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Reed Lover
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Posted: January 20 2005 at 10:53 |
Get back on Topic or desist from posting-this is just pointless.
You've obviously realised your argument has more holes than a tramp's vest.
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Reed Lover
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Posted: January 20 2005 at 10:50 |
threefates wrote:
Reed Lover wrote:
threefates wrote:
I seem to remember challenging Maani about his faith.
Really ?
Come off it, that's plainly a ridiculous reply! What are you on?
Yes, because your responses of "Get your bitch ass in the kitchen and make me a sandwich"... or something about me "doing your ironing"... are so much more intellectual.
That was in a different thread-so irrelevant to this. This is the mistake you are making-I am treating this thread as a seperate entity, why dont you?
I dont have co-workers, I have employees.
I wonder if they think so?
Yes, they do.It is in their job description.Another bizaare reply. Yes, we work as a Team,but we dont live in this imaginary world where "there's not really a boss-we just get on with it"!
Yes, I'm sure everyone over at the general store really looks up to you. Actually I sort of see you like that boss from "The Office".. just as embarrassing, but atleast he can be funny at times.
I do not work in a "general store" and whilst I am nobody's hero, we get on very well. The only office with 100% attendance last year! Top award for Customer Service and two of my staff promoted over the last six months.All got healthy, wonderful bonuses and we socialise frequently.
My wife chooses not to contribute to "forums" so you have no idea what she is like. If I had a £ for every one that presumes I must be under my wife's thumb I'd be able to buy one of Cert's "first pressings"
Then evidently where there's smoke......there is usually someone lighting a fire. And I'm sure you're well lit most the time too.. afterall you've admitted that a few times.
As a female and mother, you must know that the only woman who has me under the thumb is my daughter! Yes I'm sure my father felt that way too.. as my mother was holding him up...
I've absolutely no idea what that means, and it just sounds silly and irrelevant. Yes, most likely your response to everything you can't comprehend!! No because you are talking bollocks!!! You mad sod!
I like the idea that you think you are the only female on the internet. You arent even the only female on this forum! Mind you since they brought in the anti-bullying legislation for the workplace I can no longer torture those lovely lassies that depend on my leadership for their living.

Not even sure what all that means.
err, you referred to yourself as "that internet woman"-try and concentrate please.
Well I am on the internet, and that in no way implies that I think I'm the only one.. So maybe you need to concentrate more yourself there...It seems I'm just the only one who actually wastes her time responding to you. You referred to yourself as "that internet woman" not me!!!
.. unless thats another knock against women... I know for certain I'm not the only woman on the internet or this forum... but I also know that many of the women who have come here have left due to the meanderings of narcissistic egos such as yours...but not because of me, so what's your point? Not true.. There actually was a few women from the ELP group that lurked on here for awhile.. but your flippant and crude remarks not only against me, but responses to others who ask common questions... sent them packing. See you're not quite as amusing as you think you are! Altho I'm sure you're quite the character on a bar stool! Cant be because as you point out-i have no friends!
I believe we are all equal, I believe anyone is fair game man or woman-to act otherwise would be patronising.
Thats funny... I think because I'm a woman that makes me even fairer game to you, because I play with you... the only way you know how to play... I wouldnt have it any other way-surely you are not suggesting that i have only had a go at women? Lets be frank here,we are on the Internet-you could be Mike Tyson with an Uzi and I would be safe, so what difference does it make??? And surely you dont think I would rather be respected/friendly with men over women? Dont make the obvious flippant answer about "maybe you are gay-so you'd prefer to get on with men"
You are now making a common mistake around here-speaking for others without their consent. Dont presume other women on this forum feel any empathy with you.It is seems evident from their posts that they do not!
Seeing as I've never made a comment about any of the other women on this site, except to say that I know I'm not the only one, I guess this is a combative tactic you learned in Debate 101 class... ohh, I'm so impressed! Oh so you admit there is an art to my debating skills-thank you!
