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The T
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Posted: February 02 2012 at 13:14 |
How is it undeniable? Can you provide some scientific evidence? Not statistics.
For me such a law is disgusting and inhuman. But as I said before, marriage is an institution governed by the state these days, so I guess the state can do as it pleases with it. But no, laws don't solve social problems. They can't.
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Equality 7-2521
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Posted: February 02 2012 at 13:17 |
Ivan_Melgar_M wrote:
But they are, it's undeniable, the three countries in Latin America who have this policies are the ones that have the lowest rate.. |
Actually, not only is the statement deniable, you have provided absolutely zero evidence to support it. You've shown a correlation in 3 countries between two variables among literally thousands of possible variables. You haven't even taken the time to examine rates in other countries that have policies like this or similar ones. You haven't shown anything. It's ludicrous to suggest otherwise. Reasoning from the converse can be helpful when only a handful of variable exist, but it becomes literally worthless for applications to sociological phenomena. You've pointed out a very, stress of the very, weak observational correlation which in no way amounts to proof anything. The most you have shown is that it could be beneficial to examine why this correlation exists. The process you're describing isn't science, it's just a random error of perception. You're trying to reason scientifically using a brain process adapted for quick predator-prey reactions of our prehistoric ancestors. It's not science, and any attempt to say that you've proven anything, or even suggesting that you have alleviated any of your burden of proof, does a complete disservice to the very idea of science. [/quote]
Ivan wrote:
We have a different perception of rights, if a person is sick (AIDS, TBC, STD, etc), can't be allowed to marry a person who doesn't have the disease. We think in the babies that are going to be born with the disease, the wife/husband who is going to be infected.
Yes, the people with a disease have rights, but also the people who don't have it and a baby that is going to be born with the disease also (BTW: We can inform the sexual partner or spouse if a person has AIDS -If the patient refuses- and the spouse can file a divorce if his/her partner gonorrhea, syphilis, genital herpes, VHI (AIDS) ). |
Then why not simply outlaw them from procreating? Or why not just require the test but not forbid the marriage? It does not make any sense. It completely ignores extra-marital activities. Don't try to make it about rights. It's a system of social-engineering.
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If two persons with Tay-Sachs gen marry, they will have kids with the disease, I know a couple that had 3 babies who died in the first week and they still are trying to have another one...That's not their right, they are bringing kids who will die in horrendous pain in the first week (average), in their case, they can marry any person who doesn't have the gen and will have normal kids, why in hell insist in marrying the person (less than 1% of incidence). |
Again, why not just forbid them from having children then? You also ask an absurd question in my mind. Maybe the two people with Tay-Sachs happen to want to marry each other? It's Tay-Sachs affects <1% of the population this is going to happen <.01% of the time anyway.
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Don't you isolate people with contagious diseases, we protect unborn children and healthy people from being infected.
Iván
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Not the place for this, but your policy isn't protecting anything. [/QUOTE]
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OT Räihälä
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Posted: February 02 2012 at 13:55 |
Negoba wrote:
OT Räihälä wrote:
Just out of curiosity: I suppose those people who are most anti-abortion are more often pro-death sentence. Do you agree?
I find a great paradox there. |
First...I do not support the death sentence and I'm would like to see abortion limited or eliminated.
Second...they are two different issues. |
Of course they are different issues, one is about ending a life that isn't independent yet, and the other is ending one that is very independent.
Negoba wrote:
To be clear, my preference would be to see abortion eliminated by lack of need. Better sex ed, easily available, effective contraception, more mindful sexuality. |
Who wouldn't agree with you? The problem is, people's lives are not always easy to control, and the least they can be controlled by legislation. Accidents happen.
Negoba wrote:
The way the death penalty is conducted in the United States, there is too much error, too much inequality. I also believe that when the more we sanction killing in any form, it affects us as members of society.
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Perhaps. However, killing someone who's already got a name and a life in the name of law is different from stopping a pregnancy in its early stages.
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Negoba
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Posted: February 02 2012 at 16:05 |
OT Räihälä wrote:
I find a great paradox there.
