Love Advice?
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Topic: Love Advice?
Posted By: Conor Fynes
Subject: Love Advice?
Date Posted: June 04 2010 at 18:36
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So, this might seem like a weird place to talk about this..
but my girlfriend of a year and a half and I broke up on the phone about 10 minutes ago.
I have funny feelings in my stomach right now.
The question is... what do I do now?
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Posted By: Icarium
Date Posted: June 04 2010 at 18:43
| well im stil a virgin so I dont't know but I wold probably play some Tekken or anything similar on play station to think on something else or listen on some Gentle Giant to get a smile about their quirk and sillyness. |
Posted By: micky
Date Posted: June 04 2010 at 18:48
what to do... if old enough... get yourself drunk and feel sorry for yourself then.. tomorrow... move on.. I've had my heart shattered more times than I count.. many of us have. Life goes on.. and THE one for you is out there. The fun for you now... is to try, by process of elimination, to find her. ------------- The Pedro and Micky Experience - When one no longer requires psychotropics to trip |
Conor Fynes wrote:Posted By: SaltyJon
Date Posted: June 04 2010 at 18:54
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MICKY! I was wondering if you would ever return. And Conor, the best advice is to do whatever works best for you to deal with the breakup. Everyone's different really, so I can't necessarily say what's the best way.
------------- http://www.last.fm/user/Salty_Jon" rel="nofollow"> 
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Posted By: Dorsalia
Date Posted: June 04 2010 at 19:10
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"It's not the end of the world." That's my mantra. ------------- "Es ist übrigens unmöglich, eine Meinung zu haben, ohne dass es unerfreuliche Überschneidungen gibt. Die Grünen sind für den deutschen Wald, die NPD ebenfalls." |
Posted By: Sean Trane
Date Posted: June 04 2010 at 19:27
 You're asking advice on love on a prog forum, where most of the members (not all, mind you) are self-declared virgin/loser/celibate or unsociable????
Is she worth it?? Did you have fun almost all of the time????
I'd say sleep on it and talk it over with her tomorrow  ------------- let's just stay above the moral melee prefer the sink to the gutter keep our sand-castle virtues content to be a doer as well as a thinker, prefer lifting our pen rather than un-sheath our sword |
Posted By: JLocke
Date Posted: June 04 2010 at 19:38
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I would disagree with Micky on one point: There is no guarantee that 'THE one' is out there for you at all. In fact, I don't even believe in the concept of 'THE one'. Not everybody finds their happy ending in life. That's a very cold fact, but one I would advise you to become aware of. For your own sanity's sake. Now, moving away from that grim little outlook I have (take it or leave it), I honestly think you have more than a good chance of being reasonably happy with another in the future. Hell, you might even find someone you can stand long enough to form a family with. Anyone who is reasonably good-looking and/or has a kind, honest heart is already ahead of others in ways. This girl isn't the be all, end all of girls. I don't even know her, and I can still tell you that with great confidence.  The question really is this . . . will you allow yourself to let go of this? Some people waste away years of their lives waiting on someone who will never come. If you choose to hold this girl in such high esteem, I fear you may miss out on some truly worthy opportunities for romance in the future. In short: forget about her. If you honestly feel like she is who you want to be with, then stay in touch, be a friend, and make your feelings known. She may return to you someday, or she may not. But if you DON'T truly feel like she is worth all the heartache, then forget about her and move on. If you truly love her, fight to win her love back. But be honest with yourself. Is she really all that big of a deal? Is she really worth hurting over? 9 times out of 10, the answer to both of those questions is going to be 'no'. In your case, I'm willing to bet very highly that it's the same answer. |
Posted By: micky
Date Posted: June 04 2010 at 20:42
obviously there are no guarantees in life... here today...gone tomorrow. see my POV is... and I do think it is a good one... if you aren't living for something.. have hope in something greater than yourself.. then what the hell are we living for. Money? success? Find me one person who has been made happy by either... very often they are used as substitutes for what really makes you happy, Love, and are often the most miserable people you'll ever meet. I dig you man... but Conor.. listen closely. There is someone for everyone... unfortunately the world has taken on a mighty case of cynic crotch rot. Those who don't think THE one exists... simply aren't looking or have convinced themselves that a man and a women can not be a perfect match. That isn't saying moonlight and roses 24/7.. but a relationship where you are much friends as well as lovers and understand that neither is perfect and never forget what made you fall in love in the first place. so what is so impossible to believe about finding that person in your life... bah.. ------------- The Pedro and Micky Experience - When one no longer requires psychotropics to trip |
