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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 06 2015 at 11:04
Originally posted by tbonson04 tbonson04 wrote:

Originally posted by Pastmaster Pastmaster wrote:

Originally posted by garfunkel garfunkel wrote:

An "anti-discrimination" ordinance is so silly. I don't understand liberals.

You're not alone, I don't understand them either.

I don't care about what someone feels their sexual orientation is, but they are still biologically male or female unless they get surgery and I know I wouldn't feel comfortable with a biologically female person in a men's restroom.

This isn't a liberal or conservative issue. To think it is means you haven't thought too far into the issue. The issue is addressing the civil protections given by a governing entity based on the sovereignty of its citizens. If the government wants to tax our asses and make us conform to laws, then it damn well better protect its citizens, in this case the LGBT minority, from discrimination. Just like the transgender community can't control their sexual identity, they can't control the poor upbringing and subsequent poor views of the prejudice population. It's the government's responsibility. That is exactly what they are there for. 

I realize it isn't a liberal or conservative issue, I was only agreeing with the poster who said they don't understand liberals. 

Like I said, you can't please everyone, and logically I'd think you would want to please as many people as you can instead of just a small group of people. That's why I think uni-sex restrooms pretty much solve any problems, that way men or women who are uncomfortable sharing a restroom with someone who's biologically the opposite sex can feel comfortable, and trans people don't have to go into the restroom of their biological sex.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 06 2015 at 10:20
Originally posted by Pastmaster Pastmaster wrote:

Originally posted by garfunkel garfunkel wrote:

An "anti-discrimination" ordinance is so silly. I don't understand liberals.

You're not alone, I don't understand them either.

I don't care about what someone feels their sexual orientation is, but they are still biologically male or female unless they get surgery and I know I wouldn't feel comfortable with a biologically female person in a men's restroom.

This isn't a liberal or conservative issue. To think it is means you haven't thought too far into the issue. The issue is addressing the civil protections given by a governing entity based on the sovereignty of its citizens. If the government wants to tax our asses and make us conform to laws, then it damn well better protect its citizens, in this case the LGBT minority, from discrimination. Just like the transgender community can't control their sexual identity, they can't control the poor upbringing and subsequent poor views of the prejudice population. It's the government's responsibility. That is exactly what they are there for. 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 06 2015 at 10:01
^And those are the parents... 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 06 2015 at 09:56
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Yes. 

In answer to the troll a few pages ago who was basically saying "oh liberals LOLOL I laugh at you instead of these bills educate children" I want to say that we live in a REAL world. In the REAL world some people do a very sh*tty job of educating their children so to protect other people there are laws and bills written that address issues, if very imperfectly sometimes.

Especially since "Education? Wazzat? Gimme that reefer"seems to be quite a common attitude.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 06 2015 at 09:22
Yes. 

In answer to the troll a few pages ago who was basically saying "oh liberals LOLOL I laugh at you instead of these bills educate children" I want to say that we live in a REAL world. In the REAL world some people do a very sh*tty job of educating their children so to protect other people there are laws and bills written that address issues, if very imperfectly sometimes. 


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 06 2015 at 06:41
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Well, the artificial merging of egg cells would have to remain unless things ahppen as they later will in our reotic story.
Speculative fiction is a great way of exploring the 'emotional' (for want of a better umbrella term) aspects and therefore the biology does not need to be viable, it only needs to be conveyed in a way that is not distractingly unbelievable (as opposed to believable). I once wrote a short story where an ephemeral mated with a mortal and realigned the gender of its corporal form after sensing the sexual emotions of the mortal - rationalising of the biology of that was unnecessary because it was fantasy fiction not science or speculative fiction.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 06 2015 at 06:07
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well, maybe the exception in the first scenario could be avoided somehow so that second and all following generations would be able to procreate that way too
How? Maybes and somehows will not result in a self-sustaining species capable of natural procreation therefore will always require artificial propagation. This is not procreation or reproduction but propagation.

If, as I speculated, a new sex-determinate chromosome mutated naturally from a fragile "X" chromosome then the resulting offspring would not be female but (let's say) newmale - to be regarded as a sex-determinate chromosome that would have to be able to procreate with a female and the resulting offspring would be either female or newmale, and again following generations would only result from female-newmale procreation.


