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    Posted: April 04 2005 at 12:26

I think it is wrong, but I am curious to hear the other principles people hold on this issue.

(Oh, and this is my 100th post)



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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 04 2005 at 12:44

Originally posted by Radioactive Toy Radioactive Toy wrote:

I am a BAD boy

I'm not here to judge anyone, I'm simply curious.
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Originally posted by Crimson Prince Crimson Prince wrote:

I think it is wrong, but I am curious to hear the other principles people hold on this issue.

(Oh, and this is my 100th post)

I suppose I'll just go ahead and ask, not because I have a problem with your stance, but because I am curious what rationale supports your POV:

"Why, Crimson Prince, do you think it's wrong?"
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 04 2005 at 12:54
Originally posted by bluetailfly bluetailfly wrote:

Originally posted by Crimson Prince Crimson Prince wrote:

I think it is wrong, but I am curious to hear the other principles people hold on this issue.

(Oh, and this is my 100th post)

I suppose I'll just go ahead and ask, not because I have a problem with your stance, but because I am curious what rationale supports your POV:

"Why, Crimson Prince, do you think it's wrong?"

Fair enough. I guess I think it is wrong because I see it as being unfaithful to whomever I DO end up marrying. It is like cheating on your future wife or husband. I see sex as the dedication of love to another person. I think sex is reserved for the person with who you spend the rest of your life. My religion really has nothing to do with it, it is just how I feel personally.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 04 2005 at 12:55

Sex was around way before marriage. I married a very sexual woman, but not because she was very open, but because she was such a kind and wonderful person. I don't believe marriage has anything to do with sex. I think marriage has more to do with trust and connection with eachother.

On a related note, I am offended by the notion of polygamy. I feel marriage is intended to be a one-on-one affair.
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Originally posted by FuzzyDude FuzzyDude wrote:

Sex was around way before marriage. I married a very sexual woman, but not because she was very open, but because she was such a kind and wonderful person. I don't believe marriage has anything to do with sex. I think marriage has more to do with trust and connection with eachother.

On a related note, I am offended by the notion of polygamy. I feel marriage is intended to be a one-on-one affair.



On all statements! I couldn't agree more... although I couldn't say if you're woman is sexual or not, wouldn't know.

I'm guilty on all accounts too, by the way. What does marriage have to do with sex anyhow?
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Originally posted by Crimson Prince Crimson Prince wrote:

Originally posted by bluetailfly bluetailfly wrote:

Originally posted by Crimson Prince Crimson Prince wrote:

I think it is wrong, but I am curious to hear the other principles people hold on this issue.

(Oh, and this is my 100th post)

I suppose I'll just go ahead and ask, not because I have a problem with your stance, but because I am curious what rationale supports your POV:

"Why, Crimson Prince, do you think it's wrong?"

Fair enough. I guess I think it is wrong because I see it as being unfaithful to whomever I DO end up marrying. It is like cheating on your future wife or husband. I see sex as the dedication of love to another person. I think sex is reserved for the person with who you spend the rest of your life. My religion really has nothing to do with it, it is just how I feel personally.

In that case.. have you ever kissed anyone before?

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 " I think sex is reserved for the person with who you spend the rest of your life."

Well not many people find such a person
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 04 2005 at 13:15
Originally posted by Radioactive Toy Radioactive Toy wrote:

Originally posted by Crimson Prince Crimson Prince wrote:

Originally posted by bluetailfly bluetailfly wrote:

Originally posted by Crimson Prince Crimson Prince wrote:

I think it is wrong, but I am curious to hear the other principles people hold on this issue.

(Oh, and this is my 100th post)

I suppose I'll just go ahead and ask, not because I have a problem with your stance, but because I am curious what rationale supports your POV:

"Why, Crimson Prince, do you think it's wrong?"

Fair enough. I guess I think it is wrong because I see it as being unfaithful to whomever I DO end up marrying. It is like cheating on your future wife or husband. I see sex as the dedication of love to another person. I think sex is reserved for the person with who you spend the rest of your life. My religion really has nothing to do with it, it is just how I feel personally.

In that case.. have you ever kissed anyone before?

I have kissed only one girl, my girlfriend from a few years back. I don't see that as cheating though because she was my girlfriend and kissing is much more casual than sex, anyway. Like I said, I like to think I want to reserve sex for marriage (and at 18 years old, it is still far away).
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 04 2005 at 13:18

Oh, congratulations Crimson on your 100th posting. Ahh, I remember mine quite fondly...

Such an emotional tijme it was...
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Crimson, how do you feel about sex without love, given that many woman around  the world are trapped in loveless marriages into which they were coerced/sold. I'd rather have nonmarital sex with love, than the loveless marital kind.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 04 2005 at 13:28

Originally posted by emdiar emdiar wrote:

Crimson, how do you feel about sex without love, given that many woman around  the world are trapped in loveless marriages into which they were coerced/sold. I'd rather have nonmarital sex with love, than the loveless marital kind.
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Sex can be passionate and extremely personal, or it can be some casual fun. I think the occaisonal dip never hurt anyone... unless that what your into
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Sexual compatibility is a component of a sucessful
marrige. I feel that the waters must be tested, at the
very least.
However I respect your views, and your self contro
Wearing feelings on our faces when our faces took a rest...
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 04 2005 at 15:01

Originally posted by synthguy synthguy wrote:

Sexual compatibility is a component of a sucessful
marrige. I feel that the waters must be tested, at the
very least.
However I respect your views, and your self contro

Testing the waters is fine! I think if you know you are going to marry the person, you can sleep with them before you are married. I just don't think it's alright to sleep with someone if you don't think "they are the one"



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How about sex after marriage, is it just me, or does that not happen these days?CryWink
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: April 04 2005 at 15:23
It happens... but then we only divorced because our different citezenships (she's Irish, I'm American) wouldn't let us stay married for long. So the marriage isn't necessarily 'over' per se.
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