Posted By: micky
Date Posted: June 04 2010 at 20:49
 a man can't even take a vacation around here. Just been trying my hand at living the dream of being an internet porn star.  ------------- The Pedro and Micky Experience - When one no longer requires psychotropics to trip |
Posted By: Any Colour You Like
Date Posted: June 04 2010 at 20:57
Get drunk, then wake up in the morning, run up a mountain untill you pass out. Wake up again feeling tired but purged, go to school/uni/work and meet someone else. |
Posted By: jammun
Date Posted: June 04 2010 at 20:57
Ah, gathering wood for the money shot.  ------------- Can you tell me where we're headin'? Lincoln County Road or Armageddon. |
Posted By: Ivan_Melgar_M
Date Posted: June 04 2010 at 21:04
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A breaking is not definitive until you talk face to face.....Study your feelings, decide what's best for you and her but most important: wait and see how things go. Iván ------------- 
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Posted By: Epignosis
Date Posted: June 04 2010 at 21:07
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What brand of deodorant do you use?
------------- https://epignosis.bandcamp.com/album/a-month-of-sundays" rel="nofollow - https://epignosis.bandcamp.com/album/a-month-of-sundays |
Posted By: clarke2001
Date Posted: June 04 2010 at 21:25
What to do now? Do not seek for advice on a music internet forum. The people around you...your friends, your family, your girlfriend's friends...know you better. They will most likely give you a better advice. Over the wire, we can give you 'hit or miss' advice...however... It seems that you care. I dunno if the people around you are aware of your feelings, I don't know if you're introvert or emotional person...but most likely, they will be something like 'you'll get over it', 'it's not the end of the world', 'you'll find another one'... That's rubbish. Most likely, you will get over it, but...never completely. And that's fine. Every love, happy or unhappy one, is a part of your life - it's what defines you. No-one can take that from you. I guess - unless you settle things out and continue together - you will meet again at least once more. You owe each other that much after year and a half. If not, if the telephone conversation is the one that ended you relationship after year and a half, then, regardless of your feelings, perhaps she's not the best person for you - because that means unsolved issues, a lack of communication and troubles in the future. Whatever the outcome, good luck to you (both). ------------- |
Posted By: JJLehto
Date Posted: June 04 2010 at 22:12
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Sorry to hear, understand why you feel bad and I know this isnt what you wanna hear, but tis life man. If you really cared that strongly then there's only thing to do: Go on and eventually it'll be fine. Time is the only thing that fixes it. |
Posted By: June
Date Posted: June 04 2010 at 22:34
^ This. You don't break up on the phone. It's just too easy. What you need to do is spend some time with your best mates, or whoever else (family) is important in your life, get some support, or at least people to talk this over with. |
Posted By: Falx
Date Posted: June 04 2010 at 23:39
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I would take the advice of Mr. Doctor, in the Devil Doll album Dies Irae: Among the trees Holding her out my hands "What about a walk?" I avoid the sharp splinters Of her sweet shattered gaze Step by step Into the labyrinths of doubt Every shelter: a trap While distresses I witness The twilight of my heart You spread around drops of light Unaware of the rustle Of invisible syllables: "You will not get out Of eternal peace!" And the virgin blade kisses - Freeing - Your white throat No pain I'm quite sure She feels no pain! The voice Still throbs: "Each man Kills The thing He loves!" (if this doesn't help, you could always go to Love Beach) =F= ------------- "You must go beyond the limit of the limit of your limits!" - Mr. Doctor "It is our duty as men and women to proceed as though the limits of our abilities do not exist." - Pierre Teilhard de Chardin |
Posted By: manofmystery
Date Posted: June 05 2010 at 00:32
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You don't need human emotions. Cold logic and reason are far superior to any silly "feelings". -------------  Time always wins. |
Posted By: toroddfuglesteg
Date Posted: June 05 2010 at 02:12
Sorry to be on topic here. I am afraid that heartache is a part of the nature. Wolves, lions, elks, eagles and whales also get heartaches. I am afraid you have to take the heartache on the chin and get on with it. This process has to run it's course. Don't get drunk and don't harm yourself. If you feel really bad, call the Samaritans hotline or talk to someone. |
Posted By: Sean Trane
Date Posted: June 05 2010 at 03:13
....... if any??....................