Well, the artificial merging of egg cells would have to remain unless things ahppen as they later will in our reotic story.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 06 2015 at 06:03
Originally posted by BaldFriede BaldFriede wrote:

well, maybe the exception in the first scenario could be avoided somehow so that second and all following generations would be able to procreate that way too
How? Maybes and somehows will not result in a self-sustaining species capable of natural procreation therefore will always require artificial propagation. This is not procreation or reproduction but propagation.

If, as I speculated, a new sex-determinate chromosome mutated naturally from a fragile "X" chromosome then the resulting offspring would not be female but (let's say) newmale - to be regarded as a sex-determinate chromosome that would have to be able to procreate with a female and the resulting offspring would be either female or newmale, and again following generations would only result from female-newmale procreation.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 06 2015 at 05:47
well, maybe the exception in the first scenario could be avoided somehow so that second and all following generations would be able to procreate that way too


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 06 2015 at 05:43
Originally posted by BaldFriede BaldFriede wrote:

Originally posted by Dean Dean wrote:

Originally posted by BaldFriede BaldFriede wrote:

Did you have to look up how to spell "lavatories", Dean? Wink That little "1" at the end of the word tells a tale.
Nope. Even as a dyslexic I can spell lavatory and toilet. The ¹ was used to indicate the footnote at the bottom of the post. Tongue

Well,  you certainly misspelled "wave" as "waive".
Yup - that's dyslexia for you. Now I have to correct it because you have pointed it out, however I have done it in such away as not to hide my embarrassment or affliction.

Originally posted by BaldFriede BaldFriede wrote:

I would not mind at all if all men "waived" their cocks. However, the further existence of mankind would be endangered then unless a method is found to have two merged female egg cells not rejected by the body. Oh, and men will die out then; from two merged egg-cells only female offspring can come. Wink
I have nothing against genetically modified humans per se. It's an interesting topic. So while I appreciate the humour and will respond with a similar Wink - there is a more serious side to explore that appeals to me.

There are two possibilities for female-female propagation:

If the embryo was created artificially would that would not qualify as a new species since the female-only offspring (I would perhaps use the term like 'scion' here rather than 'offspring') would not be able to reproduce naturally with another artificially created female offspring to create the next generation, they would still be able to reproduce naturally with male of the species.  The problem there would be if sexual orientation is not hereditary (and there is no evidence that it is) so prevention of male-female reproduction would have to be forced for the male of the species to die out. Of course in the absence of males the artificial reproduction would have to continue in order to propagate and sustain the human species. If the technology is lost then the whole of the human race would die out. We would also have to consider what the "Y" chromosome brings to the party and whether, over time, a "Y" equivalent would not mutate naturally from a fragile "X".

If the genetic modification resulted in a sustainable means of asexual/hermaphrodite reproduction then the result would be a new species (Storm Constantine explored this in her Wraeththu series of novels) so could not be regarded as human, mankind or homo sapiens sapiens. We would not be able to regard this new species as female even if it was created from "XX" chromosome data. As this speciation would result in both species co-existing and interbreeding between the two would be impossible then which of them would become the dominant species is a matter of conjecture, but if homo sapiens sapiens males died out then so would their females.




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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 06 2015 at 04:53
Originally posted by Dean Dean wrote:

Originally posted by BaldFriede BaldFriede wrote:

Did you have to look up how to spell "lavatories", Dean? Wink That little "1" at the end of the word tells a tale.
Nope. Even as a dyslexic I can spell lavatory and toilet. The ¹ was used to indicate the footnote at the bottom of the post. Tongue

Well,  you certainly misspelled "wave" as "waive". I would not mind at all if all men "waived" their cocks. However, the further existence of mankind would be endangered then unless a method is found to have two merged female egg cells not rejected by the body. Oh, and men will die out then; from two merged egg-cells only female offspring can come. Wink


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 06 2015 at 04:33
Originally posted by BaldFriede BaldFriede wrote:

Did you have to look up how to spell "lavatories", Dean? Wink That little "1" at the end of the word tells a tale.
Nope. Even as a dyslexic I can spell lavatory and toilet. The ¹ was used to indicate the footnote at the bottom of the post. Tongue
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 06 2015 at 04:30
Did you have to look up how to spell "lavatories", Dean? Wink That little "1" at the end of the word tells a tale.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 06 2015 at 04:23
The fact remains that people discriminate. It's what we do all the time whether we like it or not because the ability to recognise a distinction and to differentiate is an inherent ability we all have. The problem is prejudice. When prejudice is used to discriminate then everything goes tits up - you cannot legislate against prejudice, you can only legislate against using prejudice to discriminate. Anti-discrimination law will always be flawed because discrimination is flawed and a flawed anti-discrimination law is better than no anti-discrimination law. Opposing discrimination is not "being liberal" nor is it restricting personal (read: religious and/or political) freedom, it is a means to mitigating the effects of prejudice. When discrimination is tolerated then prejudice will grow, it's a self-sustaining loop and the only way to stop it is to break the loop.

Prejudice is born out of ignorance, fear and hatred and all four feed each other. We can reduce prejudice by chipping away at the causes of fear, ignorance and hatred and we cannot do that using our own prejudices because that is self-defeating.

Fear alone is not the issue. Friede is not fearful that all men in uni-sex public lavatories¹ will waive wave their cocks at her, it is the fear that one idiot might. That is not the result of ignorance, nor is it a sign of prejudice or misandry. This is not the same as people being prejudiced against LBGT because they fear pederasts and paedophiles because that is a sign of ignorance and misinformation.



¹let's stop being coy and prissy here - there are no baths in American bathrooms and you don't go to a restroom to take a nap - they are lavatories for defecating and urinating.


/edit: spelling error corrected Wink


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 05 2015 at 23:41
I would never have guessed. I asked him why he wears a beard then. He said: "What else shall I do? Shave? Women don't shave. And they don't have beards either. It is a lose-lose situation".


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 05 2015 at 23:36
My elder brother outed himself as being transgender 5 months ago. He is ten years older than I am and never said a word to anyone yet. He says he tried dressing as a woman secretly for some time, but it did not feel right for him as long as he was in a man's body.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 05 2015 at 23:35
I feel uncomfortable if anyone is in the bathroom with me at all.

... So im guessing comfort doesn't matter.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 05 2015 at 23:30
Originally posted by BaldFriede BaldFriede wrote:

Originally posted by A Person A Person wrote:

Originally posted by Pastmaster Pastmaster wrote:

don't care about what someone feels their sexual orientation is, but they are still biologically male or female unless they get surgery and I know I wouldn't feel comfortable with a biologically female person in a men's restroom.

A depressingly large amount of trans people can't afford surgery. Many others feel no need to have reassignment surgery and are satisfied with hormone therapy, or even just transitioning socially. Being trans is not synonymous with wanting or receiving gender reassignment surgery.

A depressingly large amount of people of  any kind can't afford what they want..

If a trans does not want surgery then how is he or she a transsexual? If he or she just dresses in the style of the opposite gender it is in our opinion a transvestite, not a transsexual.

I realize that many people can't afford surgery, it would just make me personally feel uncomfortable if someone who was biologically female was in the same restroom that I was in. That's why I think uni-sex restrooms are a good thing.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 05 2015 at 23:27
Originally posted by Triceratopsoil Triceratopsoil wrote:

Originally posted by The T The T wrote:

Originally posted by BaldFriede BaldFriede wrote:

Originally posted by The T The T wrote:

But (to narrow the ordinance to its LGBT implications) we are not talking about men using women's toilets. We are talking about transgender women (men who now are women) using them. Shouldn't that be OK? 

As I said, I have a problem with that. No matter how much such a transgender person feels like a woman, bodily this person still is a man. I understand her feelings, but I want mine to be understood as well.
I understand this and even agree with it. Sadly this was used to defeat a bill that would have prohibited other type of discrimination. 


If the bill was flawed it should be amended, not passed as-is

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: November 05 2015 at 23:01
^This is an uncontroversial view in contemporary psychology. Gender is psychology and behavior that one self-identifies with. It is not the same as sexual organs.

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