I've not seen any messages from the other women on this site that says they feel unempathic towards me.. actually I've felt nothing but comradarie from those such as Petra and Shrinking Violet... using that as a tactic, is pretty pointless, I'd say. But then so is about 90% of your posts... So name me anyone on this site who only makes important relevant comments.A whole 10% of my posts relevant: 1 in 10, thanks love!
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JrKASperov
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Posted: January 20 2005 at 10:06 |
Three:
May I ask how it is you have become 'Christian'? You may reply in a PM
if you wish so, though I think that might not work because of technical
difficulties.
Then, there is something else. You claim that your belief comes from
the heart. What you do mean is that you yourself have a 'feeling'-since
you talk about the heart- about what is right and wrong according to
God, is this true?
I was surprised to see Maani go off in frustration and perhaps
hostility, but it does show man is fallible, even the Christians who
preach for persuing infallability, even if they cannot achieve it. In
this regard, he is a true minister in proving Christ's words  .
But let's move from hostility into interest, as I ask up here, I am
interested how it came to be Three calls herself Christian but remains
outside any of the things that make one so, perhaps maybe the belief in
Christ as the Son. I am not judging you here, three, as you might
suspect seeing the athmosphere here, I am wondering what it is that
makes you say you are Christian as opposed to some belief coming from
the heart. What makes it that you remain firmly on that nominator?
Now, let's not bicker and argue about females this, males that, because that's generalization, and therefore false.
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threefates
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Posted: January 20 2005 at 09:44 |
Reed Lover wrote:
threefates wrote:
I seem to remember challenging Maani about his faith.
Really ?
Come off it, that's plainly a ridiculous reply! What are you on?
Yes, because your responses of "Get your bitch ass in the kitchen and make me a sandwich"... or something about me "doing your ironing"... are so much more intellectual.
I dont have co-workers, I have employees.
I wonder if they think so?
Yes, they do.It is in their job description.Another bizaare reply. Yes, we work as a Team,but we dont live in this imaginary world where "there's not really a boss-we just get on with it"!
Yes, I'm sure everyone over at the general store really looks up to you. Actually I sort of see you like that boss from "The Office".. just as embarrassing, but atleast he can be funny at times.
My wife chooses not to contribute to "forums" so you have no idea what she is like. If I had a £ for every one that presumes I must be under my wife's thumb I'd be able to buy one of Cert's "first pressings"
Then evidently where there's smoke......there is usually someone lighting a fire. And I'm sure you're well lit most the time too.. afterall you've admitted that a few times.
As a female and mother, you must know that the only woman who has me under the thumb is my daughter! Yes I'm sure my father felt that way too.. as my mother was holding him up...
I've absolutely no idea what that means, and it just sounds silly and irrelevant. Yes, most likely your response to everything you can't comprehend!!
I like the idea that you think you are the only female on the internet. You arent even the only female on this forum! Mind you since they brought in the anti-bullying legislation for the workplace I can no longer torture those lovely lassies that depend on my leadership for their living.

Not even sure what all that means.
err, you referred to yourself as "that internet woman"-try and concentrate please.
Well I am on the internet, and that in no way implies that I think I'm the only one.. So maybe you need to concentrate more yourself there...It seems I'm just the only one who actually wastes her time responding to you. 
.. unless thats another knock against women... I know for certain I'm not the only woman on the internet or this forum... but I also know that many of the women who have come here have left due to the meanderings of narcissistic egos such as yours...but not because of me, so what's your point? Not true.. There actually was a few women from the ELP group that lurked on here for awhile.. but your flippant and crude remarks not only against me, but responses to others who ask common questions... sent them packing. See you're not quite as amusing as you think you are! Altho I'm sure you're quite the character on a bar stool!
I believe we are all equal, I believe anyone is fair game man or woman-to act otherwise would be patronising.
Thats funny... I think because I'm a woman that makes me even fairer game to you, because I play with you... the only way you know how to play...
You are now making a common mistake around here-speaking for others without their consent. Dont presume other women on this forum feel any empathy with you.It is seems evident from their posts that they do not!
Seeing as I've never made a comment about any of the other women on this site, except to say that I know I'm not the only one, I guess this is a combative tactic you learned in Debate 101 class... ohh, I'm so impressed! 
