wrote: Okay, I want to talk about what happened with Helen on Saturday in detail (don't want to do it in the VR). This thread seems like a good one to do it. Okay, the group I was in was dancing at a costume party and one girl said, "I'm gonnna play a slowdance song and I want you and Helen to dance." We were forced to dance with each other and Helen (because she is shy) left early in the dance (she made excuses such as getting a drink). The same thing happened again (we were forced a second time). Then, a while later, another slowdance was played and all of my and Helen's friends were encouraging me to ask her to dance with me. I got the courage and we danced for the whole song. It was one of the greatest moments of my life. Eventually she started to look into my eyes and smiled... and I felt so relaxed and at peace with her. I really liked her before, but now I'm convinced I'm in love. Whenever I think of that moment, I get this weird feeling in my stomach/chest. How's that for romantic?   [IMG]height=17 alt=Dead src="http://www.progarchives.com/forum/smileys/smiley11.gif" width=17 align=absMiddle>   I hate that kinda of stuff. Makes me sick. Well, that's why I didn't post it in the VR. Hey, you're a b*****d! Geez, I made huge progress and all you do is gag.     As I said before, I'm no romantacist. I think all this puppy love stuff is silly. It all comes down to sex, that's how it always is. Every relationship, every act of 'love' is just a roadway to pure hedonistic pleasure. It's all an excuse for us to reproduce.       And people wonder why men have the stereotype of being obsessed with sex.... It's true. Why do you think we have emotions like love and such? For a reason. It's all about reproduction. Love is just an excuse to f**k without feeling guilty about it. Well, I can tell you right now that if I was either guaranteed a r happy relationship with no sex for the rest of my life or had to have a faulty relationship with sex in it, I'd choose the former and be much happier It's all about connecting with someone , not reproducing Oddly enough, Hope has actually made me less lustful. I am no longer the typical male who checks out every girl in the room. I no longer think about sex all the time. She really made me appreciate HER as a person, and not just because she is a girl with naughty bits different than mine. So there,

Same thing happened to me, although *same damn story been told a thousand times* that was undone quickly......I'm not particularly lustful at all though, I just have no one to appreciate

heyitsthatguy wrote: cuncuna wrote: Frasse wrote: cuncuna wrote: I think I'm the silliest of them all: I pursued my actual girlfriend for three long years. On those years, I wrotte bad romantic poetry, I spent a lot in silly phone calls, I tried to find her among hundreeds of people in the middle of a popular religious party, expecting some sort of magic encounter that never happen, I sang a couple of songs, both silly. She only took me as boyfriend after being accepted in a very far university; I travelled for 6 years every three weeks to spent time toghether from late friday to early monday and now I'm pretty much broke since I spent lots of money on those travels, plus, I only had temporary independent jobs in all that time, since a harder schedule would have made impossible a relationship. And I think it was all worthy; no regrets on anything, though right now I'm temporary screwed up, I have her at my side and that is the only thing that makes me a happy person. Now things are a bit different; she is close finally, no more travelling across the country, no more little time, and, as a couple, the whole experience has made us really really close. Pretty much like "Arizona Dreams", on that final esquimal scene with the flat fish. ¿Silly?. You bet.   That's not silly, but really romantic.   I'm about to give up after only two years, guess I'm not romantic enough.     ¡Never give up, progger!, unless she throws hot oil at you. Fight, be clever, use your better tricks, learn new ones (for exmaple, how to cook beautiful desserts). Take a look at what male birds have to do in order to be accepted by their female possible companions. ¡Now go back there and impress her!. If she is not married or in a very long relationship, you better waste yourself until getting her or die trying.      Would being called a stalker be considered "having hot oil thrown at you"?

