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Vibrationbaby
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Topic: Peter Rideout Posted: June 01 2004 at 11:48 |
I wish we could have Peter back. He was certainly disapointed by certain things which were going on. I have sent him a personal message. Let's try and get him back.
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Dan Bobrowski
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Posted: June 01 2004 at 11:57 |
I've PM'ed him too. I understand and respect Peter's perspective. I have been cutting back myself. I did not see the entire thread which precluded his departure, however, I'm glad it was removed. The last thing we need is to leave a steaming turd lying in the front yard for all to see.
So, what do we do about it? Peter's not coming back anytime soon. He sounds committed to his decision to leave. How do we keep others from leaving too? Where's Tauhd? She seems to have lost interest, no?
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Radioactive Toy
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Posted: June 01 2004 at 12:00 |
I will do my best to bring him back to the Progarchives forum I'll make a post, this is my post really that is that post, as a TRIBUTE to Peter. He really is an source of information, and it would be a loss if he would dissapear.
Peter, please don't! Huub Vlemmings
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dude
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Posted: June 01 2004 at 12:34 |
i have had many pms with Peter, he will come back when he is ready(IF INDEED HE DECIDES TO!!!)
personnally i understand his reasons
lets get away from politics(who cares who likes George Bush or not etc) and religion(lets just stay away from any religios references eg muhommad, jesus (even as a profanity...PLEASE !!!)
for the most part this is a fun forum with a unique sense of humour that ,not only have i not encounted elsewhere but has apparently been noted elsewhere on the net!!
if Peter comes back..all well and good!!
but let his departure be a reminder as to our obligations ,not only to our countries but also to ourselves as representatives of a wider world, this is a forum devoted to prog and our perceptions of it!! lets focus on thaT But for goodness sake lets have a little fun on the way
THERE ARE THREADS WHICH ARE FRIVOLOUS AND HAVE LITTLE OR NOTHING TO DO WITH PROG...OKAY, LETS LET OF A LITTLE STEAM(AND UNEARTH SOME GOOD COMEDIC TALENT!!)
I LOVE MY MUSIC BUT I DO NOT TAKE IT SERIOUSLY
I KNOW ENOUGH TO POKE GOOD NATURED FUN
LETS ALL RELAX AND REMEMBER
NOT LIKING SOMEONE ELSES BAND IS NOT A PERSONNAL AFFRONT TO THAT PERSONS CHARACTER
SOMEONES RELIGIOUS BELEIFS ARE IRRELEVENT LEAVE WELL ENOUGH ALONE!!
JIM GARTEN LIKES BADGERS...(OOPS)
DUDE IS A sh*t STIRRER!!
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dude
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Posted: June 01 2004 at 12:37 |
PETER, INSERT COMMENT HERE!!!
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raggy
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Posted: June 01 2004 at 13:50 |
I missed whatever it was that caused you to leave Peter, but I gather it had to do with politics and or religion. Whatever it was it's not worth getting upset about mate. I just got political myself, on another thread, but it was relevent to the thread. I would like you to return for the following reasons:
1. Posts are always articulate and eloquent.
2. Posts are interesting and informative.
3. If you quit now, your a QUITTER. (meant in a friendly pep-talk way.)
Edited by raggy
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Easy Livin
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Posted: June 01 2004 at 15:14 |
According to the stats on the members list, Peter has posted 878 messages since January, at an average of 7.20 posts per day.
I reckon he deserves some time off for good behaviour. I know I'd be in line for an ear bashing from "'er indoors" if I got anywhere near that batting average!
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Certif1ed
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Posted: June 01 2004 at 15:28 |
I also PM'd Peter - and he told me he has several reasons for wishing to take a back seat ATM - the same as he has posted here - which I respect.
I think we're all capable of breaking up a fight - and of following Peter's example of doing that in a light-hearted but pointed manner.
Even if he wants to take a break, I'm sure his spirit will remain.
"...you can check out any time you like..."
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Aztech
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Posted: June 01 2004 at 15:50 |
I don't want to rehash things but seeing we are all talking about Peter's departure,can someone Summarize in 3-4 lines the why he left ? because I also missed it. I know it was political/religious in nature . But what exactly and what did peter take offense at ? Its always good to know what happened that was negative so as not to repeat the same mistakes ( Knowledge is power ).
