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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 30 2009 at 09:55
Originally posted by Slartibartfast Slartibartfast wrote:

Well, the sexuality of a musician really doesn't matter to me.  And frankly I don't care if you're gay, bi, or straight.  It's the music that counts.


Something to share now.

I was happily naive for two years with Queen after discovering them. Then one day, someone told me that Freddie Mercury was gay. This was back in 1980 and I was about 17. Well, didn't I go home and toss every bit of my collection. My fear of being accused as being gay by association needed to be snuffed.

What a mistake. How cowardly of me. What a bigot I was.

I have since grown and accepted Queen again about 15 years back. Liking music created by a gay person should have no bearing on whether or not I like it. Strangely, I have also asked Freddie to forgive me (as if he could hear me.)

Thanks for letting me share.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 30 2009 at 08:56
Well, the sexuality of a musician really doesn't matter to me.  And frankly I don't care if you're gay, bi, or straight.  It's the music that counts.

By the way, does anyone think the vocals on the first Happy The Man Album are a little gay? LOL


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 30 2009 at 08:32
Originally posted by ghost_of_morphy ghost_of_morphy wrote:

If I were speaking from the standpoint of my religion I'd point out that homosexuality is a sin that requires repentance and the acceptance of Jesus Christ for salvation  (same for all of you adulterers and fornicators out there, so don't judge me as homophobic.)
 
But my understanding was that this thread was about music.

I personally don't see the connection between one's sexual preferences and prog music at all, but if this topic stimulates some interesting connections for some of you, by all means, carry on. 
 
And I will be an interested reader.
 
Oh, and if anyone cares to make a connection between sexual identity and interest in prog I will be VERY interested in hearing your theorems, although I doubt that I will reply.



Can you imagine if there wasn't a single Christian voice in prog rock? As a music lover you probably couldn't care less, but as follower of Christ wouldn't you be thrilled to know there are people just like you in progressive music where the playing field is largely secular, even paganistic at times? Wouldn't you feel a bit of comfort in finding such a musician, someone you could look up to perhaps and feel a bit less alone? That is what it's like for me as a gay person.

If this site was about pastry chefs, or architects, or whatever profession I might have started a similar thread there. But this is a site about music, and with music people can express themselves in ways that other professions don't allow. It's no secret that gays are drawn heavily to the arts, not all, but many are. Some who are gay find solace in the creativity that music can offer as a medium of "coming out", if not explictly in life then in finding like-minded individuals.

Then to answer your question posted by you and others. The answer is ultimately NO, in the end it does not matter to me the sexual orientation of the performer whose music I enjoy. I won't stop enjoying my Yes albums because I found out Jon Anderson is straight, besides he looks too cute in that "Love Will FInd a Way" video.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 30 2009 at 07:46
Originally posted by Rocktopus Rocktopus wrote:

Yes, I know them and a couple more, but I was thinking of black folks playing Black Metal.


Oh! Now that's a head scratcher!  
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 30 2009 at 07:11
Originally posted by catfood03 catfood03 wrote:

Originally posted by SergiUriah SergiUriah wrote:

I should go further in this amazing question: Any who practices zoophilic with blue elefants and a green hat put on his head in ProgRock?


You're obviously into "Camel", nominate yourself. Evil Smile
 
I donīt understand the sense of your phrase yet...Sleepy
 
Iīd like to know really about some ProgMusician interested in zoophilic practices with blue elephants (and with a hat in his head, of course). Iīve the same worry as you have with gays in ProgRock. A essential cuestion too...Big smile
 
The cartoon in your avatar who is? picachu, pokemon...?
 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 30 2009 at 06:00
Originally posted by ghost_of_morphy ghost_of_morphy wrote:

Originally posted by kenethlevine kenethlevine wrote:

I didn't like ABBA at the time, but confess I enjoy them now.  And for prog quotient, has anyone heard their song "Eagles"?

I'll second this....  ABBA isn't as bad as their rep.
 
It's so hard to back off my endorsement of ABBA as a funny gay stereotype though.....


I love ABBA and have all their albums (Its called Eagle). Their last album Visitors from is one of the most progressive albums of 1981. My girlfriend and I have actually decided on Arrival as our "wedding march":



If you ever been to gayclubs they sure live up to their stereotype, musically speaking. ABBA, eurovision, 80's synthpop and old divas like Streisand... all the way. Not to bad, really.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 30 2009 at 05:45
Originally posted by Easy Money Easy Money wrote:

Regarding people who want an admins to close this thread, or think that it is disrespectful. Please read all the pages, this thread is suprisingly thoughtful, sensitive and downright intelligent.

I was watching this thread from the beginning and at first I thought, oh no a bunch of pointless gratuitous speculation on musicians who may or may not seem a bit 'swishy'.

Instead what has happened is a very nice and suprisingly mature (for PA, ha ha) discussion and some heart-warming frankness that makes this thread one of the coolest I have seen on PA ... ever.
If I were speaking from the standpoint of my religion I'd point out that homosexuality is a sin that requires repentance and the acceptance of Jesus Christ for salvation  (same for all of you adulterers and fornicators out there, so don't judge me as homophobic.)
 
But my understanding was that this thread was about music.
 
I personally don't see the connection between one's sexual preferences and prog music at all, but if this topic stimulates some interesting connections for some of you, by all means, carry on. 
 
And I will be an interested reader.
 
