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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 14 2016 at 08:35
My brother doesn't like prog. To him, Pink Floyd ceased to be a good band when Syd Barrett left. When I told him about my band, he said "But aren't you 40 years behind time?" His wife once spoke of "strainful music" when I listened to a prog piece. On the other hand, my grandmother once said "Beautiful music" while I was listening to Misplaced Childhood. My parents don't care much about rock music. My friends are mostly either into prog or have no opinion on it.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 14 2016 at 08:55
Originally posted by kenethlevine kenethlevine wrote:

Originally posted by Finnforest Finnforest wrote:

Originally posted by kenethlevine kenethlevine wrote:

I just have one story to recount, probably from the early 1990s.
A friend who had clearly rehearsed this and planned for just the right moment to say it, said the following, and I paraphrase as best as I can remember.

"You think that the music you like is unknown to people, and they would like it if only they heard it, but they have heard it, and they have rejected it".  

It was shared with the intention of stinging, and it did.  He was basically right.  I think it was a turning point for me.  Since then I have slowly but surely cared less and less about whether people like my music or not, but am really happy and appreciative when I have guests and I get some compliments on the mix I am playing (which is probably 70% prog)



Not sure I agree that he was right.  I think most people have not "heard it" because I think most people just aren't paying attention to music the way we aficionados do.  They listen casually to music they come into contact with and they latch onto things they like and they stay in popular comfort zones.  I dont believe most people delve into more complex artforms and seriously explore everything, then reject it.  Same with film.  I don't think most people spend much time exploring deep cinema and then reject it, I think most simply absorb what's easy and don't spend the hours and years it takes to really watch all of the underground stuff enough to form serious opinion on it. 

That said, your reaction to it was right on.  Listen to what you love and don't be concerned what others think about it. 

well put Jim
He obviously had an agenda and he did represent a segment of the population.  His statement that people have rejected my music does not comment on how much of a chance they gave it. 

--wonder if he was talking more about the industry.  certainly record people would have been listening to a lot of stuff and rejecting stuff, more than the average Joe on the street. 

It reminds me of my college roommate whose LP collection said NOTHING about personal taste, as there was nothing in it that wasn't on the charts, and it was all over the map.  He asked me why he should have to delve into obscure stuff when the radio hand picks the best stuff for him.  Seriously.

But we have to be careful not to institute a prog version of the hit charts.  It should be ok not to like the BIG artists of prog like Floyd, Yes, etc, without being considered daft.  Music, like all art, is very personal, and sometimes a lesser artist speaks to one personally more than a better known one.

--Right on.  I spend most of my prog time with lesser known artists and have been very fulfilled with the approach. 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 14 2016 at 08:59
Originally posted by WeepingElf WeepingElf wrote:

My brother doesn't like prog. To him, Pink Floyd ceased to be a good band when Syd Barrett left. When I told him about my band, he said "But aren't you 40 years behind time?" His wife once spoke of "strainful music" when I listened to a prog piece. On the other hand, my grandmother once said "Beautiful music" while I was listening to Misplaced Childhood. My parents don't care much about rock music. My friends are mostly either into prog or have no opinion on it.



Syd fans ClapLOL    I know how he feels, despite liking post-Syd stuff myself. 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 14 2016 at 15:42
Originally posted by moshkito moshkito wrote:

Hi,
Over the years I have had a few boners, but in general, no one has ever really sat down and talked music with me. 

Yep.LOL  For a while, this was so rare for me that it was THAT exciting.  Thankfully, my long term g/f likes some prog and has gone to some concerts with me.  However, she is liking loud music less and less, so I need some more concert mates.  She's a fan of Kate Bush, Peter Gabriel and most of the classic prog bands and associated crossover acts.  Ask her about being stuck viewing a man's exposed crack for the entirety of a Dream Theater show!

I went for dinner at a colleagues a month ago.  She HATES most of the music i listen to and does not understand the appeal of dissonance whatsoever.  Her husband and I had a grand old time however talking about various prog/psych/crossover artists we enjoyed.  We've both renewed out interest in music the last couple years.  We were having so much fun that my colleague felt left out!

Another friend recently discovered Porcupine Tree, but his tastes only overlap mine a little.  We did see King Crimson together last year, which was very cool.

Another friend describes me as having 'obscure' music taste.  As intelligent as she is, she's only into pop and musicals.

My poor father seems to have little interest in music these days, but was the one to introduce me to Pink Floyd, Supertramp, Led Zeppelin, Deep Purple, Jeff Wayne, The Moody Blues and Alan Parsons, among others.

This year, i expect I will have to attend some shows alone to really see what I enjoy.
More heavy prog, please!
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 14 2016 at 15:46
My wife and sons hate it and find plenty of time and cause to remind me of that. Not a lot of associates but for one friend who loves it and turns me on to something substantial now and then.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 14 2016 at 22:43
Originally posted by kenethlevine kenethlevine wrote:

well put Jim
He obviously had an agenda and he did represent a segment of the population.  His statement that people have rejected my music does not comment on how much of a chance they gave it.

