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YesFan72
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VanderGraafKommandöh
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YesFan72
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Posted: August 20 2008 at 18:03 |
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VanderGraafKommandöh
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Posted: August 20 2008 at 18:03 |
Morning, Dahlia. Oh you're so very lucky being 14, you have all this love business still to contend with... although a girl I know who's around your age is in love... My advice: love your bassoon and don't worry about men for the time being, we're not worth the trouble
Edited by James - August 20 2008 at 18:10
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YesFan72
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Posted: August 20 2008 at 17:59 |
I'm back!
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VanderGraafKommandöh
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Posted: August 20 2008 at 17:59 |
MovingPictures07 wrote:
Yeah, I've gotten that before... too often lately.
Extreme (or true, whatever you want to call it) love can be incredibly difficult, even if the person does feel the same way. Emotions are completely rampant and they'll drive you absolutely insane with pretty much every feeling possible. Sometimes the emotions can bring the most beautiful and satisfying feelings that you've ever felt; likewise, they can be some of the most unsatisfying.
The sheer potential intensity of it is amazing, IMO.
How long have you two been talking now, out of curiosity?
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Well maybe two months or so now, I'd say, so hardly anything. We've actually only met 4 times so far... and that's not from me not wanting to meet her... it's complicated, trust me. But despite such few meetings (she's only 30 minutes away in the car, which is nothing at all!), we chat everyday online... either via MySpace or mostly on MSN Messenger. We're just friends... close friends though but she says she loves me, a lot... but she's also made it clear she just wants to be close friends, so it's making my brain fry a little. I do truly believe she does genuinely love me but 'cause her exes haven't been the best examples of boyfriends, then she wasn't as fussed about breaking their hearts if they split up. However, 'cause we get on well and I care for her like nobody else has cared for her for years, then she doesn't want to lose the friendship. Which is perfectly understandable and which I agree with. Friends is perhaps the best thing... if things develop, they develop.
Edited by James - August 20 2008 at 18:01
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laplace
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Posted: August 20 2008 at 17:57 |
hate gender hate typical problems
i like inventing new problems instead so that no-one has any platitudes at the ready
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MovingPictures07
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Posted: August 20 2008 at 17:50 |
laplace wrote:
i convinced my boy to talk with a lisp just because |
Wow.
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MovingPictures07
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Posted: August 20 2008 at 17:50 |
James wrote:
MovingPictures07 wrote:
James wrote:
Urgh, I feel so empty inside... and it's not due to hunger.
Love pangs mayhaps. Anxiety mayhaps. Paranoia mayhaps. All three mayhaps.
It's annoying.
I don't believe I've ever cared for someone so much before, yet it's so damned difficult at the same time.
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Man, believe it or not I know what you mean there. I can't relate entirely, but that empty stomach feeling is the worst.
Bolded: Incidentally, I'm going through the same realization myself as of late.
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I don't get it all the time but today... well I have.
There's so many reasons it's difficult too... and it's not just 'cause she doesn't feel the same way (I mean love wise, she cares for me as well).
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Yeah, I've gotten that before... too often lately. Extreme (or true, whatever you want to call it) love can be incredibly difficult, even if the person does feel the same way. Emotions are completely rampant and they'll drive you absolutely insane with pretty much every feeling possible. Sometimes the emotions can bring the most beautiful and satisfying feelings that you've ever felt; likewise, they can be some of the most unsatisfying. The sheer potential intensity of it is amazing, IMO. How long have you two been talking now, out of curiosity?
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laplace
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Posted: August 20 2008 at 17:49 |
i convinced my boy to talk with a lisp just because
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VanderGraafKommandöh
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Posted: August 20 2008 at 17:45 |
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MovingPictures07
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Posted: August 20 2008 at 17:42 |
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MovingPictures07
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Posted: August 20 2008 at 17:41 |
James wrote:
Urgh, I feel so empty inside... and it's not due to hunger.
Love pangs mayhaps. Anxiety mayhaps. Paranoia mayhaps. All three mayhaps.
It's annoying.
I don't believe I've ever cared for someone so much before, yet it's so damned difficult at the same time.
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Man, believe it or not I know what you mean there. I can't relate entirely, but that empty stomach feeling is the worst. Bolded: Incidentally, I'm going through the same realization myself as of late.
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VanderGraafKommandöh
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Posted: August 20 2008 at 17:40 |
MovingPictures07 wrote:
James wrote:
MovingPictures07 wrote:
James wrote:
Location only changed twice, I believe.... oh wait, maybe three times.
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Alright. I suppose that sounds right; it simply has seemed like extremely often. |
Let me remember:
The UK of A Not Neu! Joisey Nike factory Royaume-Uni
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Hmm... yeah, those are the ones that come to my mind as well. What was before the UK of A?
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I had: Near J16 M4 I had that for ages. Not sure if I had anything in between. The UK of A made me giggle, 'cause it's actually quite true.
Edited by James - August 20 2008 at 17:40
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VanderGraafKommandöh
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Posted: August 20 2008 at 17:38 |
Urgh, I feel so empty inside... and it's not due to hunger. Love pangs mayhaps. Anxiety mayhaps. Paranoia mayhaps. All three mayhaps. It's annoying. I don't believe I've ever cared for someone so much before, yet it's so damned difficult at the same time.
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MovingPictures07
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Posted: August 20 2008 at 17:37 |
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VanderGraafKommandöh
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Posted: August 20 2008 at 17:35 |
MovingPictures07 wrote:
James wrote:
Location only changed twice, I believe.... oh wait, maybe three times.
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Alright. I suppose that sounds right; it simply has seemed like extremely often. |
Let me remember: The UK of A Not Neu! Joisey Nike factory Royaume-Uni
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MovingPictures07
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Posted: August 20 2008 at 17:34 |
James wrote:
Location only changed twice, I believe.... oh wait, maybe three times.
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Alright. I suppose that sounds right; it simply has seemed like extremely often.
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VanderGraafKommandöh
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Posted: August 20 2008 at 17:32 |
Location only changed twice, I believe.... oh wait, maybe three times.
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MovingPictures07
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Posted: August 20 2008 at 17:31 |
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