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    Posted: June 05 2010 at 18:22
Somewhat interesting article that touches on several points surrounding faith and community.  Might be interesting for some. 

http://www.cnn.com/2010/LIVING/personal/06/03/spiritual.but.not.religious/index.html?hpt=C1

 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 05 2010 at 18:28
Here's my two offensive cents:

Believing in religious dogma is delusional and nonsensical, but if delusions make you happy then fine, be delusional. Nevertheless, it would be better if we all had as few delusions as possible; they're all dangerous in varying degrees. Religion is volatile; spirituality is volatile, but less so. Besides the so-called "SBNR" people are a lot more likely to want to listen to Enya and buy small trickling water fountains for serenity, rather than kill a Dutchman when he offends their sky daddy. So kudos to them. Now take the next step and believe in none of that nonsense.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 05 2010 at 19:02
(disclaimer: I haven't read the link) It is possible to be spiritual without being religious. Spirituality could just be defined to mean "finding significance in ordinary experiences", this could be applied to listening to music (that moves you emotionally, plenty of threads on that on these forums) or gazing up at the stars and being impressed by the physics that go into star formation.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 05 2010 at 19:14
I've moved beyond religion and spirituality.  I am quite certain that I will die someday.  This doesn't really bother me. I just want to have some fun before my number is up.   I will be kind to my fellow humans and other animals.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 05 2010 at 19:14
Originally posted by Falx Falx wrote:

(disclaimer: I haven't read the link) It is possible to be spiritual without being religious. Spirituality could just be defined to mean "finding significance in ordinary experiences", this could be applied to listening to music (that moves you emotionally, plenty of threads on that on these forums) or gazing up at the stars and being impressed by the physics that go into star formation.

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But by this logic I would be spiritual too Confused

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 05 2010 at 19:28
Spirituality is MUCH stronger than a religion
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 06 2010 at 01:22
Spiritual but not religious?

Right here!


EDIT: Well, at least I consider myself so. After all, it's all a personal thing. Whether you're christian, jewish, muslim, atheist, worship the sun, hail satan. Just keep it to yourself is all I ask for!


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 06 2010 at 08:25
I suspect this phrase, "I'm spiritual but not religious" is just a way to not offend anyone.  Because that's the name of the game in the US- if you offend someone, you lose (even if people just say they are offended by you, your words, or your beliefs, society now demands you apologize for it).  Having a nebulous religion (that's what this spirituality is) allows you to make allowances for everybody without "judging" them (and yet somehow still voice criticisms of "organized" religion).

This is merely Hegelian synthesis philosophy masquerading as religion.  It exists in churches today- I'd say most churches with an enormous congregation fall into this category.  Why?  Because there is no truth, just what feels right and- this is the ultimate goal here- makes you happy.

There is no evil except what you decide is evil.
There is no accountability because no one can judge you.
No one has authority over you.

That personal god the article talked about?  That's you.  When you are "spiritual but not religious," you ultimately worship yourself.

"I had this revelation that I bow to no one, and I've been spiritually a much happier person,"

And people call Christians self-absorbed, yet we believe the world was created for and worship a Jewish carpenter born 2000 years ago.  Ermm


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 06 2010 at 09:06
Very interesting Robert, and I understand what you are saying.  Convenience.  Even within churches, you see them "evolving" to make them more comfortable to the modern culture of the people going there.  That does strike me as pretty silly.  I'm not religious (anymore) but if I decide to return to the church, I want it to mean something, rather than be some watered down sing-along pandering to the whims of the parishioners and their media-correct culture. 

OTOH, the quoted parable is very interesting and thought-provoking as well.  Was this from the bible?  What do you make of it?

"God and the devil were walking down a path one day when God spotted something sparkling by the side of the path. He picked it up and held it in the palm of his hand.

"Ah, Truth," he said.

"Here, give it to me," the devil said. "I'll organize it."


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 06 2010 at 09:21
Originally posted by Finnforest Finnforest wrote:

Very interesting Robert, and I understand what you are saying.  Convenience.  Even within churches, you see them "evolving" to make them more comfortable to the modern culture of the people going there.  That does strike me as pretty silly.  I'm not religious (anymore) but if I decide to return to the church, I want it to mean something, rather than be some watered down sing-along pandering to the whims of the parishioners and their media-correct culture. 

OTOH, the quoted parable is very interesting and thought-provoking as well.  Was this from the bible?  What do you make of it?

"God and the devil were walking down a path one day when God spotted something sparkling by the side of the path. He picked it up and held it in the palm of his hand.

"Ah, Truth," he said.

"Here, give it to me," the devil said. "I'll organize it."