     ------------- let's just stay above the moral melee prefer the sink to the gutter keep our sand-castle virtues content to be a doer as well as a thinker, prefer lifting our pen rather than un-sheath our sword |
Posted By: Marty McFly
Date Posted: June 05 2010 at 05:20
Hugues, I wonder who am I when I'm quite unsociable person who is currently happily in relationship for 16 long months with a girl who is equally unsociable as I am. Therefore, we are two unsociable persons who like to be unsociable together. Friends aren't that important to us as each other is. Of course, this is also caused by music we are listening, not many people are able to understand Prog. Who knows why, maybe people in general doesn't like to think. But it's scary how many people are declaring their virginity, makes me think about differences between cultures. Losers ? And these losers often things they are winners :-D Hugues, I suppose you are luckily married guy, am I right ? ------------- There's a point where "avant-garde" and "experimental" becomes "terrible" and "pointless," -Andyman1125 on Lulu  Even my |
Posted By: Slartibartfast
Date Posted: June 05 2010 at 07:13
I was with my last girlfriend for a few years. We got engaged and really close to marriage. Split up mostly amicably. She initiated it. Within a few weeks, I met the woman who became my wife. So if it's truly over don't sweat it. I don't know about the whole deodorant thing. I actually happen to smell naturally good. So try again. And I am a firm believer in the power of masturbation to make you feel a little better.  By the way the relationship with my former girlfriend didn't occur until I was in my late 20's, so don't be afraid to take a break from love. ------------- Released date are often when it it impacted you but recorded dates are when it really happened... 
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Posted By: Conor Fynes
Date Posted: June 07 2010 at 21:35
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Thanks for your opinions guys...
The advice I want isn't actualy about the girl that it's over with; I just couldn't deal with it anymore. It was just too miserable, and alot of fighting.
I'm trying to figure out how an internet addicted Prog fan meets new girls and initiates relationships with them!
What do girls look for?
And how not to be friends material??
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Posted By: June
Date Posted: June 07 2010 at 21:45
I'm an internet addicted music fan and I met my new man on last.fm. Well, he met me there, and joined a music forum I was on just to get to know me better. All right, so we're still at the long distance level atm, but it's still kinda new. I'm just trying to say that it happens. He is honest, open, mature and he treats me right. Can I speak for all women? No. Does that pretty cover what all sane people look for in a partner though? Most likely. Avoiding to be friend material? Ermmm... a couple of subtle but not too subtle lines that are both flirty and complimentary and if she doesn't respond, move on? |
Posted By: Conor Fynes
Date Posted: June 07 2010 at 21:48
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HAH, I'm a reviewer on Prog Archives. Have I the charm to think of subtle lines? No, but I can certainly recommend you an album if you're trying to get into Porcupine Tree. |
Posted By: June
Date Posted: June 07 2010 at 21:52
Yeah, but see, I think it has to do with honesty though. I mean, if you feel something that's flattering, just say it, even if it's just "I'm interested in you." Seriously, one the line that made me fall for that guy and probably made me decide to meet him was "I was listening to Coltrane thinking about you". It's subtle, it's charming. It's geeky, but who cares. |
Posted By: Conor Fynes
Date Posted: June 08 2010 at 01:31
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LOL I'll have to use that line sometime! =D
"So... I was listening to Psyopus thinking of you.."
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Posted By: Falx
Date Posted: June 08 2010 at 03:08
=F= ------------- "You must go beyond the limit of the limit of your limits!" - Mr. Doctor "It is our duty as men and women to proceed as though the limits of our abilities do not exist." - Pierre Teilhard de Chardin |
Posted By: Blacksword
Date Posted: June 08 2010 at 04:42
It can seem that way, but it's not really the case. Women like confidence in men, and confidence shouldn;t be confused with aggression. Women like a man who can take charge of a situation. They like men who are popular with and respected by their male friends. They like men who still respect their ex girlfrineds..but dont keep in touch with them
Sometimes women who have come from violent or unstable backgrounds like the 'bad guys' you're referring to, and although these women can seem quite compelling and attractive, they are to be avoided at all costs!! ------------- Ultimately bored by endless ecstasy! |
Posted By: harmonium.ro
Date Posted: June 08 2010 at 04:44
Yeah that's true... I even have the exact same problem from your last proposition |
Posted By: Blacksword
Date Posted: June 08 2010 at 05:14
You're still in touch with your ex? Oh dear, that can be a problem. Of course, it's different if they want to stay in touch with theirs.. You'll be expected to respect their ALL of their friendships.