Maybe. That is the point in wich to give up, certainly.
    

cuncuna wrote: Frasse wrote: cuncuna wrote: I think I'm the silliest of them all: I pursued my actual girlfriend for three long years. On those years, I wrotte bad romantic poetry, I spent a lot in silly phone calls, I tried to find her among hundreeds of people in the middle of a popular religious party, expecting some sort of magic encounter that never happen, I sang a couple of songs, both silly. She only took me as boyfriend after being accepted in a very far university; I travelled for 6 years every three weeks to spent time toghether from late friday to early monday and now I'm pretty much broke since I spent lots of money on those travels, plus, I only had temporary independent jobs in all that time, since a harder schedule would have made impossible a relationship. And I think it was all worthy; no regrets on anything, though right now I'm temporary screwed up, I have her at my side and that is the only thing that makes me a happy person. Now things are a bit different; she is close finally, no more travelling across the country, no more little time, and, as a couple, the whole experience has made us really really close. Pretty much like "Arizona Dreams", on that final esquimal scene with the flat fish. ¿Silly?. You bet.   That's not silly, but really romantic.   I'm about to give up after only two years, guess I'm not romantic enough.     ¡Never give up, progger!, unless she throws hot oil at you. Fight, be clever, use your better tricks, learn new ones (for exmaple, how to cook beautiful desserts). Take a look at what male birds have to do in order to be accepted by their female possible companions. ¡Now go back there and impress her!. If she is not married or in a very long relationship, you better waste yourself until getting her or die trying.

Wow, I only have one year.

Im not very good with women, the girl I like is the most wonderfull that I'veen met in my life, I want to do it right. I know her interest, and we are very similar, but the words never came when I want to talk with her, Im to bad speaking with people and with here my nerves dont let me make a good conversation.

Im a very romantic person, but my fear dont let me be myself (I know, that sounds very VDGG, but is true). I had to work in that, I think that I still have some posibilities in the future, just I need to became a more secure person.


Edited by Viajero Astral - October 31 2006 at 21:59

Viajero Astral wrote: cuncuna wrote: Frasse wrote: cuncuna wrote: I think I'm the silliest of them all: I pursued my actual girlfriend for three long years. On those years, I wrotte bad romantic poetry, I spent a lot in silly phone calls, I tried to find her among hundreeds of people in the middle of a popular religious party, expecting some sort of magic encounter that never happen, I sang a couple of songs, both silly. She only took me as boyfriend after being accepted in a very far university; I travelled for 6 years every three weeks to spent time toghether from late friday to early monday and now I'm pretty much broke since I spent lots of money on those travels, plus, I only had temporary independent jobs in all that time, since a harder schedule would have made impossible a relationship. And I think it was all worthy; no regrets on anything, though right now I'm temporary screwed up, I have her at my side and that is the only thing that makes me a happy person. Now things are a bit different; she is close finally, no more travelling across the country, no more little time, and, as a couple, the whole experience has made us really really close. Pretty much like "Arizona Dreams", on that final esquimal scene with the flat fish. ¿Silly?. You bet.   That's not silly, but really romantic.   I'm about to give up after only two years, guess I'm not romantic enough.     ¡Never give up, progger!, unless she throws hot oil at you. Fight, be clever, use your better tricks, learn new ones (for exmaple, how to cook beautiful desserts). Take a look at what male birds have to do in order to be accepted by their female possible companions. ¡Now go back there and impress her!. If she is not married or in a very long relationship, you better waste yourself until getting her or die trying.      Wow, I only have one year. Im not very good with women, the girl I like is the most wonderfull that I'veen met in my life, I want to do it right. I know her interest, and we are very similar, but the words never came when I want to talk with her, Im to bad speaking with people and with here my nerves dont let me make a good conversation.Im a very romantic person, but my fear dont let me be myself (I know, that sounds very VDGG, but is true). I had to work in that, I think that I still have some posibilities in the future, just I need to became a more secure person.

Don't wait too much. The only way to do things is leaving fear aside and just go. The worst thing that might happen is you getting a "NO". Mmm... a "God no!" is a bit worst, though. I tried for 3 years, yes, but I told her about my feelings only two months after I met her. The rest was all improvisation on some bird behaviours. Birds are a great guide. Spiders aren't.