SR22: Last good one. Say NO to post 22 shred rooms

Amalia Daoussis wrote: James wrote: Erm, you're not disagreeing, you're agreeing.  Partly, anyhow. I cannot make moves though and I always misconstrue their interest as something more when they're just being flirty for no reason whatsoever. What the point of being flirty if you have no interest in the person? I don't get people like that.

Unless they are interested and I'm just being clueless.

There's a girl I know who was out a month or so ago and she's naturally an outgoing person and she was one of those girls who doesn't mind if you put your arm around them or whatever.  But I actually like another girl more (who was out the same evening) and she's really quiet, yet such a sweet girl.  I would have preferred to have got to know her better but the other girl was sat next to me and being a bit flirty.  She cannot be that keen on me, or she'd make an effort in contacting me and meeting up.

The Shred is now Amalia being an Agony Aunt.

Amalia Daoussis wrote: JJLehto wrote: Amalia Daoussis wrote: JJLehto wrote: Amalia Daoussis wrote: James wrote: Just don't try and jump into her underwear.  Get to know her and enjoy the time you spend together.  She'll probably show signs when and if she's ready for more anyway. Have fun! Thats good advice. I can't speak for all women but I don't like it when guys are pushy. What about when they are tooo laid back? I think that tends to be my problem. Better laid back than pushy. I honestly hate pushy guys, especially when you tell them you are not interested and they don't stop. It's like they only care about sex. I agree. May be weird coming from a guy, but they honestly disgust me. Well not all of course but yeah. It's why I started going to bars and not clubs. I couldn't stand being there. That being said...I may be to laid back. You said a lot of girls are scared to make the first move, even if there may be interest. So you can see where a problem arises with me. Im really not shy, not socially awkward (I dont think) and have no problem talking to girls, per se...just have a hard time getting myself over the hurdle of initiating. Its a hard hurdle to get over. Things get complicated and you risk losing that person as a friend, but sometimes it is worth the risk.

Exactly. Though as I've complained about often I blew my chance at Uni, and now that I'm out I dont have the luxury of a ton of girls my age at one place.

And Jon depends of course on how you feel about writing. I love it. So while the 202 class wasn't bad, I also enjoyed it. If you don't then it may be worse.

NecronCommander wrote: Amalia Daoussis wrote: JJLehto wrote: Amalia Daoussis wrote: James wrote: Just don't try and jump into her underwear.  Get to know her and enjoy the time you spend together.  She'll probably show signs when and if she's ready for more anyway. Have fun! Thats good advice. I can't speak for all women but I don't like it when guys are pushy. What about when they are tooo laid back? I think that tends to be my problem. Better laid back than pushy. I honestly hate pushy guys, especially when you tell them you are not interested and they don't stop. It's like they only care about sex. I think I do know some guys like that, and yeah, they don't quite get it, or they're lacking in some sort of fundamental knowledge of people's feelings or interests.

Epignosis wrote: Amalia Daoussis wrote: NecronCommander wrote: Mhmm, I'm through with emo rage fits. ...for now. Not hung over again, are we, Amalia? Hehe, no. I need to start being responsible,  don't think I could handle everyday life with a hangover! I am the resident drinker here.  Fifteen beers each day.

Amalia Daoussis wrote: NecronCommander wrote: Amalia Daoussis wrote: JJLehto wrote: Amalia Daoussis wrote: James wrote: Just don't try and jump into her underwear.  Get to know her and enjoy the time you spend together.  She'll probably show signs when and if she's ready for more anyway. Have fun! Thats good advice. I can't speak for all women but I don't like it when guys are pushy. What about when they are tooo laid back? I think that tends to be my problem. Better laid back than pushy. I honestly hate pushy guys, especially when you tell them you are not interested and they don't stop. It's like they only care about sex. I think I do know some guys like that, and yeah, they don't quite get it, or they're lacking in some sort of fundamental knowledge of people's feelings or interests. Yeah, I have met one of those a**holes. He didn't care that Conor and I just broke up and I was not interested in seeing anyone. He probably though I would be looking for a rebound and he could get sex out of the deal.

Amalia Daoussis wrote: NecronCommander wrote: Amalia Daoussis wrote: JJLehto wrote: Amalia Daoussis wrote: James wrote: Just don't try and jump into her underwear.  Get to know her and enjoy the time you spend together.  She'll probably show signs when and if she's ready for more anyway. Have fun! Thats good advice. I can't speak for all women but I don't like it when guys are pushy. What about when they are tooo laid back? I think that tends to be my problem. Better laid back than pushy. I honestly hate pushy guys, especially when you tell them you are not interested and they don't stop. It's like they only care about sex. I think I do know some guys like that, and yeah, they don't quite get it, or they're lacking in some sort of fundamental knowledge of people's feelings or interests. Yeah, I have met one of those a**holes. He didn't care that Conor and I just broke up and I was not interested in seeing anyone. He probably though I would be looking for a rebound and he could get sex out of the deal.

That's because most guys are (unfortunately) self-centered, egotistical, and uncaring.

NecronCommander wrote: Amalia Daoussis wrote: NecronCommander wrote: Amalia Daoussis wrote: JJLehto wrote: Amalia Daoussis wrote: James wrote: Just don't try and jump into her underwear.  Get to know her and enjoy the time you spend together.  She'll probably show signs when and if she's ready for more anyway. Have fun! Thats good advice. I can't speak for all women but I don't like it when guys are pushy. What about when they are tooo laid back? I think that tends to be my problem. Better laid back than pushy. I honestly hate pushy guys, especially when you tell them you are not interested and they don't stop. It's like they only care about sex. I think I do know some guys like that, and yeah, they don't quite get it, or they're lacking in some sort of fundamental knowledge of people's feelings or interests. Yeah, I have met one of those a**holes. He didn't care that Conor and I just broke up and I was not interested in seeing anyone. He probably though I would be looking for a rebound and he could get sex out of the deal. I just don't understand how they fail to recognize even stuff like simple body language.

Alright guys, I have to go eat before movie night tonight.  Seeya Shred!

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