Oh, and if anyone cares to make a connection between sexual identity and interest in prog I will be VERY interested in hearing your theorems, although I doubt that I will reply.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 30 2009 at 05:37
Originally posted by kenethlevine kenethlevine wrote:

I didn't like ABBA at the time, but confess I enjoy them now.  And for prog quotient, has anyone heard their song "Eagles"?

I'll second this....  ABBA isn't as bad as their rep.
 
It's so hard to back off my endorsement of ABBA as a funny gay stereotype though.....
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 30 2009 at 03:21
That's sort of why I asked.

Originally posted by Rocktopus Rocktopus wrote:



Gorgoroth's Gaahl must be the first to come out of the Norwegian (or any) Black Metal scene.





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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 30 2009 at 03:12
Well... speaking of Black Metal, Gaahl from Gorgoroth is openly gay. But that's not progressive, that's regressive!!! 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 30 2009 at 02:30
Originally posted by catfood03 catfood03 wrote:



Originally posted by Rocktopus Rocktopus wrote:

A gay black metaller is very welcomed (Does anyone know of a black black metaller btw?)


There have been a handful of black (as in race) metal bands. Most obvious is Living Colour.


Yes, I know them and a couple more, but I was thinking of black folks playing Black Metal.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 30 2009 at 01:44

Mercury was bisexual. 'Love Of My Life' was written for a woman, who, by the way, inherited most of Freddie's belongings...
-music is like pornography...

sometimes amateurs turn us on, even more...



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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 30 2009 at 00:35
Originally posted by SergiUriah SergiUriah wrote:

I should go further in this amazing question: Any who practices zoophilic with blue elefants and a green hat put on his head in ProgRock?


You're obviously into "Camel", nominate yourself. Evil Smile
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 30 2009 at 00:28
How about we make a thread about which prog musicians were not into drugs? Betcha' the results will be as low.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 29 2009 at 22:40
Most likely the reason you don't hear about prog musicians' sexual preferences is because to most of us it doesn't matter, as long as they make good music.
Trust me. I know what I'm doing.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 29 2009 at 22:21
I should go further in this amazing question: Any who practices zoophilic with blue elefants and a green hat put on his head in ProgRock?
 
And even more interesting: Any heterosexual man into actual pop music scene?
 
 


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 29 2009 at 21:13
Originally posted by catfood03 catfood03 wrote:

Originally posted by mrcozdude mrcozdude wrote:

Originally posted by catfood03 catfood03 wrote:

Ha! Yup, that sounds like Zappa humor alright! LOL


I hope I'm not treading into personal territory but how do you find that humour? I love Zappa and completely understand it's irony (well I think I do a anyway) but do you find it offensive?


Okay, I went and found the complete lyrics now, which is what I should have done before my first reply to this song.

The line about "golden rain" is a bit much, because my interpretation of the song's lyrics is what is supposedly in a standard gay relationship, or what every gay man's interest is. I can tell you these practices are definitely in a minority in gay relationships, and in straight ones I'm sure. I don't know what "eat a little chain" means, but if means what I think it does, then ditto on that as well. The rest of the song doesn't offend me really, but I don't speak for all gays on this site, or everywhere, so I will let others decide for themselves.

So, yes I do have a bit of a negative opinion of this song. What can I say? Zappa had a "South Park" humor about certain topics, and I'm sure gays weren't his only push-button subjects. If he had chosen to use a  epithet, it would have pushed the lyrics way too unacceptable (like a certain talentless white rapper named after a chocolate candy).


Well, Zappa didn't shy away from offending anyone he could.  That is interesting that you would describe it as South Park humor.  You pretty much hit the nail on the head. LOL

Good thing your aren't a Catholic Girl or a Jewish Princess or a Flake for that matter or your name is Bobby Brown.


Edited by Slartibartfast - May 29 2009 at 21:15
Released date are often when it it impacted you but recorded dates are when it really happened...

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 29 2009 at 19:39
Originally posted by moshkito moshkito wrote:

Hi,
 
If I was the Administrator on this board ... I would have removed this topic ... as inappropriate and dis-respectful of people's personal sexual preferences, if not even relationships. I suppose that the following topic will be that they are not people, too!
 
Thx


Please, I don't want to hear from any more drama queens!  You obviously have not read a single post in this thread. Censored
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 29 2009 at 19:35
Originally posted by mrcozdude mrcozdude wrote:

Originally posted by catfood03 catfood03 wrote:

Ha! Yup, that sounds like Zappa humor alright! LOL


I hope I'm not treading into personal territory but how do you find that humour? I love Zappa and completely understand it's irony (well I think I do a anyway) but do you find it offensive?


Okay, I went and found the complete lyrics now, which is what I should have done before my first reply to this song.

The line about "golden rain" is a bit much, because my interpretation of the song's lyrics is what is supposedly in a standard gay relationship, or what every gay man's interest is. I can tell you these practices are definitely in a minority in gay relationships, and in straight ones I'm sure. I don't know what "eat a little chain" means, but if means what I think it does, then ditto on that as well. The rest of the song doesn't offend me really, but I don't speak for all gays on this site, or everywhere, so I will let others decide for themselves.

So, yes I do have a bit of a negative opinion of this song. What can I say? Zappa had a "South Park" humor about certain topics, and I'm sure gays weren't his only push-button subjects. If he had chosen to use a  epithet, it would have pushed the lyrics way too unacceptable (like a certain talentless white rapper named after a chocolate candy).



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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 29 2009 at 19:01
I can't let this go on. Today a facial would seem ambiguous, but yesterday most  skin softeners were produced using bulls sperm....it's a fact. So facials would seem unambiguous, but now.....welll i can't make up my mind up one way or the other.  Wink


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