I've not seen any messages from the other women on this site that says they feel unempathic towards me.. actually I've felt nothing but comradarie from those such as Petra and Shrinking Violet... using that as a tactic, is pretty pointless, I'd say. But then so is about 90% of your posts...
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Peter
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"And, has thou slain the Jabberwock? Come to my arms, my beamish boy! O frabjous day! Callooh! Callay!' He chortled in his joy.
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threefates
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Posted: January 20 2005 at 08:22 |
Reed Lover wrote:
Threefates:
Does it not occur to you that if two very different people from either side of the "theological fence" find your beliefs a little illogical, then there may be a grain of truth in our argument. Of course, we could both be wrong. However since I do not believe in God, I have been debating your take on Christianity from a logical point of view based on what I can see in The Bible and the arguments you have made to substantiate your stance.
Answered already in a Maani message... go back and find it.
I again put it to you: why do you think Christ went through Crucufixion if nothing was meant to change?
Why would Christ take great pains to preach a message if he wasnt bothered whether anybody followed it?
Answered both these already in a message to you... go back and find that after you first asked it.
You claim that I mocked Christs crucifixion, yet you mock it by trivialising it. I haven't trivialized it at all. Thats only your opinion coming from a catholic upbringing and trying to judge me according to the religious training you've experieced. Your once again looking at this in black and white... and forgetting there are many, many colors in the spectrum.
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Reed Lover
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Posted: January 20 2005 at 07:07 |
ivan_2068 wrote:
Please Maani, Anglicans uphold The Catholic Apostolic faith ( http://www.cofe.anglican.org/faith/anglican/ ), Anglicans and accept the Nicen Creed (the same page), what else can you ask?
All Saints' is a community of ordinary people who, since 1861, have worshipped God the Father through his Son Jesus, in the power of the Holy Spirit, and have lived out the Christian life in a rich Anglican Catholic tradition. |
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Ivan, although I cant be sure, are you not confusing the adjective "catholic" with the noun "Catholic"? This is a common mistake especially when quoting The Nicaen Creed. "catholic" small "c" means: "all-embracing" and not "relating to the Catholic Church".
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Reed Lover
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Posted: January 20 2005 at 06:51 |
threefates wrote:
maani wrote:
threefates:
You said: "Oh an apology is supposed to negate the fact that you did that."
Yes, actually, why not?
Grow up-and I believe that is the only just way of dealing with that remark. There are a million and one arguments I could make about "charitable double standards" that are perfectly acceptable anywhere except that particular thread.
Scorn? Sarcasm? How very Christian of you! Ever heard of something called "forgiveness?" Ever read the following?:
Thats funny coming from you. Sarcasm and scorn has been noted in most of your past messages to me... Isn't this sort of like you telling me... "judge, lest you be judged... or "Take the log out of your own eye, then you can take the mote out of" 
If you continually make statements as banale and exasperating as you have, then even your nearest and dearest would be shaking their heads in frustration.
"Then Peter came to Him and said, 'Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? Up to seven times?' Jesus said to him, 'I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven." (Matt. 18:21-22).
Forgiveness was not the issue and I didn't say I didn't forgive him... He asked me for a comment where he did something... and I gave it to him... by you now throwing that back at me with a inaccurate accusation... how "Christian" is that Maani?
This is what I wrote:
As for cherry-picking anybody's comments-show me where?
Making this answer redundant and untruthful:
He asked me for a comment where he did something... and I gave it to him... by you now throwing that back at me with a inaccurate accusation
The more you say, the further down your throat your foot goes, and the more you prove you do not have the slightest concept of what being a Christian is really about.
Actually you've proven to me the same about you. Which is sort of disappointing. I've also seen how quickly you are to assume and accuse, that your extremely judgemental and lack sympathy.. I'm actually very disappointed with you. If I was at all unconfident in my beliefs, I would of high tailed it towards the humanist side by now.. just from these messages with you 
This rambling paragraph confirms my belief that you are used to being "humoured" (ie patronised.) You seem to suggest that it is somehow morally wrong to judge you or debate your beliefs.If we were just having a conversation then the reasonable thing to do would be to not correct you-but this is a discussion you entered into freely.