No, this isn't from the Bible.  It's a way of aggrandizing postmodern thought- the notion that "truth" is fluid and nebulous and is different for every person.  Experience, not logic, scripture, science, or legislature, determines what is right and wrong, and what is true and false.  And these can change as the situation changes.  It's ultimately about personal happiness- that's why so many people can get married (which is a legal covenant), and then one of them commits adultery because he or she "just wasn't happy anymore."  No moral absolutes here- just a convenient shiftiness for people to assure themselves that they are still "okay."

It saddens me that the church I grew up in is now just like this.  When we visited last month, we sat in a Sunday School class of young couples.  I noted that the name Jesus or Christ wasn't mentioned once, and that any time a Bible passage was referred to, any follow up questions asked us to see how it relates to our own experience- the entire hour was complete and utter fluff.  Many churches change their message to maintain relevance, and this saddens me.  I get fliers in the mail all the time, real colorful fliers from churches inviting me to come to their series and learn how to spice up my sex life.  Right, because that's what Jesus wants for me.  Confused

Of course, the Bible predicted this would happen:

For the time will come when men will not put up with sound doctrine. Instead, to suit their own desires, they will gather around them a great number of teachers to say what their itching ears want to hear. (2 Timothy 4:3)

Self-help is replacing God in churches.  Pinch
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 06 2010 at 09:42
So, you're saying the Bible is going the way of the Constitution?  Wink   Where our justices are selected not to uphold it, but rather to dissect it and make it palatable and "relevant to the lives of Americans?"  The self-help church thing sounds like the thinking in the schools, in the public square.  Where every sharp corner must be wrapped in bubble wrap so that no group of people are put off by traditional thinking. 

Very interesting.  I've seen the same flyers come to our house too.  "Come to service Sunday and feel the experience!"  Crap like that.  Basically, making Church into a social call. 

If I ever do return to the church, I want the authentic experience, the history and the ritual is a part of the beauty.  Maybe we don't live up to all of the ideals of the Church (I was a catholic), but, the answer would be for me to try harder, not for the church to move the bar down to my own comfort level. 

But for now, I remain in religious rebellion.  To be completely honest, I don't have a firm belief....the only honest answer I have for the spiritual question is....I don't know.   Maybe someday I will find it again, maybe not. 

 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 06 2010 at 09:53
You are an insightful person, Jim.  Smile
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 06 2010 at 10:04
I don't feel that way Robert!Smile  I feel like an idiot most of the time to be honest, when all of you smart guys are talking philosophy and physics, some of you guys amaze me.  It becomes clear to me when I watch some of these long philosophical debates in other threads that perhaps I should have paid more attention to education. 

But I do know the Golden rule, and as Slarty says below, I try to practice it.  Wink

And I had phenomenal parents, which helps. 


Edited by Finnforest - June 06 2010 at 10:04
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 06 2010 at 11:20
Originally posted by Epignosis Epignosis wrote:

I suspect this phrase, "I'm spiritual but not religious" is just a way to not offend anyone.  Because that's the name of the game in the US- if you offend someone, you lose (even if people just say they are offended by you, your words, or your beliefs, society now demands you apologize for it).  Having a nebulous religion (that's what this spirituality is) allows you to make allowances for everybody without "judging" them (and yet somehow still voice criticisms of "organized" religion).

This is merely Hegelian synthesis philosophy masquerading as religion.  It exists in churches today- I'd say most churches with an enormous congregation fall into this category.  Why?  Because there is no truth, just what feels right and- this is the ultimate goal here- makes you happy.

There is no evil except what you decide is evil.
There is no accountability because no one can judge you.
No one has authority over you.

That personal god the article talked about?  That's you.  When you are "spiritual but not religious," you ultimately worship yourself.

"I had this revelation that I bow to no one, and I've been spiritually a much happier person,"

And people call Christians self-absorbed, yet we believe the world was created for and worship a Jewish carpenter born 2000 years ago.  Ermm


Understand everything you say, and no doubt it's true for many probably, but I'll never BS anyone in terms of this topic. Been Catholic, been agnostic, I've actually thought about it all, and when I'm say I'm spiritual but not religious I mean it. And I don't really mind offending people, I've said it before and I'll say it now: I am against religion....doesn't mean I don't have my own faith, spirituality, beliefs whatever you want to call it. And I have indeed thought about what I believe long and hard.