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Of course they are different issues, one is about ending a life that isn't independent yet, and the other is ending one that is very independent.
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Then no great paradox?
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You are quite a fine person, and I am very fond of you. But you are only quite a little fellow, in a wide world, after all.
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Slartibartfast
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Posted: February 02 2012 at 16:48 |
Negoba wrote:
OT Räihälä wrote:
I find a great paradox there.
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Of course they are different issues, one is about ending a life that isn't independent yet, and the other is ending one that is very independent.
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Then no great paradox? |
That is the paradox of the paradox. Yes there be no bananas today.
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The T
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Posted: February 02 2012 at 17:33 |
Negoba wrote:
OT Räihälä wrote:
I find a great paradox there.
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Of course they are different issues, one is about ending a life that isn't independent yet, and the other is ending one that is very independent.
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Then no great paradox? |
The paradox lies in defending life in one case, and not doing it in the other. It's made more of a paradox by the alleged fact that in the first case the life being defended is that of a blob, a collection of cells, in the other of a full human. So, as always, it all ends up going again to the debate as to when the blob of cells becomes human and thus worthy of defense.
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Slartibartfast
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Posted: February 02 2012 at 17:52 |
It still boils down to me that you've got a developed living person carrying a person who hasn't developed yet... If you feel you or the state has the right to dictate, fine.
Don't be surprised if 5-10 years down the line from now it could be possible for the man to carry the baby to term and even required to be carried by law in some instances. This will change things a lot.
Edited by Slartibartfast - February 02 2012 at 18:04
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OT Räihälä
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Posted: February 03 2012 at 03:18 |
Slartibartfast wrote:
Don't be surprised if 5-10 years down the line from now it could be possible for the man to carry the baby to term and even required to be carried by law in some instances. This will change things a lot.
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I thought it was perfectly legal for a man to carry a baby... Someone should tell Elton, he'd better watch out.
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Slartibartfast
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Posted: February 03 2012 at 06:57 |
They both look a little freaked out in that pic.
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Negoba
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Posted: February 03 2012 at 08:09 |
So my facebook feed is steaming with outrage about the Susan Komen Foundation pulling their funds from Planned Parenthood.
Maybe just maybe the group wanted to concentrate on Breast Cancer only and not have to deal with abortion one way or another?
They should have just said this, but as with all things in this debate, it's full of lies and distortions.
I love the "politics has no place in health care" BS getting thrown around.
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You are quite a fine person, and I am very fond of you. But you are only quite a little fellow, in a wide world, after all.
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Equality 7-2521
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Posted: February 03 2012 at 10:17 |
I actually found out last night that a close friend of mine had an abortion and never told anybody last night. She's the first person I've known very well who has had one.
Slartibartfast wrote:
Don't be surprised if 5-10 years down the line from now it could be possible for the man to carry the baby to term and even required to be carried by law in some instances. This will change things a lot.
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I would be shocked if this occurred.
Edited by Equality 7-2521 - February 03 2012 at 10:18
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Negoba
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Posted: February 03 2012 at 10:33 |
About 20 years ago, I was over at a friends house and his girlfriend was there. We had a long discussion about abortion which ended in my learning she had one in her mid-teens. Upper middle class, some pressure from family. She was crying, I felt very guilty.
She came out of the experience stating she would never have the procedure done again for herself, but that she adamantly supported the right.
It didn't change my stance but made the issue very human. This woman is someone I still count as a friend.
Top down regulation isn't the real answer here. The first step is talking about the issue truthfully and without war in our hearts.
Edited by Negoba - February 03 2012 at 10:40
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You are quite a fine person, and I am very fond of you. But you are only quite a little fellow, in a wide world, after all.
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Equality 7-2521
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Posted: February 03 2012 at 10:36 |
Agreed. There's too much vitriol on each side of the debate and I think each side sometimes lacks empathy for one of the victims.