You entered a "discussion" implicit in that action is that others will debate your beliefs as you present them to them.
Your judgement of other people's arguments and rationales in this thread have continually been very poor.The one time I was able to prove conclusively that you were getting the "wrong end of the stick" (Maybe because thats not what Maani was saying... You should read that again...) you still didnt step back and reconsider your position.
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Reed Lover
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Posted: January 20 2005 at 05:47 |
threefates wrote:
I seem to remember challenging Maani about his faith.
Really ?
Come off it, that's plainly a ridiculous reply! What are you on?
I dont have co-workers, I have employees.
I wonder if they think so?
Yes, they do.It is in their job description.Another bizaare reply. Yes, we work as a Team,but we dont live in this imaginary world where "there's not really a boss-we just get on with it"!
My wife chooses not to contribute to "forums" so you have no idea what she is like. If I had a £ for every one that presumes I must be under my wife's thumb I'd be able to buy one of Cert's "first pressings"
Then evidently where there's smoke......there is usually someone lighting a fire.
As a female and mother, you must know that the only woman who has me under the thumb is my daughter! Yes I'm sure my father felt that way too.. as my mother was holding him up...
I've absolutely no idea what that means, and it just sounds silly and irrelevant.
I like the idea that you think you are the only female on the internet. You arent even the only female on this forum! Mind you since they brought in the anti-bullying legislation for the workplace I can no longer torture those lovely lassies that depend on my leadership for their living.

Not even sure what all that means.
err, you referred to yourself as "that internet woman"-try and concentrate please.
.. unless thats another knock against women... I know for certain I'm not the only woman on the internet or this forum... but I also know that many of the women who have come here have left due to the meanderings of narcissistic egos such as yours...but not because of me, so what's your point?I believe we are all equal, I believe anyone is fair game man or woman-to act otherwise would be patronising.
You are now making a common mistake around here-speaking for others without their consent.Dont presume other women on this forum feel any empathy with you.It is seems evident from their posts that they do not!
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Reed Lover
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Posted: January 20 2005 at 05:38 |
threefates wrote:
maani wrote:
threefates:
First, you are correct in pointing out that I have engaged in sarcasm. Mt frustration got the better of me, and expressed itself in sarcasm. For that I apologize. Sarcasm is never a Christian quality.
As for being "scornful" or "judgmental," there is a difference between "judgment" and "rebuke." I have not "judged" you in any way. Only Christ can do that. But I have been rebuking you, as I am called to do, both as a Christian and as a minister. Indeed, I have been doing exactly as Scripture says: "Preach the word!...Convince, rebuke, exhort, with all longsuffering and teaching." (2 Tim. 4:2) And boy have I been "longsuffering!" 
Maani, making comments such as these is not rebuking... thats just judgemental.. if you want to rebuke me.. then just slap me on the hand and say "Bad girl"...
- As you are a self-proclaimed "Christian," this is a serious matter.
- I believe, based on your comments, that, at a very minimum, your walk has been "corrupted" somehow.
- ..have you not all but inferred that you are that "perfect Christian," since you apparently have nothing to learn from anyone?
Also, as for whether Jesus would be less "sarcastic, judgmental and controlling" in His teaching, Jesus did get quite frustrated by people, including His own disciples:
"O faithless and perverse generation! How long shall I be with you? How long shall I suffer you?" (Matt 17:17) Not exactly kind words.
"And He said to them, 'Do you not understand this parable? How then will you understand all the parables?'" (Mark 4:13)
Well you've lived a few years as a human... don't you understand and sympathize...??
Peace.
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Threefates:
Does it not occur to you that if two very different people from either side of the "theological fence" find your beliefs a little illogical, then there may be a grain of truth in our argument. Of course, we could both be wrong. However since I do not believe in God, I have been debating your take on Christianity from a logical point of view based on what I can see in The Bible and the arguments you have made to substantiate your stance.