Personally, I just try not to judge people, especially with faith. Now, I do it alot...mostly when they force me to do so. Like I said, keep it to thine self, that's all I want. And if you havn't noticed before Rob, I don't really care for PC. And yeah, this is a topic where I really don't censor myself at all LOL


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 06 2010 at 11:39
Originally posted by stonebeard stonebeard wrote:

Here's my two offensive cents:

Believing in religious dogma is delusional and nonsensical, but if delusions make you happy then fine, be delusional. Nevertheless, it would be better if we all had as few delusions as possible; they're all dangerous in varying degrees. Religion is volatile; spirituality is volatile, but less so. Besides the so-called "SBNR" people are a lot more likely to want to listen to Enya and buy small trickling water fountains for serenity, rather than kill a Dutchman when he offends their sky daddy. So kudos to them. Now take the next step and believe in none of that nonsense.
 
Delusion: An abnormal belief which is held with absolute subjective certainty, which requires no external proof, which may be held in the face of contradictory evidence, and which has personal significance and importance to the individual concerned. Excluded are those beliefs which can be understood as part of the subject's cultural or religious background... (Oxford Handbook of Psychiatry).
 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 06 2010 at 12:02
What about " The Church not made with Hands" to steal a Waterboys song title?
 
I believe that spirituality runs MUCH deeper than a religious label and yes very much a personal portal to knowing or believing. There is a progressive spirituality that seems evident these days where you Know people are on their journey guided by their inner self and their personal relationship with their God. I think the power of " Giving" unsolicited is the most " connected" spiritual kick of all and, religion...IMHO is a minor distraction with far reaching consequences.
 
We are who we want to be and the goodwill and spirituality created by freewill reigns supreme yet we must not judge those in fellowship of a specific denomination.
 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 06 2010 at 12:25
Originally posted by JJLehto JJLehto wrote:

Like I said, keep it to thine self, that's all I want.



I don't see how this is helpful at all (and would inevitably mean the end of traditional religion- maybe that's your point).

A genuine Christian will share the gospel with others (Acts 1:8 isn't a command from Jesus- it's a declarative statement).

The biblical model for sharing the gospel, however, isn't persistence with the same people.  You throw the seed liberally and freely, and some of the crops with grow (
Mark 4:1-20).  If people don't respond or care, you move on.  The concept of "Bible-thumping" and browbeating nonbelievers is unbiblical (and rude).
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 06 2010 at 13:19
I have no problem with people trying to persuade me to their belief system.  Jehovah's Witnesses should probably start being required to deliver mail.  Although, I'm thinking they probably put a curse on my house and thay's why I got flooded out last year. Angry And as far as being spiritual rather than religious, it is possible to believe in the supernatural but not follow an organized religion.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 06 2010 at 13:55
I'm with Sam Harris on this one: Explore your own self through meditation and introspection. The results will be highly subjective and entirely non-religious - except when you decide to write down your experiences and conclusions and try to teach them to others. Which is how all the major (and minor) religions started - although for most of them you'll also have to add a bit of criminal energy and some ulterior motives.

I guess you can call me a spiritual person in that I think a lot about the world and it's beauty as well as its horrors, I ponder the cosmos and whether there's something beyond the things we today know. But despite all that, I'm still 100% atheist. Which means that I will not believe any religious concept without evidence. This rules out pretty much every concept of spirituality that the proverbial man on the street is familiar with. Even Buddhism and Taoism are ultimately tainted by dogma.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: June 06 2010 at 14:03
Originally posted by Epignosis Epignosis wrote:

Originally posted by JJLehto JJLehto wrote:

Like I said, keep it to thine self, that's all I want.



I don't see how this is helpful at all (and would inevitably mean the end of traditional religion- maybe that's your point).

A genuine Christian will share the gospel with others (Acts 1:8 isn't a command from Jesus- it's a declarative statement).

The biblical model for sharing the gospel, however, isn't persistence with the same people.  You throw the seed liberally and freely, and some of the crops with grow (
Mark 4:1-20).  If people don't respond or care, you move on.  The concept of "Bible-thumping" and browbeating nonbelievers is unbiblical (and rude).


Never actually thought of it that way, but yeah I suppose that's what would result.

And maybe we got into another battle of semantics. I guess the bible thumpers are what I was thinking of. I mean, once I was sitting at lunch when some guys asked us if they could take some time and speak to us about God. We obliged, see that's fine. I'm glad you said browbeating, I couldnt think of any good of way putting it, but that was a good word to use. It is indeed rude, not to mention off putting and really turns some away.
It goes for all though, Rob. I don't want to hear it from Atheists, nor Jews or Muslims or anyone, unless I want to. You could worship Satan for all I care, just dont go pestering about it.

However, so many people are not as considerate and knowledgable as you Rob. Not even in a preaching sense, but just in regular conversations with people they insist on shoving down my throat and telling my I'm going to hell, even if I've said I dont care, (just to shut em up or freak em outLOL)
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