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Slartibartfast
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Posted: February 11 2012 at 06:31 |
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Posted: February 18 2012 at 18:46 |
I haven't managed to go through all the pages, but as this is a very emotive issue, can i ask how many women on here have commented? The first 6 and last page seemed full of male comments, using a variety of reasons as to why it should be legal/illegal. In the Uk abortion is legal till the 24th week of gestation. Or if life threatening, it has no limit. Also a foetus has no legal rights in the UK. Next question, has anyone on here been involved with the decision of abortion? If you have you will understand the agony of such a decision, the desperation that drives women to have an abortion. Can i also point out that some women seem completely unfazed, and it is a known fact that some women do not care about aborting a foetus. From a personal experience in 1992 my wife got pregnant, we already had 3 children....2 were planned the other was concieved on the pill as was this latest pregnancy. We lived in overcrowded 2 bedroom 2nd floor flat, and with not a lot of money. I am not making any excuses here, just telling the facts as they were. This was a particularly difficult decision, especially for my wife, because as you know women tend to make a bond with their foetus early on in pregnancy. Usually being told you are pregnant is a wonderful exhillerating experience, for us it will always be the hardest decision we will ever make, that we take to the grave. I know for a fact that every year since, and at the due date, my wife has been very emotional, confiding in me that she wondered what the child may have become. I have seen first hand the destruction of a lovely women, who knew it was right, but oh so wrong. Do not judge every woman the same......should it be made illegal/legal............no man will ever know the hurt of a woman who loves her children, that has to make this horrible decision. As a foot note, we went on to have a further 2 children, but i know deep in my heart that we will never forget what happened, but you have to be in that position to know. To the religious people...."let he who has not sinned throw the first stone". It's too easy to say legal or illegal.
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Posted: February 18 2012 at 21:22 |
Your status is strange to me:elegy12
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elegy12 wrote:
I haven't managed to go through all the pages, but as this is a very emotive issue, can i ask how many women on here have commented? The first 6 and last page seemed full of male comments, using a variety of reasons as to why it should be legal/illegal. In the Uk abortion is legal till the 24th week of gestation. Or if life threatening, it has no limit. Also a foetus has no legal rights in the UK. Next question, has anyone on here been involved with the decision of abortion? If you have you will understand the agony of such a decision, the desperation that drives women to have an abortion. Can i also point out that some women seem completely unfazed, and it is a known fact that some women do not care about aborting a foetus. From a personal experience in 1992 my wife got pregnant, we already had 3 children....2 were planned the other was concieved on the pill as was this latest pregnancy. We lived in overcrowded 2 bedroom 2nd floor flat, and with not a lot of money. I am not making any excuses here, just telling the facts as they were. This was a particularly difficult decision, especially for my wife, because as you know women tend to make a bond with their foetus early on in pregnancy. Usually being told you are pregnant is a wonderful exhillerating experience, for us it will always be the hardest decision we will ever make, that we take to the grave. I know for a fact that every year since, and at the due date, my wife has been very emotional, confiding in me that she wondered what the child may have become. I have seen first hand the destruction of a lovely women, who knew it was right, but oh so wrong. Do not judge every woman the same......should it be made illegal/legal............no man will ever know the hurt of a woman who loves her children, that has to make this horrible decision. As a foot note, we went on to have a further 2 children, but i know deep in my heart that we will never forget what happened, but you have to be in that position to know. To the religious people...."let he who has not sinned throw the first stone". It's too easy to say legal or illegal.
| That said, we in America aren't supposed to go on how a woman feels. Feelings shouldn't make laws. We are supposed to go on who has life, who has liberty, and who has property, and protect all three.
I'm sorry you went through that awful experience. I hope you, your children, and your wife are doing well.
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Posted: February 18 2012 at 21:35 |
Epignosis wrote:
We are supposed to go on who has life, who has liberty, and who has property, and protect all three.
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okay Rob but I could drive a tour bus through that opening
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Posted: February 18 2012 at 21:38 |
^amen
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Posted: February 18 2012 at 21:47 |
Atavachron wrote:
Epignosis wrote:
We are supposed to go on who has life, who has liberty, and who has property, and protect all three.
| okay Rob but I could drive a tour bus through that opening
| Drive it. What kind of brakes will it have?
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Atavachron
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Posted: February 18 2012 at 21:48 |
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