Thinking of dropping out of college

Trouserpress wrote: [QUOTE=BelewsBrother] PS - I'm also in my first year of college and I'm finding the course challenging and I've been asking questions about whether or not it's what I want to be doing. I very much doubt there's a single student out there who doesn't go through similar thought processes at some point during their first year. Don't worry.

That's true! I also doubted during my first year in law school. Many, many people doubt in their first year.

I finished doing something completely else (in the theology field) but I did work to get my my law degree and now it turns out that I have a fair chance of using both degrees (law & theology) in the end! I didn't know that on beforehand.

So be vary careful before you quit. And indeed, running a record store is a very difficult job these days.

I'm doing a APPLIED COURSE in I.T. at the College I attend.

I've seen people dropping out of College, I think it's best to remain in College at least you have something to lay back on if the something goes wrong.

BelewsBrother wrote: I'm only half-way done with my first semester of undergrad, but the courses in my program of study don't look promising or even interesting. I've always wanted to own my own record store, so I'm thinking of picking up two part time jobs--working 50 to 60 hours a week between the two of them, and then leasing a place to start up a store. What do you guys think?

record stores in the uk are on the decline, even the majors. HMV were only recently saying how much money they were losing to ebay, amazon, and other online sellers (i'm not surprised at their prices). as for the used market, i guess you could do it as a sideline as you'd only scrape  a meagre living from it even if you go online. as for quitting college, you'd be a fool to do that! in today's highly competitive job "market place" qualifications are everything - without them you'll end up digging roads or stacking shelves for the rest of your life, and end up on the scrapheap. be warned!

Ivan_Melgar_M wrote: Maybe you will never use your career, but at least you have a title, it's worth, not only for the rest of the world, but for you. You can't imagine how good it feels when you recieve your diploma, it's something you earned by yourself. If you still want to own a record store, go on, but after you finish your career. I don't want to destroy your dreams, but the real world is hard,  give yourself a chance.

I find myself agreeing with your posts far too often - kind of creepy quite frankly.

Anyway, it's probably none of my business, but since I just finished shelling out several hundred dollars (U.S.) on SAT, ACT, and placement tests for the first of three sons I will be putting through college, I do have some opinions here.

The quality of anyone's life is heavily determined by the choices they make.  An education gives you options.  Lack of education limits your options.  Like Ivan says, you may never use the degree, but you will undoubtedly learn or experience something you will find of use once you do figure out what you want to spend your life doing.

I sat through 7:00 am Latin classes my entire first year of college, and I can honestly say about 80 percent of the courses I took were of no use to me, other than that they were required to complete that first degree.  So be it - I did it, and another degree to boot.  Now I'm in my mid 40's and working on a third.  Once you stop learning you're just marking time until you die.

If you don't like what you're studying, study something else.  Take an art class or a writing class for God's sake.  I once took a Protestant theology course at a Jesuit college - talk about an interesting experience! 

Ivan's right - life is hard.  But it doesn't have to be hell on earth.  One of the reasons colleges make you take a variety of courses is because educator's know young people don't usually know what they want out of life yet.  So concentrate on those courses and don't try to shoe-horn yourself into a specific major at this point.  Just enjoy the ride - you won't get these days back.

Best wishes in whatever you decide though.  Hope it all works out.

BelewsBrother wrote: It really comes down to the reality that I don't know what the f**k I want to study. It won't be a science of any kind (Bio, Chem, Engineering, Psych) and it won't be a profession either (doctor, dentist, Lawyer). I'm trying to decide whether it will be journalism, English, or History. I just don't f**king know.

Let me tell you something very honestly:

Stay in the f**king College until you decide what f**king career to study.

If youwant take courses you like more until you decide what to do with your life. it's normal to have doubts. But remember once you leave College, it's harder to come back, so stay because changing just a word you may use what Cat Stevens said "You will still be here tomorrow, but your doubts may not".

Iván

Do what you want to, but REALLY think it through.

I can't really add anything that no one has said already, but all I know is I am going to college this August and I am scared out my mind. However, I work a job I hate and puts me at wits end every day. I know I would like to have a career, and not just a job in the future.

Besides it really is a hard world out there...my parents remind me. I dont even want to imagine what itll be like when its time to actually live it, and a college diploma can't possibly hurt you out there.

Just another thing, we don't have College, but in my University we have to study two years of many other subjects.

My first semester I had to study:

1. Math 101
2. Language
3. Sociology
4. World History 101
5. Methiodology

I asked myself: Why in hell do I have to study this cr*p if I want to be a fu**ing Lawyer????

Do I need to know in what year the Roman Empire fell to defend a client or where to place a comma and and an accent??? (Of course everything was necessary, but only understood it later).

But after I finished this first semester things changed, I had more freedom to choose electoive classes and activities, and then in Laws Faculty it was even better.

Don't quit before you reach the interesting stuff.

Iván