------------- Ultimately bored by endless ecstasy! |
Posted By: harmonium.ro
Date Posted: June 08 2010 at 05:31
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I wasn't in touch with my ex since a long time as we were separated by thousands miles, but when we moved to France we stumbled upon her. She had moved here many years ago and chances were high we'd meet at the Embassy or something like that... and we did meet
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Posted By: Conor Fynes
Date Posted: June 08 2010 at 11:47
Unfortunately, I think this is a hundred percent correct. While it's true that someone who isnt threatening can still attract a girl or two, I can definately see the primal 'alpha male' thing at work all the time. I guess I'll just have to work on that a bit more and show that I am one of those, or at least pretend to be
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Posted By: Slartibartfast
Date Posted: June 08 2010 at 11:50
A big schlong without too much bad attitude.  ------------- Released date are often when it it impacted you but recorded dates are when it really happened...
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Posted By: Conor Fynes
Date Posted: June 08 2010 at 12:05
LOL I'm just kidding obviously.
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Posted By: Blacksword
Date Posted: June 08 2010 at 13:32
Read what I wrote in response to this claim. I promise you it's not the case. I'll say it again, women like confidence, not obnoxiousness. The type of women who do habitually get involved with arsehole men, will never be right for you, and for that you should count yourself lucky!! Oh yeah, and don't pretend to be something you're not. Women see through that straight away, and you wont be able to sustain the new 'bad guy' you, anyway.. ------------- Ultimately bored by endless ecstasy! |
Posted By: CinemaZebra
Date Posted: June 08 2010 at 13:42
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That depends. Did you actually love her? If so, you have the option to give up and remain single the rest of your life (if you meet someone else who you love "more", it means you didn't love her at all in the first place) or fight for her. If not, well, what the typical love cricket does is find someone else who the back of the mind knows isn't really for them but the left cerebrum convinces them that that person is their one and only Savior. You'll tell her you love her, probably f**k her, then slowly but surely care less for her until you wait until she breaks up with you, or more respectably break up with her. You will then annoy your friends about how sad you are. In this stage, the back of your mind doesn't mind at all and knows that it's all done, but you're bitch of a left cerebrum keeps telling you to act depressed and pretend that you've lost all hope. But then in a couple of weeks, you'll meet someone else. Rinse and repeat. However, you don't seem like a love cricket. In fact, you seem pretty genuine. So I'd recommend finding someone else, and be more careful about finding someone who can agree to disagree, and can still love you even with the difference of opinion. Obviously, you have to love her as well. Once (or if, for the love of cynical people) you find this person, the rest is up to you.------------- 
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Posted By: Slartibartfast
Date Posted: June 08 2010 at 13:46
It's kind of weird because I would categorize my first long term girlfriend as more of a girl than a woman in that she didn't really know what she wanted to do in life. That ultimately was what probably killed the relationship. Of course you may have to figure out what the hell you want to do yourself to find a stable and long lasting relationship. So, seriously, figure yourself out, find someone who has figured herself out, and you will greatly increase your chances of success. They're no guarantees of course. ------------- Released date are often when it it impacted you but recorded dates are when it really happened...