It reminds me of my college roommate whose LP collection said NOTHING about personal taste, as there was nothing in it that wasn't on the charts, and it was all over the map.  He asked me why he should have to delve into obscure stuff when the radio hand picks the best stuff for him.  Seriously.

But we have to be careful not to institute a prog version of the hit charts.  It should be ok not to like the BIG artists of prog like Floyd, Yes, etc, without being considered daft.  Music, like all art, is very personal, and sometimes a lesser artist speaks to one personally more than a better known one.

Clap  This!  I had a kid living across the hall from me in college who said and did essentially the exact same thing.  Drove me mad.

Agreed that more listening is done in the industry than by casual listeners, but industry people don't have time to give due diligence to every artist either - they're picking and choosing what to give a shot to, as well.  I think it's harder to sell prog as a genre because by definition it's so free of rules (nothing concrete to sell people on - no shared image).  Hmm maybe we should start calling prog the music of freedom.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 15 2016 at 05:58
While being surrounded by musicians (my two brothers, their friends/pals/musicians, and some people I know), progressive rock is NOT the subject I would dare to discuss with them.
On the other hand, I'm not even sure I could discuss jazz or metal with them, so prog-rock... Ermm
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 23 2016 at 09:40
Every time the new issue of Prog magazine shows up here at the office I have at least one co-worker ask me "what is Prog?' So there's that.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 23 2016 at 11:03
It depends on the type of progressive rock that they listen: they mostly think that prog is boring, without a point, a pointless sequence of riffs and solos. Maybe it is possible to let people "taste" progressive rock with the help of sweet and melodic songs, the shorter the better, or listening prog music near to heavy metal (I think that the majority of casual prog listeners are more accostumed to this kind of music).
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 23 2016 at 11:50
One of my friend thought "prog rock" meant "programmed rock" Big smile
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 23 2016 at 16:01
I still have people ask me what prog rock means when I mention it......I tell them progressive rock and then they ask me again.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 23 2016 at 18:10
Most of my friends think i'm crazy and they always ask me how i have the patience to listen to 20-40 minute songs. My dad likes prog. but not as much as I do.  
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 23 2016 at 18:38
Most of my friends either have no idea what prog is... or they just don't like it. Or better yet... whenever I bring up bands such as Atmosphera, Ache or Tai Phong, they're like... "????????????"
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 24 2016 at 05:28
^Well, these three bands are rather obscure, don't you think?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 24 2016 at 10:27
Originally posted by CPicard CPicard wrote:

^Well, these three bands are rather obscure, don't you think?
True... I think I might be one of those who like very specific stuff, that's not present in what most people, evern prog listeners, know... which might make me an ever bigger nerd.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 24 2016 at 12:31
Originally posted by Hrychu Hrychu wrote:

Most of my friends either have no idea what prog is... or they just don't like it. Or better yet... whenever I bring up bands such as Atmosphera, Ache or Tai Phong, they're like... "????????????"



Hell.....most of the people I know never heard of King Crimson.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 24 2016 at 13:33
Most of my friends don't even know what prog is. If I play something they think it's weird, but they also think The Beatles, Stones, Queen and Zeppelin are "weird". Even if they're bigger than anything they listen to. There are two friends of mine that are mainly metalheads that like a few prog bands though.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 24 2016 at 15:38
I mentioned to a guy not too long ago that I hang out at House Of Prog and he thought Prog was Prague. heheheh
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: July 14 2016 at 13:53
My daughter (11) seems to enjoy quite a bit of it. I will catch her humming along to Yes or Uriah Heep. My wife says that it gives her a headache because she has to think too much while listening to it. I told her that was what I liked about it specifically. She does like some, though. She will listen to Tool and Ian Anderson. I took her to a Jethro Tull concert when we first started dating and she has loved Ian ever since. We both agree it was "the best concert ever". My dad brought me up on it, but he doesn't listen to it too much any more.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: July 16 2016 at 22:58
My Dad listened to a lot of PG-era/ early Collins era Genesis and Peter Gabriel's solo stuff, as well as some Rush, Zappa and Steve Hackett. So he's big fan of that music as are his brothers (and my uncles).My Mom and siblings aren't really into it, although my brother is really into Pink Floyd, Blind Guardian and Iced Earth. 

As for the guys in my band, the baritone guitarist is a big fan of the classic prog groups, as well as newer stuff like Leprous, Haken, and Frost*. The other two band members are more into jazz, but they liked the YouTube links of Crimson's Lark's Tongue in Aspic and In the Court of the Crimson King I sent them a while back. One of them even listened to Supper's Ready!

Unfortunately, trying to show other people this music is rather difficult. The last couple times I tried to play King Crimson's first album to a couple of ladies, they got completely freaked out by the cover art....LOL


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