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diddy
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Posted: June 01 2004 at 17:02 |
Like said before, I always considered Peter to be a kind of figurehead, our father if you will...
I think we lost a well informed humorus member wich I and I think most of you as well, had a lot of interesting discussions with.
His leaving shows us that it can't go on this way, it's a kind of warning.
I think for the future we should not be responsive to threads and comments that could harm anybody like those refering to politics or religion for example. And if some members WANT to discuss such things they can go on with private messages if such a discussion is going to start...we also should react faster with reporting to an admin if we spot something that could be a harm for anybody. I think this are some possible ways to prevent things like the ones that happened...
but the worst thing of all was not the discussion itself, it was it's result...wich doesn't make the comments better...
I understand Peter but nevertheless I hope that he will come back it's a huge loss for our community...
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If liberty means anything at all, it means the right to tell people what they do not want to hear...
George Orwell
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moonchild
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Posted: June 01 2004 at 23:03 |
danbo wrote:
I've PM'ed him too. I understand and respect Peter's perspective. I have been cutting back myself. I did not see the entire thread which precluded his departure, however, I'm glad it was removed. The last thing we need is to leave a steaming turd lying in the front yard for all to see.
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I did not see the thread. was it really so bad that it had to be deleted? Perhaps it would have been better to keep it for a few days so that the rest of us would understand his reasons for leaving? Apparently it must have been bad because now Stormcrow has stated that he is leaving also in the THE LAST POST thread that Peter started in the other section.
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moonchild
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Posted: June 01 2004 at 23:14 |
dude wrote:
personnally i understand his reasons
lets get away from politics(who cares who likes George Bush or not etc) and religion(lets just stay away from any religios references eg muhommad, jesus (even as a profanity...PLEASE !!!)
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I agree that we should stay away from politics and religion. However, not everyone is going to comply. In forums there are always those that enjoy offending everyone in the name of free speech. If someone crosses the line then they should be banned just like in other forums that I belong to. Hate mongers that go out of their way to continually harass others or express their hatred toward certain members because of race or religion should be banned.
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Vibrationbaby
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Posted: June 02 2004 at 03:05 |
Thanks for your wonderful comments I WILL GET PETER BACK.
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Jim Garten
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Posted: June 02 2004 at 04:12 |
Something definitely needs to be done.....
Peter has chosen not to frequent this Forum, as too has Stormcrow; these two were original members of the site, and their absence will be felt, maybe not by the occasional troll who chooses to grace us with their presence, but certainly by those of us who appreciate reasoned debate, exchange of ideas, and a bloody good sense of humour when we see it.
Peter & Stormcrow have both formally announced their intentions, and given their reasons (which I fully understand, respect and support 100%), but what of the others from the first days of the site, who appear to be posting less & less (if at all)? I'm thinking of Tauhd, Phillippe, Alexander...... all sterling fans of 'prog' with ideas & perspectives on the genre, which are now being sadly lost to the group.
If we are to keep members who joined due to the lack of a website in which to exchange views on prog rock, we need to get back to what this site was all about originally....... 1960/70's progressive rock, and the bands influenced by that (this is my opinion only, I would hasten to add). Yes, there is a part of the site devoted to subjects not related to music (including some very entertaining humour....), but this should not be used to post potentially inflamatory subjects, such as religion or politics (again, there are plenty of sites out there.....); OK, this may seem to many to be advocating an overly 'safe' path for the Forum, but isn't this better than the alternative, i.e. losing valuable members?
OK, little English rant over......
I for one, intend to remain on the site (for the time being, in any rate), hoping that conditions/postings change for the better, and that Peter & Stormcrow return to the fold, along with the other members, who have been drifting away.
Edited by Jim Garten
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diddy
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Posted: June 02 2004 at 06:05 |
Jim Garten wrote:
Something definitely needs to be done.....
Peter has chosen not to frequent this Forum, as too has Stormcrow; these two were original members of the site, and their absence will be felt, maybe not by the occasional troll who chooses to grace us with their presence, but certainly by those of us who appreciate reasoned debate, exchange of ideas, and a bloody good sense of humour when we see it.