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Posted By: Nightshine
Date Posted: June 08 2010 at 14:02
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Asking a member of these forums for love advice is like asking Bill O Reilly to host an equality rights convention. |
Posted By: stonebeard
Date Posted: June 08 2010 at 17:11
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I'm finding it's just a pain to meet people. Practically all the women I know hold torches for friends of mine or we're so tangled up in friendship its stupid to try to figure anything out from that. Not that I even want to start a relationship with a friend I've had for years. Well this post isn't about love I guess. I'm just starting over. Things seem clearer now that I can look back and see how retarded I was for not taking advantage of college, not in the crude hooking up sense but just that it's a place with a lot of people my age in a dense area, with people who are relatively smart. Now I have to try to work a city to find people I connect with. Doubly hard when I'm looking for work. Things can come together quickly, though. Love for me is a weird thing (probably is for everyone). After a failed start at the beginning of last school year I realized that wanting to get laid is a horrible horrible desire. It will make you make disgusting decisions for yourself and others. There's a tip for everyone. If you want to be close to someone, don't get started with wrong intentions. Bad things happen. Lessons learned. Anyway, random thoughts. Take as you will. ------------- http://soundcloud.com/drewagler" rel="nofollow - My soundcloud. Please give feedback if you want! |
Posted By: WalterDigsTunes
Date Posted: June 08 2010 at 17:14
| I wonder if anyone's beloveds and/or ex's are intently perusing this thread... |
Posted By: Wiktor Hatif
Date Posted: June 08 2010 at 17:41
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You wrote in other thread (not you WalterDig, and by the way I'm your friend at last.fm :P) that you're 17, as I remember correctly. Well, nothing is serious at that age, trust me :)
------------- "Ffffaaahhh, seeko baaaaaa Neeeeee toe, kare lo yeahhh Sa sa sa sa saa! Fssss Drrrrrrrrr bo ki! Rapateeka! do go taaaam Rapateeka! do go tchaa" - "Atom Heart Mother" Pink Floyd/Ron Geesin |
Posted By: Conor Fynes
Date Posted: June 08 2010 at 18:52
Emotions are the same throughout life, some might say they're even more intense at this age.. In terms of 'finding a life partner,' things obviously aren't serious, but then again, I'm not looking to be married anytime in my life.
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Posted By: Wiktor Hatif
Date Posted: June 09 2010 at 01:53
but everything is surely more tragic and melodramatic for a teenager, I was one not so long ago, so I still remember how things were intense back then, now I'm old and cooooool  but anyway, wish you luck with your future loves - make sure that your second half is at least tolerant to prog
------------- "Ffffaaahhh, seeko baaaaaa Neeeeee toe, kare lo yeahhh Sa sa sa sa saa! Fssss Drrrrrrrrr bo ki! Rapateeka! do go taaaam Rapateeka! do go tchaa" - "Atom Heart Mother" Pink Floyd/Ron Geesin |
Posted By: TODDLER
Date Posted: June 09 2010 at 09:46
(Woody Allen)
Not healthy to get accustomed to the process of masturbation though. If it becomes habit forming it can effect the way you personally feel over a sexual relationship aspect with a girl...as you may eventually desire your own method than hers. Did you ever feel like saying .....Don't touch me there?...or thinking to yourself :..This just doesn't feel right? It's all very normal to feel these feelings especially when you base it off the contrived media commercials that make references toward sex. Love can make things as simple as sitting in an open field and enjoying nature a new life experience. If you are in touch with those particular experiences on your own and do not think less of them when she is not there, then you are on your way to taking steps beyond your control. The thing is though, many women are attracted to men who wish to live in solitude. I practiced celibacy for many years and had a difficult time in getting rid of women and their interest in me. I would become frustrated and tell them not to play their games with me. Granted not all women are the same with motives but, I started to think that way due to their explotation of my contemplation side. Saying things like....Love exsists but sex contains the germ of death...caused them to be put their plan in motion. They know what you are but, insist on invading that. Not answering the phone doesn't work very well either. Some women will cause you to doubt your desires. Once they catch you doubting your own motives, it is then that they have an open path to con you into something for their own agenda. They have plans for you and making them disappear is a task. When I sit across from a married couple and it is plain to see they have internal problems, I'll try anything to get away. The husband is striking it big with your wife in conversation and the wife of the husband plainly has the hots for ya, and it's a real zoo.