I again put it to you: why do you think Christ went through Crucufixion if nothing was meant to change?
Why would Christ take great pains to preach a message if he wasnt bothered whether anybody followed it?
You claim that I mocked Christs crucifixion, yet you mock it by trivialising it.
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Posted: January 20 2005 at 05:02 |
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threefates
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Posted: January 20 2005 at 00:39 |
maani wrote:
threefates:
First, you are correct in pointing out that I have engaged in sarcasm. Mt frustration got the better of me, and expressed itself in sarcasm. For that I apologize. Sarcasm is never a Christian quality.
As for being "scornful" or "judgmental," there is a difference between "judgment" and "rebuke." I have not "judged" you in any way. Only Christ can do that. But I have been rebuking you, as I am called to do, both as a Christian and as a minister. Indeed, I have been doing exactly as Scripture says: "Preach the word!...Convince, rebuke, exhort, with all longsuffering and teaching." (2 Tim. 4:2) And boy have I been "longsuffering!" 
Maani, making comments such as these is not rebuking... thats just judgemental.. if you want to rebuke me.. then just slap me on the hand and say "Bad girl"...
- As you are a self-proclaimed "Christian," this is a serious matter.
- I believe, based on your comments, that, at a very minimum, your walk has been "corrupted" somehow.
- ..have you not all but inferred that you are that "perfect Christian," since you apparently have nothing to learn from anyone?
Also, as for whether Jesus would be less "sarcastic, judgmental and controlling" in His teaching, Jesus did get quite frustrated by people, including His own disciples:
"O faithless and perverse generation! How long shall I be with you? How long shall I suffer you?" (Matt 17:17) Not exactly kind words.
"And He said to them, 'Do you not understand this parable? How then will you understand all the parables?'" (Mark 4:13)
Well you've lived a few years as a human... don't you understand and sympathize...??
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Posted: January 20 2005 at 00:11 |
gdub:
Worry not! Kept in perspective, this is simply a discussion in a forum on a website. As I told Reed Lover, in the "great scheme of things," it is a flea on an elephant. Don't be afraid of "passions." Be afraid when passions are squelched!
threefates:
First, you are correct in pointing out that I have engaged in sarcasm. Mt frustration got the better of me, and expressed itself in sarcasm. For that I apologize. Sarcasm is never a Christian quality.
As for being "scornful" or "judgmental," there is a difference between "judgment" and "rebuke." I have not "judged" you in any way. Only Christ can do that. But I have been rebuking you, as I am called to do, both as a Christian and as a minister. Indeed, I have been doing exactly as Scripture says: "Preach the word!...Convince, rebuke, exhort, with all longsuffering and teaching." (2 Tim. 4:2) And boy have I been "longsuffering!" 
Also, as for whether Jesus would be less "sarcastic, judgmental and controlling" in His teaching, Jesus did get quite frustrated by people, including His own disciples:
"O faithless and perverse generation! How long shall I be with you? How long shall I suffer you?" (Matt 17:17) Not exactly kind words.
"And He said to them, 'Do you not understand this parable? How then will you understand all the parables?'" (Mark 4:13)
Peace.
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Posted: January 19 2005 at 23:53 |
Uhh.... question?
Dont know which groups prescribe to this ritual but it
seems some of the following may apply/
Anglicans, Lutherans, Episcopalians, Methodists,
Anabaptists, Presbyterians
Question, By reciting the Apostle's Creed aren't
you in essence bowing to the Vatican by invoking this
at the beginning of service? Confessing all devotion
to the Holy Catholic Church. Bowing to Mary, mother
of God whether directly or indirectly? God being a
god of oaths and covenants.
I dont know but what do you guys feel, if you got time
to comment.
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Posted: January 19 2005 at 23:12 |
...This thread has gotten REALLY ugly.
Maani....what about your promise to end this thread. Apparently you didn't get the hint when I chose to try to take this thread to a lighter tone and changed the name. My thought was to take this VERY flammable topic and make it irrelevant and hopefully fade into oblivion. Instead you went ahead and changed the name back and now we no longer have a debate going.......We have a holy war raging here on the forums.