Peter & Stormcrow have both formally announced their intentions, and given their reasons (which I fully understand, respect and support 100%), but what of the others from the first days of the site, who appear to be posting less & less (if at all)? I'm thinking of Tauhd, Phillippe, Alexander...... all sterling fans of 'prog' with ideas & perspectives on the genre, which are now being sadly lost to the group.
If we are to keep members who joined due to the lack of a website in which to exchange views on prog rock, we need to get back to what this site was all about originally....... 1960/70's progressive rock, and the bands influenced by that (this is my opinion only, I would hasten to add). Yes, there is a part of the site devoted to subjects not related to music (including some very entertaining humour....), but this should not be used to post potentially inflamatory subjects, such as religion or politics (again, there are plenty of sites out there.....); OK, this may seem to many to be advocating an overly 'safe' path for the Forum, but isn't this better than the alternative, i.e. losing valuable members?
OK, little English rant over......
I for one, intend to remain on the site (for the time being, in any rate), hoping that conditions/postings change for the better, and that Peter & Stormcrow return to the fold, along with the other members, who have been drifting away. |
I totally agree...
...and maybe there's something we can do to make this forum a better place, how we can get the old "spirit" back (O.k. I wasn't there from first day on but I think I was early enough to see some of the "good old days"). Just lets start plenty of prog discussions and ignore offending threads or posts (ignore by not replying but we should report about such threads or posts immediately).
One thing that is very important is that we get back to Prog as fast as possible...
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Dick Heath
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Posted: June 02 2004 at 07:09 |
I've been away from the PC most of the Bank Holiday weekend and missed this. However, picking up on other's comments, I must say I thought I had found a safe haven for prog rock discussion and description here - I've been on others and left because of tirades propelled by inflexible people.
A couple of points that should be remembered:
a) we should concentrate on the breadth and depth of progressive rock here - although there must be room for humour but not anger or aggression. However, I am not proposing that e.mails should be moderated, but contributors should have a "sense of proportion".
b) everybody is entitled to their own opinions, that should be respected - but it would be a very dull world if other folks always agreed. If a counter-arguement is offered it must be made in the spirit of friendly debate, and perhaps some reasoning offered. (I'll listen and I might even change my mind). Perhaps 'IMHO' should be used more often! And of course wrt to reviews we are all trying to communicate quite abstract ideas why we like (or less commonly) why not like an album.
As a fellow academic I can understand Peter's ideas expressed here, being based on sound knowledge and sensible interpretation.
This is an international discussion group on music and therefore one country's politics has little relevance in another. And religions arguments will risk falling foul of various nations' Race and Equality Laws.
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Jim Garten
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Posted: June 02 2004 at 07:49 |
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Posted: June 02 2004 at 07:55 |
YOU ARE TOTALLY RIGHT DICK !
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Prog On !
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Jim Garten
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Posted: June 02 2004 at 09:48 |
Dear all
Following receipt of many, many p/m's (all, no doubt, well meant),Peter has asked me to pass on a couple of points he'd like to make on the current subject:
1 - The acrimonious "read me" thread was effectively the catalyst which prompted him to take a decision which he had been contemplating for a long time, anyway.
Jim Garten - I know this to be the case, as this subject had been raised by Peter on several occasions in the past by private message
2 - Peter (as can be seen from his profile) was extremely prolific in his postings (in excess of 850), in addition to the large amount of work he was putting in as a reviewer, this has been taking more and more of his time, and talking time away from his home life.
Jim Garten - think about if guys, here is a 40 something married college professor, with children and a full home life, a supportive husband, and a good role model for his children; if Peter considers his time better spent with his family, rather than sitting in front of his PC to all hours, he deserves respect & support.
3 - Peter wanted it stressed that knows he will be missed, and is truly flattered, and grateful for the support, and the requests to return; however, time spent on his family his career and himself are precious to him.
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I think the bottom line is that Peter has decided he is spending too much time on the forum, time he would rather spend on his family (let's face it, time, like money is a finite resource); I get the impression there are those who have tried to use the 'guilt' card on Peter - this is unfair on him.
At some point in the future, Peter may well return to the Forum - if he does so, it will be under his own steam.
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dude
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Posted: June 02 2004 at 10:05 |
AND THAT,AS THEY SAY,IS THAT!!
ITS TIME TO MOVE ON
THANKS JIM!!
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