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Posted By: paganinio
Date Posted: June 09 2010 at 10:23
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I'll recommend you three songs. 1. I Don't Believe in Love by Queensryche. You'll feel better about yourself, because that guy was REALLY hurt by the death of his love. 2. The Spirit Carries On by Dream Theater your girlfriend says to you, Move on, be brave Don't weep at my grave Because I`m no longer here 3. Comfortably Numb by Pink Floyd. ------------- 
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Posted By: JLocke
Date Posted: June 09 2010 at 14:34
You misunderstand me, Micky. When I say 'The one' doesn't exist, I mean the popular, business-pushed depiction of 'the one'. Of course there is potentially somebody out there, but it most likely won't be the 100% match that movies and commercials depict. Some kids grow up expecting their relationships to have that sappy, 'magical' stuff, complete with a soundtrack full of pop tunes and spot-on production values. Should I not warn against being taken in by such a con? And I'm sorry, but no, there isn't someone out there for everyone. There are more women in this world than men, so the heterosexual world is greatly unbalanced. Additionally, it is quite possible for someone to love multiple people equally as much in her lifetime. But how many of those love interests feel the same in return? The romantic and sexual attraction between two individuals are not very consistent. I'm not a grim person. I'm just realistic. And it's best that I face the real world of love as soon as I can so that I won't be tormented by loneliness and despair later in life. However, I do not disbelieve in real, tangible love. In my case, there is only one person of the female persuasion I can honestly say I have 'loved' thus far. Just the same, I have no doubt that real love is what my feelings for her are made of. I don't know if we will remain together forever or not. Hell, we're not even technically a couple right now. It doesn't make me love her any less. In fact, I feel I'll always love her. And the likelihood of running into another girl I love just as much in the future is quite slim. However, I know it is still possible. If anything, throwing out the concept of a 'one true love' is a very uplifting, liberating thing to do. By doing this, you can recognize that if your current love fizzles, there is still a chance that an equally powerful romance is in your future. It's not always likely, but very possible nonetheless. But to say that there is absolutely someone out there for everyone is a bit of a cheat, in my opinion. Of course there is potentially someone out there for all, but how likely is it really that the paths of both parties will cross? So I like to put it in a different way: There is always the potential of finding true love, but no guarantee. Circumstance and luck play large roles in whether or not you can find someone you're completely crazy about. You want my real love advice? Here it is: Have you ever cared about someone with all your heart, but had no logical idea why? Have you ever loved a person who is very different from yourself in belief system, personal taste, culture, attitude, etc.? Well, that's how I would define true, unconditional love; when you can't even explain yourself why this person stays on your mind all the time. I'm not saying that's the only way it can be recognized, but it certainly makes sense to me. To me, real love is when you adore a person for no other reason than just that. You adore them. Nothing else matters. I hope I have cleared some things up. |
Posted By: Conor Fynes
Date Posted: June 10 2010 at 11:03
My better half insisted to come with me to Porcupine Tree and Dream Theater!
She listens to moar DT than I do.
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Posted By: Conor Fynes
Date Posted: June 10 2010 at 11:05
I also recommend myself every Katatonia, Swallow The Sun, My Dying Bride and Draconian release ever
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 13:00
| Yes someone's ex is reading this post. |
Posted By: Epignosis
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 13:06
Hi.  ------------- https://epignosis.bandcamp.com/album/a-month-of-sundays" rel="nofollow - https://epignosis.bandcamp.com/album/a-month-of-sundays |
Posted By: toroddfuglesteg
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 13:07
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*Rest of the forum is running for cover* Last man entering this air raid shelter, please lock the door. |
Posted By: Negoba
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 13:26
This will end well. ------------- You are quite a fine person, and I am very fond of you. But you are only quite a little fellow, in a wide world, after all. |
Posted By: harmonium.ro
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 13:38
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Posted By: Conor Fynes
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 13:53
This is probably the weirdest, most awkward internet moment of my life.
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Posted By: Epignosis
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 13:55
 
------------- https://epignosis.bandcamp.com/album/a-month-of-sundays" rel="nofollow - https://epignosis.bandcamp.com/album/a-month-of-sundays |
Posted By: NecronCommander
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 13:57
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AHAHAHAHA Rob. -------------  
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Posted By: Conor Fynes
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 13:57
| To delete this thread, or not to.... |
Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 13:58
| You did tell me to get a prog archives account did you not??? |
Posted By: harmonium.ro
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 13:59
Prophecy has been fulfilled  |
Posted By: Negoba
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 13:59
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She's read it already, you didn't say anything wierd.