I suppose I am to blame since I started this thread so fine...blame it on me and please STOP already!!
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Posted: January 19 2005 at 23:04 |
maani wrote:
threefates:
You said: "Oh an apology is supposed to negate the fact that you did that."
Scorn? Sarcasm? How very Christian of you! Ever heard of something called "forgiveness?" Ever read the following?:
Thats funny coming from you. Sarcasm and scorn has been noted in most of your past messages to me... Isn't this sort of like you telling me... "judge, lest you be judged... or "Take the log out of your own eye, then you can take the mote out of" 
"Then Peter came to Him and said, 'Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? Up to seven times?' Jesus said to him, 'I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven." (Matt. 18:21-22).
Forgiveness was not the issue and I didn't say I didn't forgive him... He asked me for a comment where he did something... and I gave it to him... by you now throwing that back at me with a inaccurate accusation... how "Christian" is that Maani?
The more you say, the further down your throat your foot goes, and the more you prove you do not have the slightest concept of what being a Christian is really about.
Actually you've proven to me the same about you. Which is sort of disappointing. I've also seen how quickly you are to assume and accuse, that your extremely judgemental and lack sympathy.. I'm actually very disappointed with you. If I was at all unconfident in my beliefs, I would of high tailed it towards the humanist side by now.. just from these messages with you  |
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Posted: January 19 2005 at 22:54 |
I seem to remember challenging Maani about his faith.
Really ?
I dont have co-workers, I have employees.
I wonder if they think so?
My wife chooses not to contribute to "forums" so you have no idea what she is like. If I had a £ for every one that presumes I must be under my wife's thumb I'd be able to buy one of Cert's "first pressings"
Then evidently where there's smoke......
As a female and mother, you must know that the only woman who has me under the thumb is my daughter! Yes I'm sure my father felt that way too.. as my mother was holding him up...
I like the idea that you think you are the only female on the internet. You arent even the only female on this forum! Mind you since they brought in the anti-bullying legislation for the workplace I can no longer torture those lovely lassies that depend on my leadership for their living.

Not even sure what all that means... unless thats another knock against women... I know for certain I'm not the only woman on the internet or this forum... but I also know that many of the women who have come here have left due to the meanderings of narcissistic egos such as yours... [/QUOTE]
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Posted: January 19 2005 at 22:45 |
maani wrote:
threefates:
Reed Lover said: "That is the point Maani is making, you ass! He is saying that you appear more extreme than me yet technically you and Maani are on the "same side." You just do not get it do you?" You responded: "Maybe because thats not what Maani was saying... You should read that again..." For the record, Reed Lover is correct; that is exactly what I was saying.
If that is indeed the case.. then the only reason you feel that way is because I'm a bigger threat to you than Reed. I'm like Nadar is to Democrats... where Reed is a republican... and takes republican votes.. I'm the Nadar who lessens your side without helping his.... or... its very easy for one extreme to battle the other because its easy to see where you stand.. but its very hard for both to take on the middle...cause neither have a clue.
In responding to Reed Lover's claim that he does not cherry-pick people's comments, you say to Reed Lover, "Actually that is probably the most ludicris answer you've given so far. First off, I didn't accuse you of doing that, but you do cherry pick people's comments and you are quite defensive (proof here) and you do evade those questions you can not answer with wise ass remarks or attacks against those you can't respond to."
If there has ever been a perfect example of "Judge not, lest ye be judged in equal measure" and "Take the log out of your own eye, then you can take the mote out of" someone else's, this has to be it. You cherry-pick comments more than anyone else in this discussion; you have done it with me continuously. Yet rather than consider your own "cherry-picking," you attack the other person for cherry-picking! And you think this is "Christian?" In addition, re your comment that "you do evade the questions you cannot answer with wise ass remarks" - you mean unlike you, who simply evades "the questions you cannot answer"...by simply not answering them? One can at least respond to a wise-ass remark. One cannot respond to total evasion.
