Do you think I'm a jerk?

Edited by David_D - November 15 2024 at 08:43

I do think that you often are a lot more rude than what the situation calls for, but I honestly didn't have a real problem with you until you decided that it was a good idea to berate people for not engaging sufficiently with this self-indulgent sobfest of a thread

I haven't voted on this, but I will tell you, in a nutshell, the issue you have is about boundaries, and knowing when you have crossed them....I am not a registered therapist, so I will not elaborate further, other than that if you have annoyed someone, you need to be aware of when that has occurred, and why, and learn from it....

Edited by presdoug - November 15 2024 at 15:15

can somebody lock it please?

I've no idea who you are, but I've just returned solely to say you are a tit. Back in 2027

We generally view those on the other side of an argument as jerks. It's our binary nature. Occasionally, our views are correct.

This is something I would have asked a long time ago back when I cared way more about what people thought of me than I do now. Personally, I've been called pretty much every name in the book as have a lot of us. Asking if people think you are a jerk or not is a step in the right direction as far as self improvement goes (something I don't see at all from some of the other users on here). However, at the same time it can be viewed as attention seeking and even antagonizing. If you don't think you are a jerk than what does it matter? And if you do then try to do something about it. Go to a therapist or do a search online on how to be a better person. Jerks are typically (imo) very selfish people so strive to be more understanding and less selfish.

Edited by AFlowerKingCrimson - November 17 2024 at 08:28