Don't get baited into responding, just leave it. ------------- You are quite a fine person, and I am very fond of you. But you are only quite a little fellow, in a wide world, after all. |
Posted By: Conor Fynes
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 14:00
Doesn't mean I still haven't sh*t bricks though LOL
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 14:02
| maybe I'll get a last fm account too.... |
Posted By: Conor Fynes
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 14:05
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 14:07
| On second thought nah, this is fun enough :) |
Posted By: Conor Fynes
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 14:14
LOL YOURE TRYING TO DESTROY MY INTERNET CRED
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Posted By: harmonium.ro
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 14:15
| Amalia, what love advice would you give to this agreable chap Conor Fynes? |
Posted By: Vompatti
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 14:16
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Posted By: DisgruntledPorcupine
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 14:17
Wellthen. Post of the century. |
Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 14:29
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Conor should start thinking about other people other than himself otherwise Paul won't be the only one slamming doors in his face and I wont be the only friend that he loses. |
Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 14:29
| That is my advice. |
Posted By: Vompatti
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 14:32
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I'm not taking sides, but that seems like a very good advice.
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Posted By: DisgruntledPorcupine
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 14:34
| Uh oh. |
Posted By: Slartibartfast
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 14:39
 ------------- Released date are often when it it impacted you but recorded dates are when it really happened...
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 14:42
| Thank-you, I think it is good advice too. |
Posted By: Negoba
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 14:53
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Speaking only for myself, I think that while all are welcome here, personal interactions are best kept personal. ------------- You are quite a fine person, and I am very fond of you. But you are only quite a little fellow, in a wide world, after all. |
Posted By: Vompatti
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 14:56
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Posted By: Negoba
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 14:57
Clearly, from the popcorn comments, some are up for a good show.  ------------- You are quite a fine person, and I am very fond of you. But you are only quite a little fellow, in a wide world, after all. |
Posted By: Vompatti
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 14:58
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Posted By: The Sleepwalker
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 14:59
Shall I give you some?  ------------- 
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Posted By: Epignosis
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 15:00
If people wish to air their dirty laundry on a public forum, that's on them. Unwise if you ask me, but there you are. ------------- https://epignosis.bandcamp.com/album/a-month-of-sundays" rel="nofollow - https://epignosis.bandcamp.com/album/a-month-of-sundays |
Posted By: Vompatti
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 15:01
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Posted By: rushfan4
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 15:02
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Posted By: The Sleepwalker
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 15:03
Nevermind then. -------------
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Posted By: Negoba
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 15:03
That's why I qualified my statement. I felt bad for Conor, but they're actually both pretty restrained.
Where is the blood and gore? ------------- You are quite a fine person, and I am very fond of you. But you are only quite a little fellow, in a wide world, after all. |
Posted By: Vompatti
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 15:04
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Posted By: A Person
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 15:05
You beat me, Scott. I was just about to tell 'em to get a room myself. |
Posted By: The Sleepwalker
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 15:05
I'm happy to hear that! -------------
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Posted By: Vompatti
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 15:07
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Posted By: Epignosis
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 15:07
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Hell of a way to bump a thread though.
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Posted By: Vompatti
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 15:09
| I wonder if Amalia is seeing anyone? |
Posted By: The Sleepwalker
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 15:10
What if I'd just say "no vompz, I won't pay for it"? -------------
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Posted By: toroddfuglesteg
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 15:11
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Love advice ? Don't tell your partner where you spend your online time and always remove the history bit and the cookies from the browser after each session. Conor Fynes is far from being the first person in the history who has been rumbled online............ and not the last. Come back again, Conor. |
Posted By: Vompatti
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 15:12
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Posted By: UndercoverBoy
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 15:13
| I come back from school, and this is what happens? Quite interesting. |
Posted By: Vompatti
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 15:15
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 15:15
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I'm not seeing anyone at the moment, I had a sort of thing going with this one guy but that didn't work out. As for not airing dirty laundry in a forum your right, this is usually not my style but things have happened to provoke me to do other wise. |
Posted By: Negoba
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 15:16
Now you're just stirring the kettle on purpose. ------------- You are quite a fine person, and I am very fond of you. But you are only quite a little fellow, in a wide world, after all. |
Posted By: Vompatti
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 15:16
| Also, most of the laundry we've seen so far has been fairly clean. |
Posted By: Vompatti
Date Posted: September 01 2010 at 15:17
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