Actually this is quite entertaining... first I didn't judge him, he accused me of saying something about him I didn't... then I just responded to his remark...Second , so if I don't answer something because I don't think I can add anything relevant to that topic...or I skip over it while responding.... then that is evading or cherry picking .. You'd rather me do the man thing.. and come back with a statement like Reeds such as "Shut up bitch and go make me a sandwich".... Yes, I see the logic and entertainment value of that now... 
Also, you said, "See to me faith is something that has to be based from your heart, not from what you've read or studied... See you take that all in, along with experience and then you form your own opinion... and thats what I'm giving you. I don't need to quote scripture.... or someone else's opinions, or experience or their biasness... I base it off my heart.. and to me thats less hypocritical than you spouting scripture at me. I've heard so many ministers over the years give me their take on what the scriptures say... and hardly any of them saw it the same way. I don't quote the scriptures anymore to prove a point... I find it pretentious..."
Once again, you simply prove that you do not "listen"; you simply presume what is being said.
Your right.. I did not listen... I read!
First, why is it hypocritical for me to "spout Scripture" at you? Do you even know the meaning of the word "hypocrite?" It would be hypocritical to spout Scripture if I, myself, were not "walking the talk" and "practicing what I preach." However, since I do both (to the best of my ability as a human being, a Christian and a minister), it is not "hypocritical" to "spout Scripture." Ah, but it is when you spout Scripture as a means to prove a point. Anyone can take Scripture out of context to prove any point they possibly need to make. And because I've already made you aware of how I feel about things... and see this statement you just made...
"Do you even know the meaning of the word "hypocrite?"
That is a sarcastic remark... Several of which you have made in responses to me. Thats what makes it hypocritical....
Second, of course faith comes from the heart (and mind, and spirit). But this does not mean one cannot learn from others, to say nothing of learning from Scripture - since it is, after all, the foundation of Christian belief. You are simply proving that you are willfully and obstinately unteachable (whether by me or anyone else). In this regard, it is clear that if Jesus Himself came to you - in disguise - and told you that you were wrong, you would refute him, too.
Lets turn this around a bit then... If Christ came to you in disguise and told you that you've been led down the wrong path all this time... would you refute him also??
Second, I have to believe that Christ in his infinite wisdom would somehow be a little less sarcastic, judgmental and controlling in his manner of teaching... I'd also bet he walks with a power that neither you or I could probably resist.
My faith comes from the highest possible place, and is unshakeable. However, that does not mean I cannot (and do not) continue to learn, to fine tune, to make new realizations via what I hear (sermons, fellowship with others, and even from non-believers) and read (including books, treatises, publications, etc.). I am constantly trying to "better myself" as a Christian. On the other hand, you seem to believe that you are a "finished product," and have nothing to learn, no need to modify or change.
See thats you making assumptions and being judgemental again based on my unacceptance of your way. Just because I don't follow your "born-again" philosphy on Christianity does not mean that I don't continue to learn or grow in my faith. I've found a church fellowship that I'm comfortable in, that I've raised my son in.. as a gay child growing into manhood. And I thank God for putting me in a church community where neither he nor I had to feel uncomfortable about ourselves. Where would your church be on the stance of homosexuality? I wonder....
You said "show me a perfect Christian...," and suggested that "you would not lose the bet" because no one would be able to. Yet, unless I am very much mistaken - and others can feel free to comment on this - have you not all but inferred that you are that "perfect Christian," since you apparently have nothing to learn from anyone?
More sarcasm and inaccurate assumptions. If I had thought that, then he could of found the perfect Christian easily... right in front of him.. and I would of lost the bet. Actually I don't even find the logic in that assumption of yours...
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maani
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Posted: January 19 2005 at 22:00 |
threefates:
You said: "Oh an apology is supposed to negate the fact that you did that."
Scorn? Sarcasm? How very Christian of you! Ever heard of something called "forgiveness?" Ever read the following?:
"Then Peter came to Him and said, 'Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? Up to seven times?' Jesus said to him, 'I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven." (Matt. 18:21-22).
The more you say, the further down your throat your foot goes, and the more you prove you do not have the slightest concept of what being a Christian is really about.
Peace.
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